Here's one more really big issue with giving out personal info.
[QUOTE=Borune23;6433222]The guys whine about the verification process fail to realize that this method of verification is the last resort. 1. If your doing this method means you probably lack 2 reputable references. 2. There are paid verification services that you also lack. 3. If a provider has given you all these options and you still can't deliver the it's you you the individual to give further information. I could see if these were low tier providers asking for this information then yes have all the caution you need to. We are talking about the top ten providers in this area. If you can't follow protocol then you probably don't need to play in the upper echelon of this hobby. We are here to share amazing experience with amazing women in the safety of this forum. Play at your comfort level and stop bitching.
Stay Safe and Happy hunting.
Bor.[/QUOTE]If she were to get busted, then LEO has all of your personal info. Not good. No telling how detailed her records are. Some of you may remember the LUVS GFE operation about 15 years ago. The record keeping was so meticulous, the operation even knew guys' likes and dislikes, sexually. Fortunately, they didn't require I'd or personal info, just references from other providers, or a lot of Johns would've been shitting bricks. Many were anyhow!
You have the wrong mindsets.
[QUOTE=Zillow;6432975]Unfortunately, there is a percentage of guys in this hobby that rape and / or assault girls. It also cuts down on the number of guys contacting them just to waste their time. Not saying I agree with the practice, but I can see their point of view.[/QUOTE]Yes, that is unfortunate. However, this point of view sucks. It's assumed that we're guilty of possible wrongdoing and it wreaks of self-preservation, which benefits no one but themselves. I'm sorry, but I provide the funds to receive no benefits? Yeah, not happening. And I have no problem providing the funds for the right ladies.
[QUOTE=Borune23;6433222]The guys whine about the verification process fail to realize that this method of verification is the last resort. 1. If your doing this method means you probably lack 2 reputable references. 2. There are paid verification services that you also lack. 3. If a provider has given you all these options and you still can't deliver the it's you you the individual to give further information. I could see if these were low tier providers asking for this information then yes have all the caution you need to. We are talking about the top ten providers in this area. If you can't follow protocol then you probably don't need to play in the upper echelon of this hobby. We are here to share amazing experience with amazing women in the safety of this forum. Play at your comfort level and stop bitching.
Stay Safe and Happy hunting.
Bor.[/QUOTE]It doesn't matter it's the last resort. The fact that someone has to go to these lengths as the last resort shows a lack of intelligence, intuition, and thoroughness to get it right without having to go to the last resort.
I have reputable references, but who is to say my reputable references will respond? Moreover, I don't need them talking to each other about me -- good or bad. And it is certainly not anyone's business who I see unless I want them to know.
Also, no, it is not our prerogative to give them more information. I'm sorry, remind me again why I'm providing the funds so they can possibly out me to the world? How is that staying safe? No, things are safe when I don't put my life in danger nor hers, not one or the other. And if you say they have to protect themselves, too, then don't enter the hobby. Period. They knew or should've known what they were getting into when they entered the hobby. They don't get to have their cake and eat it too. If they want to play with fire, then they have to handle the fire. Otherwise, go get a real job and learn how to amass wealth the right way. Rome wasn't built in a day and I'm sure as hell not going to lose it either!