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About a year ago, I signed up for a month and I did not score since I rejected all UTR and pro while keeping my per visit no more than $200. Sounds like the SB scene in SD improves. What is your per visit budget nowadays?
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3828068]$90 for a month. If you can't get hooked up to someone and have many POTs in that time, you are lame. I can't take more than a month on the site, I find it too obsessive.[/QUOTE]
Well, today, SA is full of Pros & UTRs (You can tell by just the messages they send you.) However, I have been trying to score with some college girls, which has proven to be difficult (at least to me).
Yes, after 1 week, it's overwhelming. Depending on what you like, I'm on the site because I'm still trying to hookup with some non-pros, non-UTRs.
[QUOTE=DogRice;3828763]About a year ago, I signed up for a month and I did not score since I rejected all UTR and pro while keeping my per visit no more than $200. Sounds like the SB scene in SD improves. What is your per visit budget nowadays?[/QUOTE]Yeah, you will get nowhere with that. I have posted on the true archival thread, Richmond, on the approach to negotiate sugar. IF you are doing it online, you will pay top dollar (or get turned down). The only hope you have to budget is to wait until the meet. There is one other class of hot young girls who are in it for the adventure, the submissive ones. After a while you can just tell by looking at them, but some also put it in their profiles.
I have a model quality 36 YO single mom on allowance of 1000/ mo. I see her often. I just met a 28 YO beautiful blond, we have great chemistry, intense making out at the M&G, and she says she doesn't know anything about sugar, whatever I want is fine. FC Friday. This is all in OC, but I think the market is about the same, and it's high out here, the women are hot. I am an old bald guy with a limp. You got to have some game.
[QUOTE=KingBaby;3829668]Well, today, SA is full of Pros & UTRs (You can tell by just the messages they send you.) However, I have been trying to score with some college girls, which has proven to be difficult (at least to me).
Yes, after 1 week, it's overwhelming. Depending on what you like, I'm on the site because I'm still trying to hookup with some non-pros, non-UTRs.[/QUOTE]I find college girls the easiest. They usually are cheaper as they aren't used to having real money and think 1-200 is a lot.
[QUOTE=KMatthews521;3829764]I find college girls the easiest. They usually are cheaper as they aren't used to having real money and think 1-200 is a lot.[/QUOTE]Well, I got to keep on polishing my game then.
(Or, I have been contacting the wrong people.).
[QUOTE=Floro1243;3693080]Gents, wantes to share this with you all.
[URL]https://www.eros.com/california/san_diego/files/7182506.htm[/URL]
[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/deafddbb-a12c-4de8-95a7-4c3d906a733a[/URL][/QUOTE]She has a new handle now. UnicaTheia.
[QUOTE=Waxxon;3827528]Here's a POT, might be worth getting a closer look. She must be working it, seems like 2 profiles now. I've been in contact with one of them, she has sent me a lot of pics. Guys, check her out and see what's up.
Profile 1 [URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/f5929617-3508-49dc-ac85-aa613d061ddc[/URL].
Profile 2 [URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/dbd0e00a-77cf-4dad-8805-f5a7101d0e0a[/URL].[/QUOTE]This one lives in North Carolina or somewhere far away. I have no idea why she's advertising her. I texted her a bunch and then she told me she's looking for love, respect. In other words, a relationship. I wished her luck.
[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/f5929617-3508-49dc-ac85-aa613d061ddc[/URL]
[QUOTE=KMatthews521;3829764]I find college girls the easiest. They usually are cheaper as they aren't used to having real money and think 1-200 is a lot.[/QUOTE]Have any of them been able to host or do you have them come to your place? Thanks for the info.
[QUOTE=ZooGuy1959;3830031]Have any of them been able to host or do you have them come to your place? Thanks for the info.[/QUOTE]Primarily mine since they state they live in the dorms. Have had some car fun a couple times in a parking structure on campus.
I actually tried not to discuss sugar until M&G in the beginning of my sugar days. It did help to score some nice gals with reasonable sugar amount, but it also a major time burner.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3829737]Yeah, you will get nowhere with that. I have posted on the true archival thread, Richmond, on the approach to negotiate sugar. IF you are doing it online, you will pay top dollar (or get turned down). The only hope you have to budget is to wait until the meet. There is one other class of hot young girls who are in it for the adventure, the submissive ones. After a while you can just tell by looking at them, but some also put it in their profiles.
