As always YMMV on control
["Originally Posted by WraithOfGod
Here's an interesting question: Which providers let mongers control the session and which assume control themselves? I can go either way, depending on my mood, but it's a pressing issue for some guys, especially those who like to dictate how a session goes. For example, most VIP providers control a session, like Million with all of her rules. On the other hand, other providers read a monger's needs and react however he wants, like Joy at Nirvana or Michelle at Mayflower. For guys who want to control a session, whom do you think they should see or stay away from?
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Million is the 1st girl who made me truly understand about YMMV. I know guys say she has rules & she is controlling, but I never heard the word no from her & she does whatever I ask her to do (within reason). All I am doing when I control Million is asking for multiple BJ positions & certain sex positions in the order I want. Or to position her body in certain ways so I can grope her. Or to to do multiple Russian positions, or do multiple positions of BTC (Between The Cheeks) butt grinding & some other fun foreplay stuff. Million is the only one I ask to finger herself & put on a show for me, she's the only one I feel comfortable enough with to ask this. All I do is instruct Million & she is more than accommodating. I think every girl is YMMV in some way. The controlling ones & the ones that let the monger control are also YMMV.
A few girls who I think like to stay in control are:
Chanel at 7.
Bebe at TSpa.
Bobbi at Ichiban.
Jackie at VIP.
Jules at VIP.
Vivian / Stella at Goi.
All the other girls I know are submissive or willing to please for the most part.
Original Ass-LickeratKing Relaxation
[QUOTE=Kalani69;1593802]DiDi is on the older side, and not exactly a tight bod. If you only want the finger in the ass during HJ, I've had a couple younger ones try to do it to me, although I don't like it and stopped them. Try Sugar and Yong at Nirvana. Damn I think there were a couple others but I'll have to check my memory bank.[/QUOTE]If you've been around for as long as most of us enjoying this hobby, you'll remember to always be mindful YMMV.
In most cases you will get more bang for your buck when service trumps age and / or looks.
That being said. You will find the Sara aka Didi at King Relaxation is the original ass-loving Rimmer who first excited us when she was at CHM last year.
Don't take my words at face value. As fella previously wrote, do a forum search on the CHM thread for Did I in summer 2011.
Stay safe, monger on!
JB
She gets better every time.
[QUOTE=Sanchito94; 1594254]Hey brothers,
Dee Jae is hands down the way to go. Sanchito[/QUOTE]Brother Sanchito, I've seen Dae Jae twice in the past. The first time was great, but the second time was even better. Was like seeing an old girlfriend good. Haven't mongered much recently because of funds, but I would love to repeat with her. Both times I had a hard time getting to see her, but it was worth it. Thanks for the post. Poi Pounder.
Hot and Popular control freaks in the sheets
[QUOTE=WaveRider; 1594384]Only had the bad end of YMMV once, and that's from Hime of Kison. Most blandest experience ever. Except for a few average service experience, most were pretty good. Had everyone on that list except Chanelat7, Tspa Bebe, and StellaatGoi. Chanel is on my que list, however.
As for taking charge, I don't mind it much when they do. Still kinda young (same age as WOG) and some seem to tire before me so I take over.[/QUOTE]Since Wraith's question was asking about providers who one may consider controlling & who you might think one would want to avoid. I got to make sure to be clear I would repeat & even recommend some, if not all the girls I listed for different reasons. Half are part of my rotation. Half were just some who I kinda sorta get the impression that they want to control, but they had no probs doing it my way. Cus I myself am pretty mechanical with my routine most times LOL. I want what I want & how I want it & try to get it that way as best I can.
