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[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5951408]I have an odd situation. M&G today w / a girl who drove 40 miles to do that. She's 27, a medical professional (not a doc, but grad degree), very pretty, lives in a rural area. On the phone and in person, very light and bubbly, nice, positive, etc. I discuss matters privately w / her in my car. I say she'll get gifts when we meet privately, what are her needs? She replies whatever I want. Well, that sounds fantabulous! We get into conversation about bedroom preferences, I ask what gets her off, she just says I'll have to find out. I ask if she likes her man to lead, my usual way to turn the convo to being submissive, she is wishy-washy. Some girls just blurt out at that point that they are submissive. I initiate kissing her, she is very willing and participatory. I have a SO, I need her to get us a room. She is totally fine w / that, is happy to use her credit card.

So, right, this seems like a dream. I tell her that BTW. My question is this. This girl is so laid back and agreeable, I am concerned she's going to be a dead fish in bed. I can't quite figure out her motivation for being on the site. She says she's had arrangements before, and at least 1 good one and 1 bad one. Submissive means to me that a girl wants to be told what to do and enjoys doing it. This gal, I fear I might have to tell her exactly what to do to get anything out of her. Not that there is anything bad about that I guess. I suppose I am hoping for someone to be into it.[/QUOTE]I have some pretty specific requests for any girl so I actually have to (and like) telling them exactly what to do. The sub girls I date are not usually into some BDSM scene (although a few have been) so they are not really used to verbalizing their FC plans or desires. They just hope you will get it right. So I never really tell them what that is until we are in the FC, except for maybe a few minor details. Plus as young as they are most of them have not come close to the variety of things I am going to ask for. personally I am not so into the "scene" girls as I like being the first to do this or that with them anyway. As it always makes things a bit more thrilling all around.

As far as the sub verification or whatever you want to call it. When we get to the name introduction I always say, well my name is XXX but to only call me Daddy. And no matter what their name is I only call them whatever honorific I feel like at the moment. And she already answered your question with "whatever I want". That means anything goes until she says otherwise.

For what I am paying I usually don't get too upset when they say no, but I always let them know I am a little disappointed.. And I don't expect any girl to say yes to everything. But if it's something important to me and they say no, I might talk to them about it later or just ghost them if I think it's a lost cause. If they are super hot or great in the FC then I'll compromise a little knowing I will just have to have someone else to fulfil that specific need. And that's usually the boat I am in. No girl is gonna do it all, and be super hot, and be great in bed, and have that extra added chemistry. I guess that's one reason we all have multiple SB's either consecutively or concurrently. But to get to your title question, I always wait till the FC to find that out.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/022f745f-ed32-498a-9d60-bb6012cb093f[/URL]

Ghosted me. Never got a price.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f9bdcb42-948f-4daf-b6e6-8657b041a75b[/URL]

Wanted money for m&g.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/9ecc0524-9279-4b2a-a3a3-d237e7e79a1b[/URL]

Wanted 5 K / month.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/e4157d0e-60ba-490f-bd79-3b9c43d663dd[/URL]

Kept saying that maybe she wasn't what I was looking for. Never got a number. Strange interaction.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/261968e5-e05f-4c14-bbca-7ae855fca66d[/URL]

Rinser.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/56e35ab8-e64b-43c4-acd3-be715ecac4ee[/URL]

Wouldn't give me her number until I gave her an amount. I ghosted her.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/75e024b2-bbba-427e-9e6d-61c774027419[/URL]

Quoted 900 for BBFS.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/50903e55-68c0-4507-9a7b-721ea23484f1[/URL]

Quoted 700 ppm.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/401328b0-db24-4491-a291-430a360aa55c[/URL]

Exchanged numbers but ghosted before quoting a number.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a702aea7-1144-4282-8288-f83a31f86c80[/URL]

Quoted 800 ppm.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/239da53a-3908-482e-b6e7-8d2630c033f4[/URL]

Exchanged numbers. When I tried to set a price for ppm she ghosted.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7898e9d0-fe21-47de-9716-07c665ad9812[/URL]

CIP for $300. I had fun. She was a bit of a dead fish though and rushed me out the door after.

