Seeking Arrangements

Some guys just can't help themselves in making something simple so complicated. A girl knows within 30 sec of meeting you whether she'll go the distance or not. It doesn't take 3 dates, and it doesn't take a 7-course meal. She knows very quickly if it's a go or not. Why are guys so eager to waste their time and money is beyond me. If it takes her a month to bang, she simply doesn't like you that much. The girls that will rock your world are the ones that are attracted to you, not the ones going in hating every second of it and taking forever to coming around. It is literally that simple!

Love when they tell you up front they have GPS and should be avoided. Saves you so much time when they just say it.

They do not even realize they are telling the guys to avoid them, as they have a bad attitude.

This one is great she says she is not looking for low money meet ups LOL.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/853fc25a-412b-42df-9e91-82092d153a73[/URL]

[QUOTE=GntleGuy84;5868471]Did you meet her?[/QUOTE]Yes I did. She gets at it.

I'm still trying to figure out some of the pro habits (short texts, instant pictures, etc). I'm interested but asking if anyone has experience with this one?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ff2c5452-22d8-47f5-884a-2700a63e4541[/URL]

[QUOTE=EvilTmp;5869408]Some guys just can't help themselves in making something simple so complicated. A girl knows within 30 sec of meeting you whether she'll go the distance or not. It doesn't take 3 dates, and it doesn't take a 7-course meal. She knows very quickly if it's a go or not. Why are guys so eager to waste their time and money is beyond me. If it takes her a month to bang, she simply doesn't like you that much. The girls that will rock your world are the ones that are attracted to you, not the ones going in hating every second of it and taking forever to coming around. It is literally that simple![/QUOTE]Yes, there are a lot of girls who will try to rinse you. It's not that difficult to weed those girls out prior to meeting them face to face. However, there are some girls that want to play it out like they are in a relationship so they feel better about themselves. Not all of these girls are seasoned pros who are just going to give it up on the first meeting. Some want some type of emotional connection before they sleep with you. Some of the best arrangements I have had was where we took some time to get to know each other first. You just have to be smart and use common sense. If you get the feeling she is rinsing you just move on. But I usually have a good sense of that prior to the first face to face meeting. Bottom line, if you want a quick lay, SA is not for you. There are plenty of free escort sites out there. No need to spend a 100 bucks a month. If you want something successful and long term, you need to put the time and effort in. You should get a good idea of who the person is and their motives prior to your first meeting.

She is no longer on SA.

[QUOTE=Jaristas;5870170]Yes I did. She gets at it.[/QUOTE]

She is gone too.

[QUOTE=Wockser;5870511]I'm still trying to figure out some of the pro habits (short texts, instant pictures, etc). I'm interested but asking if anyone has experience with this one?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ff2c5452-22d8-47f5-884a-2700a63e4541[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JDeller;5870809]She is gone too.[/QUOTE]Eh, at least I got some pics sent to my fake number. She's cute whoever she is.

Had plans to met up with a girl in woburn and she flaked last minute. So in a moment of weakness I met up with Hot tamale.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6c22ddf2-8415-4c50-948f-96d40d35a127[/URL]

She sent me some pics where her breasts looked full and she looked like a pretty bbw, which really isn; t my type.

Sent me pics of big full dds. And a pic in lingerie. Should have ran when I saw her place or gone to a massage parlor.

Saggy post baby booobs. At least 250 pounds. I couldn't get it up. No furniture in the living room and at least 50 empty dunkies cups.

She tried for like 10 minutes before I said its not going to happen. Doubt she is 21 either. Said her place costs her 2200 a month.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/588912c8-6262-4668-9e5b-46125f7ba367[/URL]

Pic and video seller. I blocked her.

[QUOTE=FlashLidar;5871288][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/588912c8-6262-4668-9e5b-46125f7ba367[/URL]

Pic and video seller. I blocked her.[/QUOTE]Her profile has all the signs of a content seller. Have to give her credit for being upfront about it.

