[QUOTE=Reaper302;2032493]Gentlemen, At the risk of making enemies I have to post this. Jamie is still going to be taking her bookings thru the same person. She is still an independent in the sense that all this person does is set up the appt. It is not an agency per say. I myself have known and dealt with her "booker" for about 3 years. I have become friends and she is really sorry any of this happened. Now before anybody thinks she called me, I called her to talk. She usually does not get upset about things but she does feel bad that this happened. Nobody's perfect and crap happens. She has been doing this for quite a few girls in the area for a while. With no problems. I don't see where we should let one incident be the end of everything. She actually does know the area and grew up here. I know some people can't live and forget but mistakes happen. Anybody has any? You can PM and I will answer any questions. BE safe, have fun.[/QUOTE]I had a chat with Reaper302 this afternoon and when it was over I told him I didn't think I would be able to get past this situation. It was more than generous of him to reach out to the ladies and even MORE so, to reach out to me. So thank you very much for that.
I have been giving this whole situation a great deal of thought and I have been very conflicted about everything. I wasn't happy with the way it all went down and I am even more unhappy with the way it has continued to spiral out of control. I do my best to report the facts, figures, and financials of who I find myself with. I really have a strict set of rules regarding how I do business and how I report about it. While I had NO intention of hurting these ladies, the fact remains that perhaps I was or have been a bit shortsighted.
In my hubris, I failed to give them a chance to make good on a bad situation. I cannot explain why, only what was. They reached out to me after the whole thing went bad...perhaps in a way that was ill-conceived...but also to a member who knows me personally, SO that aside...reached out and wanted to make good. I decided the least I could do was talk to her (phone handler) directly instead of this whole 'ex parte' dynamic. I spoke to her tonight for at least a half an hour and she was more than apologetic about the whole thing. We were able to clear the air a bit and reach an accord that I think will work for us. She offered me many things to make up for the difficulty and I may or may not take them up on it ;) .
I DO know that I will see Jamie in the near future and we can all put this behind us.
Let this be the last word on this. PM if need be, but lets put this to rest.
Peace.
PK.