If anyone has some good leads, please pm me. I'm thinking of cancelling the membership if the two M&G's I have scheduled this week don't go well. Thanks in advance.

[QUOTE=GregAllenFilms;5952855][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7898e9d0-fe21-47de-9716-07c665ad9812[/URL]

CIP for $300. I had fun. She was a bit of a dead fish though and rushed me out the door after.

If anyone has some good leads, please pm me. I'm thinking of cancelling the membership if the two M&G's I have scheduled this week don't go well. Thanks in advance.[/QUOTE]Another profile of the same lady here.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/40ce55b3-748c-4c54-bd3c-db458f80aed1[/URL]

[QUOTE=NuttyLoon;5953233]Another profile of the same lady here.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/40ce55b3-748c-4c54-bd3c-db458f80aed1[/URL][/QUOTE]She's been discussed in this thread before. She's actually in her mid to late 30's and YMMV as to her interest in you, but she's a guaranteed creampie. Anyone who has an itch for some real Japanese nakadashi should contact her.

[QUOTE=GregAllenFilms;5952855][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/022f745f-ed32-498a-9d60-bb6012cb093f[/URL]

Ghosted me. Never got a price.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7898e9d0-fe21-47de-9716-07c665ad9812[/URL]

CIP for $300. I had fun. She was a bit of a dead fish though and rushed me out the door after.

If anyone has some good leads, please pm me. I'm thinking of cancelling the membership if the two M&G's I have scheduled this week don't go well. Thanks in advance.[/QUOTE]That last one, I messaged w / her a little, but concluded she was an escort, if UTR. That she now lists two TX cities on her profile shows she is just that, doing like some of the regular BP girls used to do, move around, get hotel rooms in which to service.

I would never touch a girl like that w / a 10-foot pole, especially bare. My own choice. That isn't the sort of girl I come to SA for. If it is your type, go for it, but.

[QUOTE=NuttyLoon;5953233]Another profile of the same lady here.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/40ce55b3-748c-4c54-bd3c-db458f80aed1[/URL].[/QUOTE]This profile says Ausitn TX, and Santa Clara, CA, while profile posted by GregAlanFilms has Houston and Dallas TX.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5951408]I have an odd situation. M&G today w / a girl who drove 40 miles to do that. She's 27, a medical professional (not a doc, but grad degree), very pretty, lives in a rural area. On the phone and in person, very light and bubbly, nice, positive, etc. I discuss matters privately w / her in my car. I say she'll get gifts when we meet privately, what are her needs? She replies whatever I want. Well, that sounds fantabulous! We get into conversation about bedroom preferences, I ask what gets her off, she just says I'll have to find out. I ask if she likes her man to lead, my usual way to turn the convo to being submissive, she is wishy-washy. Some girls just blurt out at that point that they are submissive. I initiate kissing her, she is very willing and participatory. I have a SO, I need her to get us a room. She is totally fine w / that, is happy to use her credit card.

So, right, this seems like a dream. I tell her that BTW. My question is this. This girl is so laid back and agreeable, I am concerned she's going to be a dead fish in bed. I can't quite figure out her motivation for being on the site. She says she's had arrangements before, and at least 1 good one and 1 bad one. Submissive means to me that a girl wants to be told what to do and enjoys doing it. This gal, I fear I might have to tell her exactly what to do to get anything out of her. Not that there is anything bad about that I guess. I suppose I am hoping for someone to be into it.[/QUOTE]I'm going to get to find out. She's booked us a room for FC Wed morning. The girl is definitely exceeding expectations.

[QUOTE=LimpAndSmall;5954303]This profile says Ausitn TX, and Santa Clara, CA, while profile posted by GregAlanFilms has Houston and Dallas TX.[/QUOTE]I also CIP her a few times a couple of months ago on numerous occasions for 300. She's a nice lady and YMMV like FirstClass1 mentioned, but is best for only one night occasions when you want to get your rocks off with a pretty Japanese lady. Not really sugar baby material IMHO, but more like a pro that should be on HX or BP.

Want a chick with accent? This one is for you. You should ask her to shower with you first if you know what I mean.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1028412f-c061-4170-9149-9a603bc7d996[/URL]

Hi guys,

Mind sharing any promo code or discount code you received for SA. Thank you!

