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[QUOTE=SummerCheer;4482059]So I wouldn't say that it went down like that. I tried to get my money back but she started calling her husband and I'm not going to die for $. I've learned my lesson.[/QUOTE]Never ever pay upfront.
I got ripped off once in this game. Since then I never ever pay upfront. Lesson learned the first time.
[QUOTE=Fdottt;4481993] It's that mentality of "just let them have it they need it more than us" that continually gets you guys taken advantage of.[/QUOTE]It's not that, once a b!tch rips me off I *want* *terrible* things to happen to her. Fuck that "she needs it" shit.
It's that the risks you take on with any escalation just aren't worth it. If she starts screaming "rape", you're fucked. If she starts screaming anything, you're fucked. If she has accomplices you're fucked. It's not like you can easily call the cops or something.
Better to just leave her shitty reviews / comments (and ensure that they stay there) - that hurts her *plenty* - and to make an entry here in Rippoff Reports, and move on.
[QUOTE=Fdottt;4481993]Get naked and put the money in the bathroom. Yes ma'am I'll do whatever you say I'm so horny.
Has anyone on here ever actually fought back and got their money back. It's that mentality of "just let them have it they need it more than us" that continually gets you guys taken advantage of.[/QUOTE]Have a friend that was "hypothetically" ripped off twice and robbed once.
The first person that ripped him off, he let it go thinking "they need it more than I do". He let it go and continued seeing them like an idiot because although it was business, he cared about them. A year or so later they attempted to rob him. An altercation occurred with her, her friend, and him. It ended with him walking out with not just his money, but her I'd as well as insurance Incase she tried calling a "friend".
He was recently ripped off by someone else. She blocked his number then changed it. Dummy her decided to reach out to him and ask if he wanted to meet (probably forgot about the incident). He got a burner phone, set up an out call, told her he was at a location 2 hours from her spot but would give her 3 x her rate if she came. She drove out there, called and said she was at the apartment door. He then hung up and threw out the burner. He Figures they are even now.
For every person that thinks "they need it more than I do", there's a "what's he going to do? Call the cops?
I can't imagine anyone thinking along the lines of "oh fuck it she needs it more than me?" Fuck that, its like what George Stark said it's about the risks vs reward. Couldn't give a shit less what she needs, a chick who steals so brazenly could easily have a pimp, gang banger bf, etc backing her up. No way in hell am I opening up a can of worms like that over a few bucks.
[QUOTE=GeorgeStark;4482412]It's not that, once a b!tch rips me off I *want* *terrible* things to happen to her. Fuck that "she needs it" shit.
It's that the risks you take on with any escalation just aren't worth it. If she starts screaming "rape", you're fucked. If she starts screaming anything, you're fucked. If she has accomplices you're fucked. It's not like you can easily call the cops or something.
Better to just leave her shitty reviews / comments (and ensure that they stay there) - that hurts her *plenty* - and to make an entry here in Rippoff Reports, and move on.[/QUOTE]
Everything I said was true until she got a head full of tequila. Or you do some trivial thing that pisses her off Then she's a fucking sadist. Worst hobby night of my life.
[QUOTE=GeorgeStark;4483146]This girl is one of my favorites. I've seen her a dozen times since end of July, and will see her more.
Typically in the south suburbs.
She is very cool, and very hot, great GFE (though BJ and FS are covered). Reasonably priced. The pics are very recent and accurate. She really knows how to bring the sexy. She comes up with stuff that pleasantly surprises me.
She is very responsive to manual and oral stimulation, it's great fun!
[URL]http://escortalligator.com.chicago.listcrawler.com/last_phone_post/7084414438[/URL][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Fdottt;4481993]Get naked and put the money in the bathroom. Yes ma'am I'll do whatever you say I'm so horny.
Has anyone on here ever actually fought back and got their money back. It's that mentality of "just let them have it they need it more than us" that continually gets you guys taken advantage of.[/QUOTE]A nam vet did just that on the vegas forum. It's an interesting read and yep he got his cash back. He had concealed carry and po po was called, however after he calmly explained his side of the story they cut him loose! I would say that is very rare, however if one reads through it he did remain calm and never branished his weapon however he did let the young lady know that because she would not deliver what she agreed to prior to getting the cash he wanted his money back or tell the office to send some subsititute that was acceptable to him that would deliver or give him his money back! They did, she left, po po showed, he told them he had the concealed, they were ok with it and did not charge him.
Do you guys ALWAYS pay after service? I figured most of them wouldn't do it.
[QUOTE=RationalityLoL;4498551]Do you guys ALWAYS pay after service? I figured most of them wouldn't do it.[/QUOTE]I always pay after. Never upfront. She wants money upfront the first time meeting I walk out.
[QUOTE=RationalityLoL;4498551]Do you guys ALWAYS pay after service? I figured most of them wouldn't do it.[/QUOTE]It depends on the girl. If she's one of those who wants it up front, I usually just set the envelope down on a dresser or table right before we start. As a rule I typically don't see them again if they want payment up front. I've been lucky so far, but there's always that one who will grab it and then call her thug boyfriend in to chase you off.
Just wanted to give a heads up on this one since she is doing outcalls. She is a junkie and a thief, if you let her into your place she will steal from you. If you go see her, she will try to find a way to leave or rip you off. Had a good experience then things took a crazy turn when I saw her the other night. I would just stay away from this one completely.
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[QUOTE=RationalityLoL;4498551]Do you guys ALWAYS pay after service? I figured most of them wouldn't do it.[/QUOTE]Payment up front builds trust, I use the moment to ask for extras up front so there's no surprises or misunderstandings. It's all business and usually they won't count out your cash in front of you.
