They are bored out of their minds
[QUOTE=SonChi;6532129]I also believe strongly that they are trying to lessen their emotional attraction to you. If they know that you are not that choosy and will go with anyone, they reduce their feelings for you. Professional or not, they are trading DNA with you and a bond can and surely does form. I go to the same girls over and over, it's nice, it's intimate, and it's become personal. Occasionally, BBFS is attempted by them, I always stop it, but I get a lot of "I really like you, if only we met elsewhere" vibes that may be IOP, but maybe true. I got brought to reality when one did jump on raw talking about "isn't this amazing" and " I want a baby, don't worry, I will care for it". Man was I scared! I now maintain a nice respectful emotional distance, but have only learned to do so after being caught up in a providers web in the past. It's a dark place.[/QUOTE]I would have to disagree with the "trying to lessen their emotional attraction to you" part. I have found these girls to be bored shitless and wanting to reach out for any mental stimulation they can find. Just think of the traveling AMP girls that rotate in and out of the area. Some of then just work and sleep and some even eat and sleep on the same massage table where they service you. How many times have we used the bathroom on an AMP to find toiletries or seen cooking utensils there that show they are living inside the AMP. I remember going to soft touch early in the day and asking if I could exit through the back door where I was parked; Hannah had me step over two girls who were still sleeping on the floor from working the night before.
I have had girls on my first and second visits tell me about their families, their kids, and their situations just to have someone to talk to. Earlier this year Sophie at Eastern opened up to me on the second visit about how her father died when she was young and she is the oldest sibling so she has to support her family, and her American boyfriend in NY lets her work in the AMP to make money to send home, but he was pissed when he read reviews of her giving FS and made her come back home (I still don't know how that tats work into that scenario). Also had Viet nail salon massage girls pull out their phones and show me pictures of their kids and tell me about their past boyfriends and these Viet girls are well established and live here.
I once had a visiting AMP girl who said she was from Hong Kong. When I told her I had visited there several times she went 20 minutes overtime just talking about the city and how it lights up during Christmas. I can't think of a job more boring than living and working in a small office space with most of the time alone in a 6 by 12 room touching some guy who may or may not be very social. I believe they reach out for and stimulation they can get.
Just not your cup of tea.
[QUOTE=Serpico99;6532134]After reading about this Grace person at Forever Wellness in Fairfax, I decided to try this spot out. On rubmaps, it's still listed as Evergreen Wellness. This place is about a minute drive from Baby Hua / Lucy's place who is located on Javier Road. Forever Wellness is really off of Gatehouse Road vice Arlington Blvd. Anyway, plenty of parking on the weekend, up the stairs to a two door system. The person who answered the door I assume was Grace, as she was wearing the infamous yellow skirt. She is older, likely in her 50's, with a slim body, and she had this constant smile on her face which was warming to see. However, overall her looks are not to my liking. I just don't like her overall look. For an older Korean, I probably would rather go with Linda at Angels in Fairfax or Celine at Palace in McLean.
It's 60 for half hour and 80 for the hour, they have a ts. I opted for 30 minutes with the ts to feel this place out. TS was playful. Back in the room, Grace used a towel to do the massage, no oil (she did not ask). When it came time for the soft touch, that lasted about a minute before she asked me to flip. She offered "sucky" and asked how much I would pay. I offered 100 and she said sucky with condom (which she indicated that she would go get). I declined and said that would not work for me so just give me a HJ. She said BBBJ would be more but I was not really feeling her and did not want to further waste my money on her..[/QUOTE]I been to Angel and saw 2 girls so far and it were all good because I got what I wanted from them. One lady I saw was slim, taller and cute face. The other one was also young but much shorter than than the taller one. Not chunky. Both places have the same price structure for HH /60 and FH /80. Both of facilities are nice but you have to go out to use a bathroom when you stay in Angel. That was meh for me because I already got naked. LOL A naked guy in the hallway? Yes, you have to deal with it. Maybe just walk out the entrance door putting a robe or towel on your waist. If you don't like it, bring your own pee bottle. Don't worry too much. As I said, Angel offsets it with their young providers. BTW, if you go Forever wellness, you go there because you expect an excellent quality massage with L2 service like BJ. Grace is a small cute MILF. She doesn't look that old. That's a BS. And Forever wellness doesn't offer FS so if you're a FS guy, I'd say save your time. Their massage is so much better than Angel. Girls in Angel put pressure on your back which is almost non-existing and try to kill time with soft touch and chit-chat. Angel offers FS so you can have a good time with their kitty as I had.
So think about you're a FS or Massage guy. Choose the right one to save your money and time. I been tried for both and I can tell it all was great though their menu and specialty were different. Everyone has different cup of tea. Happy mongering!
How it occurs to you may be totally different how it occurs to them
[QUOTE=Serpin58;6533455]Of course some them get feelings! They are not robots but morals and not much empathy all they care about is money and themselves! Avoid relationship at all cost.[/QUOTE]Read some where. There are three ways things are:
How it occurs to me.
How it occurs to them.
And how it occurs to others.
It's easy to make up stories that are based on how it occurs to me. But that may well be a story not based on fact.
Just saying,
Agree there are times a connection develops, everyone is human. Kindest and empathy goes a long way.
The original question was: why do girls pass you on to others at the agency?
[QUOTE=DoctorDoctor;6533774]Read some where. There are three ways things are:
How it occurs to me.
How it occurs to them.
And how it occurs to others.
It's easy to make up stories that are based on how it occurs to me. But that may well be a story not based on fact.
Just saying,
Agree there are times a connection develops, everyone is human. Kindest and empathy goes a long way.[/QUOTE]100% agree. Being kind goes a long way.
My comments were based on my experience of my ATFs passing me / referring me to another girlfriend, sometimes even via a MFF. My opinion remains: I think it was to lessen our attraction to each other by diluting our regularly scheduled programming. They may see me getting attached and shake me off or see themselves getting attached and shaking themselves off. If I get what I want, I do not try something new, I will repeat.