[QUOTE=Rome400;5871059]Had plans to met up with a girl in woburn and she flaked last minute. So in a moment of weakness I met up with Hot tamale.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6c22ddf2-8415-4c50-948f-96d40d35a127[/URL]

She sent me some pics where her breasts looked full and she looked like a pretty bbw, which really isn; t my type.

Sent me pics of big full dds. And a pic in lingerie. Should have ran when I saw her place or gone to a massage parlor.

Saggy post baby booobs. At least 250 pounds. I couldn't get it up. No furniture in the living room and at least 50 empty dunkies cups.

She tried for like 10 minutes before I said its not going to happen. Doubt she is 21 either. Said her place costs her 2200 a month.[/QUOTE]I've met mostly fat chicks on this site. The skinny ones seem like druggies.

[QUOTE=Joe1223;5869290]My experience with girls that want a dinner meet and greet is a waste of time unless you don't mind only having a decent meal with a cute girl. I did a lunch and dinner date with 2 different girls and it went no where so now I only do coffee or cocktail meet and greets. I limit the time to less than an hour unless something spectacular happens. You can figure out their mo quickly and save some cash at the same time. Dinner can become uncomfortable if the girl isn't what you are looking for and you are struggling to kill the clock while she orders a big meal and lots of drinks. I personally am not looking for a "friend" but I am looking for a "FWB" with emphasis on the benefits.[/QUOTE]I don't think that dinner first dates are necessarily a "waste of time," but at the same time being 'stuck' sitting at dinner with someone I don't really like after 3 minutes is not my idea of a good time.

I also go with coffee or cocktail meet & greets. And I've had several GOOD sugar relationships start that way. The girls I like -- who are in it mostly for the money and sex -- have no problems with a short m&g like that. Once I know I like them and the feeling is mutual, then sure dinner can be nice even if there will be no sex afterwards (no -- no allowance for that but of course I pay for dinner). That's the goal; finding someone you like enough to have dinner with, but who also is happy to meet you for a couple of hours in a hotel room.

Anyone meet with this one? Was messaging with her and can't tell if she is real or has some other agenda.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6e3f38fc-16d0-4c91-ab45-34c46501cb8a[/URL]

[QUOTE=Cargin;5872150]Anyone meet with this one? Was messaging with her and can't tell if she is real or has some other agenda.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6e3f38fc-16d0-4c91-ab45-34c46501cb8a[/URL][/QUOTE]I have been in contact with her also but haven't recognized any red flags. I opted to not pursue her for no particular reason, just busy. I would recommend a quick M&G and see what she is all about. My guess is she is a single mom who needs some help with expenses and may just want some adult companionship.

Intel on this one? [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/876626eb-e1b1-4bf6-822f-873072e0b882[/URL].

Getting some pushiness, can't tell if just eager or a pro or what.

Edit: pic seller. Oh well

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bad76812-e91a-41dd-be76-a9774fdbe5f3[/URL]

Meet up with her the other great breast pretty face love to play will ride you all day.

She does have kids and busy with a high powered job. But worth the time and the travel to ct.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/cb6c707a6e02f6f4[/URL]

Met up with her today. Told her I was typically offering $200 she countered with 400 we agreed on 300 plus a hotel for the first time. She was very good at communicating and I had to cancel for the first date but rescheduled for the next day. She need money for her car payment so she was anxious to meet without any BS.

She sent me a pic and it was very hot but she has gained a little weight. She isn't heavy at all but I prefer slim slim. Her pics on the ad are very accurate. She was ok with BB but no CIP because she isn't on BC. Overall she is into it and brought her vibrator because she wants to get off so the pressure was off me. Very clean and fresh smell. She did mention that Incall may be available after she gets comfortable, depending on when as she has roommates. She seemed ok with me right away so as long as you aren't a freak she should be able to offer it. Overall a good time but she was not looking to hang out after, which works for me. Not a lot of small talk and we got right to it. Does not have a pro vibe at all but she mentioned she did this once before but it ended quickly due to scheduling issues??

I would see her again but would try to do 250. I think she needs cash and as long as it is a regular thing and no hassle she would probably be OK with it.