I have a model quality 36 YO single mom on allowance of 1000/ mo. I see her often. I just met a 28 YO beautiful blond, we have great chemistry, intense making out at the M&G, and she says she doesn't know anything about sugar, whatever I want is fine. FC Friday. This is all in OC, but I think the market is about the same, and it's high out here, the women are hot. I am an old bald guy with a limp. You got to have some game.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DogRice;3831127]I actually tried not to discuss sugar until M&G in the beginning of my sugar days. It did help to score some nice gals with reasonable sugar amount, but it also a major time burner.[/QUOTE]I usually discuss sugar during a M&G but I always ask while were chatting online or through text what they are looking for. I can get a general sense from there whether they can be talked down some or if I know right away they are pricing themselves out. If I think its worthwhile to try then I'll set up a M&G.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3828068]$90 for a month. If you can't get hooked up to someone and have many POTs in that time, you are lame. I can't take more than a month on the site, I find it too obsessive.[/QUOTE]Agree 100% one month will fill up the calendar. Do a 1 month SA membership to build up a bullpen of POT numbers then you can let it lapse and then go inactive.
I end up with more POTS than slots to meet them during the month so it's about juggling skills.
Too many pros are now on SA. FYI.
[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/9e89276f-d02c-4235-a85c-8a484cb65e0a[/URL]
[URL]https://adultsearch.com/california/san-diego/female-escorts/1173633[/URL]
Another one.
[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/0132795a-ab4f-4c99-a35a-d612882f20a8[/URL]
[URL]http://www.piperscarlett.com/[/URL]
[QUOTE=Floro1243;3831500]Too many pros are now on SA. FYI.
[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/9e89276f-d02c-4235-a85c-8a484cb65e0a[/URL]
[URL]https://adultsearch.com/california/san-diego/female-escorts/1173633[/URL][/QUOTE]How do sites like adultsearch keep going in the age of FOSTA?
[QUOTE=Clicker619;3827609]I asked her what happened to her earlier pics and she said she is giving her profile to her friend since she doesn't plan on being on the SA site much longer. Sounds like a bait & switch. The pics of her "friend" don't seem bad, but sometimes you're in the mood for a blond.
She is now Fun girl Monica[/QUOTE]I wasted a lot of time with this one. She lives in San Marcos but messaged me that she's in PB. We finally agree on a meet and drive there and wait only to have her text that she can't host. Has anyone score with her? Did she lead you around for awhile?
[QUOTE=Clicker619;3832182]I wasted a lot of time with this one. She lives in San Marcos but messaged me that she's in PB. We finally agree on a meet and drive there and wait only to have her text that she can't host. Has anyone score with her? Did she lead you around for awhile?[/QUOTE]She told me she was in San Marcos and gave me her address but she was out of my price range so I didn't bother.
Image search didn't give me anything from her profile's photos, but she sent me her phone number and asking to help her if I couldn't come to LA, searching her phone number links to several escort ads:
[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/messages/inbox/56c64515-7a2e-4be6-a512-c33280d547e7[/URL]
[URL]https://www.google.com/search?q=4242000976&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&client=firefox-b-1[/URL]
Either a pro or a scammer, not going to waste my time to find out.
[QUOTE=KMatthews521;3832338]She told me she was in San Marcos and gave me her address but she was out of my price range so I didn't bother.[/QUOTE]I got her down to 2 benjamins nut everytime we suppose to meet she comes up with something.
She also gave me her address in San Marcos. If I score, I will make sure to report, back.
[QUOTE=Floro1243;3832458]I got her down to 2 benjamins nut everytime we suppose to meet she comes up with something.
She also gave me her address in San Marcos. If I score, I will make sure to report, back.[/QUOTE]Please do. Not sure if I'd see her since she's far away from me but I was in the area when we started talking.
[QUOTE=Floro1243;3832458]I got her down to 2 benjamins nut everytime we suppose to meet she comes up with something.
She also gave me her address in San Marcos. If I score, I will make sure to report, back.[/QUOTE]Have also had some contact with "Monica" But it's been hard to get anything confirmed, she tells me "I'm bored, do you want to play?" She lives not too far away from me, then when I try to set a time she says "I'm downtown today, maybe later".
