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[QUOTE=TooDrunkToFuk;3506601]Am I totally insane for daty on one of these BP girls? Are there any that might be worth the risk? I really don't want to try and explain to my kids why they have herpes after I kiss them goodnight.[/QUOTE]Use good judgement.
Smell it and examine in good lighting.
Does she seem generally healthy?
Still not the wisest thing, but our hobby comes with risks.
[QUOTE=Admin2;3499041]Seems to me you have a lot of contempt for guys working BP and other sites;.....[/QUOTE]Absolutely not. There is a type and price point for everyone. Some love $20 SW car dates; some $400 eros types. In a way I'm envious of those who get off from a $20 street girl as it'd save a boatload of money. We all define "hooker" slightly differently. From SW to mistress to one who marries for money. My definition just doesn't include most SA girls. To be sure they aren't puritanical but not hookers either.
That said I have no illusions to what they're doing and why they've chosen me. No contempt for anyone; I've used all sites.
[QUOTE=WhiteNite2000;3496753]Unfortunately when it comes to ripoffs, smelly private areas, dirty environments, etc. , it really goes both ways. Some of us have great hygiene, professional, knows how to treat people and so on and this goes for both men and women. However, many of these girls you see on BP have not been in the biz long enough but have really raunchy and smelly coochies. For example, I started seeing this provider who didn't post much and she wanted a certain amount for 20-30 minutes. I was fine with it and didn't try to haggle over prices with her- it was reasonable. Then it appeared someone or others got to her head and she started wanting almost double her price! Now let me say that double the price might not be so bad as long as the overall service was commensurate with what she was requesting but when you can't clean your coochie but yet, you want a mint for your little services, it just isn't going to happen.
When people don't provide a decent ambiance, smoke-free and clean environment, no dope boys, keep appt times (well as close as it reasonably can be), great hygiene, and being lucid, then they do not deserve 200 for their services. Personally, I would reserve higher amounts for higher caliber providers and by and large, BP just isn't it.[/QUOTE]It goes both ways for mongers and providers. Where you confused me was your example of your UTR. Her original price for her smelly pussy was OK but when she doubled the price the smell became a problem? Its pretty simple, if we don't like the service then move on. We choose, they don't force us to drive to them. Also you know YMMV so providers are going to treat favorite mongers a little better than ones who show up every other month with no personality and poor hygiene.
[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3507861]It goes both ways for mongers and providers. Where you confused me was your example of your UTR. Her original price for her smelly pussy was OK but when she doubled the price the smell became a problem? Its pretty simple, if we don't like the service then move on. We choose, they don't force us to drive to them. Also you know YMMV so providers are going to treat favorite mongers a little better than ones who show up every other month with no personality and poor hygiene.[/QUOTE]It was an issue I was going to mention to her because I thought she had potential but tried to figure out a diplomatic approach as, personally, I think it's a sensitive subject to bring up. However, I don't care if I'm a favorite or not, whether I'm paying big money or not, if a client is coming to see you, clean your coochie! Simple as that.
I make sure my hygiene is top notch and so should she or they! I'd be embarrassed going to see a provider with smelly privates. Another thing is this, when you ask your boss for a raise, you don't do such a thing if you have a history of being late, productivity is down, and you can't get along with your peers do you? You ensure (if you're smart) that you're the exact opposite. So if she wants an increased donation then, she too, must up the ante.
[QUOTE=FloridaBiker;3507747]Use good judgement.
Smell it and examine in good lighting.
Does she seem generally healthy?
Still not the wisest thing, but our hobby comes with risks.[/QUOTE]I used whatever semblance of judgment I had left. She was coherent and seemed in good health. No evidence of candy, she had some rules that indicated she might have some standards. Smelled good, freshly showered- light not available, but virtually no taste and no tonugue-detectable bumps lesions or other concerns. I guess ill wait a couple weeks and see what develops.
Sure seemed worth the risk at the time- I haven't had a girl capable of 69 in years and years.
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Sure seemed worth the risk at the time- I haven't had a girl capable of 69 in years and years.[/QUOTE]Damn, that deserves an attaboy. Congrats!
