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You took one to your house? Not concerned a neighbor would see?

[QUOTE=Bob521;2994098]I've never had an issue with questions. I wear my wedding ring. I tell them my name and contact information. Even business card. I even took my friend to my house for a couple minutes because I had to retrieve something I forgot. In other words, for people I care about, I leave myself completely vulnerable. It's a judgement call about the character of the person you are with. So of course plenty of people I would not share vital information. The flip side, is they leave themselves completely vulnerable to me. I know their real full names and where they are from. All family details. They place their trust in me and I place my trust in them. We travel places together. Cook together. The net result is an actual relationship rather than a business arrangement. HAving said that, there are plenty of people I would never trust. But frankly, those are the ones I'm not interested in. Bob.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DMichaels69;2994350]You took one to your house? Not concerned a neighbor would see?[/QUOTE]

Drove quickly into the garage. Houses are far apart. But I agree, from my long list of foolish risk taking behavior, that one is near the top of the list.

[QUOTE=SamSpade;2993963]Open question, looking for answers.

Over the years, I've occasionally gotten providers who want to know all about you, including that killer, Are you married? I really hate that. No good answer to that question. She wants to know what I do for a living? Fine. What am I doing after the massage? No problem. Are you married? Why the hell would they ask that?

A few weeks ago I got a provider at a local spa who didn't know me. She asks all those questions, including the killer. Then she showed me a pretty good time, I must admit. A few days ago I went back and got her again. The session was a lot quieter this time, but on the flip, we discuss what I want, with me standing completely at attention? "You're married, right?" Are they expecting me to propose?[/QUOTE]I have had a few providers at AMPs who were open to playing outside until they found out I was married. It could be something as simple as that. Some may just want to get to know their regulars to become more comfortable with them. I do not freak out when the lady that cuts my hair asks those same questions.

I think wearing the wedding ring works in my favor. They know immediately, where they stand. So if they want to see you, there are no expectations other than friendship. I know are a few people that will not date a married guy, but probably just as many that will. Bob.

[QUOTE=E6671;2994789]I have had a few providers at AMPs who were open to playing outside until they found out I was married. It could be something as simple as that. Some may just want to get to know their regulars to become more comfortable with them. I do not freak out when the lady that cuts my hair asks those same questions.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SamSpade;2993963]Open question, looking for answers.

Over the years, I've occasionally gotten providers who want to know all about you, including that killer, Are you married? I really hate that. No good answer to that question. She wants to know what I do for a living? Fine. What am I doing after the massage? No problem. Are you married? Why the hell would they ask that?

A few weeks ago I got a provider at a local spa who didn't know me. She asks all those questions, including the killer. Then she showed me a pretty good time, I must admit. A few days ago I went back and got her again. The session was a lot quieter this time, but on the flip, we discuss what I want, with me standing completely at attention? "You're married, right?" Are they expecting me to propose?[/QUOTE]I have an atf that is going on an extended vacation soon. So I'm pretty sure I won't be seeing her again. I haven't worn my ring in the times I've seen her. The actual reason is that I gained too much weight to wear it. I do have a temporary "fatfinger wedding band" I was thinking of wearing it the last time I see her just to see if I get any different treatment or reaction out of her.

[QUOTE=SamSpade;2993963]Open question, looking for answers.

Over the years, I've occasionally gotten providers who want to know all about you, including that killer, Are you married? I really hate that. No good answer to that question. She wants to know what I do for a living? Fine. What am I doing after the massage? No problem. Are you married? Why the hell would they ask that?

A few weeks ago I got a provider at a local spa who didn't know me. She asks all those questions, including the killer. Then she showed me a pretty good time, I must admit. A few days ago I went back and got her again. The session was a lot quieter this time, but on the flip, we discuss what I want, with me standing completely at attention? "You're married, right?" Are they expecting me to propose?[/QUOTE]One girl went one step further and asked 'Why are you coming to me when you have her?' And immediately answered her own question 'probably she does not do what you want and you get that from me'. I wanted to say every pussy is different but I simply nodded my head.

Used to travel to St Louis a lot. Heard she may have changed names after some trouble with a pirate in G B and.

Has anyone used the agency Chicago Escorts Club? The providers look great but can not find any information regarding the agency or the girls.

[QUOTE=Mrkptr;3014074]Has anyone used the agency Chicago Escorts Club? The providers look great but can not find any information regarding the agency or the girls.[/QUOTE]If you Goggle Chicago Escorts, you will find a plethora (Big word for me!) of escorts. I'm sure the ones you're looking for are there.

Happy Hunting. Bang one for Mr Stinky. .