My guess, she's either a twot or a high volume pro.
[QUOTE=Cubico;3832447]Image search didn't give me anything from her profile's photos, but she sent me her phone number and asking to help her if I couldn't come to LA, searching her phone number links to several escort ads:
[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/messages/inbox/56c64515-7a2e-4be6-a512-c33280d547e7[/URL]
[URL]https://www.google.com/search?q=4242000976&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&client=firefox-b-1[/URL]
Either a pro or a scammer, not going to waste my time to find out.[/QUOTE]Hey Cubico, what's her handle on SA? Maybe a link about her profile. (You gave us your message link which obviously can't be opened).
[QUOTE=Waxxon;3832958]Have also had some contact with "Monica" But it's been hard to get anything confirmed, she tells me "I'm bored, do you want to play?" She lives not too far away from me, then when I try to set a time she says "I'm downtown today, maybe later".
My guess, she's either a twot or a high volume pro.[/QUOTE]She stood me up for the fourth time, even though, I triple confirmed with her the day prior. If you make plans with her, make sure you have plan B. Otherwise, you will be upset. Complete time waster. If anyone out there, scored with her, I would to hear about it.
[QUOTE=KingBaby;3833340]Hey Cubico, what's her handle on SA? Maybe a link about her profile. (You gave us your message link which obviously can't be opened).[/QUOTE]Sorry about that, her profile name is babypink1234, here is the link to her profile:
[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/6ed79cbc-411b-4d98-b6f4-112b9d341ee3[/URL]
[QUOTE=KingBaby;3833340]Hey Cubico, what's her handle on SA? Maybe a link about her profile. (You gave us your message link which obviously can't be opened).[/QUOTE]And I was just thinking since you asked me for her profile name, it has been a month since I'm not able to add keywords to searches on SA, I tried on Firefox and Chrome, even with Firefox on my phone (I don't use their app anymore since it kept on crashing on my android), has any of you guys got the same issue?
[QUOTE=Cubico;3833795]And I was just thinking since you asked me for her profile name, it has been a month since I'm not able to add keywords to searches on SA, I tried on Firefox and Chrome, even with Firefox on my phone (I don't use their app anymore since it kept on crashing on my android), has any of you guys got the same issue?[/QUOTE]Same here no keyword search even in app.
[QUOTE=Cubico;3833795]And I was just thinking since you asked me for her profile name, it has been a month since I'm not able to add keywords to searches on SA, I tried on Firefox and Chrome, even with Firefox on my phone (I don't use their app anymore since it kept on crashing on my android), has any of you guys got the same issue?[/QUOTE]Yeah, seems like they removed that feature too. From now on, we just have to post links & or screencaps.
[QUOTE=KingBaby;3834717]Yeah, seems like they removed that feature too. From now on, we just have to post links & or screencaps.[/QUOTE]Wondering why they removed that, seems that they removed it after FOSTA passed, maybe they don't want users to search for certain keywords? The whole search functionality on this site wasn't great already, now for sure we can't find somebody with just a profile name, let's just post links as you said from now on.
[QUOTE=Simplewishes;3834612]Same here no keyword search even in app.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Cubico;3833795]And I was just thinking since you asked me for her profile name, it has been a month since I'm not able to add keywords to searches on SA, I tried on Firefox and Chrome, even with Firefox on my phone (I don't use their app anymore since it kept on crashing on my android), has any of you guys got the same issue?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=KingBaby;3834717]Yeah, seems like they removed that feature too. From now on, we just have to post links & or screencaps.[/QUOTE]The Search Feature y'all are referring to should return to Seeking Arrangement soon. According to their Tech Support Staff, it was removed to “improve the search functionality and squash some bugs".
RWARNMSN.
Safe mongering and sugaring!
[QUOTE=Cubico;3833743]Sorry about that, her profile name is babypink1234, here is the link to her profile:
[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/6ed79cbc-411b-4d98-b6f4-112b9d341ee3[/URL][/QUOTE]Definitely a pro, and her profile photos kind of match the ones on her ads:
[URL]http://backpage.com.ventura.listcrawler.com/post/26464344/static/html/popunder7.html[/URL]
I was talking to her earlier today, I started to talk dirty and she blocked me haha. She is in LA right now, but her ads suggest that she sometimes come to San Diego, so if that is what you are looking for I think she should be good to go. If that really is her on her pics I may try her out when she comes in SD, but won't drive to LA if I don't know if that is really her.
