Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

Man, every time this girl pops up here, I am tempted. Her body is banging and her face is super cute. But I've dated crazy before (and it fucked me up in the head) and this girls sounds like a whole 'nother level. But crazy is great in bed. I'm older now and much better at managing women, and have systems in place to keep this life separate from my real one, but.

I don't need drama, but I'd really like to tap that.

Kwagmire.

[QUOTE=DonnnyBravo;7341962]Saw her maybe 5-6 x. Crazy does mean fun, but can also be too crazy to be anywhere near. Be warned, she has no problems calling LE when she has a tantrum bc you won't pay for her nails. Also has no problem opening the car door driving down the freeway. I'm not even kidding. Not worth the chaos. Flew too close to the sun on this one.

If you hit her up, she'll likely ask to hit the bar or Minx same night. She also has no problems sending nudes just whenever she likes and unprovoked. If you text "Hi" expect to get no less than 20 calls and 50 texts once she responds. If you're headed to her, expect her to video call you every 5 min for status and eta. Also not joking. She supposedly did half of a psychology degree at Central, so she'll prob try to say how you're a narcissist and a sick mofo or something in the car immediately prior to giving you road head. If you want her to stop talking, road head is the only way to go with her. Just make sure the car door is shut.

If you have a boring life and feel like hanging off a cliff isn't enough adventure, she will likely fit the bill.

If youve seen her before and never experienced any of these things then I have no idea how I was so special to her. lol[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Kwagmire;7346582]Man, every time this girl pops up here, I am tempted. Her body is banging and her face is super cute. But I've dated crazy before (and it fucked me up in the head) and this girls sounds like a whole 'nother level. But crazy is great in bed. I'm older now and much better at managing women, and have systems in place to keep this life separate from my real one, but.

I don't need drama, but I'd really like to tap that.

Kwagmire.[/QUOTE]If I was single, I'll book a hotel in Vegas for the weekend and 2 roundtrip tickets and take her there to fuck her brains out.

And let her know that if she fuck around or act up, I'll leave her ass there.

[QUOTE=Hawg219;7345350]Had a date with Nicole and overall I was satisfied, but YMMV.

The good: incredibly polite attitude, great hygiene, no demons, alert / considerate of your time, open menu (including DFK, DATY, BBFSCIP), negotiable ppm, very curvy in all the right places, big tits.

The bad: Can host but very late night and she has to sneak you into her room in the sober house she lives in. Not the most enthusiastic in bed, often tired from working her legit job so much.

Overall I enjoyed my time with her and will repeat. But is she the right match for you? That's to be determined. She sneaked me into the sober house she lives in at 1:30 am and it was a bit of a hassle of waiting around for people to go to sleep and getting in position etc etc. But once we were in her room, she quickly showered and the was ripe for a good time after that. She's a working waitress who does this hobby on the side for extra income. And though she gives off a pro vibe from her experience, she behaves like a UTR overall. She has a little bit of a belly, but the rest of her body is well toned for what it is; primary from standing all day doing a service industry job. She tasted great DATY and her feet are in excellent shape if that matters to you. She was exhausted but let me go two rounds, both BBFSCIP after showing a clean and recent test. DFK included. Greek is off the table and CG is hit or miss depending how tired she is. I personally enjoyed her and will repeat, but she might not be for everyone just FYI. YMMV depending what you want out of the date, but her communication is excellent once she's texting you. She ask for 300 ppm, but it is easily negotiable simply because she needs the extra money.

She looks much better than her photos, attached are what she looks closest to.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0a18c292-b3ce-4cd2-8091-25eade0124c0[/URL][/QUOTE]Nicky came over lasdt night after she finished work. It was late. Too late for me, but I wasn't abotu to cancel on her at the last minute. I found her to be pleasant and personable. She has a past and she is very forthright about it. I told her what I was into and she even bought an outfit to match what I wanted. She's pretty plain looking. Has a tummy and has pushed out 3 pups over her life so yeah. Does she check the sleazy white trash hooker box? Totally. The sex was meh. I had to drive the boat most of the time but she was a good sport. DFK, BBJ and BBFSCIP and CIM is definitely available if you want it. Greek is probably on the menu too. But at 2:00 AM, coming down off an eddible I could only get one round off and couldn't get off twice but not for a lack of effort on her part, that was on me. 300 ppm, but others have gotten her down to 200. I figured it was a fair tradeoff since she was coming to me and driving about 45 minutes one way.

All in all, it was fine. Not sure I will see her again though. Mostly because her availability doesn't match my free time.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/abc96c37-6125-4e60-9f21-6db1ae57db2d[/URL]

She only has one picture and relatively new in Wallingford. Her face looks somewhat familiar and I was wondering if she's one of famous / imfamous characters discussed here.

