General Reports

[QUOTE=OldPumper; 1226335]Most of us old timers in the mongering hobby have seen allot and heard allot. But the one thing that's sad but true, is the fact that seventy five to eighty five percent of all escorts out there have some form of management lurking around them. Even high class escort working for agency are under management. So face it, these gals are making loads of cash. So much in fact I would think most would have a hard time keeping up with it all. I for one have seen many of gals that may or may not have had manager somewhere out there lurking around them. But I will tell you this, if I know up front a gal has a manager screw that because for me that would be the deal breaker. If I don't know if a gal has management and her management is out of sight out of mind then Al's well fine and dandy. But if I know in advance the gal has a manager you can scratch the pump off her list because I won't go there. There may be good and bad advantages to a gal having a manager or agency. But I rather see a gal that's in control of her on life who's smart enough to be in this line of work to achieve her own personal wealth and independence. Gals with managers that try to muscle clients or rob should always be outed for the safety of us all. And at all cost never, never get into a confrontation with an escort for any reason. A smart man should always just walk away from a little trouble that could easily become big trouble before you know it. Stay say and happy hunting.

OP[/QUOTE]Maybe 75. 85 percent of girls under 23 years of age but your percentage is too high for a broader spectrum.

Keep in mind with the change in the economy many MILF's have entered the escorting business as a way to supplement income.

I think your percentage would be too high when you enter the over 25 mark.

You also have now many college educated women entering in part time also to supplement income.

Hopefully, legalization will become available in the future. Although the Southern Baptists would make sure it hit's places like here, Tennessee, Texas and Georgia last.

Ahhh the good ole South.

I don't think there are too many girls with a BS degree working as an escort. That's got to be like <1% of them. Although, even if they don't have a degree, many certainly are fluent in BS.

[QUOTE=Goddess; 1226651]Maybe 75. 85 percent of girls under 23 years of age but your percentage is too high for a broader spectrum.

Keep in mind with the change in the economy many MILF's have entered the escorting business as a way to supplement income.

I think your percentage would be too high when you enter the over 25 mark.

You also have now many college educated women entering in part time also to supplement income.

Hopefully, legalization will become available in the future. Although the Southern Baptists would make sure it hit's places like here, Tennessee, Texas and Georgia last.

Ahhh the good ole South.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Goddess;1226651]Maybe 75. 85 percent of girls under 23 years of age but your percentage is too high for a broader spectrum.[/QUOTE]Plus I bet there are some ladies out there who might not have what you could call "managers" but friends who might know and help by looking out for them in case a client gets weird or agressive like the whinny 2-year old.

I wouldn't hold it against a lady to have friends nearby, just as long as their not in an adjoining room or roaming around outside while I'm there.

I've been in the game for about 15 years and thought I'd pass along some words of advice.

1. Turn off your phone. Guys are paying a good amount of money and deserve your undivided attention.

2. Use accurate pics and don't steal pics from others or porn sites big no-no when you are not who you claim to be. Blur your face if you have privacy concerns.

3. Hygiene. Keep your legs baby smooth and your moneymaker fresh. Stubble and an odor from down under are erection killers.

4. Keep in shape. Your body is your commodity and you need to care for it.

5. Always have a variety of condoms and lube on hand. The lube will mean less wear on you and more pleasure for him. He is also likely to finish sooner.

6. Never try to rush someone. Not all guys are done in 2 minutes.

7. Stay away from drugs. Not preaching, it's just a good business decision. They will also lower your appearance and performance. Drugs attract cops & trouble.

8. Don't upsell or use fake pics. It really ruins the mood. Clearly list your rates in your ad.

9. Encourage reviews. Reviews are usually very detailed and answer all the questions you don't want to for legal reasons.

10. Remember that good and bad reviews spread quickly. There are message boards where guys communicate EVERYTHING.

11. Treat the guy like he is special. You should provide mental as well as physical pleasure.

12. Stay away from "managers". They will take your money as fast as drug will.

13. State your age accurately. The word spreads quickly on this too.

14. Have a long term plan. You don't want to be a 50 year old provider Go to school for a degree or certificate. Medical jobs are growing quite steadily. I know of a few girls who did this and left the biz after a few years with 200k+ and an education.

Following these rules will mean greater customer satisfaction, fewer headaches and MORE MONEY in your pocket. You also won't have to post several ads every day and will have repeat customers.

In a word. DITTO.

