Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

[QUOTE=DeliciousDawn;2016631]Gentlemen, please protect what you do from your wives. I have a wife blowing my email up begging me to confirm if I have slept with her husband. She has sent me links to the reviews this guy has left for me. She knows about Indys and TER. She has gave me his real name along with two photos. She says that she is going to do something about this, and she wants me to confirm. I am sure you know who you are. I do NOT like being placed in this position!! It is the first time that I have ever dealt with this.

Geez...[/QUOTE]Dawn,

This is not your fault. He didn't cover his tracks and wifey followed it back as far as she could... Your email Addy.

Whoever you are Mr. Monger...Wifey knows! If you know who you are don't let it brew. Man up and get it over with.

If you sir keep running from this wifey might start an investigation of her own!

Better she only knows you saw DD. It will make it worse if she finds the forum.

Last thing you need is her knowing you could have seen more.

IMO...Cut your losses! Protect DD!

Buddah.

I've had this scenario play out more times than one. Sadly, once from a guy who was trying to make his wife jealous. It's better to just ignore it the best you can, try blocking her number and emails. Engaging her by answering questions or acknowledging her will only make you feel worse and intensify the situation. Let him handle it, it is his sloppy mess, he can clean it up. It's stressful but more than likely it will smooth over, hopefully sooner than later.

Good luck,

CX.

[QUOTE=DeliciousDawn;2016631]Gentlemen, please protect what you do from your wives. I have a wife blowing my email up begging me to confirm if I have slept with her husband. She has sent me links to the reviews this guy has left for me. She knows about Indys and TER. She has gave me his real name along with two photos. She says that she is going to do something about this, and she wants me to confirm. I am sure you know who you are. I do NOT like being placed in this position!! It is the first time that I have ever dealt with this.

Geez...[/QUOTE]

So you're looking for the "Oscar Experience". I'm intrigued by your description to see who the academy nominee's will be. However, if you're willing to "empty your account on her" that will have a great effect on how the scene is ultimately played out.

Here is to happy findings and happy endings.

CX.

[QUOTE=Sgwaboe;2017036]Hi all. Figured this was as good a thread as any to ask this question. Have seen many, many providers in the tristate area over the years, and most have been a pretty good time. But I'm looking for a particular kind of provider to give me that over the top experience that makes me want to empty my account on her, LOL. Most providers in the area are, for the most part, a little reserved or business-like in the way they go about this. Maybe wrong choice of words..more like sweet, but want you to direct the action and tell them what to do. What I'm looking for is the ultimate 'dirty girl' who can take control and be aggressive. Elaborating, the kind of woman who will come right after you, put a liplock on you that gets you going immediately, strips your clothes off, devours you, believes that sloppier and wetter is better, talks filthy, loves hair pulling and ass smacking, doesn't just 'allow' you to cum in her mouth or wherever, but actually demands it..I think you guys are getting the idea of what I'm talking about here. Who, in this area, is the best choice for that? Rhonda and SarahNorwood have been the closest in my experiences, and also Jill Brown from Columbus, if anyone can remember back that far, LOL. And just to be clear, I'm not talking about someone who becomes like this after seeing them for the umpteenth time, I'm talking about first time, from the get-go. Suggestions, guys??[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DeliciousDawn;2016631]Gentlemen, please protect what you do from your wives. I have a wife blowing my email up begging me to confirm if I have slept with her husband. She has sent me links to the reviews this guy has left for me. She knows about Indys and TER. She has gave me his real name along with two photos. She says that she is going to do something about this, and she wants me to confirm. I am sure you know who you are. I do NOT like being placed in this position!! It is the first time that I have ever dealt with this.

Geez...[/QUOTE]This is a case where you should deny, deny, deny. Do not initiate any contact with the woman. If she calls you, deny, then hang up. No explanations, don't let yourself be drawn into any discussion. I'm not trying to make you paranoid, Dawn, but be very careful of new clients. Watch your 6 for tails, and don't hesitate to call the police (how I hate to use that word) if you think you are being followed, in fact, the best thing is to drive to the nearest police station if you think you're being followed. Civilians do strange things, like try to set people up. Mostly she's probably just blowing smoke, but she might have connections that could allow her to create a problem.

Cheech.

[QUOTE=Sgwaboe;2017036]Hi all. Figured this was as good a thread as any to ask this question. Have seen many, many providers in the tristate area over the years, and most have been a pretty good time. But I'm looking for a particular kind of provider to give me that over the top experience that makes me want to empty my account on her, LOL. Most providers in the area are, for the most part, a little reserved or business-like in the way they go about this. Maybe wrong choice of words..more like sweet, but want you to direct the action and tell them what to do. What I'm looking for is the ultimate 'dirty girl' who can take control and be aggressive. Elaborating, the kind of woman who will come right after you, put a liplock on you that gets you going immediately, strips your clothes off, devours you, believes that sloppier and wetter is better, talks filthy, loves hair pulling and ass smacking, doesn't just 'allow' you to cum in her mouth or wherever, but actually demands it..I think you guys are getting the idea of what I'm talking about here. Who, in this area, is the best choice for that? Rhonda and SarahNorwood have been the closest in my experiences, and also Jill Brown from Columbus, if anyone can remember back that far, LOL. And just to be clear, I'm not talking about someone who becomes like this after seeing them for the umpteenth time, I'm talking about first time, from the get-go. Suggestions, guys??[/QUOTE]Sasha Black is everything on your list.

