Convenience store- well put
[QUOTE=Croaker]At the club, you have to have a "convenience store" mentality. I show up, there are the girls, I may have to wait 20-30 min for my particular girl... but in that time, I'm watching women get nekkid on the stage. My girl stops by, we chat and then we head off to the VIP for a few dances. I'm such a regular, I can usually get my fun for 100 or less.
[...] She responded with, "Then why go to the strip clubs if you can get an hr for 150?" The answer is simple. For the hr with the escort, there is scheduling, setting up times, finding her place (if incall), having her find mine (if outcall) etc.... Usually a bit of a hassle. The hassle is worth it, but a hassle none-the-less. Now with the strip clubs, I simply show up and there are women there ready to go (instant gratification).[/QUOTE]Well stated, Croaker. I used to do incall escorts only, seeing strip clubs as a place to get "excited" and that's all. Once I found Rick's daytime, that changed- and in the aftermath of the busts, going back to the drama-filled boards it seems much harder to just find a simple BBBJ provider who's reasonably attractive. Rick's certainly made it easy: you could get lower mileage dances from some really good looking women, and higher mileage dances from also good looking women (I tended to be picky) with the ability to see them in the flesh without committing to anything, and seeing if there's an instant connection or grating quality. With providers. You never quite know if the pictures are accurate or valid, etc.
Yes, you can't necessarily be as liberal, and yes it can be pricier per minute. But you can't beat the convenience; when I'd dance with some of my regulars, I'd have a flat rate, no dance counting, and we'd usually get HJ/BJ, sometimes FS. The flat rate was less than an hour with an escort but probably only 30 minutes of time, with the convenience of going when you're in the mood and getting more in the mood watching the stage shows or glancing sideways into the VIP area and seeing dancers bounce like pogo sticks.
I'd like to see some of the more liberal Rick's/Honey's girls find a safe haven among this board, or TRB/TNA, etc, so long as they understand the economics of what you're describing. If they're attractive, and don't mind higher mileage, they can easily get 10 appointments a week at the usual rates, with no rent to the Franks or tips to DJs, etc. Hell, I'd pay Sharise or Ruby or Arianna $200/250 in a heartbeat to spend an hour at my place with no aisle monitors or cumstained coaches.
escorts, strippers, it's all fun
I still see escorts, some of them are damn fine. Coyo Tea on TNA is a hell of good time for 140/hr!! And she's a total geek too, so I'm in heaven when I get to spend time with her. But sometimes our schedules don't sync and I have to wait for another day. This is all part of the process of seeing an escort.
Strippers are always there and when you go enough (and yes, spend a lot of money) you learn who gives the good dances. After a while, you have the ones you really like and you know their schedule. Sometimes the really good dancers will help point out other dancers who have similar boundaries as they do. This is valuable intel :)
One thing that can happen with dancers (that I've never had happen with an escort) is free time. I've taken over a dozen dancers out for dinner or a movie and actually wound up back at my place for some fun (for those that need it spelled out, yes we had sex... always SAFE though and no money exchanged hands). Now, I'm no "Brad Pitt" or "George Clooney". I'm your average 30 something with a bit of a gut and more hair on my back than on my head (I know.. eeeew!!). I'm just saying that sometimes with escorts you are paying for companionship (as well as sex) but all you get is sex. With some dancers, you can sometimes get companionship without spending a dime on them in the club.
I'm sorry, I got sidetracked and started to ramble... basically, my theory on strip clubs vs. escorts is a few posts down. In the Clubs you pay a premium per hr for the girls to be there waiting for you to show up. With escorts, you get more "bang for your buck" (hehe, I just wanted to use that saying) on an hourly basis, but sometimes you have to wait days to get the escort you want. I've had nights where I called five or six escorts and none of them had time that evening to see me. I then have to sometimes wait days to "get some relief" that wasn't my right hand.
Some guys like the clubs, some like escorts, some prefer only street action. To each, their own.
I'm just going to enjoy the women no matter where I meet them.
A sour taste of "Sugar's" !!!!!!!
Went to Sugar's last night. They had a $100 prize nude dance contest featuring the waitresses. Two of whom were Fat & Fugly. One was 35, with more tatoos than a biker (even though bikers are kool). The winner, had no-ass,but was the smallest of the 4 contestants.
Also, I was approached by some of the girlz who kept asking me if I wanted a private dance. Logic would clearly dictate that: The ladyz weren't that eager to dance for little old me! They should have just came out & said "I just want your $20 bucks buddy, and no, you can't grab my ass,my breasts or my rub my legs. And when you run out of money, get the hell out of here"!
The Stripper movie of the month
Ta da.........it's:
"Dancing at the Blue Iguana".