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I dreamed of the orient a few weeks back. Seems like new girls everytime I go, though I has been several months since I went last. GOod time. Left happy. I have been stiffed a few times, but not that time. Extra tip was. 40. Might I add that if you ever go to NOLA, find the lilly pad. You will not be let down. Its a little pricey though.
[QUOTE=Dave 151]I agree. I talked with her on the phone before and she was kind of rude to where I ended up not even trying to book an appointment. Before I try to connect I like to hear reviews just to get a feel for what I'll get out of it. I remember years ago when she first started on Craigslist (I think) she was doing legit escorting, a little while later it was massages. Than topless massages and than "special massages for regulars. " It's cool if you want to keep your privacy, but at some point you just need to realize your an escort. Thankfully there's girls like Sarah, London and Trinity. I know it sounds stupid with this kind of hobby, but escorts need to be nice. That's why I don't see Macie, Krissy (red-headed one) or Neysa. IMHO[/QUOTE]I have twice called Neysa to set something up and both times was met with rudeness to the point that I decided against seeing her. The attitude one conveys on the phone is very important and is the start of the dream to me. I chalked the first one up to a possible bad day, but when it happened again I decided to take her off my list. Shame too, because I've read so many good reviews. I just don't have time for rude.
I certainly hear what you are saying.
It should be easy for the client.
Good luck,
Chica
[QUOTE=Willro]Chica, I have the obligatory references that many ladies ask for. I'm not all that active on this board, but I'm more established in other forums, and I've been around the hobby scene for a few years now. And, like I was saying, I'm not blaming anyone for being careful, it's just that I didn't really see how all of her strenuous requirements are value-adding in keeping her away from Leo or some other type of danger. For example, that 30 minute window of time to call. How does that help anyone? And, wouldn't it be easier to check my references if we arranged something a day or two ahead by PM? If it doesn't work out the next time I try to call her, that's fine. I will just move on to other options. But, I do plan to try again someday, she seems like a really sweet girl and that's why I'm so interested in meeting her.
Cheers[/QUOTE]
I had a really good experience with her a while back. I know I don't post a lot, so my opinion may be discounted by some. But, I have had a great run of providers just perhaps not as often as I would like. I always want any lady to be as comfortable as possible because I find that really helps things out. If she wants something I am not comfortable with, then I should probably move on. Not everyone is the right fit for someone, and that goes both ways. Neysa is a great lady, and if you both hit it off that is great. But, as many have said before YMMV, and she is certainly not for everyone, nor does she want to be for everyone. I really understand the time limitation, that is one of the main reasons my experiences are infrequent. Because of this I have had to miss out on some great dreams, but c'est la vie (if Sweet Melissa is still around she knows exactly what I mean about trying to get together, someday I hope the stars will align for us).
++1 on the rudeness over the phone
[QUOTE=Alliterationz]I have twice called Neysa to set something up and both times was met with rudeness to the point that I decided against seeing her. The attitude one conveys on the phone is very important and is the start of the dream to me. I chalked the first one up to a possible bad day, but when it happened again I decided to take her off my list. Shame too, because I've read so many good reviews. I just don't have time for rude.[/QUOTE]
I dreamed about Valerie today.
It went pretty smooth.
Will see again
[QUOTE=BuyFromMe]I have had the same issues getting up with Neysa. Just part of the game. Her rules. Because I am in the same boat you are as far as not being able to wait around and having short windows, I just simply go to Tokyos and try my luck.[/QUOTE]First of all I only book massages 30 mins in advance and no further out then one hour and to see me for a regular massage evryone already knows you dont need to see me for a date thats 2 totally seperate deals a massage only requires you to be either a senior member or have 2 recent and good refrences if your not furthermore for a DATE you dont even need refrences becausew its a REAL date and it does not even go past the date if i dont like you or you dont like me and that is 24 hour in advance notice so someone seems to have their info confused thats the way i do things and thats not changing funny thing is im only rude to those who say things to make me that way ask anyone that has been seeing me for years and they can tell you that ask chica who is soemone that saw me for a date and i saw him hours after he called and he sure did not think i was rude look at yourself before you start accusing lol sorry chica i couldnt not say anything lol they really need to get it right seriously :)
That's OK sweet girl
Too Bad. If they alone knew that from those same lips come some of the hottest kisses on the board! You are still a hot sexy passionate woman that I love to dream about.
Nothing like that Italian passion. You can turn it on, but you can't turn it off.
