Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

Sugarsarai30 on SDM.

[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=72074303[/URL]

Sugarsarai30.

Ok. She tried to extort me. I use a burner account with a fake name and she texted me one day and said "Is your name x?" I said yes to play along and she said "I just got this strange text asking me if I know x" Then she asked - "Could it be your wife? - It would be a shame if she is tracking you and found out about me. I can ignore it for $900. Or. " Anyhow, glad I use burner but that's just low. I immediately blocked her and cut off all communications. I don't need that in my life. So, beware fellow mongers.

[QUOTE=CooWhip;7312064]Sugarsarai30 on SDM.

[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=72074303[/URL]

Sugarsarai30.

Ok. She tried to extort me. I use a burner account with a fake name and she texted me one day and said "Is your name x?" I said yes to play along and she said "I just got this strange text asking me if I know x" Then she asked - "Could it be your wife? - It would be a shame if she is tracking you and found out about me. I can ignore it for $900. Or. " Anyhow, glad I use burner but that's just low. I immediately blocked her and cut off all communications. I don't need that in my life. So, beware fellow mongers.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the warning. Too bad she looks good. I wonder if the burner number was used by someone else before and she googled the number, got previous owner?

[QUOTE=BerolLoz;7312522]Thanks for the warning. Too bad she looks good. I wonder if the burner number was used by someone else before and she googled the number, got previous owner?[/QUOTE]No. I use an app called 'Burner' for texting and I can set up my own caller I'd. I used 'Maynard G Krebs' as my name. Hardly anyone under 40 gets the reference.

[QUOTE=BerolLoz;7312522]Thanks for the warning. Too bad she looks good. I wonder if the burner number was used by someone else before and she googled the number, got previous owner?[/QUOTE]The body isn't great though. She lost a lot of weight.

Baby.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a1224e65-5d42-4385-a483-3e3bbb151eb5[/URL]

I actually interacted with her 2 or 3 years ago on SecretBenefits. She had no intention to meet and was just trying to get 20/30 bucks here and there from people. She was inactive for a while and now popped up in SA so I reached out to her to see if she's game now. Short answer is no. She has no intention to meet. She would only communicate on snap or telegram now because she claimed her phone service was cutoff. You're right. (I deleted her phone number from couple years ago or else i would have texted her to prove her lies). Never asked to see my pics. Striked up a friendly conversation but said she won't meet until she gets her phone service back for safety concern (she only needed another 25 to pay for phone bill). Obviously it was a lie. However, she'd be happy to sell some pics and vids for 25.

Don't waste your time on her. She's a real person and real profile pics as I got her social media pages before. But she just wants to make some small cash and and not meeting in person.

So there's a little birdy on here that will take screenshots and share with the girls. Someone always finds a way to ruin it for the rest because they can't hold water. It of course does not come as a surprise so just be cautious on the details you share. Moving forward there will be minimal info shared.

[QUOTE=LolBoat;7308959]I was talking to an old friend and she was saying that doing this isn't really worth it anymore. It's a good profession to be when the economys good, not so much when things are bad.[/QUOTE]I don't get that--you would think it would be the opposite, unless you mean when the economy's bad, there aren't enough guys out there waving around $ to make it sustainable.

Would appreciate any knowledge on this SA member. TIA.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/409fc07d-1be1-4ac5-a62b-432dfdaf0a08[/URL]

I've been on Seeking for 9 years and this is the first time I've gotten warning about violation of their terms and policies. Had to watch a quick video and vouch that I understand their rules.

I am always very careful about what I say to the SBs.

And I don't think I was reported. Probably seeking scanned the messages looking for keywords. The only think I said that could cause this was mentioning about seeking a long-term arrangement. I suspect seeking doesn't like the word arrangement. So just be very very cautious.

[QUOTE=Grasshopping;7326051]I've been on Seeking for 9 years and this is the first time I've gotten warning about violation of their terms and policies. Had to watch a quick video and vouch that I understand their rules.

I am always very careful about what I say to the SBs.

And I don't think I was reported. Probably seeking scanned the messages looking for keywords. The only think I said that could cause this was mentioning about seeking a long-term arrangement. I suspect seeking doesn't like the word arrangement. So just be very very cautious.[/QUOTE]Same. Arrangement and Allowance are new buzzwords for the seeking's big brother hall monitor.

[QUOTE=DriveHard;7327322]Same. Arrangement and Allowance are new buzzwords for the seeking's big brother hall monitor.[/QUOTE]I didn't exactly get my hand slapped but I got a notice when I sent a message that it may contain questionable terms and that I might want to rephrase. I used the term SB so not sure if that's what did it or not. I've also noticed a slight delay between when you send a message and when it's posted in the conversation. I assume it's to give their system time to analyze the message for undesirable wording. The women seem to have freedom to say or do what they want. SA continues its downhill spiral.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/74a8ee0f-d81b-4fe3-ae6d-79cc155c70d1[/URL]

[URL]https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/northcarolina/charlotte/189337161[/URL]

Traveling visitor, have not met. I noticed the pic across sites. Contact info on 2nd link.