[QUOTE=OldPumper; 1226335]Most of us old timers in the mongering hobby have seen allot and heard allot. But the one thing that's sad but true, is the fact that seventy five to eighty five percent of all escorts out there have some form of management lurking around them. Even high class escort working for agency are under management. So face it, these gals are making loads of cash. So much in fact I would think most would have a hard time keeping up with it all. I for one have seen many of gals that may or may not have had manager somewhere out there lurking around them. But I will tell you this, if I know up front a gal has a manager screw that because for me that would be the deal breaker. If I don't know if a gal has management and her management is out of sight out of mind then Al's well fine and dandy. But if I know in advance the gal has a manager you can scratch the pump off her list because I won't go there. There may be good and bad advantages to a gal having a manager or agency. But I rather see a gal that's in control of her on life who's smart enough to be in this line of work to achieve her own personal wealth and independence. Gals with managers that try to muscle clients or rob should always be outed for the safety of us all. And at all cost never, never get into a confrontation with an escort for any reason. A smart man should always just walk away from a little trouble that could easily become big trouble before you know it. Stay say and happy hunting.

OP[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Ron628; 1225758]Thank you, Jersey, Goddess Maria, Ashley & Mackenzie for your birthday wishes. If only we could have celebrated it together.

You ladies are true class acts, and any of us gents who get to spend time with you are quite lucky. And, if we manage to survive, even luckier.[/QUOTE]I'm sorry I didn't send Sweet Wishes sooner. Hope it was a great one!

Xoxo L

[QUOTE=Spacemanfl; 1226952]I've been in the game for about 15 years and thought I'd pass along some words of advice.

1. Turn off your phone. Guys are paying a good amount of money and deserve your undivided attention.

2. Use accurate pics and don't steal pics from others or porn sites big no-no when you are not who you claim to be. Blur your face if you have privacy concerns.

3. Hygiene. Keep your legs baby smooth and your moneymaker fresh. Stubble and an odor from down under are erection killers.

4. Keep in shape. Your body is your commodity and you need to care for it.

5. Always have a variety of condoms and lube on hand. The lube will mean less wear on you and more pleasure for him. He is also likely to finish sooner.

6. Never try to rush someone. Not all guys are done in 2 minutes.

7. Stay away from drugs. Not preaching, it's just a good business decision. They will also lower your appearance and performance. Drugs attract cops & trouble.

8. Don't upsell or use fake pics. It really ruins the mood. Clearly list your rates in your ad.

9. Encourage reviews. Reviews are usually very detailed and answer all the questions you don't want to for legal reasons.

10. Remember that good and bad reviews spread quickly. There are message boards where guys communicate EVERYTHING.

11. Treat the guy like he is special. You should provide mental as well as physical pleasure.

12. Stay away from "managers". They will take your money as fast as drug will.

13. State your age accurately. The word spreads quickly on this too.

14. Have a long term plan. You don't want to be a 50 year old provider Go to school for a degree or certificate. Medical jobs are growing quite steadily. I know of a few girls who did this and left the biz after a few years with 200k+ and an education.

Following these rules will mean greater customer satisfaction, fewer headaches and MORE MONEY in your pocket. You also won't have to post several ads every day and will have repeat customers.[/QUOTE]Gentlemen, you all have your preferences and opinions of what a provider should be, and how they should behave themselves.

As an established and seasoned, if you will, provider. I would like to offer you my point of view, perhaps share a few words of wisdom and / or advice, and vent about what I've encountered that really annoys the f*ck out of me LOL! * I'm sure some of the other ladies can relate.

Initial Contact

I have no problem with receiving a text message for our first communication, however."R you avail"."Rates?"* "Where are you" and the like, will not get much of a response. I'm much more receptive to "Hi Lauren, this is so and so. Yada, yada, yada."

The same is true when calling. What ever happened to manners LOL? A polite greeting before your inquiry goes a long way, I shouldn't have to ask."Who am I speaking to?" when I answer the phone and all I hear is "Hey I saw your ad, what are your rates?"

Availablility

My common response to "I called to see when you're available." Is "Well, when were you thinking about getting together?"

Gentlemen,"Now" is not an option, nor is "I can be there in 15 minutes" (unless we've met before) , but just know that, that with that short of a notice you'll get a freshly showered Lauren who smells delicious sans make up. * I've never had complaint about that. But honestly, name one business that offers priority service without an extra fee? If you want "Now", and I've never seen you, please be prepared to upgrade to a priority rate, and also provide me with a reputable reference or acceptable verification. Sorry, I look out for #1 to ensure we both have a relaxed and comfortable encounter. Otherwise. 30-60mins minumum notice works well.

Donations

I have become very budget friendly with the downfall of the economy, and I feel I'm fair with the range that I offer to ensure an escape from reality. For my friends that I've seen before, I will try and make an escape possible even if they say "I'd love to see you, but I'm a little short." No worries, a little short is fine, and Ill extend a one time special. One time doesn't mean every time after that. Please don't take advantage of my generousity (sp). Its not cool.

