Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=PaulRew;5883546]Chances are not slim but none. As they should be. The OP ponied up the steep entry fee and put in countless hours to find his unicorn, good for him.[/QUOTE]Also, if I told my SB I wanted to pimp her out to random guys on the internet I would never hear from her again.

[QUOTE=Discretion23;5884402][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/77b42b5a-d22b-4fae-9598-72e3e539b6a2[/URL][/QUOTE]That's jade from Exeter NH. Mom pimp's her out. Both are hard core junkies. Pussy stinks. Let's dudes raw dog her. $250? LMAO.

[QUOTE=Partimer109;5883989][URL]https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/mmjsqw/secretbenefitscom_total_scam/[/URL][/QUOTE]I have been able to pull a few girls from SB but have had better success with SA. I agree there are plenty of scammers or content sellers but one just needs to recognize the red flags for these and bail out as soon as they show. Also prepaying is just a absolute no go. Many continue to attempt faith but eventually they all learn. I gave up on the STG escorts types a long time ago in search of a different type of encounter and girl. Yeah it does cost more and requires more effort but I have not been disappointed with who I end up actually meeting up with. The majority of the girls are always multiple repeats or long term arrangements. This particular girl was great and typically I would not have shared the results until I had moved on but I am looking for a different body type. I'm not a begger so I can be choosy. LOL.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f48ab3ac-9041-43f5-a670-3133b4607a3e[/URL]

Anybody have 411 on this beauty please private inbox me.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/754c1906-b724-47cb-9dbe-72158291461f[/URL]

I met with this one a few times in Manchester during the Winter, a young gymnast type body to die for, clean, fun and like sex, dfk, BBBJ. Unfortunately did not allow bare nor anal, so I did not make it a long term arrangement for 400 each meet. If you can have her bare she's definitely fun. And worth it.

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[QUOTE=BostonJones;5884496]Glad you had success! She's left my message unread for over a week, I'm guessing she's filtering by age (I'm in my mid-50's and my profile states that) so for those that want to enjoy her company, be aware if you're an old f**k like me, you might get ignored.[/QUOTE]Her mom created the profile. Her mom has control of the phone Mandy loves candy does not even touch her phone at all. And trust me her mother doesn't care who she fucks. Her mother just wants money to get drugs. So she probably got a lot of messages. But she's fucks 70 year old dudes. I know an 80 year old guy that used to f* her all the time.

[QUOTE=Joe1223;5884760]I have been able to pull a few girls from SB but have had better success with SA. I agree there are plenty of scammers or content sellers but one just needs to recognize the red flags for these and bail out as soon as they show. Also prepaying is just a absolute no go. Many continue to attempt faith but eventually they all learn. I gave up on the STG escorts types a long time ago in search of a different type of encounter and girl. Yeah it does cost more and requires more effort but I have not been disappointed with who I end up actually meeting up with. The majority of the girls are always multiple repeats or long term arrangements. This particular girl was great and typically I would not have shared the results until I had moved on but I am looking for a different body type. I'm not a begger so I can be choosy. LOL.[/QUOTE]I've actually had better success on SB than SA, but that's a byproduct of location as much as anything. Some areas are better for one than the other. The other thing that can help on SB is that if you position yourself as a genuine SD, you'll be beating them off with sticks. LOL.

[QUOTE=SalamanderFour;5884173]Thanks for the link to the review of the site. I agree, Sec Benef and Seek Arrang are designed to suck your wallet dry. Maybe after all the $ you get success, maybe not, but you're still out cash. Meeting a sugar baby shouldn't be rocket science, but oddly it's surprisingly hard.[/QUOTE]There's another guy in that forum who says he worked at SB and it's entirely a scam. I know for a fact SB is not just a site but is actually the same service for multiple sites, they just have different URLs. So if you go to [URL]sb.com[/URL] and [URL]anothersite.com[/URL] it's all the same profiles. The user in the forum confirmed they make fake profiles. My guess is 50% are fake, the other 50 come from all these various sites and no one checks them after making a profile. Bots can be expensive to run, but just cranking out fake pics and profile content is not.

[QUOTE=Chuchunga;5887085]There's another guy in that forum who says he worked at SB and it's entirely a scam. I know for a fact SB is not just a site but is actually the same service for multiple sites, they just have different URLs. So if you go to [URL]sb.com[/URL] and [URL]anothersite.com[/URL] it's all the same profiles. The user in the forum confirmed they make fake profiles. My guess is 50% are fake, the other 50 come from all these various sites and no one checks them after making a profile. Bots can be expensive to run, but just cranking out fake pics and profile content is not.[/QUOTE]Chu, thanks for the info. Still looking for a reasonable alternative. The websites are just money grabs.