Can anyone share crazy Rachel number with me? I am ready to take a risk for some good action.

I'll share Tess's contact in return.

[QUOTE=BigBoss203;7347715]Can anyone share crazy Rachel number with me? I am ready to take a risk for some good action.

I'll share Tess's contact in return.[/QUOTE]We only communicated on snapchat and the account she used for that appears to be gone now.

I admire your confidence in taking on rhis challenge. Just remember, you are obligated to detail how your experience goes.

[QUOTE=XxMarkXx;7347987]We only communicated on snapchat and the account she used for that appears to be gone now.

I admire your confidence in taking on rhis challenge. Just remember, you are obligated to detail how your experience goes.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JtKim;7346923][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/abc96c37-6125-4e60-9f21-6db1ae57db2d[/URL]

She only has one picture and relatively new in Wallingford. Her face looks somewhat familiar and I was wondering if she's one of famous / imfamous characters discussed here.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BigBoss203;7347715]Can anyone share crazy Rachel number with me? I am ready to take a risk for some good action.

I'll share Tess's contact in return.[/QUOTE]You guys are nuts. You literally want to have face time with LE for the chance to have some ass. I wasn't joking when I said she called LE on me bc I didn't give her money for her nails. I didn't even sleep with her that day. Just tried to hook her up with a ride.

[QUOTE=DonnnyBravo;7350068]You guys are nuts. You literally want to have face time with LE for the chance to have some ass. I wasn't joking when I said she called LE on me bc I didn't give her money for her nails. I didn't even sleep with her that day. Just tried to hook her up with a ride.[/QUOTE]I can't believe it either. Did you read my post? Just happened upon her and hope I never ever see her again! Super crazy and let me say that again. Super crazy. You guys are thinking with the little head. It will get you in BIG trouble with this one! Donny Bravo ain't lying!! If you let the little head make your decision, please report back! I will definitely be entertained!

[QUOTE=LuckyCT;7350316]I can't believe it either. Did you read my post? Just happened upon her and hope I never ever see her again! Super crazy and let me say that again. Super crazy. You guys are thinking with the little head. It will get you in BIG trouble with this one! Donny Bravo ain't lying!! If you let the little head make your decision, please report back! I will definitely be entertained![/QUOTE]Agreed.

IMO, there is a good kind of crazy where there is the potential for a freak in bed. That's not the kind of crazy we're talking about here.

It's crazy in a sad, dangerous and unpredictable way.

It's unfortunate because she was getting help and was very pleasant when she was in a better place.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d2d13a12-801d-4da7-8a70-507453deb985[/URL]

Anyone seen her before? I've seen her on the site a bit but just started talking to her.

Going to set up a date soon but curious how she is and what's her usual ask if anyone has info.

[QUOTE=CtSpoilGuy;7351298][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d2d13a12-801d-4da7-8a70-507453deb985[/URL]

Anyone seen her before? I've seen her on the site a bit but just started talking to her.

Going to set up a date soon but curious how she is and what's her usual ask if anyone has info.[/QUOTE]It was a one and done. Pictures are flattering.

[QUOTE=GlenBenton;7351376]It was a one and done. Pictures are flattering.[/QUOTE]What did it run you? I may still want to dip my toe in once just to see LOL.

[QUOTE=CtSpoilGuy;7351429]What did it run you? I may still want to dip my toe in once just to see LOL.[/QUOTE]It was awhile ago, so I forget. It was prob somewhere between 200 and 300.

[QUOTE=CtSpoilGuy;7351298][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d2d13a12-801d-4da7-8a70-507453deb985[/URL]

Anyone seen her before? I've seen her on the site a bit but just started talking to her.

Going to set up a date soon but curious how she is and what's her usual ask if anyone has info.[/QUOTE]She's fun and can squirt but I agree pics are flattering and it was a one and done for me. She asks for too much.

[QUOTE=Jonma;7352077]She's fun and can squirt but I agree pics are flattering and it was a one and done for me. She asks for too much.[/QUOTE]Cn you provide Pics? I'm sure we can identify.

Has anyone seen Sweetkitten98 in New Haven? Also known as Emily? I've been trying to get in touch with her via seeking but no luck. There's sporadic reports of her not being the best with following through back in 2020, but I'm trying to see if things have changed. Reports have also said she's an incredibly low ppm with a wide open menu if you're lucky enough to see her. Anyone have her number or socials info?