Time, and our time together

I understand that a lot of Gents only have time for a short visit during the day, but please, and again unless we've met, don't walk in the door and start groping, I appreciate at least a few minutes to chat and get to know you. I'm not a clock watcher, and I'm not going to throw you out the door at 29:59, please indulge me in a few minutes of small talk. When you return for another visit, Ill probably greet you at the door wearing not much more than a prettty smile.

Just sayin'

Xoxo L

Honestly. 99% of the providers that you gentlemen "LOVE" so much. Have "Managers"!

Cleanliness MUST go BOTH ways. Do not show up with sweaty stank nuts and think that a provider wants to put her HANDS anywhere near you, let alone her face. And brush your chompers. PLEASE.

You don't want to explain why you're pulling hair out of your mouth, neither do we. Please trim your rainforest! Your name most likely is not George of the Jungle!

If my phone is on vibrate, yours should be as well.

You don't want a provider to rush, and we don't want you to automatically assume that we don't have a life of our own. Don't get MAD, or be rude when we're not available with only 20 min notice. We like to shower, and sometimes have errands to run. More importantly, we do have families also. If you get the VM, don't call 30 times. Not leaving a message. And NEVER wear out your welcome. Don't take 45 min to get your 1st one and expect a girl to offer a 2nd within the next 15 min. 98% of the time, it isn't possible, and it isn't her. It's you.

Another one. If you're going to "Do it Yourself" on your way over so you can last a little longer and aren't embarassed about being a little premature. LOL. Atleast clean yourself up. Ask to use her shower. And don't try to be slick asking to use her bathroom to "Do it Yourself" taking up the first 15 min of a 30 min appt. Thinking she doesn't know what you're doing. No way can you get one, and get a 2nd in 15min.

Here is one. Don't book an appointment and NCNS. If a provider flakes on you, you would review her and her biz would decrease. Keep in mind that providers have places to vent as well and there are several blacklists out there with your phone number, name, board handle, maybe even your address or email address on it.

Just thought I'd help out the other side. HAHAHAHAHA!

XOXOX.

Jenna

Short notices are so hard and I find them to be frustrating.

Most of us at least on here are not sitting on a bed waiting for the phone to ring.

I have a business I started outside of this which now consumes most of my time and makes short notice next to impossible.

Hygiene.

As many posts there are on this on many forums, you would think men would know.

Nope.

To me it is highly disrespectful and offensive for a man to show up dirty and smelling.

Guys expect perfection but feel like being nasty is okay that we deserve what we get since they are paying, fuck out of here LOL.

Phone:

I agree Jenna, how many don't cut their own phones off because their wife or job might call.

If you want to feel respected about your time then do the same in return.

Ncns: I really don't see an excuse for it, afterwards I probably won't take you calls or emails again.

I rearrange myself for a session, take time out my daily life, get ready and dressed up and believe me stockings and garters can be frustrating to put together LOL.

For someone to just not show up and not call will get you blacklisted fast.

[QUOTE=Ricky James1;1226722]I don't think there are too many girls with a BS degree working as an escort. That's got to be like <1% of them. Although, even if they don't have a degree, many certainly are fluent in BS.[/QUOTE]Sorry, but I will seriously disagree. If you are talking about the transient fly-by-nighters who appear and disappear, then maybe few have college degrees. OTOH, the experienced and established providers often do (a few of my favorites have MBAs too). And then others have enough business experience that they can clearly best someone with their BA in Philosophy in terms of financial skills and customer service. Maybe we hang in different circles LOL

[QUOTE=Ricky James1;1226722]I don't think there are too many girls with a BS degree working as an escort. That's got to be like <1% of them. Although, even if they don't have a degree, many certainly are fluent in BS.[/QUOTE]Your posts reflect your negative view towards women in the business anyways.

You pick one specific type of degree LOL.

Sweetheart there are many forms of education and vocational training.

Alot of college educated women are escorts.

Alot of women pay their way thru school by stripping and / or escorting.

I don't expect you to have anything to say but degrading commentary.

It's always clear the type of men who really don't like themselves :)

[QUOTE=Jenna Divyne; 1227052]Honestly. 99% of the providers that you gentlemen "LOVE" so much. Have "Managers"!

Cleanliness MUST go BOTH ways. Do not show up with sweaty stank nuts and think that a provider wants to put her HANDS anywhere near you, let alone her face. And brush your chompers. PLEASE.

You don't want to explain why you're pulling hair out of your mouth, neither do we. Please trim your rainforest! Your name most likely is not George of the Jungle!

If my phone is on vibrate, yours should be as well.

You don't want a provider to rush, and we don't want you to automatically assume that we don't have a life of our own. Don't get MAD, or be rude when we're not available with only 20 min notice. We like to shower, and sometimes have errands to run. More importantly, we do have families also. If you get the VM, don't call 30 times. Not leaving a message. And NEVER wear out your welcome. Don't take 45 min to get your 1st one and expect a girl to offer a 2nd within the next 15 min. 98% of the time, it isn't possible, and it isn't her. It's you.

