Your honor, I rest my case.
You need to read more and post less, Ray.
Your argument(s) with me have been uninformed, poorly worded/thought out, non-sensical and for the most part naive.
What makes you think you even have to answer a noobs/any PM?
Or every other post on all MA/RI boards?
And there's only not outing or outing a PM; you did the latter (and criticized him) after being chastised/modded by Jackson (so ND53 tells us) for just such an infraction.
When and how you did it are irrelevant.
Naivete' in this thing of ours can be a dangerous thing on multiple levels for both hobbyists and providers.
Since you've posted your open relationship with your wife, maybe you can ask Mrs Ray to proof read your future posts prior to submitting them.
[QUOTE=HappyDave]I am not knocking the guy, just not into sitting down and typing it all. Actually when the pm came in I was on a mini lap top and was no way into a long type session. BTW is is all on the site for a good reading as we know.
I am here for fun and wish no one ill.
And BTW I did not post his pm just stated I received one that almost matched the already done post that I replied to. Very different.[/QUOTE]
I can't make up my mind...
So, I will open up the decision to y'all...
I have a hundred bucks from a poker game in my pocket, and a few hours this afternoon. Any suggestions for a TOFTT today? I could go to my regular spots, but I'm feeling a little adventurous.
Only condition is I'm not going near downtown Boston, so that includes quincy and braintree, etc. Also, I'm not looking for FS really, since I am hoping to stay within the jackson.
As you all know, I will post a detailed review here, so let me know if there's a place that we need more intel on! As long as I get a decent massage, I'll be glad to try anywhere!
JP
Marlboro (marlborough!) AMP
Hi gang
First time poster, long time reader/lurker.
I was in the Marlboro vicinity and remembered reading about the place CL advertises. I had a wonderful time here.. 60+. 30 full hour.
Younger girl (she said 26). I thought she was pretty. She is very muscular, I found out from yoga. She allowed some leg/rump roaming, and I did not press for anything else. I just wanted the massage and finish.
Great massage asked for medium, upped it to hard. There was not a whole lot of teasing or hints but I was okay that day with a good thorough massage. I was sure to indicate when something felt good.
I offered lots of small talk to her questions to make her secure. Left with a big, big smile. Her technique was awesome.
There is a STEEP hill when you make the turn into their lot. Its on the corner of two roads. Would not want to deal with that sucker in the snow or ice!
Thanks all
Update on Suzie's, marlboro(ugh)
In the past I've indicated that only Suzie herself was worthwhile, now changing tune. Went there on short notice the other day, Suzie and one other girl working. Asked for Suzie, got ready, good massage as expected.
On the flip, was surprised to see the other girl. The massage and tease were just like Suzie's and the ending was just as good too. I guess Suzie's training the help.
Anyhow, the new girl's name is Vivian, short, not skinny but not fat, maybe Korean. Her english wasn't so good, but she tried, and had a very good attitude. Would repeat.
Waltham Wellness - new review
Visited the place this morning. No sign on outside for them but a large sign for acupuncture place on first floor. Enter red door with 905 over it (address is 905 Main Street). Ring bell and climb flight of stairs.
Was greeted by Lilly or Lei Lei. Short, small, very pretty and very friendly. Led me to room, collected fee, said to undress. Came back to room, we hugged. Asked for soft massage, she has a great feather touch almost tickled. Some great teasing. At flip. Got off table, hugged and kissed, visited mountains and valley. Massage resumed, nice HE, very good clean up, resumed massage on front. When done, brought me water and helped me dress.
House 60, tip 60, she seemed pleased. I will return.
Thanks for the welcome PM's and board comments
I am sorry if I seemed like I was asking for too much info, right out of the box.
Will provide reviews before I ask for more.
Be safe,
GG
Jasmine Revisited, In Waltham
Did not see where anyone had a post on this place in awhile, only WW recently. So I figured this was a good starting point for a post.
Visited as a walk-in in the early evening for a change. I was directed to the very front room, the one with a regular door when I entered. I never even noticed this room on prior visits. I was told to wait there for "5", and given a bottle of water. I do not know if that was to protect me from being seen by you guys, or whether that was to protect you from being seen by me. I read an April magazine that was in the room. Something was odd about the articles. When I looked closer at the cover, it was from April 2009 not 2010.
When it was my turn, I was escorted to one of the middle rooms with the louver doors. I requested a hard massage, and she delivered. She kept up the pressure throughout. I was not interested in pushing the envelope, but, was allowed sufficient roams outside the clothes. I did not try for more. She had me writhing on the table as she worked around all the right places. Before being turned over, she gave my entire backside a hot towel wipedown.
After turning over I was massaged more, then brought to an elevated level of happiness. I enjoyed the technique of continuing to be milked long after the dam burst. At that 45 minute mark, I was given another hot towel rubdown. Although I heard the microwave work, the towels were still a bit cold. Instead of being dismissed at that point, Angel proceeded with an over the top head and face massage until the hour was fulfilled. With a wrapup can of pineapple juice, I was contently on my way out the door.