[QUOTE=DrSugarD;7327789]I didn't exactly get my hand slapped but I got a notice when I sent a message that it may contain questionable terms and that I might want to rephrase. I used the term SB so not sure if that's what did it or not.[/QUOTE]Yep, I tried a few keywords after reading your post. SugarDaddy, Sugarbaby, SD, and SB all set off the alarm. Guess they are really trying hard to be a mainstream dating site. It might end up easier to find dates without GPS, who knows.

I see the monthly cost for Seeking is like $109. Ouch. How does it work?

Do you just message the women, find out the price that suits them and then go on a date that typically ends with circling the bases? Or is it purely a dating site and it's really a competition for everyone and sex is the furthest thing from a given?

[QUOTE=NewToC;7331894]I see the monthly cost for Seeking is like $109. Ouch. How does it work?

Do you just message the women, find out the price that suits them and then go on a date that typically ends with circling the bases? Or is it purely a dating site and it's really a competition for everyone and sex is the furthest thing from a given?[/QUOTE]People's thoughts about Seeking differs. Some hate it. Some think it used to be great but has gone downhill. Some swear by it. I've been on and off it for 6 years, so I feel more positively about it than most. It pretends to be a dating site, and some people use it that way, but most use it for other purposes.

You create a profile (new members now have to verify their face with a selfie) and have access to ladies who have created a profile. Some ladies will want to date you. Some ladies will invite you over for sex.

It works well for me for a couple of reasons: I like to get to know the ladies and go out to dinner. I don't want to be with someone who is watching the clock and getting ready for their next appointment with a guy. When it works well, I see them regularly and we sometimes travel together. On the site, I've found very hot college and grad students who are looking for a thrill on the side. There are also pros on the site too.

Never discuss $ on the site. Good luck finding a gem.

[QUOTE=NewToC;7331894]I see the monthly cost for Seeking is like $109. Ouch. How does it work?

Do you just message the women, find out the price that suits them and then go on a date that typically ends with circling the bases? Or is it purely a dating site and it's really a competition for everyone and sex is the furthest thing from a given?[/QUOTE]I just subscribed at a discounted rate of 85 bucks this month. Imo its worth it for the month if you want to communicate with as most chicks as possible and then subscribe again in a few months FWIW.

New SLN Girl Alessandra 24.

[URL]https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Alessandra/[/URL]

[QUOTE=SugarLifeNow;7334851]New SLN Girl Alessandra 24.

[URL]https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Alessandra/[/URL][/QUOTE]If you want SLN to become relevant then fix your search, if I try to search under Charlotte I get someone out of Iowa.

[QUOTE=SugarLifeNow;7334851]New SLN Girl Alessandra 24.

[URL]https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Alessandra/[/URL][/QUOTE]I was going to give constructive feedback and then stopped myself when I realized I don't want you to get better at shilling.

I've noticed a lot of the girls on Seeking tend to use their real numbers which I am shocked by. I myself use a burner. I am not married but I like to keep myself as private as possible in the space. Do you guys give your real number to the girls? Anyone else shocked that some girls give out their real one?

[QUOTE=ScTraveler92;7335856]I've noticed a lot of the girls on Seeking tend to use their real numbers which I am shocked by. I myself use a burner. I am not married but I like to keep myself as private as possible in the space. Do you guys give your real number to the girls? Anyone else shocked that some girls give out their real one?[/QUOTE]Never do it. Check these sites for your real number and you will see why.

[URL]https://www.truepeoplesearch.com/[/URL]

[URL]https://www.fastpeoplesearch.com/[/URL]

I RTFF and still have questions on how to use a prepaid card on this site. Used a visa vanilla card and waited 24 hours after it was activated but it was still declined. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

Well gents I was thinking a about dipping my toes into it again. Couple of questions 1 is seeking worth it I was thinking of trying it for a month. 2 does anyone have like a discount code to use for their rate? Appreciate any help out there. Stay safe.

[QUOTE=TJ619;7340292]I RTFF and still have questions on how to use a prepaid card on this site. Used a visa vanilla card and waited 24 hours after it was activated but it was still declined. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.[/QUOTE]The physical cards got hacked on a large scale so many places deny now. The Vanilla visa e-gift cards will work. You have to pay with a real credit card though instead of cash.

[QUOTE=Dollersine;7340893]Well gents I was thinking a about dipping my toes into it again. Couple of questions 1 is seeking worth it I was thinking of trying it for a month. 2 does anyone have like a discount code to use for their rate? Appreciate any help out there. Stay safe.[/QUOTE]I have a 25% discount code that seems to be working still. Just use this link.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/billing/memberships?promo=c96maH[/URL]

[QUOTE=Grasshopping;7347513]I have a 25% discount code that seems to be working still. Just use this link.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/billing/memberships?promo=c96maH[/URL][/QUOTE]Thanks, I already took a 30 day membership.