[QUOTE=SamSpade;2952801]If you've ever been to an AMP or an EMP, you know how annoying it is for the MT to get you all worked up and then stop to ask "How much you give me?" What's worse is if they make you get up to get the the donation out of your pants, count it out, run to another room to put it away and come back 5 minutes later. I much prefer it when the MT simply does the HJ with a smile on her face, lets you roam, and accepts the tip you leave her gracefully as you leave. I also think the later way is safer from LEO, since no exchange is discussed. Sure there's the chance that the girl will get stiffed by the cheap skate, but it is better than getting busted, right?

So over the weekend I visited a new AMP in the northwest burbs that I'd heard some good things about. I go in, and am greeted by a tall, middle aged Korean woman, but with a gut like a beach ball. Going by the said mentioned reports, I decide to stick it out. She tells me to put it back in. No, just kidding. She gives the table shower, but doesn't spend too much time on the butt crack or the junk, so I figure she's not sure about me. I make small talk about the shower and the massage to indicate that I've been to lots of AMPs over the years. Things start to warm up on the massage. She has me turn over and begins a chest and shoulder massage that leaves her boobs right in my face, contact. So, although I am not turned on by her body at all, I figure if I keep my eyes closed it might be OK. I reach up and over and start stroking her legs and butt. She smiles and mumbles a question that is neither English nor Korean. Again, protecting herself by NOT initiating any discussion. Take the next step, I indicate her mouth, my dick. She smiles and leaves the room, I suppose for a cover.

Two minutes later a much nicer looking Korean woman comes in, makes introductions, and just dropping clothes, shoving her tits in my face, reaching down and stroking Big Jim. She gets on the table, puts the cover on with her mouth and gets to work. At this point, no discussion of money, not even a "You tip me good?" Nope, just to work. After five minutes of the covered BJ, I tell her I changed my mind and want it all. Three positions later we're all done. Clean up, more massage. She offers me a second shot. I thought she was joking, but she was serious. Sadly, this old man is spent. She helps me get dressed, gives me water, even lets me suck her tits for another minute. I reach for my wallet and she turns away, not looking. I got the standard donation for FS and try to hand it to her. She asks me to put it on the table, please. So I do so, and she walks me out the door. She says bye, big woman says bye. I say bye, promising to be back (I will). But she still has no clue as to what I left.

My point. While I've gotten plenty of handies from new spas and MTs that didn't know me, without discussing donation, I've never gotten a BJ, or even expect to get FS, without at least agreeing on the price. That seems a long way to go on trust. I pointed out that I made it clear I was an experienced spa goer. But still, FS?

Now there is nothing that happened that could get the girls busted, I think. Money was not discussed at all after I paid the door fee. Am I wrong? Did I miss something? I'm thinking they were willing to go this far for someone who wasn't acting like a dick, initiated action, and had experience all on the expectation that I would pay and they would not be caught asking sex for money.[/QUOTE]It happened to me again. Went to a different AMP in the NW burbs, one I hadn't been to in a couple of years because the prices had gone up. But I had nothing better going, so I figured I'd let lose with some cash. During the table shower the girl, very nice looking, could see that I was an experienced spa goer, and I certainly gave all the signs of being one. During the massage she starts strong, then I hear some rustling sounds, and then she climbs on the table and lies down on top of me, grinding and tickling. I express my enjoyment. Then it occurred to me, she's naked. My hands go up to confirm. Yep, buck naked. I reach, take, fondle. You get the picture. Out comes a cover. There was no negotiations. She didn't even ask me what I wanted. I got it all, and not a word was spoken about a price.

On the way out we're all nice and friendly and I leave her the standard for the services rendered. She's happy. I'm very happy. Yes, I'll see her again.

Point being, no chance either of us could be busted for the exchange. If I care to give her money afterwards, that's just me being a nice guy. But it takes a bit of trust on the girls part, to know I'm not going to stiff her on the tip.

Does anyone have any massage or escort contacts in the town of Galena? I have not been able to find either. I would appreciate any intel if you have it.

It seems like there is a concerted effort to stop "trafficking". Easy busts and claims of busting criminals. The Northern suburbs seem to be a major target of the authorities.

Today there is this:

[URL]http://abcnews.go.com/Technology/wireStory/backpage-raided-ceo-arrested-texas-42630540[/URL]

Backpages executives arrested for sex trafficking.

Do massage parlors give out candy on Halloween? I'd go find out for myself but I'm busy handing out candy.

We give out candy every day. I bought extra in case little goblins came by. No little kids came. So now I have to eat it. LOL. Halloween, I guess is not really celebrated in China (as far as I know). It's technically a Christian holiday. Bob.

[QUOTE=SamSpade;3132940]Do massage parlors give out candy on Halloween? I'd go find out for myself but I'm busy handing out candy.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Bob521;3133315]We give out candy every day. I bought extra in case little goblins came by. No little kids came. So now I have to eat it. LOL. Halloween, I guess is not really celebrated in China (as far as I know). It's technically a Christian holiday. Bob.[/QUOTE]Hope you enjoy eating as much as you can. Hope she likes it too.