TSpa Bebe & VIP Jackie & Jules are the types who walked into the room & the 1st word they said was "shower?" Unlike most I've had who walk up & give a hug, or start with some kissing, or any type of small talk other than immediately asking would you like to get started with a shower. I read about Jackie not liking to break her "routine" & she always wants the guy to lay face down so she can massage. Both Bebe & Jackie were like that at the start when I was sitting up at the edge of the bed. They asked me to lay face down so they can do their foreplay routine. But after I got them to start with me sitting up, everything else was how I wanted it & I had good times. Jules is not that bad, just that she has preferences which I am ok with. I just got get the feeling they are the controlling types.
[QUOTE=YG365;1594387]Basically, what you're saying is if you're hot and popular, they run the show! LOL. Which completely makes sense. You should surprise them by sticking your penis up the wrong hole! If they get upset, let them know that the "Exit Only" sign was missing! LOL[/QUOTE]What's funny is, that "if you're hot & popular, they run the show. Which completely makes sense" does completely make sense. The hawt as hell Chanel, Energizer Bobbi 2. OMG, & The Notorious V. I. V. Are all mega hot & mega popular LOL. And these are the ones who I do think are controlling but are still in my rotation. Obviously cus they hot, but this is some excellent Att & Serv too!
Chanel runs the fkn show. At least she is not at all mechanical as evident by how she always switches things up with her commands at the start. She orders me to come sit at the edge of the bed, then next session its come sit on this chair, then next time its lay face down. I'm all like "Yesss ma'am!" Nowadays I could be laying down on the bed, all Chanel has to do is walk up & pat the edge of the bed & I jump up like a good puppy dog & sit Boo Boo sit, good dog. I know lots of C7 fans who talk about how she switches up her routine every sesh. She says she likes to start the sesh a different way each time & also have a different session each time too. It's mind boggling how she can remember everyone & what the hell she does with us all, cus she is the most busiest girl ever.
Bobbi is the one I go to when I'm lazy & just want the girl to do all the work. The positive thing about Bobbi's control is, I believe in her mind she feels this is the type of service mongers want. A girl who puts in all the work, effort & energy she can into everything. She has her routine in a way, but it involves a crap load of action. Since we always seem to do the same things, it might even be mechanical LOL. Only things changed now is the 20 min B2BTS has turned into a half hour B2BTS cus this is where I gets my foreplay on with B2. 0. This is where she will DFK me for the longest amount of time so I take what I can get here. Then I needs that soapy BTC butt grinds & now lots of Russian too since she got the upgrades. Then its back to the room for 8-10 mins of her doing body kisses from my head to toe. Then BJ, every variation of CG, BJBP, CG again, BJBP, every variation of RCG, BJBP, RCG again, BJBP, every variation of Doggy, BJBP, Mish, Scissors, BJBP, Doggy again, sideways doggy? Or sideways mish? BJBP, usually end with CG or RCG cus I want Bobbi to work me till I cum as I lay there relaxed. Plus we always go about 10 mins overtime. 1 great thing about Ichi, is Kelly has always knocked at the hour exact. And only one knock, don't think I ever heard a 2nd. It's as if Kelly knows from experience that most girls will just keep doing what they doing no matter how many times you knock. Or she's just being cool maybe.
Vivian is only controlling with her 'keep your penis clean' rules LOL. The sex part is great V. I. V. GFE no doubt. I always find it amusing reading a Viv report when a bro talks about her wrapping Jr in a tissue or toilet paper. Or a bro getting scoldings for wanting to take a leak after the shower, or for drying off his dick with the towel cus the towel gots germs. OMG spot on, I have been there. Its so funny how hard she works on getting that dick from the shower to the room germ free LOL. Once I was shocked that she let me shower myself. It was weird that I was a little bummed she wasn't going to give me a TS, but also kind of happy she trusted me to go clean my penis unsupervised haha. When I came back to the room the 1st thing she asked was "You clean him (penis) good?" LOL. I said yes & she replied "Let me taste." Yes please, be my guest! That is the correct way to check if a penis is clean! I could not wait to go home to shower so I could tell my GF "Look, I just showered. I cleaned him (penis) good. Come check & taste!"