[QUOTE=SalamanderFour;5887112]Chu, thanks for the info. Still looking for a reasonable alternative. The websites are just money grabs.[/QUOTE]You get tons of messages and it cist about $3. 00 to read each one and then the message from the woman I "Hi" that's it or Hello.

I stopped clicking on the messages and don't buy any points to pay for messages RIPPOFF!!

[QUOTE=Chuchunga;5887085]There's another guy in that forum who says he worked at SB and it's entirely a scam. I know for a fact SB is not just a site but is actually the same service for multiple sites, they just have different URLs. So if you go to [URL]sb.com[/URL] and [URL]anothersite.com[/URL] it's all the same profiles. The user in the forum confirmed they make fake profiles. My guess is 50% are fake, the other 50 come from all these various sites and no one checks them after making a profile. Bots can be expensive to run, but just cranking out fake pics and profile content is not.[/QUOTE]Couple years ago, I posted the same profile on SB that I had on SA at the time, same wording no difference. I had zero success on SB while SA was, and for me continues to be, very successful. As has been said here repeatedly, you have to be willing to put in the time and effort.

From the Terms of service on SB: "From time to time, we may create test accounts to test certain features of the site." I take that to mean SB creates fake profiles. They admit it in their Terms. Forget all the innuendo and argumentative opinion, this is a matter of fact.

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;5887399]You get tons of messages and it cist about $3. 00 to read each one and then the message from the woman I "Hi" that's it or Hello.

I stopped clicking on the messages and don't buy any points to pay for messages RIPPOFF!![/QUOTE]I'm not sure it's a total scam, and it is of course a sponsor of this site as it comes up when one logs in. Many ads are fake, and I think some bots message, but I met a couple of "pros" and think a few others have at least been real. Overall, tough to navigate and a money drain, even if you only use credits to message, which is their only value. This latest round of $89 I have met no one and will not buy more credits. They also don't cancel you when asked.

At this point both sites have plenty of fake profiles. Most of the unsolicited contacts I get on SA are women from someplace far away expressing how they loved my profile (which they haven't visited). SB seems to have plenty of bots to steer around but more local content. They definitely have become more comparable in terms of success rate. The trick with SB is not to message anyone, or open secret pictures, unless you are fairly confident that the profile is real. Otherwise, it can be a money drain. Most of the time you can discern the real from fake by reading the profile and looking for elements that no fake profile writer would have thought of.

[QUOTE=Dano7;5887432]I'm not sure it's a total scam, and it is of course a sponsor of this site as it comes up when one logs in. Many ads are fake, and I think some bots message, but I met a couple of "pros" and think a few others have at least been real. Overall, tough to navigate and a money drain, even if you only use credits to message, which is their only value. This latest round of $89 I have met no one and will not buy more credits. They also don't cancel you when asked.[/QUOTE]

I have had success on SB but there is a very low legitimate response rate and the site engages in shady practices.

I created a fake female profile to see the competition LOL and the site would randomly send messages. Once I realized this I deleted the acct.

I am also almost certain the site creates fake profiles from stolen social media.

In addition to being fraudulent and shady, the system limits you on how many messages you can send and there are all kinds of gimmicks to waste your money.

SA allows you to send as many messages as possible in a 30 day period. I usually send out 200 in that time period and have about 20 phone numbers. On SB, I am lucky to get five for the same amount of money.

[QUOTE=Banjomania;5888461]At this point both sites have plenty of fake profiles. Most of the unsolicited contacts I get on SA are women from someplace far away expressing how they loved my profile (which they haven't visited). SB seems to have plenty of bots to steer around but more local content. They definitely have become more comparable in terms of success rate. The trick with SB is not to message anyone, or open secret pictures, unless you are fairly confident that the profile is real. Otherwise, it can be a money drain. Most of the time you can discern the real from fake by reading the profile and looking for elements that no fake profile writer would have thought of.[/QUOTE]In some fairness, there is an option to disable to show when you visit a profile, along with other levels of activity.

[QUOTE=Dano7;5887432]I'm not sure it's a total scam, and it is of course a sponsor of this site as it comes up when one logs in. Many ads are fake, and I think some bots message, but I met a couple of "pros" and think a few others have at least been real. Overall, tough to navigate and a money drain, even if you only use credits to message, which is their only value. This latest round of $89 I have met no one and will not buy more credits. They also don't cancel you when asked.[/QUOTE][URL]https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/n2mf23/beware_secret_benefits_from_employee/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf[/URL]

This was posted a while ago on them.

[QUOTE=Banjomania;5888461]At this point both sites have plenty of fake profiles.[/QUOTE]Yep, although SA's fake profile problem isn't as nefarious because it's just the website's admin not QCing accounts good enough to get out the scammers. Its gotten somewhat better, but at least its not SB where the site is obviously juicing conts of women with pics stolen from social media or old dormant profiles from SA and using that as evidence tha they have pussy stock, where they don't. I'd stay away from SB IMO.