[QUOTE=NewEngland;5873956][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bad76812-e91a-41dd-be76-a9774fdbe5f3[/URL]

Meet up with her the other great breast pretty face love to play will ride you all day.

She does have kids and busy with a high powered job. But worth the time and the travel to ct.[/QUOTE]With the understanding that "41 yo" on Seeking is close or often above 50 in real life.

[QUOTE=EvilTmp;5874421]With the understanding that "41 yo" on Seeking is close or often above 50 in real life.[/QUOTE]No smart guy looked up her facebook plus young for her age and a lot better time than a 24 who is clueless.

Forgot to grab the link before I reported. Starts out reasonable then changes her story saying she needs 10 K for a student loan and all these excuses about her mom. Not worth the time. Avoid at all costs.

[QUOTE=Jaristas;5857330]Anyone seen her below?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9c6fa9eb-d8f1-407a-a594-c99f12b3af07[/URL]

Let me know. Thanks.[/QUOTE]What's the username? I'm getting "Profile not available".

[QUOTE=Joe1223;5874407][URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/cb6c707a6e02f6f4[/URL]

Met up with her today. Told her I was typically offering $200 she countered with 400 we agreed on 300 plus a hotel for the first time. She was very good at communicating and I had to cancel for the first date but rescheduled for the next day. She need money for her car payment so she was anxious to meet without any BS.

She sent me a pic and it was very hot but she has gained a little weight. She isn't heavy at all but I prefer slim slim. Her pics on the ad are very accurate. She was ok with BB but no CIP because she isn't on BC. Overall she is into it and brought her vibrator because she wants to get off so the pressure was off me. Very clean and fresh smell. She did mention that Incall may be available after she gets comfortable, depending on when as she has roommates. She seemed ok with me right away so as long as you aren't a freak she should be able to offer it. Overall a good time but she was not looking to hang out after, which works for me. Not a lot of small talk and we got right to it. Does not have a pro vibe at all but she mentioned she did this once before but it ended quickly due to scheduling issues??

I would see her again but would try to do 250. I think she needs cash and as long as it is a regular thing and no hassle she would probably be OK with it.[/QUOTE]Jealous I can't see what these girls look like or how to reach them. Too cheap and lazy to join.

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;5880398]What's the username? I'm getting "Profile not available".[/QUOTE]I am wondering if it is possible to buy a premium account with a store bought card. I want to get on the site but would prefer to not use one of my CC.

Any advice would be appreciated.

So I am writing this to give hope to those of you whom have had no luck on Seeking. I was one of those people. But after a little getting use to the site, I finally found a girl in my area.

This was a homerun. 31 years old, athletic, great natural C cups and an ass for days. I had her dress up in yoga pants for first visit and she did not disappoint. Great looking pink leggings with thong underneath. She didn't ask for cover and I was a little skeptical, but I got the vibe that she only does this very discreet and rare. Of course I could be wrong.

I have been seeing her for past few months, $$ she is ok with video and toys etc. She is legit 8. She is single mom of 2, looking for extra cash. I hope it never ends. A true Unicorn.

Again, don't give up. Dreams come true!

Exchanged messages with "CottonCandy" on SA, from Lynn area. She seemed grounded until she quoted her allowance requirements, $500.

[QUOTE=GangumStyle;5882406]So I am writing this to give hope to those of you whom have had no luck on Seeking. I was one of those people. But after a little getting use to the site, I finally found a girl in my area.

This was a homerun. 31 years old, athletic, great natural C cups and an ass for days. I had her dress up in yoga pants for first visit and she did not disappoint. Great looking pink leggings with thong underneath. She didn't ask for cover and I was a little skeptical, but I got the vibe that she only does this very discreet and rare. Of course I could be wrong.

I have been seeing her for past few months, $$ she is ok with video and toys etc. She is legit 8. She is single mom of 2, looking for extra cash. I hope it never ends. A true Unicorn.

Again, don't give up. Dreams come true![/QUOTE]As many on here have stated, including myself, working SA takes time and patience to be successful. Unlike the escort sites, you typically are looking for a different type of lady therefore the extra time investment necessary. Congratulations for sticking with it and the score you found. I typically will keep a good SA find as long as it works for both parties as the investment in time can be exhausting depending on one's expectations.