Have you guys meet with married by looking. She want first meet to happen with husband and herself, it's definitely something I am not comfortable doing but appreciate if anyone of you had any such experience.

Damn are you serious. Can you PM the details on what she offers and how was the overall service?

[QUOTE=CreamFire;5957531]Want a chick with accent? This one is for you. You should ask her to shower with you first if you know what I mean.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1028412f-c061-4170-9149-9a603bc7d996[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5955099]I'm going to get to find out. She's booked us a room for FC Wed morning. The girl is definitely exceeding expectations.[/QUOTE]I am glad she inactivated her profile, because I'll definitely see her. I did need to take the lead, but she wasn't just a dead fish. Great kisser, perky teen-look titties for a 28 year old. Once I got her naked and I started fingering her (1 finger) she really got into it, out of control. Pop #1. She seemed a bit tight, so after a bit more making out, I fingered her again (2 fingers). Pop #2. I got her to BBBJ, everything A-OK there. The girl has a lot of tats, I got the story for 1 of them out of her. On her thigh. Since I was right there, went for DATY. That was super-intense for her, so after pop #3, I figured I would test her puss. Comfortable and warm. Lots of missionary where she didn't have to do too much, but then I got her to ride, and she was quite active and involved. I thought about teasing her by holding out, but gave in. Super positive talk / interactions before during after. Also started to get resurrected, but time didn't permit an encore. She wants to meet next week, I am for it. It is out of my neighborhood, so safe, and reasonably priced hotel (hoteslbyday). Could be a keeper.

[QUOTE=CreamFire;5957531]Want a chick with accent? This one is for you. You should ask her to shower with you first if you know what I mean.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1028412f-c061-4170-9149-9a603bc7d996[/URL][/QUOTE]What do you mean by the shower comment?

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5958837]I am glad she inactivated her profile, because I'll definitely see her. I did need to take the lead, but she wasn't just a dead fish. Great kisser, perky teen-look titties for a 28 year old. Once I got her naked and I started fingering her (1 finger) she really got into it, out of control. Pop #1. She seemed a bit tight, so after a bit more making out, I fingered her again (2 fingers). Pop #2. I got her to BBBJ, everything A-OK there. The girl has a lot of tats, I got the story for 1 of them out of her. On her thigh. Since I was right there, went for DATY. That was super-intense for her, so after pop #3, I figured I would test her puss. Comfortable and warm. Lots of missionary where she didn't have to do too much, but then I got her to ride, and she was quite active and involved. I thought about teasing her by holding out, but gave in. Super positive talk / interactions before during after. Also started to get resurrected, but time didn't permit an encore. She wants to meet next week, I am for it. It is out of my neighborhood, so safe, and reasonably priced hotel (hoteslbyday). Could be a keeper.[/QUOTE]Oh damn! I had similar experience, we hung out whole day and she didn't even asked anything. She still very excited to see me and wants me to take on weekend gateway. Very gorgeous girl and super submissive. I am actually thinking of getting break from SA off late there are so many girls I have been meeting they are up for anything. Way too much of action for my age. Even want to drive for me.

Maybe this is helping me from getting banned.

[QUOTE=CreamFire;5957531]Want a chick with accent? This one is for you. You should ask her to shower with you first if you know what I mean.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1028412f-c061-4170-9149-9a603bc7d996[/URL][/QUOTE]I assume that you're referring to her body odor which is funny af, but I would still do her. I personally like middle eastern women because they're very freaky, have their own money and know how to be submissive based on my past experiences dating them.

[QUOTE=BigBear818;5959847]I assume that you're referring to her body odor which is funny af, but I would still do her. I personally like middle eastern women because they're very freaky, have their own money and know how to be submissive based on my past experiences dating them.[/QUOTE]After moving to L. A. And working in DTLA I developed a fascination for middle eastern women. Tried dating a couple persian girls (almost middle east) civi style, that did not work out. Met 3 on seeking. First one was an 18 year old Burbank runaway (russian/armenian). She stayed at my house for a week and nothing happened. Had her own money and refused to take mine. Ended up going back to her folks. Second one (persian/lebanese/armenian) was a total hottie like 25, hit the FC a few times, wanted to marry me, cost me a bundle. In the end she got busted at BofA trying to steal from one of my accounts. Last one (lebanese/armenian) a MILF very similar to the girl in the pics but like 40. Nice girl, kinda freaky like you said, did a few dates. So maybe not a true blue middle eastern selection. But after all that I decided to just go back to my usual demographic. A lot of work for not too much reward.