Sweetkitten98, Sweet Kitten, Emily, Sweet Kitten 98.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0578fbc7-19bd-4aa8-ab7c-ec9c1e97ff6c[/URL]

[QUOTE=Hawg219;7352939]Has anyone seen Sweetkitten98 in New Haven? Also known as Emily? I've been trying to get in touch with her via seeking but no luck. There's sporadic reports of her not being the best with following through back in 2020, but I'm trying to see if things have changed. Reports have also said she's an incredibly low ppm with a wide open menu if you're lucky enough to see her. Anyone have her number or socials info?

Sweetkitten98, Sweet Kitten, Emily, Sweet Kitten 98.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0578fbc7-19bd-4aa8-ab7c-ec9c1e97ff6c[/URL][/QUOTE]She's been on SA forever!!

I probably reached out to her once or twice in the past but never heard back from her.

[QUOTE=Hawg219;7352939]Has anyone seen Sweetkitten98 in New Haven? Also known as Emily? I've been trying to get in touch with her via seeking but no luck. There's sporadic reports of her not being the best with following through back in 2020, but I'm trying to see if things have changed. Reports have also said she's an incredibly low ppm with a wide open menu if you're lucky enough to see her. Anyone have her number or socials info?

Sweetkitten98, Sweet Kitten, Emily, Sweet Kitten 98.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0578fbc7-19bd-4aa8-ab7c-ec9c1e97ff6c[/URL][/QUOTE]I saw her a couple of years ago about three or four times. As TG9 said, she's been on SA for a long time. She was fun and had very few restrictions. Thanks for reminding me about her. I might just have to hit her up again.

[QUOTE=Hawg219;7352939]Has anyone seen Sweetkitten98 in New Haven? Also known as Emily? I've been trying to get in touch with her via seeking but no luck. There's sporadic reports of her not being the best with following through back in 2020, but I'm trying to see if things have changed. Reports have also said she's an incredibly low ppm with a wide open menu if you're lucky enough to see her. Anyone have her number or socials info?

Sweetkitten98, Sweet Kitten, Emily, Sweet Kitten 98.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0578fbc7-19bd-4aa8-ab7c-ec9c1e97ff6c[/URL][/QUOTE]Yeah I saw her a bunch back in the day but she is hard to actually get to meet up nowadays. Not sure the juice is worth the squeeze anymore on that one and I think she has gotten a little bigger recently too.

On a side note anyone have info on this one? Says she has been a member since 2023 but she has a platonic tag and she told me she has never met anyone. Which I assume is BS but curious if it's worth my time: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bc1af180-2e03-4ad6-b70e-1c1468705198[/URL].

[QUOTE=Steve99;7338888]Plus 1. Us 150-300 guys are just getting priced out. Guess there are just enough dumb ass tech, wall street, etc. Bros out there snapping up anything above an 8. But these girls don't get 500 consistently and are back on SA and then they drop out. The quality is weak also lately on SA. I just will not go over 3 out of principle. Very few are worth more than 200. LOL. I have had a regular for 3 raw. But she hunts around on SA. They all have rosters like us.

I am trying SDM. That is a rough bunch LOL. Girl with real nice tits in Stamford said she had coffee and guy gave her 300. WTF. She could be lying. You just have to keep hunting.

Her: [URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=73939902[/URL].

She doesn't drive and Stamford. Which is too far for me. But nice rack. Haha.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=GlenBenton;7339529]I've had tremendous success on seeking and I've only surpassed 500 twice (maybe 3 x.).

The girls I see are all bangers too.

Most ask for crazy amounts. I say no. Send them a picture and work my magic and everyone of them acquiesce to my counter offer.

That said. I ask again "maybe it's you".[/QUOTE]Yes, not criticising Steve, but that's the thing I find when I get guys new to sugaring asking about girls, you can't underestimate looks and game, I've had a guy tell me about a girl he found on one of the sites and she's doing him for 200, I message her a normal "Hi how are you" message and crickets. Now, this guy is a fit guy in his early 30's (and I'm not that), so of course, he's going to get access to ladies I just won't without throwing money I don't want to spend. Am I mad?, No, jealous-yeah, a bit LOL That's life.

The picture idea is good, but I think I need to work on my photos.

Ah, I remember her now. You're spot on. Plays games. Wants to go shopping and tries to get you to spend money but won't likely end up doing anything beyond that. Used to go by Rose. I know her real name. She was on STG for a brief period, still constantly playing games.

[QUOTE=Chudakkad;7341558][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f029aed9-fb88-41e0-b8cb-1b9f8e8b3649[/URL]

Like this exotic beauty but she said that I am not her type physically.