[QUOTE=DeliciousDawn;2016631]Gentlemen, please protect what you do from your wives. I have a wife blowing my email up begging me to confirm if I have slept with her husband. She has sent me links to the reviews this guy has left for me. She knows about Indys and TER. She has gave me his real name along with two photos. She says that she is going to do something about this, and she wants me to confirm. I am sure you know who you are. I do NOT like being placed in this position!! It is the first time that I have ever dealt with this.

Geez...[/QUOTE]Of a lady down in TN that actually joined the large canine board after finding out her husband was in the hobby.

She would be in chat every night asking questions, not so much as to track down every lady that had seen him but to find out why the rest of us were in the hobby.

After a few nights we found out that one day he had left his blackberry at home and that she being the loving wife had take in to his office.

She dropped it in the cradle, and it immediately lit up that he had a 12:30 appointment at a small notel down the road from the office.

Then she headed over to the notel, got a room key from the desk since it was registered as Mr & Mrs and then walked in the door on his appointment.

Moral of the story is that you need to use some common sense when you're going to play in the hobby unless of course you have permission... .

I just want to say that I'm sorry that your going through that Dawn. I was married for 20 years and never cheated on my wife. Now that I've been divorced for 2 1/2 years and didn't start in this hobby until about 10 months ago. I've never had to worry about any kind of drama. I wish you the best Dawn.

[QUOTE=DeliciousDawn;2016631]Gentlemen, please protect what you do from your wives. I have a wife blowing my email up begging me to confirm if I have slept with her husband. She has sent me links to the reviews this guy has left for me. She knows about Indys and TER. She has gave me his real name along with two photos. She says that she is going to do something about this, and she wants me to confirm. I am sure you know who you are. I do NOT like being placed in this position!! It is the first time that I have ever dealt with this.

Geez...[/QUOTE][ATTACH=CONFIG]304203[/ATTACH]

There's really not much you can do at this point.

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There's really not much you can do at this point.[/QUOTE]Looks like his 3/4" garden hose against that car explosion is like trying to defend yourself with a pea shooter against a grizzly bear; aka in my neighborhood as pissing in the wind or up a rope!

[QUOTE=WarlockKy;2017565]Of a lady down in TN that actually joined the large canine board after finding out her husband was in the hobby.

She would be in chat every night asking questions, not so much as to track down every lady that had seen him but to find out why the rest of us were in the hobby.

After a few nights we found out that one day he had left his blackberry at home and that she being the loving wife had take in to his office.

She dropped it in the cradle, and it immediately lit up that he had a 12:30 appointment at a small notel down the road from the office.

Then she headed over to the notel, got a room key from the desk since it was registered as Mr & Mrs and then walked in the door on his appointment.

Moral of the story is that you need to use some common sense when you're going to play in the hobby unless of course you have permission... .[/QUOTE]At a well known hobbyist also in Tenn and walked into his place of business with her posse and ratted on him at his work place by outting him publicly Yes men take care of your privacy and respect the ladies also.

[QUOTE=UtrInOhio;2017103]Dawn,

This is not your fault. He didn't cover his tracks and wifey followed it back as far as she could... Your email Addy.

Whoever you are Mr. Monger...Wifey knows! If you know who you are don't let it brew. Man up and get it over with.

If you sir keep running from this wifey might start an investigation of her own!

Better she only knows you saw DD. It will make it worse if she finds the forum.

Last thing you need is her knowing you could have seen more.

IMO...Cut your losses! Protect DD!

Buddah.[/QUOTE]When a man fucks up he needs to own it and take the consequences. Don't bring the lady down because you couldn't get it right. As Buddah said better it be only one than many. Great post and very succinct and to the points. Cut your losses and move on.

[QUOTE=PuntangMan;2017999]At a well known hobbyist also in Tenn and walked into his place of business with her posse and ratted on him at his work place by outting him publicly Yes men take care of your privacy and respect the ladies also.[/QUOTE]Yes that was Whitney of Nashville. The incident is well known. I have actually seen and photographed her twice. I don't post her photos any more. As far as I know, she is still around.

[QUOTE=Glockman;2018225]Yes that was Whitney of Nashville. The incident is well known. I have actually seen and photographed her twice. I don't post her photos any more. As far as I know, she is still around.[/QUOTE]And was one of a few that gave most of us older guys reasons to zip our lips or develop stories if we wanted to put out info to ladies to divert their attention to asking questions. I and my brother were only aware of a what happened through word of mouth on the boards so was agreeing that the guy should own up and keep Dawn out of this and her family and not bring attention to the site in general. JMO. Thanks for who it was. Don't make it to Tenn but know from the BD days they had some seriously HOT women in their area and from your photos, still do.

I just thought you were calling me an asshole. I just noticed my new title. Your wrong I'm not who you thought I was. You even admitted that you made a mistake, we all do. It just so happen the ones that you banned for a week didn't know about the new rule at the time. Since you assumed you thought I was someone else you made an ass out of both of us. Thats why I suggested that they get a warning first that is unless we are required to read forum rules each and every day. Sorry I rattled your feathers.

[QUOTE=Admin2;2003601][BLUE]As Samuel L Jackson said in Pulp Fiction; "Have you finished? Well allow me to retort."

As Kristi found out, if providers fuck up and double post by accident and send me a message before I mod the forum I just delete the extra one before it goes live. UTR did that because he forgot the pics, I thought I deleted it but I fucked up.

Why I changed your title to "Asshole?" You're not new, you're somebody that posts here on a regular basis and you didn't have the balls to do this with your regular name. Do you see that button on all the posts that says "Report Post?" Next time fucking use it and don't be such an asshole. I gotta pretty good idea who this is and if you don't knock it the fuck off I'm not gonna let you post about your ATF that got hit by this anymore.

Are you feeling me?

A2[/BLUE][/QUOTE]