[QUOTE=Migs1224;5959314]What do you mean by the shower comment?[/QUOTE]Down there.

[QUOTE=CreamFire;5959907]Down there.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the heads up.

[QUOTE=CreamFire;5959907]Down there.[/QUOTE]Thanks, just saved me from going down on her 😆.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;5959893]After moving to L. A. And working in DTLA I developed a fascination for middle eastern women. Tried dating a couple persian girls (almost middle east) civi style, that did not work out. Met 3 on seeking. First one was an 18 year old Burbank runaway (russian/armenian). She stayed at my house for a week and nothing happened. Had her own money and refused to take mine. Ended up going back to her folks. Second one (persian/lebanese/armenian) was a total hottie like 25, hit the FC a few times, wanted to marry me, cost me a bundle. In the end she got busted at BofA trying to steal from one of my accounts. Last one (lebanese/armenian) a MILF very similar to the girl in the pics but like 40. Nice girl, kinda freaky like you said, did a few dates. So maybe not a true blue middle eastern selection. But after all that I decided to just go back to my usual demographic. A lot of work for not too much reward.[/QUOTE]I've been attracted to middle eastern women since I moved to the SFV area of Tarzana / Encino about a decade ago. I met a Persian lady in her mid 40's back in 2014 at a business her elderly father worked in before he passed away. We had a mutual attraction and communicated with each other for a few weeks before we connected physically at my house. She was very freaky and well established economically, but the relationship didn't work out because she was in a toxic relationship with someone else prior to me meeting her. I also met another middle eastern lady in her mid 20's who owned a liquor store down the street from my condo where I used to live, but she just wanted to get piped down with her regular store customer which was me at the time. The middle eastern women are well established and freaky, but I don't expect to have a long-term relationship with them.

[QUOTE=BigBear818;5960091]I've been attracted to middle eastern women since I moved to the SFV area of Tarzana / Encino about a decade ago. I met a Persian lady in her mid 40's back in 2014 at a business her elderly father worked in before he passed away. We had a mutual attraction and communicated with each other for a few weeks before we connected physically at my house. She was very freaky and well established economically, but the relationship didn't work out because she was in a toxic relationship with someone else prior to me meeting her. I also met another middle eastern lady in her mid 20's who owned a liquor store down the street from my condo where I used to live, but she just wanted to get piped down with her regular store customer which was me at the time. The middle eastern women are well established and freaky, but I don't expect to have a long-term relationship with them.[/QUOTE]My favorite gf of all time (before my wife) was / is Assyrian. Also dated a Moroccan and an Egyptian for awhile. Three of the most beautiful women I've ever come across. Wife is Indian.

[QUOTE=JasonJe;5960126]My favorite gf of all time (before my wife) was / is Assyrian. Also dated a Moroccan and an Egyptian for awhile. Three of the most beautiful women I've ever come across. Wife is Indian.[/QUOTE]Thats is one great benefit of L.A... Eventually you are going to fuck girls from all over the world. Where I was born and lived tiil 20's it was just black or white. I never even met a latina till I was in my early 20's and I remember thinking how exotic she was. lol And even though there were a few other ethnic groups they really kept to them selves, I can tell you in the 70's that inter-racial dating of any kind was rare and mostly on the DL. In the 60's it would have most likely got you an ass whooping or being shunned by your family and maybe even your friends.

[QUOTE=CreamFire;5957531]Want a chick with accent? This one is for you. You should ask her to shower with you first if you know what I mean.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1028412f-c061-4170-9149-9a603bc7d996[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=CreamFire;5959907]Down there.[/QUOTE]LOL. I thought she is a TS. Notice her neck.

I"m confused as hell right now-is this a man or women. I'm not messing with this one LOL!!

