Wish I would have read this sooner!
[QUOTE=ConcordGuy; 1311383]Good point Bouinage, luckily I have been able to keep the big head in control 99% of the time, and have had no problem telling a girl no and leaving if she tries to upsell or goes over my set limit or if she is "not the girl in the pictures" (or at least hasnt been that girl in 10 years or so.) funny thing is the girls just arent used to it, they get this confused look on their face when you tell them your not interested and actually start to leave.
Personally I don't even hand over any cash until I have negotiated what services will be rendered. This is especially usefull if the girl has no reviews (I don't TOFTT as much as I used to but have done it a lot in the past) Now don't get me wrong, I let the girl set her own prices and don't try to haggle her down (I have always figured haggling would ruin the mood and probably get you lackluster service) BUT I will confirm exactly what is on the menu for her set rate (ie full hour mutiple pops DATY etc). If she won't talk about whats on the menu before she gets the cash then sorry I'm out the door. I used to just hand over the money and hope for the best, but too many girls will make the rules after they get the money, and you may not get what you might have gotten had you taken the time to work things out ahead of time, and once they have your cash it's too late for you to negotiate (when you give up your money you give up your power in the situation.) I have also found that doing this most times does not upset the girl as long as you are cool about it, (I usually say something like I just want to get this straight so we both know what to expect and there is no confusion later) or some thing along those lines and they are usually understanding. If it does bother her, and she won't negotiate I'm leaving anyway so it doesn't matter, but I have found that many girl will be much more accommodating if you set the rules down before they get your cash. For example, my typical is I like GFE and multiple pops and of course getting my full hour. I have gotten this from many girls and read reviews about their service later where guys said only one pop was on the menu and / or they were rushed out the door after 15-20 minutes of an hour session, if that guy would have just taken the time to find out what he was getting he wouldn't be writing a bad review. This is just my two cents but this method has rarely let me down, (yes of course some girls will still lie during the negotiations but that is very rare in my experience) just remember you are dealing with another person treat her like a person instead of a commodity you paid for and (maybe) she will treat you like a person instead of an ATM.[/QUOTE]Yeah, I never liked the "rules before the duel" ordeal, because I did feel like it killed the mood. However after my last experience, nothing kills the mood more than thinking your going to get a BBBJ from a hot chick, only for her to bring out the cover.
So lesson learned, you are right again CG.
Its like Cheers but only worse!
[QUOTE=NC Transplant;1311688]Maybe it was a special fee for the mayor? Or maybe they thought you were Bouinage and charged an "ugly" fee? *LOL*[/QUOTE]Everyone, including Uncle Sam,"must know my name" cause they are all charging me an ugly fee!
LOL