Timing to wait. Yes, really
[QUOTE=Tngamstn1;5641017]Guys,. Most of us work (at least some of us still do),. And these girls do as well. There are times I am at a customer,. And cannot take calls for several hours. Give some of these girls a break. They (some), are out there trying to make a living like the rest of us. Yep, there are some bad providers, but also some good ones. If they do not get back to you within an hour or two,. Or 15 minutes? Maybe one of us has scheduled an hour,. Two,. Or maybe an overnight? Consider that.[/QUOTE]Apparently my phone did an autocorrect. By "climate" I meant "client" obviously. So that is what I meant by "with a client" - as in, has a longer appointment. There are enough real providers that, if you just want to get your rocks off, you wait 15 minutes then try a different provider.
Obviously, if you want a specific provider (and many of us do) then waiting several hours or even a day is appropriate. Especially if the provider is a known good communicator, you give them time to finish appointments. But frankly TNGAMSTN1, most providers aren't good enough communicators to warrant waiting that long. The excuses are endless: "My phone is messed up" or "I fell asleep" or "I was with a client" (really? For 8 hours from 9 am to 3 pm? Unlikely) or "someone borrowed my phone" etc.
Look. As a hobbyist and not a provider, I only have glimpses of what "the life" is like. I get that. But from what I know, and imagining running such a business, there are a few things I would certainly do, and a few things I would certainly not do.
1) If you're going to have incall, keep a fucking room. That is the first place your money goes. Too often, I get there and you need money immediately or we'll have a manager knocking on the door for rent. Aside from looking like a scam (happened to me once in my early days in the hobby, and I learned the hard way so I just leave now) it is completely mood-killing. Having to go find a room when it isn't explicitly stated in the ad is high-stress and of course you always want me to pay for the room too. I hate that, and after a couple times of that I've learned to ask and if they don't already have a room, then answer is no. If you don't have a room, don't advertise or agree to incall.
2) Get a good fucking phone, and keep it in good condition. The phone is your lifeline. If you can't schedule dates, you can't make money, and so you can't pay for a room, so then you're a streetwalker / pimp fodder / homeless. When you buy a phone, get the damn Lifeproof cover for it. Yes, it is like $70-$100 bucks, but I can't tell you the number of providers I've seen with cracked screens. Alternatively, have a second phone, which is actually cheaper. Learn how to forward calls from one phone to another. If one phone starts acting up, immediately forward all your calls to the backup. A phone is your livelihood, and if you don't take care of your phone, your clients can't take care of you, even if they want to.
3) No sob stories. It is a mood killer, and immediately puts clients on guard for scams. I've learned the hard way. If you tell me a sob story, I'm leaving. I don't pay a premium for drama. And I'm not a lottery winner, so I can't afford to fix your drama.
4) Be ready and punctual. I can't count the number of times I arrive on time and suddenly I'm waiting around for 20 minutes while the provider is doing. Whatever. I don't know.
4 a) Don't overlap appointments.
4 b) Give some time between appointments to go to the bathroom, eat, drink, or whatever.
4 c) Expect your client will be on time, especially if it is your first date. Odds are damn good he's there early to see if he can spot any surprise visits by your uncle, pimps, or other evidence of a bad setup.
4 d) Know where your stuff is, and have it handy. Kills the mood if you have to go looking for massage oil or go to a haberdashery. Or ask your client to bring whatever you need. I know I would much rather buy that stuff ahead of time than wait while you fumble around looking for it.
4 e) If you're using a 2-call system, For fuck's sake, answer the second call.
Recommendation for Shoals Area
I will be passing through Huntsville going to and from the Shoals area in December. I have seen Scarlett Raine before and am looking to repeat. I'd also like to meet Chelsea. I'll probably see one or both on my trip. However, while in the Shoals area, I could use some company. I have never had any luck there. Does anyone have a recommendation or UTR in that area?
What happened to Ana Monet?
Ana Monet.
Happy belated Thanksgiving!
I tried to connect with Ana Monet, and my call was rejected. I sent her an e-mail and the e-mail bounced. I sent a text and got no answer. Does anybody knows if there is something wrong?
TIA.
Stay safe.
MIH.