[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8c83aa3c-dfc6-429b-85a1-ea6699168584[/URL]

Met her, not a good experience, looks way better in person but plays mind games and drinks a lot, had to say goobye to her after first meetup[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;7354023]Ah, I remember her now. You're spot on. Plays games. Wants to go shopping and tries to get you to spend money but won't likely end up doing anything beyond that. Used to go by Rose. I know her real name. She was on STG for a brief period, still constantly playing games.[/QUOTE]She told me that she now works at the casino.

[QUOTE=CtSpoilGuy;7353369]Yeah I saw her a bunch back in the day but she is hard to actually get to meet up nowadays. Not sure the juice is worth the squeeze anymore on that one and I think she has gotten a little bigger recently too.

On a side note anyone have info on this one? Says she has been a member since 2023 but she has a platonic tag and she told me she has never met anyone. Which I assume is BS but curious if it's worth my time: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bc1af180-2e03-4ad6-b70e-1c1468705198[/URL].[/QUOTE]If a girl marks platonic, I move on, unless her profile indicates that she might be too stupid to know what the word means.

[QUOTE=JonMels;7354473]If a girl marks platonic, I move on, unless her profile indicates that she might be too stupid to know what the word means.[/QUOTE]While I understand how having "platonic" in their profile would be a reason for concern, I still talk to them. Far more are willing to fuck than you might think.

It's a numbers game. I use every signal available to me to eliminate likely headaches and then move forward from there. It's all about improving your ROI.

[QUOTE=Tnahound;7354869]While I understand how having "platonic" in their profile would be a reason for concern, I still talk to them. Far more are willing to fuck than you might think.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;7354900]It's a numbers game. I use every signal available to me to eliminate likely headaches and then move forward from there. It's all about improving your ROI.[/QUOTE]I mean it's already pretty low effort in my opinion so sending a couple of messages doesn't take any real time and I've definitely hooked up with ones that have platonic in their profile anyway.

In this case it looks like she ended up blocking me anyway so I guess we will never know LOL.

You have to be joking. If you're doing it right, SA is extremely high effort. But worth it if you can spare the time. But you still want to direct that effort at the most promising prospects, not just spray and pray.

[QUOTE=CtSpoilGuy;7354951]I mean it's already pretty low effort in my opinion so sending a couple of messages doesn't take any real time and I've definitely hooked up with ones that have platonic in their profile anyway.

In this case it looks like she ended up blocking me anyway so I guess we will never know LOL.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;7354956]You have to be joking. If you're doing it right, SA is extremely high effort. But worth it if you can spare the time. But you still want to direct that effort at the most promising prospects, not just spray and pray.[/QUOTE]If you are successful and score, going in bare, you do spray and pray.

Haha. I always wear a raincoat. I find it more enjoyable when I'm not stressing about the consequences.

[QUOTE=ManLovesLadies;7355053]If you are successful and score, going in bare, you do spray and pray.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;7354956]You have to be joking. If you're doing it right, SA is extremely high effort. But worth it if you can spare the time. But you still want to direct that effort at the most promising prospects, not just spray and pray.[/QUOTE]I guess it depends on what you consider to be high effort then. For many of these women it's a few texts and meeting up for fun pretty quickly. Compare that to meeting someone on tinder and going on dates and potentially taking a bunch of time before things happen. Seems pretty low effort to me in comparison and it's not like I haven't had a ton of success on here or anything.

And yes I always wrap it up for anything. Not rolling the dice on that considering how many women it is and how many other guys I'm sure they are doing the same things with.

Yes, that explains it. Seems like we're looking for very different things. My dates are typically multi-hour events, often including a nice relaxed meal afterwards. For me, it's closer to a regular date. That's how I like it, when I have the time. And if I don't have the time, then I don't bother. I've lot interest in the STG-type quickie sessions I used to do before I discovered SA and the UTR world.

[QUOTE=CtSpoilGuy;7355094]I guess it depends on what you consider to be high effort then. For many of these women it's a few texts and meeting up for fun pretty quickly. Compare that to meeting someone on tinder and going on dates and potentially taking a bunch of time before things happen. Seems pretty low effort to me in comparison and it's not like I haven't had a ton of success on here or anything.

And yes I always wrap it up for anything. Not rolling the dice on that considering how many women it is and how many other guys I'm sure they are doing the same things with.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;7355116]Yes, that explains it. Seems like we're looking for very different things. My dates are typically multi-hour events, often including a nice relaxed meal afterwards. For me, it's closer to a regular date. That's how I like it, when I have the time. And if I don't have the time, then I don't bother. I've lot interest in the STG-type quickie sessions I used to do before I discovered SA and the UTR world.[/QUOTE]Oh mine are as well. We generally hang out at my place for awhile. Sometimes after dinner or a drink somewhere. Sometimes without doing that. But my point is I already know how the night is going to end and what is expected of me. I suppose it's not as low effort as a pro but it's generally much lower effort than dating. Otherwise why not just do that?

