Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

[QUOTE=CameronX;2002282]I have been a provider off and on for years. I dropped off the scene when I graduated college and went into the corporate world to put my college degree to use. Only seeing people that I knew on the side. When I dropped off the scene no one that I knew was doing the BBBJ, CIM or "blow and go" specials and sure as hell not BBFS. Since showing back up on this scene, in the last year, I am finding that I am a dying breed. I'm practically being bullied (not by all) and turned away (by some) because by definition (to some) I'm not considered a true GFE because when it comes to BJ covered is as far as I will go. Which, I seriously could careless about a silly definition when it comes to my health and the health of others. However, you would be surprised at the amount of gentlemen out there who are fine with CBJ and who actually prefer it that way, with that being said when it comes to the reality of this site most of them aren't located here. I've accepted what has become the norm for others on this site as far as BBBJ, CIM, and other random acts but anyone who participates in BBFS is putting everyone at risk, everyone. I'm no saint but I do have the sense that god gave me and I tend to use it more times than not. To be clear, I have no business or opinion when it comes to the dealings of others and what they choose to do or not to do. This is my perspective and some insights from my own experiences.

CX.[/QUOTE]Do you allow a man to DATY? If you do, do you use a dental dam? You have just as much chance of getting Chlamydia through unprotected vaginal oral sex as you do from a BBBJ. Just'askin..

[QUOTE=BigTittedBear;2004069]Do you allow a man to DATY? If you do, do you use a dental dam? You have just as much chance of getting Chlamydia through unprotected vaginal oral sex as you do from a BBBJ. Just'askin..[/QUOTE]I am not one of the guys that "pressure her," but I did warn her before she joined this site, that most of the guys on here (and most of the other boards in this region) usually have a tough time tolerating CBJ when a provider advertises GFE.

I have seen Cameron off and on for almost a decade. I can say she is fun, and great to talk to in the session, and quite skilled. Her CBJ isn't bad for well, a CBJ. Lot's of eye contact and plenty of frenzy and great technique. I wouldn't let the fact that she makes you cover up bother you too much unless you absolutely thrive on CIM. If the BJ is just foreplay for you, you won't miss anything in the session with her. Besides, even if the miraculous happened, I absolutely guarantee you she would never ever go CIM even if she relented on the CBJ.

Cameron and I have joked back and forth on this for years and one time I brought Saran Wrap to a session and used a piece of it during DATY to show her just how covered oral sex feels for us guys. She giggled at my silliness, but still came, so it was hard to make any point on the subject.

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The reality is, her body, her choice, and you just have to respect it. If the BBBJ is that big of a deal for you, you should move on, rather than harass this gal. If however you just want a great time with real lady (reminds you of a gal you would work with, or next door) and a session that feels more like friends with benefits, she provides a great session. Safety though, is emphasized.

Admin,

Get off of your high horse. The mongers on this site are quite capable to scroll through the ads; it is just 1, maybe 2 screens to scroll through to find todays posts. Not that damn hard. Also consider the ones who do advertise multiple times per day probably need the cash.

Anyone else think that Admin should go see one of these fine providers rather that being a pri&.

Flick1.

[QUOTE=Admin2;2003807]Is SHe code for a TV / TS or just a typo? Just wondering.

A2.[/QUOTE]I haven't heard / read that before, so seems to me to be a typo. On the other hand, I'm not in that environment so could be new usage.

Cheech.

[QUOTE=Cheech1;2004455]I haven't heard / read that before, so seems to me to be a typo. On the other hand, I'm not in that environment so could be new usage.

Cheech.[/QUOTE]Can you see how that makes me wonder?

I got this in a PM today;.

[QUOTE]Instead of being a shit head coward and hiding behind emails. Come out like a man and take me up pussy. Go ahead and delete my registration. Pussy coward[/QUOTE]Am I the only one seeing the irony in somebody telling me I'm a pussy for using an email then challenging me to fight [B]through email[/B]?

Just wondering.

A2.

