General Reports

[QUOTE=Banger Hard]If you plan to become anything of a regular in the swinger scene you need to be careful about showing up w/ an escort. best thing to do is use a semi-pro or someone from out of area that doesn't travel. If you get caught swinging with an escort, the "community" will get very hostile.... i guess they firgure if you pay a chick to leverage into their wives/girlfriends, it's the same as treating them as ******. Anyway, it can be done... but be aware of the politics![/QUOTE]


Not only that if they find out they will ban you for life and spread the word around . I know I have seen it done before. I use to be in the lifestyle and still good friends with the owners of discretions club.

[QUOTE=Kinkymemphism]Not only that if they find out they will ban you for life and spread the word around . I know I have seen it done before. I use to be in the lifestyle and still good friends with the owners of discretions club.[/QUOTE]Yep. Best thing is full dislcosure. I have been with couples that don't mind (even had one couple suggest it once when my regular partner was out of town), but trying to pull a fast one hoping nobody will notice is sure to backfire.

Thanks for all the support and guidance. I was looking to get into the scene and the gf as well, but long distance takes its toll. She told me to check it out and see if I'd be into it so I wanted to go to this event, but judging by the responses I may just wait until we can go to one together. Thanks again for all the responses though!

[QUOTE=Bluffcity Guy]I've always got the impression that the swinging community has always been hostile to single men trying to "buy a ticket" into the community by pairing with some woman for the evening as a way of getting into a swingers' event, whether by engaging an escort or by just pairing with a single woman and pretending to be a couple for purposes of getting into the event.

OTOH, I'm subscribed to a mailing list run by the folks who are sponsoring the event that B Skillz was inquiring about (and who have sponsored many other swingers' events in Memphis), and everything I've received from them suggests that this group is surprisingly friendly to single men (compared to what I've heard about swingers in general). Unless the local group is lying through its teeth in its promotional materials (and I have no reason to believe so), B should be able to get in without an escort (or other female) if he wants to attend. FWIW...

Cheers,

BCG[/QUOTE]

I've known them for years and they are single friendly. As a single male you will be able to attend the party but as far as I understand, there will be a VIP area that will be couples only and you will only be able to enter that area as a single male is with either a female or a couple. I've been to many swingers clubs and that is generally the norm.

Single males are usually considered the bane of the lifestyle but these people are as single friendly as you will find. It'll be a good time. Their parties usually are.

Damn it's been a slow, boring bunch of days lately.... anyone have a hookup they can pass my way, I'd appreciate it! PM's appreciated:-)

Has anyone been in touch with Anna (jessica whalen) lately? Seems like ages ago, I used to see her postings, and then all of a sudden they stopped. Has she retired? PM me if you have any info.

[QUOTE=B Skillz]So there's supposedly a pretty decent sized swinger's party next weekend downtown, and I wanted to see if any of the ladies on the board would like to accompany me for a night of fun (Saturday, September 19). PM me if interested for details.[/QUOTE]Skillz we are kewl. It is very rare, like I have never done it before, that I post on the website where we are holding a party. I changed the rules for this one and have made it real public as it is being held in a public club and we are collecting at the door. Most of the time you have to pre pay for our events, so you don't know the location till you pay to attend.

Thank You for the love and support! JP of JPJustParties.com

[QUOTE=Boogie Van]I've known them for years and they are single friendly. As a single male you will be able to attend the party but as far as I understand, there will be a VIP area that will be couples only and you will only be able to enter that area as a single male is with either a female or a couple. I've been to many swingers clubs and that is generally the norm.

Single males are usually considered the bane of the lifestyle but these people are as single friendly as you will find. It'll be a good time. Their parties usually are.[/QUOTE]Single guys are always welcome at any event JP's host. Simply over the years, single guys are a better guest. They are often on their to toes to be nice and not egt out of line. PLUS all females and couples who attend our events KNOW that we invite single guys. That does not mean they all will do a single guy. Many married guys love to watch there lady with another guy. But they will seldom confess to it. And we get single females who are just out looking for one thing, SEX with NSA.

JP of JPJustParties. Newbie so not sure I am allowed to post a link.

[QUOTE=Babee Doll]Look at escapeparty.com from Nashville and them this one. See the difference? I'd skip Mphs & go to the Tunica one in Dec. But I probably wouldn't go to this brand at all.

You want the event and the accomadations to be in the same building.

My .02

Babee[/QUOTE]First I agree that a Swingers Party is BETTER when it all happens under one roof. But this one at Hollywood Disco is to open the door for those who may not be OK with going to any event with 2-3-400 people. We have made this so EZ for folks to just show up with little planning on their part.

And it is much cheaper than most events. And the big clue is we welcome singles.

JP of JPJustParties

[QUOTE=Banger Hard]If you plan to become anything of a regular in the swinger scene you need to be careful about showing up w/ an escort. best thing to do is use a semi-pro or someone from out of area that doesn't travel. If you get caught swinging with an escort, the "community" will get very hostile.... i guess they firgure if you pay a chick to leverage into their wives/girlfriends, it's the same as treating them as ******. Anyway, it can be done... but be aware of the politics![/QUOTE]Last spring we had a guy in Memphis pull this at a few of our parties. We did not hang him, we just laughed at him. No one would swap with them as we were not sure if we would have to tip her or what. He showed up three times with three ladies. All the girls where nice, acted as they should and did make the place look a bit brighter. But at our events, if you act decent, are clean, you will most likely score with out a lady.

I have had ladies try to "work' my events and they have been forced to leave. Paying for sex at a Swingers Event is not kewl at any level.

JP of JPJustParties

[QUOTE=Safarihunter]Has anyone been in touch with Anna (jessica whalen) lately? Seems like ages ago, I used to see her postings, and then all of a sudden they stopped. Has she retired? PM me if you have any info.[/QUOTE]Yes, Anna has retired.

It was getting too hot in Memphis and she had enough of the LE activity.

:) :)

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I get some calls asking if I still take appts. I do pretty much consider my self retired but I do see old clients/friends as long as they understand I'm no longer a little spinner but my conversation and skills are still great. It helps to keep me busy some what plus buy the odds and ends here and there. I'm actually trying to save up for something for myself I usually do for everyone else now it's me time. I'd love to see a few old friends available Tues,Thurs,Fri,Sat. p.s As always thanks for your support NO new clients please. I'm in wolfchase area . GREAT RATES! I also went back to my old hair color look more like me just more voluptious nice BIG BOOBS .

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Looks like someone from Columbus, Ohio has too much time on their hands. I have been there and can understand. I don't know about you guys, but I am now going to get rid of my whips, chains, ball gags, cock rings, glow in the dark condums (size small), and edible underwear. There, I feel much better now.

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[url]http://encyclopediadramatica.com/USASexGuide_Forum[/url][/QUOTE]I sitting here laughing my ass off! I hope they do 1 of those on another city to make me laugh some more.