It's easy to see why PA does so well with the ladies!
[QUOTE=PilotAviator;6632981]There are many ladies that DO CARE. They care to be treated with respect and at the minimum social kindness. Some even care about the human who is the monger.
Yes. They all care about the money too -- but so does every other "small business" man or woman.
So, respectfully, I disagree with your "honest statement. ".
PA.[/QUOTE]When I first read PapiKulo's argument I was torn both ways. There is some truth to what he says but I think maybe he could have elaborated somewhat more from the gals' perspective. Listen if you visit a provider and she dishes out a plate of goodies worth $1. 5 and you only pay her. 50 then she has all the right in the world not to see you again and conversely, if you are throwing $2. 0 at her and you have poor hygiene, a bad attitude and are constantly sticking or prodding the poor girl with your thick fingers; I would say she has every right to avoid you in the future. This is a business, but the gals are woman and woman like to be treated like ladies; they prefer gentleman, that is the bottom line.
This is a YMMV hobby, and it may take a while to find the right girl, but they are out there. Yes, yes, and double yes, I have a new ATF! I have been visiting Cherri at MAY WELLNESS, for some time. I have written about her just recently, but I thought I would add some more to the mix. This gal treats me like a King even from our first date, without ever asking me how much I would pay. She always tells me that I treat her with respect and that I am a gentleman. Now if you read between the lines; she may be saying that many out there are not. She is very comfortable with me as I am with her and I am more than twice her age, but there are boundaries that can't be crossed with this one, (I keep trying anyway) and you must respect that. Anyhow she is a my new "All-time favorite" but only the "LITE" version. I couldn't be happier.
If you decide to see her just keep this in mind and be respectful. Believe me, you don't want to get on the wrong side of Nicole.
Gentleman always do better with the ladies.
Regards.
PJ.
Disappointing service is not theft
[QUOTE=PuntaJaco43;6633261]When I first read PapiKulo's argument I was torn both ways. There is some truth to what he says but I think maybe he could have elaborated somewhat more from the gals' perspective. Listen if you visit a provider and she dishes out a plate of goodies worth $1. 5 and you only pay her. 50 then she has all the right in the world not to see you again and conversely, if you are throwing $2. 0 at her and you have poor hygiene, a bad attitude and are constantly sticking or prodding the poor girl with your thick fingers; I would say she has every right to avoid you in the future. This is a business, but the gals are woman and woman like to be treated like ladies; they prefer gentleman, that is the bottom line.
This is a YMMV hobby, and it may take a while to find the right girl, but they are out there. Yes, yes, and double yes, I have a new ATF! I have been visiting Cherri at MAY WELLNESS, for some time. I have written about her just recently, but I thought I would add some more to the mix. This gal treats me like a King even from our first date, without ever asking me how much I would pay. She always tells me that I treat her with respect and that I am a gentleman. Now if you read between the lines; she may be saying that many out there are not. She is very comfortable with me as I am with her and I am more than twice her age, but there are boundaries that can't be crossed with this one, (I keep trying anyway) and you must respect that. Anyhow she is a my new "All-time favorite" but only the "LITE" version. I couldn't be happier..[/QUOTE]Getting service that you perceive as subpar is not theft on her part.
We all have to remember that participating in this hobby (at least in Va) is illegal. If you jerk off into a massage oil bottle at a legit spa they can call the cops on you. Likewise if you short a provider on agreed to funds after the act she won't call the cops on you, but you are still being an ass.
The only recourse you should follow is to take your business elsewhere and report your experience here. I have learned that about half the providers I have seen to be very accommodating and about the other half are there to take your money. Some on here recently acquitted this to provider age but I have seen good and bad with old and young.
Surprising, in Asia, rarely had a provider that wouldn't perform every sex act I requested with enthusiasm and without complaints. Maybe Thai, Viet, Panoy, Cambodian, Orang, Lao girls over there are happy with their chosen profession.
Even providers over here can change with time. I have a favorite that I saw just this morning. When I arrived she asked me to drive her to a Chinese supermarket to pick up some things and when we returned she was really not into the BBFS as before. After the deed she asked me for 20 more than usual to which I said no and just paid her the 120 I had before. Don't think she will be on my short list any longer.
Be polite and respectful. If they are not in return they find a new place.
The value of the forum, again
I never thought posting a simple review on a Sunday afternoon would have provoked such a reaction. However, the reaction again demonstrates the value of this forum. A couple of mongers admitted to engaging in unseemly behavior, even by monger standards, and got called out for it. I hope they learned a valuable lesson. That should teach the rest of us to be more careful with our behavior.
None of us are paragons of virtue. Otherwise we wouldn't be mongers. Treating the ladies properly, even if they perform poorly or don't give us our money's worth, is nevertheless important. So is not acting in such a way that we're creating health hazards for providers or future customers. Or, even worse, attracting the wrong kind of attention from the health department and/or our least favorite uncle.
And now, back to your regularly scheduled thread.
This turnaround might be heaven to some.
Was in the neighborhood of Best Therapy in Chantilly and stopped in to visit a old friend of maybe 13 years, Lucy Lu. Turns out she has 3 new gals there that I met and had the pleasure of one.
The interesting thing is that 2 of the girls are Vietnamese (SP) from California. Both, IMHO, are young vivacious girls that are good looking, tall and thin with great assets. They are up for fun if you bring good money. Names are Jenny and Coco. (I know there are a million Coco's). Jenny was up and I had an hour in Heaven. I plan to return to visit Coco next. Hot numbers! Both!
Jenny speaks English and Coco no. Funny thing is neither speak Korean, like the manager does. So English is the common language in a Korean spa!
The third gal is a classy Hispanic, Jasmine. She speaks perfect English, as she grew up in the US, and is fun to talk to. She is round all over with big boobs and big buns. If that is your style. All 3 have gotten great feedback frm what I saw on mmsn's phone, thanking her for the "massages".
I always get a nice reception as I am nice to the ladies and tip well. Turns out they finally have got some first class gals, so treat them right. The 2 Vietnamese girls go back to CA 11/10 but. Plan to come back again in a few weeks.
Enjoy as I did.
DC.