When I was at this place before there was a lot of Kenny G. This time, it was all soft Asian music. Plus, there was a lot of sound and song from the attached Spanish church (it was 1 of the 2 nights a week she said). The place was cleaner than the last time I was there.
Angle was big on smile and hugs, but short on looks; repeatable servicing.
Damages:. 6 house and. 4 provider
Service and Technique: 7
Gianna at Spa B - 2 stories
Off a recommendation from another board, called Spa be back in January, looking for Chrissie (the girl he had seen in November, 2009). Was told she no longer worked there. Asked if there was someone who could give a massage LIKE Chrissie, and was told to see Gianna. Booked an appointment for later in the day. Showed up, met Gianna, taken to the room. Good solid head-to-toe massage. Started in on the teasing at the 45 minute mark, flipped, started in on the HE. She lifted up her top and pulled down her shorts, for easier access. Great finish. Went with the single house fee =. 8, then tip =. 8
Went back in March, no appointment, asked for Gianna. She was available and recognized me. Same great massage, same teasing, flip. But this time she was A LOT more affectionate. Took all her clothes off, LFK, climbed on the table, allowed digits inside. Said" I know what I want to do now". I said, "nothing's happening w/o a cover". She produced one, climbed on for CG, until finish. Never talked about a price, I never asked for FS, she just wanted to do it. May have been horny, comfortable with me. Who knows. Same house fee =. 8, tip = 1. 2 (my decision)
Overall (even w/o FS):
Appearance = 6
Attitude = 8/9
Performance = 8/9 (for HE. Again not versus FS)
Be safe,
GG
Now why couldn't I have said that!
[QUOTE=Phuqued]Providers are people, too, and people should be treated kindly, in my opinion.
There are various reasons that providers get involved in this business, and there are various reasons that we get involved in this "hobby".
Friendship often involves a level of trust. Friendship also involves some emotional connection. Sexual activity often causes an emotional response, especially when someone is lonely, and sexual activity can be confused for love. Regardless, if there isn't any mutuality, there isn't any friendship. If the hobbiest is doing all the giving, and the provider is doing all the taking, there isn't any mutuality.
Regarding trust, only trust people that are trustworthy. Trust must be earned. It takes a long time to learn whether or not a person is trustworthy. Trustworthiness is also relative; no one is completely trustworthy.
Regarding a relationship with a provider, you must be very enthusiastic and very supportive that she enjoys sex and needs sex with a lot of different people and that sex with a lot of different people is the most important or one of the most important things in her life. As in any relationship, mutual support is essential. If you try to change her, the relationship is doomed. If you want to change her, you didn't really love her. If you want to change her, and you enter a relationship with her, you are a selfish bastard and should be ashamed.
Be sane out there.
Just my $0.02.[/QUOTE]
Well said P...it went to my point...although I went the long way. In the several instances of people I knew who started a 'relationship' with a provider the ones that failed did so because of jealousy or because they tried to change each other. The couple that I know that are still going on worked because they didn't try to change..and interestingly enough the change they each wanted (ie out of the hobby) happened naturally as a progression of the relationship. The one I had years ago ended when she moved to the west coast to be with her family. Mine was here and hers was there.
And yes trust should be earned but I have found that there are many ways to earn it. Often when we are taking the chance to see someone we haven't seen before we are taking the chance on her (and her on him) due to the intangibles of postings made by him/her, texts and phone calls between them and 'reviews' made by people we have somewhat of a 'trust' in. Of course 'that' level of trust is earned by postings. There are certain gents on this forum who I explicity 'trust' and will see someone they have recommended without any further research and some who i will do extra checking before I take the plunge...and of course......
Anyway enough philosophy for today (sickening huh...god I gotta get me some)...I see the sun is out...it is warming up...the grass is green and growing....so I have to go find some lawns to mow....(all kinds BTW :) )....I'm coming Deana.....I promise.........(inside joke don't ask...) Be safe...be good....and be happy...SO
Strikes 1, 2, & 3... (TOFTT)
As I posted last Friday, I was trying to find somewhere to try out on Saturday... thanks for your suggestions - I'm still going to try some of them. Long story short, I called a couple places (one in Newton, then Stoneham since it was on the way to where I had to go), and neither had openings. So, alas, I struck out twice on Saturday and ran out of time.
Which is why I didn't post any report... until now -
Was in the area, so decided to TOFTT at Red Azalea in West Newton today.
Wayback asked for intel (see below), and here it is:
The place is brand new, and is located right on Washington St, just a few steps outside of West Newton Square. The drawback is that the entrance is not only facing the street, but when I was waiting at the light to turn onto Washington St. from Chestnut St, the AMP was perfectly centered in my windshield... so if you don't like people seeing you walk into a curtained massage place with the stereotypical neon signs in the windows, you won't like going here.