[QUOTE=Migs1224;5959314]What do you mean by the shower comment?[/QUOTE]

Just curious when you met her did she seem like she was on drugs, just something off kilter mental health wise? Talked to her and she's like anxious or frantic. The only other time I experienced this with with former stripper girlfriend who lived with me, who was on stuff and talked and texted 1000 miles and hour. Something seems a bit off but she looks good I may partake.

Had some fun she's on bc so she let me cip. Really tall, used to play volleyball at USC. Great body, and was a good time in bed. 400. Not sure what her situation was, didn't sound too desperate when we met but sounded pretty bad after we met. Kept asking for gas money so I decided not to repeat. Anyone else seen her?

With everything going on, is inflation going to bring up or down the avg. Ppm?

[QUOTE=Alkalinedio;5962054]Just curious when you met her did she seem like she was on drugs, just something off kilter mental health wise? Talked to her and she's like anxious or frantic. The only other time I experienced this with with former stripper girlfriend who lived with me, who was on stuff and talked and texted 1000 miles and hour. Something seems a bit off but she looks good I may partake.[/QUOTE]Fine in person but something off about her when she texts and her situation sounds like it changes.

[QUOTE=NutritionFacts;5962212]With everything going on, is inflation going to bring up or down the avg. Ppm?[/QUOTE]As a low baller I can tell you it's going up. Tougher and tougher to get a girl for a $ these days. I mean a good looking and physically fit girl. My fortunes are slowly rising so I am pretty sure I am going to have to go to $$ when I can afford to. At that price I am right back to having more than I could F in a lifetime. Most of the girls I hit up would be quite comfortable at that rate once a day. Even though inflation has hit vegas pretty hard the overall COL is so much lower then L. A. That $$ is still a good days pay. And even in L.A. depending on a girls living situation $$ is still a number well worth considering for the less fortunate or just less financially needy ( as in no kid, lives with parents, has a job, etc.).

But generally speaking if you can convince a girl that you are no drama, fun to be with, experienced, not a dick, flexible, understanding, could be a regular, etc you should easily be able to shave a third off (or half if you really try) whatever their regular reasonable desired rate might be anyway. Most of these girls have a ton of drama in their life and actually like the idea of a casual good time once in a while. Definitely worth the effort. Plus being a business like any business an experienced girl knows she is gonna get a few over payers, so it all balances out. And a new girl might want to play it safe and take less thinking if she takes more the guy is gonna be more demanding or its a scam or whatever.

I can't tell you how many times I got a crazy low rate for whatever reason. But if time is more precious than money this is not always going to be your best option.

[QUOTE=MetalKnight21;5962739]Fine in person but something off about her when she texts and her situation sounds like it changes.[/QUOTE]I agree, she texts a lot of craziness and told me she had been crying and all this and that, no car, I was all "wow" haha, haven't even met yet.

I may hit it once, she's in San diego county now, bit of a hike for me. I'm on the fence.

Thanks for that.

AD.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;5963203]As a low baller I can tell you it's going up. Tougher and tougher to get a girl for a $ these days. I mean a good looking and physically fit girl. My fortunes are slowly rising so I am pretty sure I am going to have to go to $$ when I can afford to. At that price I am right back to having more than I could F in a lifetime. Most of the girls I hit up would be quite comfortable at that rate once a day. Even though inflation has hit vegas pretty hard the overall COL is so much lower then L. A. That $$ is still a good days pay. And even in L.A. depending on a girls living situation $$ is still a number well worth considering for the less fortunate or just less financially needy ( as in no kid, lives with parents, has a job, etc.).

But generally speaking if you can convince a girl that you are no drama, fun to be with, experienced, not a dick, flexible, understanding, could be a regular, etc you should easily be able to shave a third off (or half if you really try) whatever their regular reasonable desired rate might be anyway. Most of these girls have a ton of drama in their life and actually like the idea of a casual good time once in a while. Definitely worth the effort. Plus being a business like any business an experienced girl knows she is gonna get a few over payers, so it all balances out. And a new girl might want to play it safe and take less thinking if she takes more the guy is gonna be more demanding or its a scam or whatever.

I can't tell you how many times I got a crazy low rate for whatever reason. But if time is more precious than money this is not always going to be your best option.[/QUOTE]In case you need a summary- chocolate stem Majors at sc or ucla.