The UTR effort is somewhere between pro and civilian. Agreed.

[QUOTE=CtSpoilGuy;7355360]Oh mine are as well. We generally hang out at my place for awhile. Sometimes after dinner or a drink somewhere. Sometimes without doing that. But my point is I already know how the night is going to end and what is expected of me. I suppose it's not as low effort as a pro but it's generally much lower effort than dating. Otherwise why not just do that?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;7354900]It's a numbers game. I use every signal available to me to eliminate likely headaches and then move forward from there. It's all about improving your ROI.[/QUOTE]I concur, once a SB backed out at the last moment saying that she has never done this before and this whole idea makes her cringe and I responded in a very classy manner that I respect her decision etc etc and a week later I messaged her expecting no response to my surprise and she was on, had a great time with her, so I agree its a numbers game.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e47df5da-4f99-4eee-b553-4c77f04398ed[/URL]

I messaged her 6 months ago, never met up because at the time her age range maxed at 59.

Upon a deep photo search it led me to her LinkedIn page where she is a Doctor but does not live in West Hartford.

Then there was another link to a Tutor page with her photo.

I am pretty sure its a fake profile.

[QUOTE=PoolPlayInTool;7355911][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e47df5da-4f99-4eee-b553-4c77f04398ed[/URL]

I messaged her 6 months ago, never met up because at the time her age range maxed at 59.

Upon a deep photo search it led me to her LinkedIn page where she is a Doctor but does not live in West Hartford.

Then there was another link to a Tutor page with her photo.

I am pretty sure its a fake profile.[/QUOTE]I have been talking to her, she has poor communication, she told me that she is a Doctor, has FL area code number so I am also thinking its a fake profile.

Anyone ever meet her? Says she had an SD before. Seems legit and DTF.

[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=73296571[/URL]

[QUOTE=Chudakkad;7356399]I have been talking to her, she has poor communication, she told me that she is a Doctor, has FL area code number so I am also thinking its a fake profile.[/QUOTE]I agree: fake profile. But it isn't the area code that makes me feel that way, it's the extremely "extra" ai profile. No human writes like that, and if they do, they have issues.

Again: the area code isn't the biggest red flag to me. I have had regulars from SA with Texas, Hawaii, and RI area codes. I, myself, have an out of state area code. Find a girl that attends school in the area and they likely kept their old phone number.

I've never encountered an MD on the site, and that seems a bit odd, but I have encountered some girls with advanced degrees. I do have an out of state SA girl whom I see when I travel. She claimed she is an RN. It wasn't that easy to find other info on her, but when I did, I discovered she's actually a PA-C in an emergency room setting. Some of the best oral I've ever had. Still no MDs, though.

[QUOTE=Sutigel2;7356788]I agree: fake profile. But it isn't the area code that makes me feel that way, it's the extremely "extra" ai profile. No human writes like that, and if they do, they have issues.

Again: the area code isn't the biggest red flag to me. I have had regulars from SA with Texas, Hawaii, and RI area codes. I, myself, have an out of state area code. Find a girl that attends school in the area and they likely kept their old phone number.

I've never encountered an MD on the site, and that seems a bit odd, but I have encountered some girls with advanced degrees. I do have an out of state SA girl whom I see when I travel. She claimed she is an RN. It wasn't that easy to find other info on her, but when I did, I discovered she's actually a PA-C in an emergency room setting. Some of the best oral I've ever had. Still no MDs, though.[/QUOTE]Seems like a lot of women are using Chat Gpt, I agree most of them are the fake profiles. Seems unlikely that a working MD would have a profile on one of these sites. Especially when the photos can be reverse searched.

[QUOTE=Chudakkad;7356399]I have been talking to her, she has poor communication, she told me that she is a Doctor, has FL area code number so I am also thinking its a fake profile.[/QUOTE]Based on what I saw from the photo search and then knowing her real name I saw Florida, New Jersey, and Mass.

Back when her profile first showed up a reverse photo search on one of her photos brought me to a women's hair site because the photo was an exact match.

The same photos she is using now did not show up in search back then 6 months ago.

She said she loves cars, well I have one that everyone loves and offered to take her for a ride once the weather got warm. I deactivate my profile after that mess with that nut case who knifed my car seats and I never had further conversation with her on seeking.