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Guys, don't get me wrong, I'm not spending more time than needed on this kind of girls. I just got annoyed by the idea that some guy would pay to just hang out with them. Although I agree this is probably BS, and I told her that most probably her friends are lying to her.
[QUOTE=Dash;4544027]"all her friends" is a complete load of shit; however there are some cases of a guy paying a meet and greet and not continuing.
I'm lurking from California, but I was living in S. Florida and a girl I knew used SA to find a boyfriend; she was offered like $900 to drive down to Miami to meet a guy. She said that the guy didn't like her looks in person (of course; she posted pictures from 15 years ago). I consider this guy like Bigfoot riding on a unicorn; very rare in the wild.
As others said, it's pointless to argue facts; you are offering cash for pussy and if she wants it she can see you and talk about it.
All girls will fuck a guy at the first meet IF she likes him enough; others are like bringing horses to water, maybe they won't drink, but change their minds.
Money is perceived very differently by females; cash is an actual aphrodisiac to them. If they know you have it ready, they get hot for you indirectly.[/QUOTE]I love that "cash is an actual aphrodisiac to them". It's so so true, and I don't know if you came up with it yourself but I never heard it being put this way before. I sure am annexing it for personal usage LOL.
In fact I find that many pros are less hung up about money than non-pros, maybe because it's such a direct transaction that after the umpteenth time it kills all the erotica for them. Non-pros or semi-pros on the other hand would often get hot just by the idea of being with somebody with money, or even of meeting somebody who'd be willing to pay them for their pussy.
[QUOTE=Hyperion11;4543538]Today I really got annoyed.
I was talking to this girl and she tells me she wants a platonic arrangement and that all her friends have SDs that are not interested in sex. I say I doubt it, she says she met them and it's true, they just want to hangout with young girls to feel younger.
What the actual fuck?![/QUOTE]I've lost count of the number of times this has happened. I'll make light fun of a girl who's been on for a couple of days because it's all over her profile that she wants platonic. When I politely tell her that platonic is not a real thing she goes on to lecture me how it totally is! Keep in mind, this girl has been on the site for a few hours and I've been on quite a bit longer but it doesn't matter. She'll insist she knows everything there is to know about the bowl and go on and on how it's possible. Predictably, her profile is gone within a week when what she knew to be thing simply never materialized. Girls, never try to reason with them, it's a lost cause.
Ok, new rant!
A good proportion of girls are looking for "online" arrangements. I always ask them why would anyone pay for that, with all the porn available one Google search away. They say some guys like the pics taken specially for them.
Would anyone really pay for that?!
Has anyone seen this one? She's saying the right things but something seems off.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/eca4ba95-7584-4bb7-a76a-8965e068cd71[/URL]
[QUOTE=EvilTmp;4544174]I've lost count of the number of times this has happened. I'll make light fun of a girl who's been on for a couple of days because it's all over her profile that she wants platonic. When I politely tell her that platonic is not a real thing she goes on to lecture me how it totally is! Keep in mind, this girl has been on the site for a few hours and I've been on quite a bit longer but it doesn't matter. She'll insist she knows everything there is to know about the bowl and go on and on how it's possible. Predictably, her profile is gone within a week when what she knew to be thing simply never materialized. Girls, never try to reason with them, it's a lost cause.[/QUOTE]SA has spent a lot of time promoting this type of arrangement in order to stay clear of LE. This has brought in an entire new crop of SBs looking for "platonic" and "good conversation". This is simply a flag to remind you to hit the HIDE button and move on. Why would you even consider engaging with them? You are not going to change their mind and you may be risking getting kicked off.
[QUOTE=Hyperion11;4544638]Ok, new rant!
A good proportion of girls are looking for "online" arrangements. I always ask them why would anyone pay for that, with all the porn available one Google search away. They say some guys like the pics taken specially for them.