IMHO (if I ever had one)
XOXO
Chica
[QUOTE=MassageWoman]First of all I only book massages 30 mins in advance and no further out then one hour and to see me for a regular massage evryone already knows you dont need to see me for a date thats 2 totally seperate deals a massage only requires you to be either a senior member or have 2 recent and good refrences if your not furthermore for a DATE you dont even need refrences becausew its a REAL date and it does not even go past the date if i dont like you or you dont like me and that is 24 hour in advance notice so someone seems to have their info confused thats the way i do things and thats not changing funny thing is im only rude to those who say things to make me that way ask anyone that has been seeing me for years and they can tell you that ask chica who is soemone that saw me for a date and i saw him hours after he called and he sure did not think i was rude look at yourself before you start accusing lol sorry chica i couldnt not say anything lol they really need to get it right seriously :)[/QUOTE]
I'm glad she has some rules she goes by. It just makes me feel more comfortable seeing someone when they do. If I try to see someone and I know they don't know me, and they say to just come on over, it makes me think twice about seeing them. I haven't seen her yet but I will soon and I will go through her rules so we are both comfortable getting together. As for Toyko, I have been a couple of times but I don't think I will go again. There is just better options out there. I'll post a review of neysa after I see her.
[QUOTE=MassageWoman]funny thing is im only rude to those who say things to make me that way ask anyone that has been seeing me for years and they can tell you that ask chica who is soemone that saw me for a date and i saw him hours after he called and he sure did not think i was rude look at yourself before you start accusing [/QUOTE]Thats fine. You were rude to me for no reason. Maybe you had a bad two days those couple of times I called you. I'm ok with it. I just politely moved on. Someone posted a similar story to what I experienced and I just affirmed that I had the same experience. No hard feelings. This is american. Be rude to who you want to be rude to and I'll dream with who I want to dream with.
[QUOTE=BuyFromMe]Thats fine. You were rude to me for no reason. Maybe you had a bad two days those couple of times I called you. I'm ok with it. I just politely moved on. Someone posted a similar story to what I experienced and I just affirmed that I had the same experience. No hard feelings. This is american. Be rude to who you want to be rude to and I'll dream with who I want to dream with.[/QUOTE]I second this entire post. There's no hard feelings, but I don't ever give anyone a reason to be rude.
[QUOTE=Southernman 64]I'm glad she has some rules she goes by. It just makes me feel more comfortable seeing someone when they do. If I try to see someone and I know they don't know me, and they say to just come on over, it makes me think twice about seeing them. I haven't seen her yet but I will soon and I will go through her rules so we are both comfortable getting together. As for Toyko, I have been a couple of times but I don't think I will go again. There is just better options out there. I'll post a review of neysa after I see her.[/QUOTE]And you will see when you call me and Im NOT rude that whoever says I am obviously did not come accross me the right way because I am a VERY nice HAPPY person who is always laughing and fun as you WILL see when you see me! Dont even tell me who you are and you will see !I respect respectful ,men who know how to treat a lady and if thats you you will see that as soon as you contact me if you are any less then that you will also see a difference! I give what i recieve also I am so happy and greatful for our awesome SENIOR members who use this board for what its for and thats GREAT! LOVES YAH! Here I am I am a nice funloving person who is ready so believe half of what you read and all of what you EXPERIENCE!
Love
Massagewoman!
[QUOTE=Chica Luv]That's OK sweet girl
Too Bad. If they alone knew that from those same lips come some of the hottest kisses on the board! You are still a hot sexy passionate woman that I love to dream about.
Nothing like that Italian passion. You can turn it on, but you can't turn it off.
IMHO (if I ever had one)
XOXO
Chica[/QUOTE]I do have the passion lol! You know it!
I am getting hot all over (or is that all under) just thinking about it.
[QUOTE=MassageWoman]I do have the passion lol! You know it![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=MassageWoman]I do have the passion lol! You know it![/QUOTE]I guess Chica is gettin' all the message board love just cause his post count is bigger than mine, LOL. Guess I need to get busy.
GR,
There is plenty of love to go around, and I am more than willing to share, as most of us are.
Although, I must say if you read my earliest post, I have been getting some lovin' since the beginning.
Being polite, and saying please & thank you helps. Also, as the say down in Mexico. It just takes a little "Pesos-nality", LOL
Good luck and send me a PM if you need some message board love.
Chica
[QUOTE=Ghostrider75]I guess Chica is gettin' all the message board love just cause his post count is bigger than mine, LOL. Guess I need to get busy.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Ghostrider75]I guess Chica is gettin' all the message board love just cause his post count is bigger than mine, LOL. Guess I need to get busy.[/QUOTE]
It doesn't hurt.