This one is a profound time-waster. If she replies, she then disappears, then she'll text and. Disappear. Then she'll set up a time, in this case, for lunch. And then disappear. She wasted over two hours of my time and we still did not get together. Life is too short for this kind of nonsense, especially when we are paying them!
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/789959d7-edc1-433d-9396-82ae9772007f[/URL]
If this continues, I'll be getting out of this pool.
This chick wanted $200 for the first date, just to get to know each other. Thereafter, with intimacy, it would be $500 per meet. I politely told her she was out of my league and wished her luck. Her snarky answer was, "Good luck getting herpes and AIDS. " WTF? She's the one peddling her ass around town!
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/89cb34d3-2a25-4ecc-a60f-161183d6de71[/URL]
This one also wanted $200 for the first meet, but we would only make out and be a little affectionate. For the FS dates thereafter, she would be okay with $200 (with the promise of once / week--Ha! I told her $200 just to meet was absurd.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/2096356b-d686-4ae8-850b-f0359c962dc3[/URL]
This one is beautiful, but the tats scare me. She claims she wants chemistry before fucking, but we didn't get together right away and now she's AWOL. Nuts!
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/14b05e49-3d96-4093-b4cb-8a5b77438b00[/URL]
This one is a pro working out of Point Loma. $250 for an hour. Ask to see more pix. She's a Latino fox!
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/8d695aaf-254a-4f63-8d60-09254088fc36[/URL]
This one also went AWOL after a meeting that didn't happen and couldn't get rescheduled.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7a9947b4-d0e9-449b-ab1b-a1bde2152683[/URL]
I don't understand these ladies, but then, there's no understanding craziness!
Hope you have better luck than I've had recently!
[QUOTE=TennisNut;3836322]If this continues, I'll be getting out of this pool.
This one also went AWOL after a meeting that didn't happen and couldn't get rescheduled.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7a9947b4-d0e9-449b-ab1b-a1bde2152683[/URL]
I don't understand these ladies, but then, there's no understanding craziness!
Hope you have better luck than I've had recently![/QUOTE]You're obviously experienced on USA, perhaps you are just choosing the wrong girls on SA. I don't know exactly how I avoid them from their profile, but I don't have girls doing this shit to me. I have posted before how short-sighted it is to negotiate sugar by electronic communication. In-person is the only way. If you can't get them to M&G without $, they are doing you a favor by showing their cards so early. Move on, there are only a zillion girls on there. IK, I have gotten a Jones for a particular girl on the site before too, and after they ignore my messages a few times, I get over it and realize they never would see me.
Asking 800.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/2bad66ee-ed56-4bb5-8993-efb94c16f702[/URL]
This one wanted $500. I offered $250 and she said, "For that, can we just do head. Sorry to be so transactional. " Transactional, what, as opposed to a REAL relationship! Give me a break. I told her no. She's done with me.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7a9947b4-d0e9-449b-ab1b-a1bde2152683[/URL]
The following sent a ton of pictures, some of which are attached. She is hot, but also a pro asking $500. I balked and she came down to $400, but wouldn't go lower. I passed.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9440f5ae-f5e0-4d82-9080-20d41ac9dc9c[/URL]
Tijuana is looking awfully good right about now.
[QUOTE=TennisNut;3837354]This one wanted $500. I offered $250 and she said, "For that, can we just do head. Sorry to be so transactional. " Transactional, what, as opposed to a REAL relationship! Give me a break. I told her no. She's done with me.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7a9947b4-d0e9-449b-ab1b-a1bde2152683[/URL]
The following sent a ton of pictures, some of which are attached. She is hot, but also a pro asking $500. I balked and she came down to $400, but wouldn't go lower. I passed.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9440f5ae-f5e0-4d82-9080-20d41ac9dc9c[/URL]
Tijuana is looking awfully good right about now.[/QUOTE]Hey brother,
Thanks for your posts. I also been having some issues with these girls. I never agree to pay for a meet and greet and always try to keep them low.
