One of those sessions that reminds me why I do not donate up front
[QUOTE=Randy62;7231913]Agree! I have no issue and always leave it on the table after the first BR kiss and grope. That way everyone knows what services are expected.[/QUOTE]Had a session with a supposed K-girl who switched from Chinese, Japanese, Korean, and broken english throughout the session which already raised eyebrows. I usually donate at the end but this time I did so up front. She then claims she miscounted and shortly after asks for a "tip" even though I had clearly already given the full amount thru cash / booker. The combo just killed the vibe for me. She then tried to do damage control but honestly just became awkward and couldn't wait to leave.
I have been generous / respectful over the years but moments like this makes me think that kindness gets mistaken for weakness. To be frank, I am starting to really see that not every K girl is even korean. I get that its marketing. But the inauthenticity shows and it matters.
Think I will be taking a break from the hobby for a bit. The transparency I used to consistently receive just isn't there lately. This experience is also a reminder of why I usually wait to donate at the end. I tried to make the environment a safe space with up front donation but this was one of those times it completely backfired.
Just thought I would share to give others a heads up and spark some more accountability and honesty in the scene. At the very least, asking for a "tip" up front is pretty unprofessional dare I say highly inappropriate.