Then again, he does have at least one good date with Neysa under his belt. Obviously they like each other a lot. IME, that counts for a lot.
Cheers,
BCG
[QUOTE=Bluffcity Guy]It doesn't hurt.
Then again, he does have at least one good date with Neysa under his belt. Obviously they like each other a lot. IME, that counts for a lot.
Cheers,
BCG[/QUOTE]I was just picking at Neysa a little bit as we have seen each other (and I plan on seeing her again soon) and we had a great time (at least I think she had a great time, I know I did).
Humor is rarely adequately conveyed in text.
[QUOTE=Bluffcity Guy]It doesn't hurt.
Then again, he does have at least one good date with Neysa under his belt. Obviously they like each other a lot. IME, that counts for a lot.
Cheers,
BCG[/QUOTE]Ghost! I had a heck of a time with you!!!!! Are you kidding?LOL yes! You are a sweetheart also! Been waiting for you to come back and saee me just as much as I have Chica I appreciate a GREAT guy! Soooooo just returned your PM! Any who and has um putting an ad up on here now!Check it out guys!Also new pics on my facebook page!Link is on my ad!
[QUOTE=Ghostrider75]I was just picking at Neysa a little bit as we have seen each other (and I plan on seeing her again soon) and we had a great time (at least I think she had a great time, I know I did).
Humor is rarely adequately conveyed in text.[/QUOTE]
Especially when there's a back story (your previously seeing her) that one can't adequately pick up by reading between the lines.
:)
Glad you had a good time.
Cheers,
BCG
[QUOTE=Bluffcity Guy]Especially when there's a back story (your previously seeing her) that one can't adequately pick up by reading between the lines.
:)
Glad you had a good time.
Cheers,
BCG[/QUOTE]Some one please post a link to this girl you are talking about.
Newby's want to know!
EE
[QUOTE=Electeng32]Some one please post a link to this girl you are talking about.
Newby's want to know!
EE[/QUOTE]
[url]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=1016357&postcount=619[/url]
If you haven't found it already. I mean, surely you browse the other Memphis forums here? :)
Cheers,
BCG
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Guys,
I went for massage to Sensual Massage - Cordova. It was very good experience. She is so sweet and she know what men expecting in sensual massage. If UR looking for good massage with sensual (no sex) try this one.
I will see her again.
[url]http://memphis.backpage.com/TherapeuticMassage/a-sensual-massage-for-you-im-working-today-saturday/2390728[/url]
KVA Reddy
Ok, so please excuse my ignorance here. I really am quite curious about the whole "sensual massage". So exactly what does happen?
From what I can tell, the guy is naked and the girl is just rubbing you all over. I also get that in most cases there is no intercourse (even a BJ), but is there a happy ending via HJ?
I know that everyone has their own thing, but I can get a licensed deep tissue massage for 1/3 the price. And if I wanted a woman rubbing herself all over me without sex, I'd have stayed with my exgirlfriend.
I'm intrigued and am just wondering what the big appeal is and what the $$ is purchasing.
[QUOTE=Prettycocky]Ok, so please excuse my ignorance here. I really am quite curious about the whole "sensual massage". So exactly what does happen?
From what I can tell, the guy is naked and the girl is just rubbing you all over. I also get that in most cases there is no intercourse (even a BJ), but is there a happy ending via HJ?
I know that everyone has their own thing, but I can get a licensed deep tissue massage for 1/3 the price. And if I wanted a woman rubbing herself all over me without sex, I'd have stayed with my exgirlfriend.
I'm intrigued and am just wondering what the big appeal is and what the $$ is purchasing.[/QUOTE]Seriously? You're kidding, right? RTFF or just go try one out and see if you like it. There are, quite literally, thousands of posts about sensual massage all over this website when you look at all of the cities/regions covered by USASG. You could spend [u]hundreds[/u] of hours reading them. Yet still you ask this question.
My very best advice (not messing with you here or being sarcastic) is to just go get about three of them from different providers and learn about it first-hand. (no pun intended)
Then you will [u][b]know[/b][/u] the answer to your question as a result of your own direct experience. After all, experience [u]is the best[/u] teacher.
Well, when I did read the f'ing forum I found that there is a pretty wide gamut if interpretations, so I was trying to get an idea of what it meant by the providers in Memphis. Maybe I should've been clearer on that point.
