Philly Sugar

[QUOTE=UsaBlinkGuy11;6721319]Meh. Good service is #1 for me, above all else. I recently had to let a seeking girl go, because medicore or bad service is just pointless to me. I am not 21 anymore. Seeing boobs or a girl's butt does not make me feel that I need to do anything possible to get in bed with her at least once, I do not care anymore about that since I have other option for sex with hot women. So if I am going to meet a seeking girl then I am looking for quality service. I don't care for scraps, I am not thirsty or in need. I see these chick and I think "oh, that's cool", whereas most guy will think "oh my god, what can I do to bang her, how do I bang her". Totally different way of thinking, which arrives me to the conclusion that if I am involved, it is because the quality of service is there, that is what interests me. And by service I mean, girl that is nice, relaxed, laid back. No arguments, agrees with what I say, agrees with what I want. Just listens, and is happy to follow through with what I like. Only a very very small percentage of these sugar girl in phila can meet that level of service.[/QUOTE]In sugaring I've found that the conversations before meeting are the most important part. I can pretty much tell who really wants to fuck me before we meet. That kind of enthusiasm goes a long way towards hot sex. But I don't want to come off like I'm special or bragging. Don't want to seem desperate for admiration in a SB thread. That would be pretty pathetic. Got to say Blink, your idea of what "most guys will think" is pretty shallow. Maybe even insipid. You need this narrative to help yourself seem cool. How about you bring some actual intel about these girls, either if their ripoffs, if their fun or somewhere in between. Like add something valuable.

If you are really in need or maybe they are your type:

Single Mom. Won't host but a sure thing.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/52ea2339-8575-46e5-86db-9d14c68b9ba6[/URL]

Will host and a sure thing. High Volume.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2cde1d6e-911e-450e-8e59-22e3ed4b0682[/URL]

Will take a little effort but not to much. Reasonable on price.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/8cf23d3bcf5f923e[/URL]

None of these qualify as SB's to me but to each their own and happy hunting!

This lady is out of town for a few days and wants to know if I'd like some online fun before she returns. Nope. I can get free pics off the internet. OF site is likely her real intent. Next.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/25e522e0-4a57-450c-808d-e51a467e9714[/URL]

[QUOTE=HenryT458;6723236]This lady is out of town for a few days and wants to know if I'd like some online fun before she returns. Nope. I can get free pics off the internet. OF site is likely her real intent. Next.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/25e522e0-4a57-450c-808d-e51a467e9714[/URL][/QUOTE]She's a pic hustler, if she even sends pics at all.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a1ea5882-df45-4d64-883e-4c5f5abfe5e3[/URL]

Goldxsteps- Have seen her on SA for years. Her new bunch of pics definitely made me hit her up. I heard back from her and am hopefully moving towards a meet. I suspect there GPS here. HAs anyone chatted with her? Any intel?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9a37b56b-971e-48e8-a6e0-607ac1f691f0[/URL]

Cuddlycheezcake- Have chatted a few times but I've never managed to meet her, she's very busy with work. Has anyone dipped their toes, or anything else? Her non-main pics are pretty nice.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/19cfe3be-7da7-4cf5-bce4-4415ddcaafe8[/URL]

EasygoingTemptress- Hot AF. Seems real. Should I even try? Anyone know her?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1b38e880-1b0c-4eee-a402-b4e1359559b2[/URL]

Bella- Scam. Keeps changing locations. Chatted with her when she was supposedly somewhere in NJ, and she seemed like she's using a translator.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2a5e780a-dfea-42f9-ab9d-54f3b3165922[/URL]

FitFeminine- Have had short convos with her. That profile pic with the fat kitty makes me keep trying. Says she's in York. Any info?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/80d34f8e-d6a0-4e1b-b78e-06e0755bbee8[/URL]

Expects 6 x $ upfront, through cas $app before meeting. Then looks forward to the look on your face when she actually shows up. Anyone stupid enough to do this deserves what they don't get.

[QUOTE=EpicSD;6728239][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/80d34f8e-d6a0-4e1b-b78e-06e0755bbee8[/URL]

Expects 6 x $ upfront, through cas $app before meeting. Then looks forward to the look on your face when she actually shows up. Anyone stupid enough to do this deserves what they don't get.[/QUOTE]That girl looks busted.

[QUOTE=EpicSD;6726565][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a1ea5882-df45-4d64-883e-4c5f5abfe5e3[/URL]

Goldxsteps- Have seen her on SA for years. Her new bunch of pics definitely made me hit her up. I heard back from her and am hopefully moving towards a meet. I suspect there GPS here. HAs anyone chatted with her? Any intel?
[/QUOTE]That one doesn't meet with anyone, she's a toe tipper.

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[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9a37b56b-971e-48e8-a6e0-607ac1f691f0[/URL]

Cuddlycheezcake- Have chatted a few times but I've never managed to meet her, she's very busy with work. Has anyone dipped their toes, or anything else? Her non-main pics are pretty nice.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/19cfe3be-7da7-4cf5-bce4-4415ddcaafe8[/URL]

EasygoingTemptress- Hot AF. Seems real. Should I even try? Anyone know her?
[/QUOTE]Both of those look busted, and the first is a time waster.