Hi Guys,

I have been off and on SA for the last couple of years and have had a few successful arrangements with some gals. My current regular gal whom I just met, wants to leave after 1 session.

My other past arrangements allowed me a couple of hours and multiple pops.

I'm just curious so is the normal for you guys short time, meaning 1 pop and then its off. The price I am giving this girl is not cheap either, costing me 5 $$.

How do I politely tell her I need more of a time limit or a couple of sessions? Thanks, much appreciated.

Thanks.

SB.

[QUOTE=StudBucket;5967036]Hi Guys,

I have been off and on SA for the last couple of years and have had a few successful arrangements with some gals. My current regular gal whom I just met, wants to leave after 1 session.

My other past arrangements allowed me a couple of hours and multiple pops.

I'm just curious so is the normal for you guys short time, meaning 1 pop and then its off. The price I am giving this girl is not cheap either, costing me 5 $$.

How do I politely tell her I need more of a time limit or a couple of sessions? Thanks, much appreciated.

Thanks.

SB.[/QUOTE]Just stop txting her. When she wants to know why. Then tell her. And if she says anything that doesn't work for you just say "I'll keep that in mind, thanks".

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;5967591]Just stop txting her. When she wants to know why. Then tell her. And if she says anything that doesn't work for you just say "I'll keep that in mind, thanks".[/QUOTE]I have never, ever done one pop and leave. Ever. Never ever.

That is insulting.

I can't believe you tolerated that. Are you new at this? Or not paying well? Or is there some circumstance that explains how this is even a topic for discussion?

[QUOTE=PriscillaM;5963668]In case you need a summary- chocolate stem Majors at sc or ucla.[/QUOTE]I would assume the UCLA girls are a little more pricey and the cheaper chicks would be the ones studying at Santa Monica college.

[QUOTE=Murrican;5969955]I have never, ever done one pop and leave. Ever. Never ever.

That is insulting.

I can't believe you tolerated that. Are you new at this? Or not paying well? Or is there some circumstance that explains how this is even a topic for discussion?[/QUOTE]Nope. It takes me about an hour or how ever long I want to pop. Could be 45 minutes or could be 2 hours. Depends on the stamina of the girl and my overall interest in her. Unless its an overnight I am one and done. But for an almost 70 year old I am ok with it.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;5969970]Nope. It takes me about an hour or how ever long I want to pop. Could be 45 minutes or could be 2 hours. Depends on the stamina of the girl and my overall interest in her. Unless its an overnight I am one and done. But for an almost 70 year old I am ok with it.[/QUOTE]I'd say being 70 and having the stamina to bang for 2 hours counts as a special circumstance.

Kudos to you.

[QUOTE=Murrican;5969955]I have never, ever done one pop and leave. Ever. Never ever.

That is insulting.

I can't believe you tolerated that. Are you new at this? Or not paying well? [/QUOTE]Hey Murrican and Hollywood G, I was just curious and wanted to see if guys are regularly expecting 2 pops from the Sugar Baby. This was my first time with girl and I did not clarify it beforehand but did tell her earlier today that if I see her, I will be having expectations of having more than 1 round. I for the most part can knock out 2 pops in an evening. But on occassion, I have done just 1 pop if it is late, or I am just too tired but its rare.

My perspective is one of a confirmed SD, not a converted whoremonger who wants to fish on the seeking site. I am looking for a 'not escort' where I can feel a connection and have an ongoing arrangement.

I'd expect every single private meet to be GFE. She's going to be into it, and I am too. I 100% expect BBBJ, b / c I'd get that from a GF. For me personally, I only ever have sex covered, so that isn't an issue. I love if a girl is on BC in case of an accident but that is so rare. The only thing that I think is not a given is anal. Not my thing, personally, but some girls bring it up (always negatively) at the M&G. I have some general phraseology I use, like "Nothing I like would shock you, but nothing you could ask for would shock me, because I was single for most of my 30's and had my adventures".

I think it is fair to have a general idea / agreement about how much time you are spending together, that is just practical and respectful. Some guys get SBs to stay overnight, and many SBs put in their profiles or on-site messaging points about their availability for this. However, counting the # of pops? That seems too escort-ish to me. I have had "SBs" who provided more of an escort experience, and I didn't see them again.