From my research, the definition of a sensual massage at an Asian salon in Houston may mean a handjob with some body to body contact and the same name in Vegas could end up with a BJ and/or Full service. And here in Mtown, some are very specific as to what won't happen, while others leave it pretty vague.
And while, yes, personal experience is a great teacher, so is asking a question that will help avoid wrong expectations and clarify things.
My bad for not being clearer about things. I typed the post on my phone while at the part-time job, so it's harder to proof myself before hitting submit.
[QUOTE=Prettycocky]I'm intrigued and am just wondering what the big appeal is and what the $$ is purchasing.[/QUOTE]
$$ strikes me as a bit much for FBSM with a release but neither FS or a BJ. For $.5 to $$ I can get an acceptable non-GFE escort session with FS. (If I don't mind traveling a few hours, I can get what reviews tell me will be a top-notch GFE session for $.5).
Cheers,
BCG
Hey! I know this section is mainly for the guys to review us ladies, but I agree. You should really try a few of us ladies that offer massages. You may be surprised at how much you may enjoy your session. I, myself, provide a very fun, relaxing, and unrushed time. I enjoy every minute I have with my "friends". I love what I do and its a hobby as well as making a living. I can't and won't speak for any other lady but myself but I've had many clients tell me my sessions are 100% more relaxing, in depth, fun, and even more exciting than with someone that has a license. A license doesn't always mean a better time or massage. Some professionals that have a certified license aren't as personable as some of us on here. I'm a therapist as well, lol. You'd be surprised at how many gentlemen there are out here that love to be able to talk and express themselves in ways and in words that they may not be able to with their spouse or especially a "licensed" professional. Try it out and make your own judgement.
Ok, and here is the problem with the whole situation. I asked the question because there seems to be quite a bit of confusion.
The two responses I get (outside of BCG's similar curiosity) tell me to just go pay my money to try it. While I don't consider myself a tightwad, I came on here to ask because FBSM seems to be picking up in terms of discussion and people using it as a service. And as I said before, there are a lot of vague areas in terms of what to expect.
When it comes to licensed vs non-licensed, it's not a deal breaker. But what I don't get is the idea of paying almost 2. 5x more per hour for a massage than what I pay my incredibly skilled massage therapist, who is not only licensed but also has me incredibly relaxed when I leave. And we talk about all sorts of shit while I'm on the table.
If there is something else that I'm missing, then I'm happy to learn. But I am genuinely curious if there is some sort of happy ending or other related result.
[QUOTE=Prettycocky]Ok, so please excuse my ignorance here. I really am quite curious about the whole "sensual massage". So exactly what does happen?
From what I can tell, the guy is naked and the girl is just rubbing you all over. I also get that in most cases there is no intercourse (even a BJ), but is there a happy ending via HJ?
I know that everyone has their own thing, but I can get a licensed deep tissue massage for 1/3 the price. And if I wanted a woman rubbing herself all over me without sex, I'd have stayed with my exgirlfriend.
I'm intrigued and am just wondering what the big appeal is and what the $$ is purchasing.[/QUOTE]In my experience if I see them on backpage offering FBSM under the escort sessions they do full service or bj. If they are doing it under the rub down section, they do nothing but russian or hj release. IMHO
[QUOTE=Dave 151]In my experience if I see them on backpage offering FBSM under the escort sessions they do full service or BJ. If they are doing it under the rub down section, they do nothing but Russian or HJ release. IMHO[/QUOTE]Dave,
A genuine thanks. That is what I was wondering. Why is FBSM being advertised under the escort section if there is nothing like a HJ, BJ, or FS being offered.
Again, I would hate to be on the table expecting something to happen (based on things I had read) only to find that applies in other situations but not then.
To me, it's a bit like those who advertise 100% GFE but don't kiss. Now I clarify before booking as their definition of GFE is not my GFE. Clear expectations lead to better experiences for both sides in my opinion.
Come see me. I KNOW you will have a great time and be happy when the session ends. lol...oh and I wasn't saying to "waste" your money on somthing you don't want. Alot of girls prolly offer more but may be a lil nervous about putting everything out there until they know you. Just my opinion though. And that's a pretty good way to look at it too about saying that if under the escort section maybe they do offer more but just dont want to say it like some other girls do. Everyone has their own ways of advertising and doing their thing I guess. Good luck though on what you choose to do. Hope it works out for ya.
Oh, and I also question that price quote. LOL. 2 for a massage sounds like a lot to me too, I get anywhere from. 8 to 1 for an hour session. I'm happy with that donation but everyone does their own thing and if it works for the girls then more power to them. LOL
If you have some specific questions about a post, you might consider sending a PM to the orginial poster asking for more info.