Would anyone really pay for that?![/QUOTE]Saw the profile for curvypinkprincess and had a sudden urge for a younger small BBW. What can I say it happens. No indication of platonic or online only. In fact the indications were the opposite. Moved to text quickly then she hit me up to buy her pics. Politely declined and let her know I wanted physical intimacy. Her response, and I could not make this sh*t up, "That would make me a prostitute. " She went silent after that. Ignore this one, she is a waste of time:
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2bc431c9-0ee4-4290-89c7-4e95b7c51c3b[/URL]
[QUOTE=Hyperion11;4544638]Ok, new rant!
A good proportion of girls are looking for "online" arrangements. I always ask them why would anyone pay for that, with all the porn available one Google search away. They say some guys like the pics taken specially for them.
Would anyone really pay for that?![/QUOTE]I'm sure it happens here and there, but not nearly enough to warrant the number of girls expecting it.
Anyone have any info on her? We're supposed to meet this week.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/bd366617-a4b9-41ff-847d-c00288a83918[/URL]
Sorry I post this on the wrong board.
[QUOTE=Iron8025;4546095]Anyone have any info on her? We're supposed to meet this week.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/bd366617-a4b9-41ff-847d-c00288a83918[/URL][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=HounDog3;4545185]Saw the profile for curvypinkprincess and had a sudden urge for a younger small BBW. What can I say it happens. No indication of platonic or online only. In fact the indications were the opposite. Moved to text quickly then she hit me up to buy her pics. Politely declined and let her know I wanted physical intimacy. Her response, and I could not make this sh*t up, "That would make me a prostitute. " She went silent after that. Ignore this one, she is a waste of time:
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2bc431c9-0ee4-4290-89c7-4e95b7c51c3b[/URL][/QUOTE]The site really has hit an all time low with this one! That fatty should thank her lucky stars if some guy will fuck her for free let alone give her money for the "privilege".
Not sure where SA thinks the site is headed with pushing the platonic nonsense. The fact is if guys don't pay for VIP the site will die. I normally join / pay 2 or 3 times a year but have not since February. I have 300 plus messages sitting in my inbox but the more I read about the current lunacy with platonic, online, Venmo / Paypal / Cashapp prior to dates, and GPS I really have no desire to jump back in.
Rant over.
Odds this girl has ever done this or even knew what I meant when she heard about it.
I am just on there reading some profiles and laughing my ass off.
Every ad as stated before is platonic, nothing sexual, venmo me, etc.
I am hitting favorite on a whole bunch, want to see how many are still on in a week or two. Should be interesting.
This one cracks me up. Lavenderstars.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b46b53dd-e04d-4c42-a4c9-baae0010af93[/URL]
[QUOTE=GenevaGuy;4544039]The other thing I have found is the large percentage (I'm guessing 40% of the newbies here) of black and mixed girls on SA. On the Reddit sugarlifestyle subreddit, there is a lot of talk that black and mixed girls are of less interest to many guys on SA to be SBs, these statements are from the girls themselves. I myself had a very dark skinned SB for a year that told me she just could not find an SD cause of her color. Well, I have no prejudice in that regard. I do love the contrast in bed hehehe. What do you guys think about that?[/QUOTE]I've read that on Reddit as well. The girls who post that stuff, for the most part, exhibit a very entitled attitude, and / or a very 'inner city' vibe that is a total turn-off for me.
I've met women of all shapes, sizes and colors on SA and elsewhere. Here in the Boston area, its the culture they exude, not the color of their skin, that is most often the turn-off.
There used to be a category to report users if they had no intention of meeting in person. I guess that changed? Is seeking getting into the cam business, because I've been getting ALOT of those type of girls lately. Don't want to meet up, online only, etc. Maybe it's just fucking dallas. It seemed sooo much easier to get a meet up in boston.
[QUOTE=GlennDoyle91;4549382]There used to be a category to report users if they had no intention of meeting in person. I guess that changed? Is seeking getting into the cam business, because I've been getting ALOT of those type of girls lately. Don't want to meet up, online only, etc. Maybe it's just fucking dallas. It seemed sooo much easier to get a meet up in boston.[/QUOTE]Lots of that here too. I just tell them I'm only interested in in person and move on. Similarly if they're platonic only.
I'm general this thing is a numbers game. Reach out to enough girls with clear intentions and don't try too hard to see if the profile is legit unless they are willing to meet.