Made contact with her but she told me she thought she would make a costly SB. So being curious I engaged her to find out what that means. I never got an amount from her but we exchanged a few messages trying to figure out what she wanted. She states the benefit would need to outweigh the cost? Then she put a knife in it and said no matter the arrangement, it is sex work something she told herself she would never do. I assumed we were done with the conversation at that point but asked her again anyway, still waiting for an answer. Not sure if anyone has had better luck but I guess I can cross her off my list.

Can't figure out what she is actually looking for. She is real but didn't try to sell any content, ask for a prepayment and money never came up. The search continues.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/98104e3c-2a33-4da5-bbde-d4484b50ac5a[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e6995354-e996-4d16-9ad9-2079b1a531dd[/URL]

Apparently a lesbian. Full blown GPS. Says someone bought her her car so she's worth thousands. Since a lesbian won't do intimacy due to "microtraumas". I can't tell if she's serious or mentally ill. If one of you were the one to buy her the car, I'd like to offer you an opportunity to invest that you can't resist! LOL.

[QUOTE=Chuchunga;5899188][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e6995354-e996-4d16-9ad9-2079b1a531dd[/URL]

Apparently a lesbian. Full blown GPS. Says someone bought her her car so she's worth thousands. Since a lesbian won't do intimacy due to "microtraumas". I can't tell if she's serious or mentally ill. If one of you were the one to buy her the car, I'd like to offer you an opportunity to invest that you can't resist! LOL.[/QUOTE]

Reminds me of this POT who once who told me she got 50 k from her last SD in the past year but drove up in a rust bucket worth maybe 1 k. Sure sweetie.

My rule of thumb is if you can't independently verify something, it never happened. These girls lie as if it's their job.

[QUOTE=Jehovah;5884613]That's jade from Exeter NH. Mom pimp's her out. Both are hard core junkies. Pussy stinks. Let's dudes raw dog her. $250? LMAO.[/QUOTE]Has anyone plowed her mom? Just wondering even if there both less than attractive that mom daughter thing is hot as hell.

Something is going on. Is always up late at night. Seems to have lost a lot of weight if you compare with her older pic (with a tree in the background). Has anyone actually met her?

[QUOTE=Chuchunga;5899188][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e6995354-e996-4d16-9ad9-2079b1a531dd[/URL]

Apparently a lesbian. Full blown GPS. Says someone bought her her car so she's worth thousands. Since a lesbian won't do intimacy due to "microtraumas". I can't tell if she's serious or mentally ill. If one of you were the one to buy her the car, I'd like to offer you an opportunity to invest that you can't resist! LOL.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;5901702]Something is going on. Is always up late at night. Seems to have lost a lot of weight if you compare with her older pic (with a tree in the background). Has anyone actually met her?[/QUOTE]I'm just assuming it's another scam and don't put any effort into it tho I keep texting. Every second I can waste of their time is less time for them to try to exploit our slower brothers here.

Nah, she's real. I've had some meaningful discussions with her.

[QUOTE=Chuchunga;5902469]I'm just assuming it's another scam and don't put any effort into it tho I keep texting. Every second I can waste of their time is less time for them to try to exploit our slower brothers here.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Joebags;5899992]Has anyone plowed her mom? Just wondering even if there both less than attractive that mom daughter thing is hot as hell.[/QUOTE]Not going to lie man, felt gross after just the daughter. I don't even want to dare think about the mom.

[QUOTE=Wockser;5904248]Not going to lie man, felt gross after just the daughter. I don't even want to dare think about the mom.[/QUOTE]I haven't been back and there no other options up here it's pretty sad.

[QUOTE=Joebags;5906374]I haven't been back and there no other options up here it's pretty sad.[/QUOTE]Yeah I'm a NH based fella too, but I end up traveling to Boston, Worcester, RI and Portland. If you find something consistently avail for NH I'd be curious too but no thanks to that one. Was excited for local too but too far gone for my taste.

Hi anyone have the scoop on this 1.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eed2468a-58c9-4a40-9d06-7aed8b474f91[/URL]

[QUOTE=IOnDaStreet;5888853]In some fairness, there is an option to disable to show when you visit a profile, along with other levels of activity.[/QUOTE][URL]https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/mmjsqw/secretbenefitscom_total_scam/[/URL]

[URL]https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/u1odb2/experiences_with_secret_benefits_utter_trash_and/ [/URL]

Hello,

Anyone see this girl. I have been talking to her and she wanted $750.

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;5904223]Nah, she's real. I've had some meaningful discussions with her.[/QUOTE]Thats what I'm saying. It's discussions. Have you met her yet?

