Back to the old restaurant analogy
[QUOTE=Ambidextrous;2606770]JmS and BB, your points are appreciated, but I honestly don't think I am under a halo effect. This kind of service is almost unknown in my experience. Everyone has their own propensities and what Lee and I did may not turn your crank, but to me this was an off the clock, no-holds-barred GFE; I could scarcely ask for more from a real GF. Especially at lower (BP) price points you cannot find that, at least not with young, attractive providers. (Believe me I have tried.) I think my $3. 8 was well spent.
BTW, when she got in my car she had a piece of paper with the hotel address and room number written on it. It seemed the room was already rented and I'm sure I wouldn't have had to pay for it.
Also BTW, you seem to suggest that bareback is a higher level of service a provider could offer. In my view that is reckless and I don't even want it to be on the menu with a provider.
Respectfully submitted.[/QUOTE]I hadn't taken the time to look at some of your previous posts until BB's post prompted that idea. Having done so, I think it's fair to say you have very specific tastes when it comes to the hobby. While you've seen some other Asian ethnicities (Thai, Chinese) and the occasional non-Asian, you admittedly have a preference for K-girls, and therein lies the issue.
Using a restaurant analogy, it's the equivalent of developing a strong taste for a particular cuisine and then devoting your time and $ in an effort to find the best restaurants of that type. And since K-girls can be quite high maintenance and expensive maybe the best restaurant equivalent would be French haute cuisine.
So, IMHO, your quest for the quintessential K-girl GFE is analogous to a gourmand's quest for the perfect fine French meal. While it can be done, it's an expensive proposition and the best experiences are relatively rare (which only whets your appetite for more).
It takes all types to make this hobby work and everyone is entitled to their specific preferences. And likewise I congratulate you on achieving a level of affluence which allows you to drop large sums in your pursuits. But I think it's an honest assessment that you have chosen a pretty specific niche and are quite different from most hobbyists.
To continue the analogy, I enjoy fine French food as much as the next guy but I'm also happy with great pasta, a juicy steak and even an occasional burger. And one of the most important issues for me is that I want the value I receive to be commensurate with the prices I pay. In other words, don't charge me steak prices and deliver me a burger meal. Your chosen path involves searching for very specific experiences in a market with limited choices. There are simply not as many K-girls in the DMV as there are in places like NYC, SFO and LAX. And there is definitely no "street food" equivalent in this area for what you seek. I guess you could consider K-AMPs but those don't generally offer the GFE+ options you want.
What makes it easier for me than for you (IMHO), is that I have a wider array of choices. I've had some of my most sublime GFE sessions with latinas, as well as a full range of ethnicities, nationalities and colors, which increases my chances of finding GFE for less.
So, from the perspective of trying to find the perfect French meal, I can certainly understand why you feel you didn't overpay for Lee. But from the perspective of someone who is just as happy with Italian, Spanish, Soul Food, or other, you absolutely did.
BTW, Lee just raised her prices from $280 to $300, so the price of your meal has just gone up. [URL]http://washingtondc.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/lee-gorgeous-asian-lady-let-me-show-you-why-i-have-great-reviews/18476244[/URL] and we'll just have to wait and see what her prices will be after she makes her big plastic surgery investment.
Good luck in your quest and hope the finances hold up because you'll need plenty of kimchi to keep going!
Supply, demand and the elusive Trifecta.
[QUOTE=Ambidextrous;2607826]Your comments are perceptive and it's true that I'm a K-girl aficionado. However I'm skeptical about the theory that K-girls command a premium. Can you get a true GFE from a young attractive provider of any race or nationality for less than $3? Based on personal experience and reading the reviews and forums, it's rare. For example I recently paid $3. 2 to see a young attractive Caucasian provider, Rachel W. (
http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?3960-Escort-Reports&p=2559548). I was surprised to learn that her menu could not by any stretch be called GFE.
I also note an increasing number of providers advertising at the $4 - $6 price level. Not surprisingly they have excellent reviews and I am finding myself tempted to splurge on one. But for now at least I am not at the upper end of the spectrum.
