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[QUOTE=OrdinaryJohn;4258152]He only had conversations via text with the other person, so the call was through the voice / text app from the alleged cop. I don't think he ever used his real name (not his last name definitely). So at best they have his voice app number and first name. Would take some serious investigating to get his real info from that, so I'm telling him not to worry. Although I am thinking it is a scam for sure. But my friend is still trying to find out if that number is for real. It's not listed in the department so I guess it'd have to be a separate VOIP that the cop uses if that's the case.[/QUOTE]I don't believe a cop would be coming from a VOIP number. So you can use [URL]https://www.phonevalidator.com/index.aspx[/URL] to see if the number is a legit number of VOIP.

I have been using Voip for my landline for 10 years now to save money. Maybe a cop wouldn't use it but I wouldn't rely too heavily on that.

[QUOTE=Jamit;4271390]I don't believe a cop would be coming from a VOIP number. So you can use [URL]https://www.phonevalidator.com/index.aspx[/URL] to see if the number is a legit number of VOIP.[/QUOTE]

Any suggestions for car date places in Belmont, s Charlotte or anywhere where it's safe to park and nut. Any experienced senior members feel free to pm also.

[QUOTE=AdamEve7;4278635]Any suggestions for car date places in Belmont, s Charlotte or anywhere where it's safe to park and nut. Any experienced senior members feel free to pm also.[/QUOTE]This is not a specific location but Charlotte is so huge you can go anywhere. Once I had a car date with a SW and asked her where to go. She preferred any large parking lot right in the middle, out in the open, not hidden. So I tried it. And it worked. In a large lot you can see all around you and you'll see if anyone approaches. From any direction. I know that sounds just the opposite from a private place. I'm thinking somewhere like the IKEA Parking lot. Or Harris Teeter or Target, Lowes, Home Depot after they close. Even school and church lots. Cameras are always a concern but if you're far from the store it won't matter.

Anybody else have ideas?

GB40.

[QUOTE=Gigabyte40;4278700]This is not a specific location but Charlotte is so huge you can go anywhere. Once I had a car date with a SW and asked her where to go. She preferred any large parking lot right in the middle, out in the open, not hidden. So I tried it. And it worked. In a large lot you can see all around you and you'll see if anyone approaches. From any direction. I know that sounds just the opposite from a private place. I'm thinking somewhere like the IKEA Parking lot. Or Harris Teeter or Target, Lowes, Home Depot after they close. Even school and church lots. Cameras are always a concern but if you're far from the store it won't matter.

Anybody else have ideas?

GB40.[/QUOTE]Great and logical idea but IMO I would remove schools from the list of suggestions.

[QUOTE=Gigabyte40;4278700]This is not a specific location but Charlotte is so huge you can go anywhere. Once I had a car date with a SW and asked her where to go. She preferred any large parking lot right in the middle, out in the open, not hidden. So I tried it. And it worked. In a large lot you can see all around you and you'll see if anyone approaches. From any direction. I know that sounds just the opposite from a private place. I'm thinking somewhere like the IKEA Parking lot. Or Harris Teeter or Target, Lowes, Home Depot after they close. Even school and church lots. Cameras are always a concern but if you're far from the store it won't matter.

Anybody else have ideas?

GB40.[/QUOTE]I always thought dead end roads or no man land places were safer.

[QUOTE=NcDood1;4279162]Great and logical idea but IMO I would remove schools from the list of suggestions.[/QUOTE]Seconding this.

A few months ago, I pulled into a school parking lot on the weekend to make a phone call and I had an officer pull up next to me to see what I was doing. I thought it would be fine because it was one of my former schools, I know nothing happens during the weekends there, and I'd rather make the call in the parking lot versus while driving. The officer told me to move along; so I did. I ended up parking on a side street in a neighborhood to make my call.

Additionally, sexual activity on school property makes it easier to be placed on the sex offender register, if I recall correctly.

[QUOTE=Jwu77;4279728]Seconding this.

A few months ago, I pulled into a school parking lot on the weekend to make a phone call and I had an officer pull up next to me to see what I was doing. I thought it would be fine because it was one of my former schools, I know nothing happens during the weekends there, and I'd rather make the call in the parking lot versus while driving. The officer told me to move along; so I did. I ended up parking on a side street in a neighborhood to make my call.

Additionally, sexual activity on school property makes it easier to be placed on the sex offender register, if I recall correctly.[/QUOTE]Also proximity within school grounds will get you on the sex offender register.

[QUOTE=SonnyCarson;4280960]Also proximity within school grounds will get you on the sex offender register.[/QUOTE]I think it's a good idea to stay away from schools. All schools have a SRO. School resource officer on duty. You don't need to be creeping around at a school. Or even accused of it.

GB40.

[QUOTE=Gigabyte40;4278700]This is not a specific location but Charlotte is so huge you can go anywhere. Once I had a car date with a SW and asked her where to go. She preferred any large parking lot right in the middle, out in the open, not hidden. So I tried it. And it worked. In a large lot you can see all around you and you'll see if anyone approaches. From any direction. I know that sounds just the opposite from a private place. I'm thinking somewhere like the IKEA Parking lot. Or Harris Teeter or Target, Lowes, Home Depot after they close. Even school and church lots. Cameras are always a concern but if you're far from the store it won't matter.

Anybody else have ideas?

GB40.[/QUOTE]LOL yeah Schools is a bad idea and Churches have cameras and will use them. A RETAIL parking lot without roving mall security is usually a good bet. Do not go to Wal-Mart they're nuts about protecting their parking lots.

Honestly if it is night, and you can actually drive. Moving is the best bet for a BJ. In truth, it's wayyyy more intense when you're like trying to concentrate and she's tearing into you.

How do you post a link to give a report.

[QUOTE=AdamEve7;4278635]Any suggestions for car date places in Belmont, s Charlotte or anywhere where it's safe to park and nut. Any experienced senior members feel free to pm also.[/QUOTE]Many ideas here so I'll throw one out; many years ago I worked at a factory after school and they had a large parking lot without a fence, little security, no cameras. After dark I would take dates to the fringes of that lot to park.

Unlike retail, other than shift change there is virtually no foot traffic between shifts.

I have done some public parking lots at commercial businesses in CLT but I try to park in the middle but not isolated that would draw attention. If you watch Live PD you know isolated cars draw attention because people park to do drugs.

Personally I would avoid churches for the same reason, a isolated car parked at a church is likely to draw attention, especially given vandalism etc that's been in the news. Plus I know not everyone agrees but figure I've racked up enough damnation's for one lifetime without tempting fate. In a moment of passion I might call on the name of the Lord (if ya know what I mean Vern) and get a visitation!

[QUOTE=Emacula13;4295775]How do you post a link to give a report.[/QUOTE]Nothing special, copy and paste the link in the body of the text. Or were you thinking of something more complicated?