[QUOTE=GangumStyle;5882406]So I am writing this to give hope to those of you whom have had no luck on Seeking. I was one of those people. But after a little getting use to the site, I finally found a girl in my area.

This was a homerun. 31 years old, athletic, great natural C cups and an ass for days. I had her dress up in yoga pants for first visit and she did not disappoint. Great looking pink leggings with thong underneath. She didn't ask for cover and I was a little skeptical, but I got the vibe that she only does this very discreet and rare. Of course I could be wrong.

I have been seeing her for past few months, $$ she is ok with video and toys etc. She is legit 8. She is single mom of 2, looking for extra cash. I hope it never ends. A true Unicorn.

Again, don't give up. Dreams come true![/QUOTE]I would ask if you can share but I know the chance of guys sharing girls on this site is slim to none.

[QUOTE=Style20;5883120]I would ask if you can share but I know the chance of guys sharing girls on this site is slim to none.[/QUOTE]Chances are not slim but none. As they should be. The OP ponied up the steep entry fee and put in countless hours to find his unicorn, good for him.

[QUOTE=PaulRew;5883546]Chances are not slim but none. As they should be. The OP ponied up the steep entry fee and put in countless hours to find his unicorn, good for him.[/QUOTE]I know but even for regular escort from stg they are hiding them also. They keeping all the girls go themselves.

[QUOTE=Style20;5883675]I know but even for regular escort from stg they are hiding them also. They keeping all the girls go themselves.[/QUOTE]This guy is coming here with seeking advice as if hes a pro with posts on his name. Come on. There are tons of woman on seeking. 30 to 50 new profiles a day of a woman joining. I've met tons of gems, tons of not so gems, crackheads, escorts etc. This dude coming here acting like he done something that I haven't done several times before is laughable. I mean we don't even know what she looks like. Remember woman who someone finds hot and attractive others may find ugly, I mean he might like fat chicks and she's a bbw. Who knows. My point is one persons opinion of what he thinks a gem is to another person is not. Do you know how many messages I get from guys offering me a UTR and its some cum dump on craigslist who replies every ad for years but to that person he got duped into believing they " never ever do this " so lets not get to excited over a single mom with 2 kids taking 200 bucks. Probably nothing special to us but to him he hit the lotter.

[QUOTE=PinayLuver;5882044]I am wondering if it is possible to buy a premium account with a store bought card. I want to get on the site but would prefer to not use one of my CC.

Any advice would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]Use vanilla gift card.

[QUOTE=TheList00;5883761]This guy is coming here with seeking advice as if hes a pro with posts on his name. Come on. There are tons of woman on seeking. 30 to 50 new profiles a day of a woman joining. I've met tons of gems, tons of not so gems, crackheads, escorts etc. This dude coming here acting like he done something that I haven't done several times before is laughable. I mean we don't even know what she looks like. Remember woman who someone finds hot and attractive others may find ugly, I mean he might like fat chicks and she's a bbw. Who knows. My point is one persons opinion of what he thinks a gem is to another person is not. Do you know how many messages I get from guys offering me a UTR and its some cum dump on craigslist who replies every ad for years but to that person he got duped into believing they " never ever do this " so lets not get to excited over a single mom with 2 kids taking 200 bucks. Probably nothing special to us but to him he hit the lotter.[/QUOTE]That sound amazing! Can you tell me what is your experience on seeking?

[QUOTE=Joe1223;5874407][URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/cb6c707a6e02f6f4[/URL]

Met up with her today. Told her I was typically offering $200 she countered with 400 we agreed on 300 plus a hotel for the first time. She was very good at communicating and I had to cancel for the first date but rescheduled for the next day. She need money for her car payment so she was anxious to meet without any BS.