[QUOTE=Flick1;2004298]Admin,

Get off of your high horse. The mongers on this site are quite capable to scroll through the ads; it is just 1, maybe 2 screens to scroll through to find todays posts. Not that damn hard. Also consider the ones who do advertise multiple times per day probably need the cash.

Anyone else think that Admin should go see one of these fine providers rather that being a pri&.

Flick1.[/QUOTE]I posted it, one ad, per day, per thread. Simple, easy actually. I didn't say one ad on even number days and no ads on odd, and you can double down on any days that the second letter is the same as the first in your user name. One ad, per day, per thread or you can't post for a week. 95% of the chicks on the site were already doing that with no problem, but some of them were putting up two or three ads per day. I had to do something so I did. I did this because I was getting TONS of fucking mail from guys that were asking me to do something about it.

As far as me needing to go see somebody because my sexual frustration is making me grumpy. I live in a city where the hobby is legal and there are over 30,000 sex workers, yes 30 fucking thousand. I fuck more pussy than a gynecologist sees. I fuck so much different pussy that I've been thinking about taking a month off because I'm a little bored with fucking 3-4 different women a week. As far as drumming up support for your point of view I'll do it it but with a twist.

Anybody that thinks I should stop giving chicks a week off for posting two ads in a day say so. However if you think that's ok and I should change this guys title to Douchebag post that instead.

Seriously, I'll go with the majority. Voting closes tomorrow night. Only mongers get to vote, and no votes cast by anybody that created their profile less than a month ago will count.

A2.

A2 just give the ahole what he wants, delete him. Problem solved.

[QUOTE=Admin2;2004530]I got this in a PM today;.

Am I the only one seeing the irony in somebody telling me I'm a pussy for using an email then challenging me to fight [B]through email[/B]?

Just wondering.

A2.[/QUOTE]

Looks like to me whoever that was wanted a back alley brawl. Internet karate is for pussies. Delete that fucker, no room for confrontations here. MF

[QUOTE=Admin2;2004530]I got this in a PM today;.

Am I the only one seeing the irony in somebody telling me I'm a pussy for using an email then challenging me to fight [B]through email[/B]?

Just wondering.

A2.[/QUOTE].

I don't want anyones juices in my mouth by "accident" or on purpose as that is how disease is spread. In order to avoid this I don't participate in BBBJ or CIM. Obviously, I am fully aware of the possible risks that could result by allowing DATY. However, the facts are (while not fool proof as nothing is) the chances of me contracting something from someone performing DATY on me is low risk, unless the giver happens to have an open sore on their mouth. In which case DATY would most certainly not be on the menu for anyone in that case scenario. On the other hand, I know that I am clean. I know that I am not passing anything to anyone. Which, also makes me feel better about the act. At the end of the day, I am only in control of myself, not anyone else. So, I take the precautions that I do for myself and for those that I share my time with for these very specific reasons.

CX.

[QUOTE=BigTittedBear;2004069]Do you allow a man to DATY? If you do, do you use a dental dam? You have just as much chance of getting Chlamydia through unprotected vaginal oral sex as you do from a BBBJ. Just'askin..[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Admin2;2004554] However if you think that's ok and I should change this guys title to Douchebag post that instead.

Seriously, I'll go with the majority. Voting closes tomorrow night. Only mongers get to vote, and no votes cast by anybody that created their profile less than a month ago will count.

A2.[/QUOTE]I vote Douchebag, or perhaps something more descriptive like "aged dick cheese.".

[QUOTE=Admin2;2004554]I posted it, one ad, per day, per thread. Simple, easy actually. I didn't say one ad on even number days and no ads on odd, and you can double down on any days that the second letter is the same as the first in your user name. One ad, per day, per thread or you can't post for a week. 95% of the chicks on the site were already doing that with no problem, but some of them were putting up two or three ads per day. I had to do something so I did. I did this because I was getting TONS of fucking mail from guys that were asking me to do something about it.