Respectfully submitted.[/QUOTE]What I would call the hobby Trifecta is 1) young; 2) hot looks; 3) GFE. While there are certainly individual variations I think it's fair to say that providers possessing those three qualities will always command a premium, no matter what their nationality or ethnicity. But what that premium is, and what prices are in general, will depend greatly on the relative supply and demand and also on the mix of new entrants into the provider pool.
My main point about K-girls in the DMV, and perhaps I didn't make it as effectively as I could have, is primarily about the lack of supply. All high-end providers (Black, Asian, Caucasian, Latina, etc) will command a premium if they meet (or promise to meet) Trifecta standards. But groups with more relative supply and / or with more new providers entering the local hobby scene, will offer a greater variation of prices and service levels and better opportunities to find GFE for less. AFAICT, independent K-girls are quite rare in the DMV and the K-agencies import their talent from outside the area. I don't see an influx of new, lower priced, K-escorts in the way that regularly occurs with Latina, Caucasian and Black providers. I've had some great GFE finds among newer Latinas, for example, and regulars often continue to get the original rate even after prices increase for new clients.
On the demand side of the equation, we hobbyists need to step up and take responsibility for our propensity to think with the little head and spend the kind of $ that induces providers from all over the f*cking United States (and Canada, and Central / South America) to come to the DMV to lighten our wallets in a major way! If the girls from CA, NY and elsewhere could make the same money close to home and thereby avoid incurring travel expenses, they definitely would. And it's absolutely true that they need the money more than we need the p*ssy, but we persist in acting as though they hold all the cards.
I don't know what percentage of the hobbyists in the DMV participate in this forum but I bet we make up a pretty decent portion of regularly active mongers. So, IMHO, the best prescription is to do lots of homework, always RTFF, push back on prices (politely) when you can and think with the big head so you don't overpay.
Damn Can This Hobby Spoil You
Anna is a 27-year-old Thai with a bubbly, playful personality. Her body is firm, even around her slender waist, and is adorned with several tattoos. She is not a no-holds-barred provider but she was comfortable with me and let herself go during the session, which made it spontaneous and even thrilling.
The providers I have seen at this agency have been good and those I have not garnered excellent reviews. Anna arrived a couple of days ago and the booker texted me her ad website address. Although she has no reviews I felt Anna was a good bet. Admittedly a gamble but I have been disappointed even by some providers who have glowing reviews, so there is no sure thing in this hobby. Also this agency seems to have a rare degree of correspondence between ad claims and reality, both in photos and service. They deserve all the success they seem to be having. (For whatever protection it's worth I will not disclose the website address here. Trusted contributors can PM.).
After introductory chitchat and disrobing, as I often do I asked Anna what she would like to do. She replied "Everything!" and reciprocated the question. I have met Thai providers who do Greek so I simply said, I like ass. She made a slight face and said she doesn't do that. So much for "everything," but I was okay with the limitation and it was not an awkward moment.
Proceeded to worship that wonderful hardbody with massagi, DATO and DATY. She has the most perfect breasts you can imagine with firm eraser tips. She allowed one knuckle deep penetration in the back door but she said it hurt so I abandoned that. She got off so quickly from DATY that I thought she was faking it but as I went on it became apparent she was not. She writhed more than most during DATY and her climax was punctuated by sudden involuntary twitches.
She applied a cover with her mouth and we did missionary and doggie, she seemed to enjoy it. Finished with BBBJCIM with PM. She declined CIF but said if I was the last customer of the day that would be ok. We had a fairly long and wide-ranging after-chat, her cheerful and outgoing personality made it a pleasure. The clock on the bedside table was 5-10 minutes fast and I was out in about 55 minutes.
I felt the chemistry between us was good which created a relaxed, spontaneous session. As I touched her I realized I have never had, and probably never will have, a civilian at my disposal who is so all around hot. Sometimes all the research and hard-earned experience pay off.
Total damage $2. 6. F9 B9 A9 S8.