[QUOTE=MovieDude39;5909352]Hello,

Anyone see this girl. I have been talking to her and she wanted $750.[/QUOTE]I talked to her too, looks very consistent in her asking. No anal and protection was a must! Solid pass!

[QUOTE=MovieDude39;5909352]Hello,

Anyone see this girl. I have been talking to her and she wanted $750.[/QUOTE]Quoted me the same, also 250 for non-intimate. Will do bare oral but everything else covered.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9b7030eb-15e1-466b-90b3-e82334c96a08[/URL]

Well, here's a new one LOL. I've been talking to this really cute chick, 21, not super friendly through messaging but very quick to agree to hook up for a reasonable price. I initially asked if she could host, as I usually do, and she not surprisingly says no. Lives in a tony suburb with her family. She agrees to a hotel date. I mentioned Mondays being good for me, so she hits me up today, asks if I'm free all day, I say yes. She says cool, if my parents leave later tonight do you want to stop by? Now, I'm in my mid 30's, but I look much younger, so I can *almost* see how she would think this might not be a terrible idea. Of course I have no intention of taking her up on this offer, so I say are you sure that's a good idea? "Oh yeah don't worry they go into the city for 4 or 5 hours." Okay.

If you think that's bad, just wait. I say, would you be able to come to me in (name of city) like we talked about? She says, and I quote:

"I won't be able to because I also have to babysit the little ones."

WTF. She's going to have a grown man, total stranger, come over while her parents are out and the siblings (I was afraid to even ask how old) are there, and pay her money to bang her? Am I wrong or is that not insane? I understand she's almost certainly done this with boyfriends / guys her age before but this is a tad different, no? Maybe I'm naive but I was floored. Anyway thought you guys might get a kick out of that one. And no I will not be sharing her info, I honestly fear for this girl and her family's safety already without putting it out there publicly that she's willing to do this LOL.

[QUOTE=KcirtaPanner2;5911041]Well, here's a new one LOL.[/QUOTE]Sounds kind of fishy. Did you run Intelius on her number / info, find any social media belonging to her? Better safe than sorry in my book.

[QUOTE=KcirtaPanner2;5911041]Well, here's a new one LOL. I've been talking to this really cute chick, 21, not super friendly through messaging but very quick to agree to hook up for a reasonable price. I initially asked if she could host, as I usually do, and she not surprisingly says no. Lives in a tony suburb with her family. She agrees to a hotel date. I mentioned Mondays being good for me, so she hits me up today, asks if I'm free all day, I say yes. She says cool, if my parents leave later tonight do you want to stop by? Now, I'm in my mid 30's, but I look much younger, so I can *almost* see how she would think this might not be a terrible idea. Of course I have no intention of taking her up on this offer, so I say are you sure that's a good idea? "Oh yeah don't worry they go into the city for 4 or 5 hours." Okay.

If you think that's bad, just wait. I say, would you be able to come to me in (name of city) like we talked about? She says, and I quote:

"I won't be able to because I also have to babysit the little ones."

WTF. She's going to have a grown man, total stranger, come over while her parents are out and the siblings (I was afraid to even ask how old) are there, and pay her money to bang her? Am I wrong or is that not insane? I understand she's almost certainly done this with boyfriends / guys her age before but this is a tad different, no? Maybe I'm naive but I was floored. Anyway thought you guys might get a kick out of that one. And no I will not be sharing her info, I honestly fear for this girl and her family's safety already without putting it out there publicly that she's willing to do this LOL.[/QUOTE]You should share her info because it seem to me she won't go to you. So she want you to go to her instead meaning she might set you up and robbed you. So if I was you. I would try to see her in a different day and see if she won't come to you still. If she won't come to you at all, then she's definitely up to no good.

[QUOTE=Style20;5911439]You should share her info because it seem to me she won't go to you. So she want you to go to her instead meaning she might set you up and robbed you. So if I was you. I would try to see her in a different day and see if she won't come to you still. If she won't come to you at all, then she's definitely up to no good.[/QUOTE]She is still totally willing to come to me, I think she just figured since I had asked about her hosting she would present the idea to me. And she is real, I have my own ways of verifying it and I feel like I'm pretty good at sniffing out fakes / scammers anyway, I'm not new to this LOL.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/566ebedd-933e-41a0-a2b5-32122c65c4da[/URL]

Met with this one recently, a divorce mom of two, works at night for government subcontract, Does not host, meeting took place in my hotel room early afternoon. Was attracted by the profile picture but looks chubbier in person, not fat or bbw, overall a decent personality, good, bare, loud and sloppy at sex. Gave her 300, don't know if I would repeat, met her only because my regular isn't available right now.

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