I haven't had luck so far but is part of the game. Happy hunting. Stay safe.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3837120]You're obviously experienced on USA, perhaps you are just choosing the wrong girls on SA. I don't know exactly how I avoid them from their profile, but I don't have girls doing this shit to me. I have posted before how short-sighted it is to negotiate sugar by electronic communication. In-person is the only way. If you can't get them to M&G without $, they are doing you a favor by showing their cards so early. Move on, there are only a zillion girls on there. IK, I have gotten a Jones for a particular girl on the site before too, and after they ignore my messages a few times, I get over it and realize they never would see me.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the advice / reminder. It seems those who play hard to get are not worth getting. There are so many scenarios and approaches, but in the final analysis wasting time is self-defeating. I don't think I've ever jumped through a lot of hoops and had it work out. I like to make exceptions or be flexible with the really scrumptious ones, but that's just more neuroses--doing the same thing over and over but expecting different outcomes.
Now, perhaps, I understand why some guys are really blunt in their communications with these girls, some go as far as being crude and explicit. It saves time. The girls hate it, but those who don't hate it will be ready for action and won't jerk you around. Granted, they may be pros, but at the end of the day most of these girls are pros. I had one say she prefers to think of men as being "financially dominant", that way she doesn't think of herself as a ho. Hey, whatever gets you through the night.
Pursing the holy grail of SA--a young, nonpro who just needs some money and hasn't done this before--is a challenge, but should not be taken seriously. Like dating, they are choosing us, not visa-versa. If we all looked like Brad Pitt or George Clooney, life would be different (better).
Enough of this. I've had my coffee and, being a writer, I like a captive audience, but I'll spare you guys. Keep sharing your stories!
[QUOTE=TennisNut;3837965]Thanks for the advice / reminder. It seems those who play hard to get are not worth getting. There are so many scenarios and approaches, but in the final analysis wasting time is self-defeating. I don't think I've ever jumped through a lot of hoops and had it work out. I like to make exceptions or be flexible with the really scrumptious ones, but that's just more neuroses--doing the same thing over and over but expecting different outcomes.
Now, perhaps, I understand why some guys are really blunt in their communications with these girls, some go as far as being crude and explicit. It saves time. The girls hate it, but those who don't hate it will be ready for action and won't jerk you around. Granted, they may be pros, but at the end of the day most of these girls are pros. I had one say she prefers to think of men as being "financially dominant", that way she doesn't think of herself as a ho. Hey, whatever gets you through the night.
Pursing the holy grail of SA--a young, nonpro who just needs some money and hasn't done this before--is a challenge, but should not be taken seriously. Like dating, they are choosing us, not visa-versa. If we all looked like Brad Pitt or George Clooney, life would be different (better).
Enough of this. I've had my coffee and, being a writer, I like a captive audience, but I'll spare you guys. Keep sharing your stories![/QUOTE]Don't sell yourself short. I don't agree that the holy grail should not be taken seriously. I have had about 15 girls in the 2+ years I have been on SA. Most of those have been ongoing relationships. Those that weren't were ones where I learned the girl was a pro. Most of my ex-es aren't still on the site after ending our arrangements. They were real relationships, just limited in time / scope. That's what I am looking for on SA. My bowl buddy BikeRider likes to say everyone gets the bowl they are looking for.
I currently have a monthly with a stunning skinny model type for $1 K. She's 36, I am in my 60's. There really are some girls who prefer older men, where else could they get that itch scratched without violating social norms than SA? I have had teenagers /20 YO coeds who *loved* older, mostly b / c they are submissive. That is one thing I definitely look for, b / c I know those girls seriously are interested in guys like me.
I have never met / contacted her. However, with her current picture, it went by a different handle: Used to be "Pretty Zandy 93. " She said she worked with sick teens in Chula Vista, we almost meet up, which was 8 months ago.
There must be some guys out there who are paying for the M&G, because I am seeing that all the time now too. I buy coffees / lunches & sometimes dinners. However, I have never paid for the initial M&G. Those people are feeding this trend.
Hey guys,
I just joined and have been trying to read and catch up on all the posts. Awesome info guys! So I joined SA and hit up a hot 18 yo blond and she wants me to PayPal her instead of the old fashion way. What do you guys think? I don't like leaving evidence.