She sent me a pic and it was very hot but she has gained a little weight. She isn't heavy at all but I prefer slim slim. Her pics on the ad are very accurate. She was ok with BB but no CIP because she isn't on BC. Overall she is into it and brought her vibrator because she wants to get off so the pressure was off me. Very clean and fresh smell. She did mention that Incall may be available after she gets comfortable, depending on when as she has roommates. She seemed ok with me right away so as long as you aren't a freak she should be able to offer it. Overall a good time but she was not looking to hang out after, which works for me. Not a lot of small talk and we got right to it. Does not have a pro vibe at all but she mentioned she did this once before but it ended quickly due to scheduling issues??

I would see her again but would try to do 250. I think she needs cash and as long as it is a regular thing and no hassle she would probably be OK with it.[/QUOTE][URL]https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/mmjsqw/secretbenefitscom_total_scam/[/URL]

[QUOTE=Partimer109;5883989][URL]https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/mmjsqw/secretbenefitscom_total_scam/[/URL][/QUOTE]Thanks for the link to the review of the site. I agree, Sec Benef and Seek Arrang are designed to suck your wallet dry. Maybe after all the $ you get success, maybe not, but you're still out cash. Meeting a sugar baby shouldn't be rocket science, but oddly it's surprisingly hard.

My regular SB was not available so I reached out to her a last week, and communication from her was pretty quick. In all fairness, I met her once pre-pandemic, so she was a little familiar with me (I did reviewher back then). We went right to texting and she was quick to meet. We discussed price and made an incall appointment that evening. She showed on time (female roommate dropped her off, some have said it is her mother). She is nice enough, doesn't act like a pro, but I believe she is a semi-pro. She is super skinny, like see ribs skinny with a couple of marks here and there, but was not acting weird.

Moved to bedroom, lfk on the bed, ask to straddle me, mor lfk, started removing clothes. She started with BBBJ, eventually moved to Mish and BBFS. She was complaining about my size and asked for lube. Lubed up and tried again. More complaints, we did not have this issue3 years ago. Anyway, finished with BBBJCIM. All for 250 and about hour of time.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/77b42b5a-d22b-4fae-9598-72e3e539b6a2[/URL]

[QUOTE=Discretion23;5884309]My regular SB was not available so I reached out to her a last week, and communication from her was pretty quick. In all fairness, I met her once pre-pandemic, so she was a little familiar with me (I did reviewher back then). We went right to texting and she was quick to meet. We discussed price and made an incall appointment that evening. She showed on time (female roommate dropped her off, some have said it is her mother). She is nice enough, doesn't act like a pro, but I believe she is a semi-pro. She is super skinny, like see ribs skinny with a couple of marks here and there, but was not acting weird.

Moved to bedroom, lfk on the bed, ask to straddle me, mor lfk, started removing clothes. She started with BBBJ, eventually moved to Mish and BBFS. She was complaining about my size and asked for lube. Lubed up and tried again. More complaints, we did not have this issue3 years ago. Anyway, finished with BBBJCIM. All for 250 and about hour of time.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Joe1223;5882960]As many on here have stated, including myself, working SA takes time and patience to be successful. Unlike the escort sites, you typically are looking for a different type of lady therefore the extra time investment necessary. Congratulations for sticking with it and the score you found. I typically will keep a good SA find as long as it works for both parties as the investment in time can be exhausting depending on one's expectations.[/QUOTE]Have never tried SB, does not take paid card, but on SA off and on for many years and it has work well for me. I'm not really interested on a quick bang, only on rare occasions, but rather find find one or two at a time where I can see weekly. The one I'm seeing now is off SA since Christmas, a hot separated MILF from NH / MA border in her mid 30's, everything is still going great, the best I have had so far, so I keep her to myself until then. Yes, investment in money and mostly time are required to be successful. Once you find the one, ride it until as far as you can, it's a lesson I learned in my 4 to 5 years on SA.

[QUOTE=Discretion23;5884402][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/77b42b5a-d22b-4fae-9598-72e3e539b6a2[/URL][/QUOTE]Glad you had success! She's left my message unread for over a week, I'm guessing she's filtering by age (I'm in my mid-50's and my profile states that) so for those that want to enjoy her company, be aware if you're an old f**k like me, you might get ignored.

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;5883864]Use vanilla gift card.[/QUOTE]Thank you for the info.