Another one. If you're going to "Do it Yourself" on your way over so you can last a little longer and aren't embarassed about being a little premature. LOL. Atleast clean yourself up. Ask to use her shower. And don't try to be slick asking to use her bathroom to "Do it Yourself" taking up the first 15 min of a 30 min appt. Thinking she doesn't know what you're doing. No way can you get one, and get a 2nd in 15min.

Here is one. Don't book an appointment and NCNS. If a provider flakes on you, you would review her and her biz would decrease. Keep in mind that providers have places to vent as well and there are several blacklists out there with your phone number, name, board handle, maybe even your address or email address on it.

Just thought I'd help out the other side. HAHAHAHAHA!

XOXOX.

Jenna[/QUOTE]Very well Put Jenna! We are expected to be and do so much. Theres a few things I can't stand as well. If you are a NCNS don't just pop up a few days later call me and say "hey I'm here!" I have a life and Its not just sitting around my incall location waiting. What we agree on over the phone is what I expect when you arrive. I understand that money gets tight so I am willing to work with you but lets be fair. Don't try to take advantage of my niceness! I enjoy conversation but I do not want to be questioned about which forum members I have and haven't seen. Discretion is a must with me and if that certain monger wanted you to know he would've posted a review for all to see. And most importantly I DONOT OFFER BBFS. So don't keep stopping during the session trying to talk me into doing it. I don't care how many girls you CLAIM to have seen that offer that to you or how much more money you are offering me to do it either. NO MEANS NO. If its that important to you call one of the providers that allowed you to do it with them.

Perhaps it's greater than 1, but since only 27% of the USA has a Bachelor's degree I would think it's almost certain that escorts having a degree is a much less percentage. In fact, only 10% of the USA has a Master's so escorts with Master's degrees (and I know some say they do) is a very, very rare breed. We've all heard the countless stories from strippers and escorts both who say,"I'm in college", or "just finishing up my nursing degree", etc. If all that was true, then we're going to have a heck of alot of nurses with tramp stamps in a few years! Maybe that wouldn't be bad, though. I know for sure that if I could get a BJ from the nurse at the Doctor's office I'd certainly go more often!

[QUOTE=Vankleek;1227165]Sorry, but I will seriously disagree. If you are talking about the transient fly-by-nighters who appear and disappear, then maybe few have college degrees. OTOH, the experienced and established providers often do (a few of my favorites have MBAs too). And then others have enough business experience that they can clearly best someone with their BA in Philosophy in terms of financial skills and customer service. Maybe we hang in different circles LOL[/QUOTE]

OK, I've got a question, anyone feel free to chime in and maybe Goddess you might have a little more insight. BDSM, I guess the look of it it is a turn on, a hot chick in the latex or the stuff trinity wore in the Matrix is bad ass to me. I mean some of the stuff looks crazy, but for the most part the ladies look amazing. But, the whole BDSM side is kind of intimidating. I mean I don't really feel like getting my ass kicked or stomped or etc. And over and over again you see these girls are advertising that they aren't escorts and don't offer any release. I mean is this true, guys are just going looking at these hot chicks and don 't get anything out of it in the end? I mean to each his own and if it works for those guys than fine, but that just isn't my cup of tea. Is there something in between? Like is that what sensual domination is? The look, the attitude, a little bit of domination if you will, but in the end it does lead to a. You know. This subject always just confuses me. Anyways just wondering what you guys know.

Thanks

You know what I like? Mechanics who ***** about how badly my car is broken when I bring it to them to fix it. When they quote me a price on what they are going to do and then refuse to do half of it and are rude about. I especially like it when they "pretend" to turn the wrench and then get frustrated when the bolt won't loosen.

Other things I enjoy is when after about 50 minutes of working on the car they get frustrated and just quit."Are you going to finish it?" I would ask, and the best answer they can give me?"Sure, but it's going to cost you more, I have other things to do like run errands."

I love how at the end of the day in this "me" society that even in the "service" industry it's all about "me" when it should be all about the "customer". And we wonder why so many companies are going out of business, and why businesses fail. You don't see businesses failing for this reason in some other countries.

I guess that's just the way it is. And that's why I have only a few select "businesses" that get all of my money. Because they treat me right and provide good service. Sure they may have their bad days but because they've always treated me with respect and earned their money, I have a mutual respect for them and accommodate. These business don't have to advertise everyday. They also don't have to have "GOING OUT OF BUSINESS" sales every few months only to mysteriously "not go out of business", or have a "grand reopening" only to have another "sale" after a few months because it's slow.

Just some observations. Flame on.