Lots of no replays people contacting me from other areas and a few who want way too much, almost a waist but I am still trying.

Wow, these girls out ther are asking the moon! 700,500 and not to say they are ugly by no means (if their picture are accurate) but not drop dead beauties. Very frustrating and I keep getting the ones who need money to fix cars, out of the area, picture sellers or only online. Help any leads up north by the lake or surrounding area would be great, just don't really want to travel to s Charlotte. Stay safe out there and thanks.

[QUOTE=Dollersine;7348687]Wow, these girls out ther are asking the moon! 700,500 and not to say they are ugly by no means (if their picture are accurate) but not drop dead beauties. Very frustrating and I keep getting the ones who need money to fix cars, out of the area, picture sellers or only online. Help any leads up north by the lake or surrounding area would be great, just don't really want to travel to s Charlotte. Stay safe out there and thanks.[/QUOTE]They should be coming to you unless you can't host. I never traveled, they came to me. General within norm for travel is 40 min so if you want them to come to you pick girls who are within 40 min from you. A decent looking white girl who is normal and doesn't have demons will be 400. An AA girl 300 but if you lower your standards and get a girl slightly more hood you might find for 250. The SB scene has gotten very GPS since Covid and all the new money in the Carolinas.

[QUOTE=SnatchHappy;7348842]They should be coming to you unless you can't host. I never traveled, they came to me. General within norm for travel is 40 min so if you want them to come to you pick girls who are within 40 min from you. A decent looking white girl who is normal and doesn't have demons will be 400. An AA girl 300 but if you lower your standards and get a girl slightly more hood you might find for 250. The SB scene has gotten very GPS since Covid and all the new money in the Carolinas.[/QUOTE]Thanks, I can't host but it is difficult to find reasonable and not scammers who want money up front and I will Not doing that.

Still if any one has a lead on someone who is up by the lake area that can host, thanks.

[QUOTE=AdamEve7;7285740]I was unfortunately barred on SA, now no matter how many different email I'd I use to sign up, used VPN, my account is suspended immediately, not sure it's because of selfie verification feature which they added or what, is there a way to bypass this and open account successfully. Also what are the alternatives of SA which is as good as SA?[/QUOTE]I got tired of the SA banning and verification bullshit and gave up on it a few years ago.

I find all my recent babies on SDM now.

[URL]https://www.nbcnews.com/tech/social-media/tea-app-hacked-13000-photos-leaked-4chan-call-action-rcna221139[/URL]

Interesting data hack. It was a women's only review app for men they've dated. Someone hacked it and released all the Selfies and IDs of the women.

Bueller, anyone have any intel. She looks great. Coms have been good.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/702ea1e7-978b-47a5-8c2e-7d012c046257[/URL]

[QUOTE=ConCityKing;7352866]Bueller, anyone have any intel. She looks great. Coms have been good.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/702ea1e7-978b-47a5-8c2e-7d012c046257[/URL][/QUOTE]She's basically a pro. She's been around a long time.

[QUOTE=ConCityKing;7352866]Bueller, anyone have any intel. She looks great. Coms have been good.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/702ea1e7-978b-47a5-8c2e-7d012c046257[/URL][/QUOTE]Yeah agreed that she's a pro. It's a shame but I think does very high volume. Have met once and had fun. Wish it wasn't a full time job for her, but hey, with ass and tits like that can't blame her for making it a way of life!

In communication with [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c77a2de1-d6fc-46d8-99df-93ccf30cfa8b[/URL].

Any insights?

I'm from CHS area and will be in area next weekend for gun show in Rock Hill I'll be happy to reciprocate intel for you on my area.

Want's 2 $$ to meet as 'deposit' uuhhh no.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/31715c7f-1d71-4a30-aaef-085cb0030015[/URL]

[QUOTE=Kzetana;7363995]Want's 2 $$ to meet as 'deposit' uuhhh no.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/31715c7f-1d71-4a30-aaef-085cb0030015[/URL][/QUOTE]I must have missed it on here, but I see now that face / selfie verification is required to use seeking. Has anyone found a clever work around to this.

[QUOTE=Jay75;7364015]I must have missed it on here, but I see now that face / selfie verification is required to use seeking. Has anyone found a clever work around to this.[/QUOTE]It was such a nothing burger I don't even recall the details.

IMO If you have the illusion of privacy in this digital / ai / ring video world you are sadly mistaken. Just saying Don't mean to be a Debbie Downer just the way I see it.

Live life, fear nothing, stay strapped.

Hey everyone, new SugarLifeNow girl in Salisbury, Sally she's 19. This girl says she likes it rough, and loves being spanked, choked, and slapped while she's getting pounded. Very submissive. Not into girls but will do a 3 sum MFM. Said she will try anal, and likes doggy, ok with BBFS if recently tested.

[URL]https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/sallyjaneer/[/URL]

Any info on this lady will help. She's asking 2 K for the meet.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1ff82648-279e-4c84-9141-ca757c7a7321[/URL]