Of course, you would be doing nothing wrong by going in, since this place is totally legit. If there are extras to be had, they hid it very very well (or are they waiting to be more established?). I would like to think that I'm pretty good at judging these things - and when you read the rest of this, I think you will agree that it wasn't just me giving off the wrong vibe, etc...
I had called ahead, and a chinese guy answered (bad sign). After checking with someone out of earshot, he told me to come on by. When I got there, was greeted by him, a younger woman who looked unhappy and business-like, and the massuese - a very friendly gal who was easily into her 40's, if not 50's.
They asked how long I wanted, and it was .6 for an hour. She did say somewhat abruptly "pay first" but I think it was just the language barrier.
They appear to have a couple of rooms that were recently constructed. I also noticed a massage table right in the front, behind a few folding screens but not at all out-of-view! Wow - hope they're never so busy that they have to use that area! There was a desk and some recliners - possibly massage chairs for clients. I also noticed 3 licenses framed on the wall - so they must have at least a couple other providers (or the man is also licensed).
The room may as well have been made of paper. Although the walls were real and went all the way up, there were windows (not to outside, but to the lobby) to allow some natural light (yes, with curtains), and not only could I hear every cough, hiccup, and footstep from the "papa-san" out front, but I'm sure it would work the other way around too. She asked me if it was my first time - but that is a pretty silly question since they clearly just opened within the past week or two, I'd say! I didn't even bother trying to lie - I told her I'd seen them on CL.
Although I did try laying face-down undraped, as soon as she came back, she covered me head-to-toe (with a clean towel), and she performed the first 10-15 mins like that. She did ask if I wanted hard, to which I said yes - but in my book this would qualify as a medium massage.
When the towel was lowered, she did start to use the oil (a little heavier than I prefer). Although my buttocks were partially exposed, she was always very careful to keep me from being totally naked. Also, when she rubbed below my waist, it was always with her forearms or elbows, never touching my butt with her hands.
She carefully rearranged the towel when she got down to my legs, only exposing a partial hip for each side. All of this, plus the thought of how the occupants of the front area *wouldn't* hear any extracurricular activities through the room wall/windows convinced me that it was totally pointless to even try signalling or asking for the HE. And although I probably could have rubbed her leg or thigh a few times when she was at the head of the table, I wasn't interested in doing so because of her age and the whole aura of legitimacy in there.
On the plus side, she gave a decent medium massage - I was hoping for something more deep-tissue - but it was extremely relaxing nonetheless. Her hands were strong and coarse, showing signs of experience, and the massage covered the entire back, plus a very nice head/scalp/face massage at the end. She used 2 hot towels to wipe the oil from my back, and then there was a "flip" but still totally covered. The timer went off right after the flip, but she continued for a few minutes. I'm pretty sure she had set it for :55 anyways.
Oh, that reminds me - the meters on that part of Washington St are 1-hour limit, so I was a little worried about getting a ticket (yes, mine was just expired when I got out), but I think the police aren't vultures up there, especially during rush hour (<6pm).
All-in-all, I was hoping to find the next hidden gem and get some "release" today, so I would call this a strike-out. On my way home from Newton, I had to literally drive right past WW, and thought about stopping in so Jessica or one of her disciples could finish the job, but had no time, and not enough cash. Will probably have to take care of the urge soon, though - and you can bet it will be with a "sure thing"...
After I got dressed and exited the massage room, I looked up to see not just my massuese, papa, and unkown businesslady, but there was also some random older guy (who I couldn't look at carefully, but may have been caucasian) and another woman near the back of the place. They didn't appear to be customers, so I'm wondering if they were investors? Either way, I don't know when they arrived, but they too would certainly have been treated to any sound effects from within my room had the activities progressed beyond the massage.
I'm sorry, but I never bothered to ask my provider's name - I won't be repeating at this place since I can get a better legit massage at several other locations. And you know all about getting a good massage plus extras...
She offered me some water in a tiny dixie cup - and I felt like all 10 eyes were watching me drink it there in the lobby! Way to make me feel uncomfortable right after the relaxing massage, guys! I had debated inside my head how much to tip her, and was very glad that I had some loose bills so I could tip .15 (I figure 25% for a passable massage with no extras is fair). Had I given the .2 that I was thinking about, I would be kicking myself over the five bucks right now.
So, gents - hope this helps. If anyone wants to do a follow-up in a week or two, feel free. Who knows? Maybe they are waiting for repeats before bringing out the young guns and/or full menu - but I kinda doubt it. Frankly, even if she had offered some post-flip extras, I don't think I would have accepted. Not because of her looks or age - but because of the lack of soundproofing in the place!
Strike three - WW here I come!
JP
PS: in case the other links expire: [url]http://boston.craigslist.org/gbs/thp/1702609584.html[/url]
Also, they state "special rates" in their ad... does this mean they're planning to raise them after the grand opening period is over?
[QUOTE=Wayback]...on these places in West Newton:
[url]http://boston.craigslist.org/gbs/thp/1697824605.html[/url]
and Needham:
[url]http://boston.craigslist.org/bmw/thp/1697778821.html[/url][/QUOTE]