[QUOTE=GeorgeStark;4497660]Everything I said was true until she got a head full of tequila. Or you do some trivial thing that pisses her off Then she's a fucking sadist. Worst hobby night of my life.[/QUOTE]After singing her praises she did a 180, huh?
I was considering taking the plunge.
What happened?
[QUOTE=BuddyBear;4500951]After singing her praises she did a 180, huh?
I was considering taking the plunge.
What happened?[/QUOTE]I cannot recommend her without reservations. I am right now pretty sure that I'll never go see her again. She says I can, but I'll never trust her again.
However, I'm pretty sure she'll *probably* be great for you, though not risk free. (I saw a chick I never even knew last time.) I'll bet that sounds strange!
I've seen her 13 times. 11.5 of them were fabulous. Half of one was dicey, but not too bad overall. The last one. And it *is* the last one. Was the worst thing I've experienced in the hobby.
What she did:
She took my money and then wouldn't perform any of the usual services. Things we'd done 12 times before. She wouldn't even lay down on the bed. She insisted she had something else to try on me first, and that I should lay down. I utterly refused to even try that (I'm stubborn), on the grounds that *I* get to say what happens, (within her normal parameters, naturally), and what I was asking for was the exact same thing I did with her the other 12 times I saw her.
Incidentally, this is what happened, to a lesser extent, on the half bad date. Claimed we were friends so she should be able to try stuff, [U]while refusing[/U] what I wanted. I told her if that's was being friends, count me out. I had told her then *never* to do it again. That had been the end of August.
That's why I reacted with a *complete* unwillingness to try whatever unknown thing she offered. Basically, I was so mad, I couldn't see straight.
It was complete fucking bullshit. Neither of us would budge. And as I see it, it's her FUCKING JOB to budge. It REALLY sucked. NOTHING got done that night except a lot of swearing.
I am absolutely sure that the booze had more effect on her than she'll admit.
I think it was a big part. She won't admit it, but when we discussed it in detail, several times she blamed the Hennessy. Further, she remembers multiple things *completely* out of sequence now. When I start detailing the exact order of things (which is damning), she's mixed up about it. She's saying that she acted fucked up because she was pissed off about things that happened well *after* she began acting fucked up, 10 minutes or more.
Part of it was just a bunch of things, including me, got on her nerves.
I got on her nerves without even really sensing it, (I'm slow that way.) She claims that all this happened because I pissed her off in different ways. But she was on a roll when I walked into the place. She later admitted that other stuff in her day had her going, though she didn't say what.
I [U]can[/U] assure you that one of the ways I pissed her off is [U]utterly[/U] unique to me: It related to bags I carry with me to dates, which I put all my clothes in so that, if the room is infested with bedbugs, my clothes are not. (Having bedbugs is a nightmare.) So one of the things related to those, and I'm sure you're not carrying those bags around.
Still it was *after* the shit she (at first) said pissed her off, that she *both* took my money and refused to perform. That sequence is something I cannot forget, and am not forgiving. (I could forgive a lot if she'd show genuine remorse. But she hasn't.).
She's pretty hot, and pretty cool, in a lot of ways. Not a beauty at all, but still hot. She does GFE better than anybody I've ever been with. She is in a fucking different class. It feels like love. Or some sort of drug. (Although I haven't been with Portia yet. I'm fixing that tomorrow, LOL!
And she has a pretty nice personality, except when she's being a complete b!tch, like during PMS. Or whatever. Again, LOL, as I write this shit.
Before this happened she was my current favorite, had been since the day I met her in late July.
[QUOTE=GeorgeStark;4503191].
However, I'm pretty sure she'll *probably* be great for you, though not risk free. I'll bet that sounds strange!!
[/QUOTE]I say this because there were other things going on that I didn't get into the previous post, and these things won't be happening with you.
Besides the shit with the bags, and my rudeness about it, there was another thing.
There were a number of times when I'd go for a late date on a weeknight, and after the date was over, we'd chill. Not because I'm some stud, she liked to blow off steam, I enjoyed listening and talking. It was actually pretty cool. But I think this was also the genesis of her maddening ideas about what she could do during our dates, when she had different ideas than I, but I was paying.
So anyhow, I was hoping for one of those chilling times, but when I came in, she was on the phone scheduling something 60 or 90 minutes out. I expressed disappointment that we wouldn't be chilling, and I think that really annoyed her. Maybe because there was no point in saying it. I know and knew that I had no claim on that time, it was her call. I had just mentioned to her I was dissapointed, pretty mildly, I thought, but it seemed to really piss her off, because in retrospect, things did start going south there.
So like I say, [b]this b!tch definitely did me dirt,[/b] but we had shit going on that you won't.
[QUOTE=GeorgeStark;4503303]I say this because there were other things going on that I didn't get into the previous post, and these things won't be happening with you.
Besides the shit with the bags, and my rudeness about it, there was another thing.
There were a number of times when I'd go for a late date on a weeknight, and after the date was over, we'd chill. Not because I'm some stud, she liked to blow off steam, I enjoyed listening and talking. It was actually pretty cool. But I think this was also the genesis of her maddening ideas about what she could do during our dates, when she had different ideas than I, but I was paying.
So anyhow, I was hoping for one of those chilling times, but when I came in, she was on the phone scheduling something 60 or 90 minutes out. I expressed disappointment that we wouldn't be chilling, and I think that really annoyed her. Maybe because there was no point in saying it. I know and knew that I had no claim on that time, it was her call. I had just mentioned to her I was dissapointed, pretty mildly, I thought, but it seemed to really piss her off, because in retrospect, things did start going south there.
So like I say, this b!tch definitely did me dirt, but we had shit going on that you won't.[/QUOTE]Did she do you BBFSCIP? Some hookers get weird after that, like they start feeling too close so they create drama to start an argument to sabotage it in their head.