Chica
[QUOTE=Prettycocky]Ok, so please excuse my ignorance here. I really am quite curious about the whole "sensual massage". So exactly what does happen?
From what I can tell, the guy is naked and the girl is just rubbing you all over. I also get that in most cases there is no intercourse (even a BJ), but is there a happy ending via HJ?
I know that everyone has their own thing, but I can get a licensed deep tissue massage for 1/3 the price. And if I wanted a woman rubbing herself all over me without sex, I'd have stayed with my exgirlfriend.
I'm intrigued and am just wondering what the big appeal is and what the $$ is purchasing.[/QUOTE]
Is she FS, happy ending or just a massage.
[QUOTE=Prettycocky]Clear expectations lead to better experiences for both sides in my opinion.[/QUOTE]Yes. Indeed. Without a doubt.
That's really why I suggested that you simply go spend time with at least three different providers and get a "feel" for how these things work. We can answer questions all day long on here, but those specific answers may not apply when you find yourself in a specific situation with a particular provider.
So, your best bet is to just jump in the pool, talk with the provider as much as you can up front without the conversation getting spooky/scary and without raising Uncle Leo-related concerns, and then take it from there.communication is the key, but it's communication with a specific provider. Not with us. We won't be in the room with ya!
Val, who has posted here, is a real sweetie with a great attitude. Try seeing her, try going to an AMP, and then try the Cordova lady who was mentioned in the post that started your questioning (about whether it is worth $$ or not). All three of those experiences that I just listed out for you will be very different, will be lots of fun, and will expand your vocabulary and world view in a most pleasant manner.
Sensual massage is not a commodity product that comes off an assembly line, in my own experience. When taken together with your own likes/dislikes, experience, and attitude, each situation, each setting, each provider adds to the variety, enjoyability, and novelty of the experience. That's why I simply suggested that you go try it yourself. Try it and you'll be glad you did!
[QUOTE=Prettycocky]Why is FBSM being advertised under the escort section if there is nothing like a HJ, BJ, or FS being offered.
Again, I would hate to be on the table expecting something to happen (based on things I had read) only to find that applies in other situations but not then.
To me, it's a bit like those who advertise 100% GFE but don't kiss. Now I clarify before booking as their definition of GFE is not my GFE. Clear expectations lead to better experiences for both sides in my opinion.[/QUOTE]This is always a problem, because the providers often try to blur the lines to get you interested. I had this arguement long ago with messagewoman when she originally posted in the escort section. It resulted in a minor flame war, and I was just making the same point that you are. Providers need to specify what they will not do, or what is not included. Same thing with GFE... problem remains with the providers. Being a non-kissing, cold-fish fuck may be the type of "Girlfriend" they really are, so they may think that they are being GFE when the guys have a whole different standard for GFE.
If you want GFE, find sweetmelissa. If you want a fully satisfying massage, try valerie.
I'm not saying the others are bad, just that these two are as advertised.
[QUOTE=Prettycocky]Ok, so please excuse my ignorance here. I really am quite curious about the whole "sensual massage". So exactly what does happen?
From what I can tell, the guy is naked and the girl is just rubbing you all over. I also get that in most cases there is no intercourse (even a BJ), but is there a happy ending via HJ?
I know that everyone has their own thing, but I can get a licensed deep tissue massage for 1/3 the price. And if I wanted a woman rubbing herself all over me without sex, I'd have stayed with my exgirlfriend.
I'm intrigued and am just wondering what the big appeal is and what the $$ is purchasing.[/QUOTE]
$$ is for time. The appeal is just something different. It's a tease. A guessing of what you might get or might not get. Kind of like fishing or the strip club. The point is your never sure where it might lead. Like you don't have to kiss all the girls. You can leave some to wonder about.
Thanks fellows for the compliments. I really enjoy what I do so I'm always as pleasant and polite so it's an enjoyable session all together.
There is still fun to be had at Tokyo Spa. I have been there half a dozen times over the past 3 months. The thing I don't like is that you don't get to choose, and you never know who you will get. I have liked some of the ladies there a lot more than others. Some have a warmer/friendlier attitude and better massage skills. I'm just now starting to learn some of their names, but I haven't had the balls to ask if I can see a specific girl yet. Maybe I should. If you are thinking of visiting, don't ask for any extras. All fun dreams need to be requested in non verbal ways. If you ask for an HE they are very likely to tell you no.