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[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1b38e880-1b0c-4eee-a402-b4e1359559b2[/URL]

Bella- Scam. Keeps changing locations. Chatted with her when she was supposedly somewhere in NJ, and she seemed like she's using a translator.
[/QUOTE]That's not a real profile, fake account.

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[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2a5e780a-dfea-42f9-ab9d-54f3b3165922[/URL]

FitFeminine- Have had short convos with her. That profile pic with the fat kitty makes me keep trying. Says she's in York. Any info?[/QUOTE]That one is a time waster, doesn't do meet ups.

[QUOTE=UsaBlinkGuy11;6728710]That girl looks busted.

That one doesn't meet with anyone, she's a toe tipper.
[/QUOTE][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a1ea5882-df45-4d64-883e-4c5f5abfe5e3[/URL]

Got a meet set up for mid week. She seems all about it. I'll report back.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/30da582a-7b67-431d-9c35-34641b0f1b86[/URL]

Cute woman, seemed like there was potential for hot sex. Early messages had little hints about immediate trouble so I expected her to ask for a little financial help before meeting. We texted and chatted on the phone, she definitely was very turned on- a voice can't hide it. And then it happened. A small beg for a few bucks. BYEEEEEEEEE. She MIGHT be real and just desperate. But I always cut things off when that little beg happens. They have NO IDEA how many times we get asked for this crap.

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The first guy wasn't looking for feedback.

Who gives a fuck what you think about the second guy's chick.

If you're going to continue to be antagonistic I won't let you quote other members.

Here's a tip, you don't want to respond to this, you just want to dial the agro back 50% or more.

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[QUOTE=UsaBlinkGuy11;6729199]I'm pretty sure that one will flake.

Or if she does show up, it won't end up favorable for you. Most likely there will be no sex or she will request a ridiculously high PPM, 500 would be the minimum. and even if you were to pay the very high PPM the quality of the sex will most definitely not be worth it.

That one looks busted.[/QUOTE]All negativity based on nothing but conjecture and speculation.

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Don't feed the trolls.

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[QUOTE=UsaBlinkGuy11;6729214]I've giving the honest assessment of what is likely to happen, my intention is not to be negative.

Most of the end results will be negative, this is just the reality.[/QUOTE]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d5093ad2-a947-48f9-b80c-1d244b7fc932[/URL]

Reached out to her, she at first wanted about 300 but I wasn't really down to pull the trigger. About a month went by and she texted me again wanting to meet. Gave me the usual bs about really being into me and yadda yadda. To begin, she doesn't really look my type. A bit too downtown ghetto girl. But then she wants 500 telling me she's worth it. I tell her I'm NOT doing 500 so she asks me to meet her "halfway" at 300. I tell her first of all, half of 500 is 250 and second I'm not going to do anywhere near that much for someone that took a month to reply back to me to feed me a load about how she's interested in me if it took her that long to reply back and she's not really my type to begin with. A bit mean, but I think she needs the dose of reality. Didn't hear back from her after that.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/34c2e5a2-aac1-4c7e-9bec-0dccd693a94e[/URL]

Started off incredibly promising. She's in DE but pics looked hot. Verified with me but she thought I was trying to "scam" her just for asking her to do the usual selfie hand gesture I always ask for verifying. So I send her a couple to verify as well. Eventually I convinced her. Ended up driving over to her to have dinner. Talk was good. Has 2 kids though so the usual "schedule is busy because of my children" caveat. Wouldn't tell me her name either, but whatever, it didn't matter for a couple reasons. At the end of the dinner she wanted to pay for her own food and of course, I don't want to look like a jerk so I insist on getting it for her. After when we're walking back to our cars, I ask her how she wants to handle the actual arrangement since we didn't concretely discuss that inside due to people around and she said I could cash app her.

After we leave she texts me her QR code which of course has her name anyway so her not wanting to tell me it didn't matter. Problem is, as we keep texting to stay in touch over the next week and try to meet for the actual fun, I start to realize that she's a rinser. She reveals that she sent me the QR code to get me to send her something just for the dinner which I politely tell her I usually pay for a lady's dinner and only do ppm for actual intimacy. She seemed ok with it but since we're still texting and still getting no where close to an actual date she starts to get hostile and tells me I'm probably not going to pay her anyway. My guess is she was ok burning the bridge since she found someone else more convenient but I again told her I don't do ppm for no fun. Apparently that first meet was just to prove I was real, which yeah, I do that too but also to see if I want to just send money randomly I guess. Of course, I'm not going to do that so she just blocks me on SA and probably also on my number.

She's not available weekdays. She works until 600 pm. Doesn't fit my schedule. Best of luck gents.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bca1f695-e529-4fc9-9b1e-8413996e5aa2[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a1ea5882-df45-4d64-883e-4c5f5abfe5e3[/URL]

I had something set up with her for tonight (right now actually) but I veered off last minute and saw someone else that I had a crazy good feeling about and I was right. I want to say that I didn't have a bad feeling about GoldxSteps, I'm positive that she would be a great shag- goth girls have a certain kind of submissive slutiness IYKYK. I just started chatting with a woman that's brand new to the site and we had exceptional chemistry so I made a last minute audible and scored big time. It seems to have potential to be an actual arrangement.