As far as me needing to go see somebody because my sexual frustration is making me grumpy. I live in a city where the hobby is legal and there are over 30,000 sex workers, yes 30 fucking thousand. I fuck more pussy than a gynecologist sees. I fuck so much different pussy that I've been thinking about taking a month off because I'm a little bored with fucking 3-4 different women a week. As far as drumming up support for your point of view I'll do it it but with a twist.

Anybody that thinks I should stop giving chicks a week off for posting two ads in a day say so. However if you think that's ok and I should change this guys title to Douchebag post that instead.

Seriously, I'll go with the majority. Voting closes tomorrow night. Only mongers get to vote, and no votes cast by anybody that created their profile less than a month ago will count.

A2.[/QUOTE]Wow, you are in an area with 30,000 sex worker and it is legal. Good for you; this is fucking Cincinnati Ohio and we get 10-15 posts a day; not 30,000. I am so proud of you - 4 ladies a week and ready to take a month off. Once again this is fucking Cincinnati Ohio, 10 - 15 ads a day.

Some of the ladies on this site are between a rock and a hard place, no pun intended, and need the money. Only Morons cannot filter out a provider that posts more than once a day.

Once again, my post will sit for 5-10 hours on hold so the it is irrelevant when it hits. Why, Admin is the Douchebag.

Ok you local mongers, are you just going to be pussy's and side with Admin?

Flick1.

He spelled out pretty clear what his rules are. If the people can't follow his rules, then pay the price. A couple that got banned are high volume providers. They shouldn't be stuck between a rock and a hard place. I'm sure they are making $1000 to $1500 per week tax free. Maybe they should save it instead of being broke all the time like the one who found out she had to move that day, yeah right.

Yeah. We'll side with Admin (A2) The board was getting out of control and he is working his ass off to bring it back to how it is supposed to be. He even created the Octagon to allow for rants and raves, but in a secluded place) which were normally barred from the boards. If you think moderating this is easy, with people complaining and writing things they shouldn't, then there are other places you can move to.

[QUOTE=Flick1;2004649]Wow, you are in an area with 30,000 sex worker and it is legal. Good for you; this is fucking Cincinnati Ohio and we get 10-15 posts a day; not 30,000. I am so proud of you - 4 ladies a week and ready to take a month off. Once again this is fucking Cincinnati Ohio, 10 - 15 ads a day.

Some of the ladies on this site are between a rock and a hard place, no pun intended, and need the money. Only Morons cannot filter out a provider that posts more than once a day.

Once again, my post will sit for 5-10 hours on hold so the it is irrelevant when it hits. Why, Admin is the Douchebag.

Ok you local mongers, are you just going to be pussy's and side with Admin?

Flick1.[/QUOTE]

I vote to let providers post multi ads! I'm not to lazy to scroll past the ones that don't interest me!

Wdm.

[QUOTE=Admin2;2004554]I posted it, one ad, per day, per thread. Simple, easy actually. I didn't say one ad on even number days and no ads on odd, and you can double down on any days that the second letter is the same as the first in your user name. One ad, per day, per thread or you can't post for a week. 95% of the chicks on the site were already doing that with no problem, but some of them were putting up two or three ads per day. I had to do something so I did. I did this because I was getting TONS of fucking mail from guys that were asking me to do something about it.

As far as me needing to go see somebody because my sexual frustration is making me grumpy. I live in a city where the hobby is legal and there are over 30,000 sex workers, yes 30 fucking thousand. I fuck more pussy than a gynecologist sees. I fuck so much different pussy that I've been thinking about taking a month off because I'm a little bored with fucking 3-4 different women a week. As far as drumming up support for your point of view I'll do it it but with a twist.

Anybody that thinks I should stop giving chicks a week off for posting two ads in a day say so. However if you think that's ok and I should change this guys title to Douchebag post that instead.

Seriously, I'll go with the majority. Voting closes tomorrow night. Only mongers get to vote, and no votes cast by anybody that created their profile less than a month ago will count.

A2.[/QUOTE]