Here's some enlightening insight about SA
So, yesterday I was talking to a young friend of mine who is in his early 20's. He was talking about his job, which then led to talk about his girlfriend's "job". He asked me if I had ever heard of a website called Seeking Arrangements. I played dumb and got him to explain it and how it worked. He said that the clientele was a bunch of dirty old weird men who were desperate to talk to a good looking woman. Geeks, losers, and freaks he said. LOL.
He said that his girlfriend has a profile on there and makes anywhere from $12,000-$18,000 per MONTH! On there. And she has never fucked a single guy! He says that she just chats with them, plays nice, and lets them send her money. She will play along and maybe even meet for dinner or drinks but will take the boyfriend along who poses as her brother. He says she just teases and talks nice to them and many guys will simply send her money with the expectation that they will eventually get to bang her. $12-$18 K per month!
And no, I didn't ask him what her profile name was because I didn't want him to think I was a desperate old man. LOL.
I do know she lives in the New Bern or Morehead City area.
The professor is 100% on target
[QUOTE=DJprofessorK;5226773]This is hilarious to me. I've met gorgeous women in their prime with advance degrees who've sugared in large cities and have never come across this sort of money. I'd believe 1/10th of that. But no way people are dumb enough to shell out that kind of dough for just chatting. The bf also might be clueless and she might be meeting up with these guys when he's at work. The younger generation seems to have a more fluid, flexible idea of relationships. And even if she were stepping out on the side, I highly doubt she's hitting those figures on SA in NC.
Furthermore, this only supports my thoughts that the younger, SA 'hot girls' are almost entirely a waste of your time. Many of them do think the guys are dumb, weird, lonely, and pathetic. And that's only confirmed further if you're giving them money for nothing. My sweet spot has always been women who are mid to late 20's up to their mid 30's. They're still down for having fun, enjoy a good bedroom romp, and will respect you if you respect them. Not to mention, many of them have dated their fair share of broke duds, and realize that with a little effort and some charm, they can have an established person treat them to a nice time. These women actually genuinely appreciate it. Even moreso if you know how to keep things to yourself and won't invade her social life.
I don't understand why people waste their time and resources on women who don't bother to keep dates, barely return text messages, and can't even muster up enough enthusiasm to pretend as if she's having a good time. These women and these interactions are not worth it. There are too many people who actually want you to like them enough to keep seeing them. Skip the girls who are more interested in their Instagram followers than they are in making sure you're happy. If you stick around and keep giving them cash, you're the clown.[/QUOTE]There is a sweet spot for these chicks, and it's the mid to late 20's girl that probably have figured out they need to get their shit in a can. The ghosting and poor communication probably frustrates most of us.
Sometimes the respectfulness can be received by these girls as weakness and they may want to manipulate you but in the end you probably get a better quality girl.
I don't do SA but once in awhile hit WYP. Without fail my percentages are 10 offers (low meet and greet) 3 actual dates, and 1 fuck buddy. But I admit, I love slamming the door on these GPS chicks and their bullshit.