I'm sure it will eventually get shut down by the powers that be, so I figured I'd ask my questions here. I'm curious. To those of you who've been unfortunate to contract a STD in the hobby what were the symptoms that you experienced? How long was the onset?
What worries me are the infections that show no outward symptoms. Feel free to pm if you'd prefer to speak privately. I would just like to hear experiences from my fellow mongers.
[QUOTE=BiggDaddi;3513334]I'm sure it will eventually get shut down by the powers that be, so I figured I'd ask my questions here. I'm curious. To those of you who've been unfortunate to contract a STD in the hobby what were the symptoms that you experienced? How long was the onset? What worries me are the infections that show no outward symptoms. Feel free to pm if you'd prefer to speak privately. I would just like to hear experiences from my fellow mongers.[/QUOTE]I cannot speak from personal experience but the Chief Corpsman on my Navy ship said your dick would turn black, wither and fall off.
[QUOTE=BiggDaddi;3513334]I'm sure it will eventually get shut down by the powers that be, so I figured I'd ask my questions here. I'm curious. To those of you who've been unfortunate to contract a STD in the hobby what were the symptoms that you experienced? How long was the onset?
What worries me are the infections that show no outward symptoms. Feel free to pm if you'd prefer to speak privately. I would just like to hear experiences from my fellow mongers.[/QUOTE]Guys are lucky in that they are much more likely to show symptoms. Still, testing is the only sure method to be clear. And it's pretty simple and cheap. One can google for the symptoms. Most are easily treated but there are rare and very dangerous exceptions.
[QUOTE=EaglesSb;3534259]I've seen variations of this type of comment over the years on the forum and the thing I always ask is:
1) Why mention how good you say you look, while putting everyone else down.
2) Why are you paying if you look so good.
The review was informative, but you added something that didn't need to be added.[/QUOTE]Why are you bothered? Feeling insecure?
I can answer the second one. Being a young, fit, and attractive guy myself I have had a few BP girls ask me why I needed to use BP. (one particular tiny redhead even said "YES, I'm so glad you're not a creepy old man!
Well, I don't "need" to use it. But I like to. It's new, taboo, and exciting to me. I hate clubs and I'm not looking for a GF. Tinder is fun, but it's still work and not a "guarantee". Therefore, BP. Instant action.
[QUOTE=JoeGannOnLct;3534839]Why are you bothered? Feeling insecure?
I can answer the second one. Being a young, fit, and attractive guy myself I have had a few BP girls ask me why I needed to use BP. (one particular tiny redhead even said "YES, I'm so glad you're not a creepy old man!
Well, I don't "need" to use it. But I like to. It's new, taboo, and exciting to me. I hate clubs and I'm not looking for a GF. Tinder is fun, but it's still work and not a "guarantee". Therefore, BP. Instant action.[/QUOTE]No insecurity since I'm 27 strong / fit, however I'm not delusional to think I'm more "special" then the guys on here. Unless she told you "you don't need to pay" you got the same deal everyone else got. Its like feeling special about a participation trophy, then claiming your participation trophy is better since you can see your reflection in it.
I'm not being argumentative but answering his above question.
[QUOTE=EaglesSb;3536509]No insecurity since I'm 27 strong / fit, however I'm not delusional to think I'm more "special" then the guys on here. Unless she told you "you don't need to pay" you got the same deal everyone else got. Its like feeling special about a participation trophy, then claiming your participation trophy is better since you can see your reflection in it.
I'm not being argumentative but answering his above question.[/QUOTE]That's exactly what you are doing. The both of you are arguing about the stupid post you put up because somebody irritated you. This had nothing to do with backpage advertisers and everything to do about disagreeing with what he said which is the very essence of argument.
Just because somebody is picking a fight with you doesn't mean that giving them what they are looking for isn't fighting on your part. Nobody, and I do mean nobody gives a fuckity fuck about your body on a thread that is supposed to be full of reviews about chicks that advertise on backpage. Nobody gives a fuck that you're not delusional, or that you don't think you're more special, nobody gives a single fuck about any of that shit on a thread that is supposed to be about BACKPAGE ADVERTISERS, and the reason you will never, ever, get off moderation is because you don't give a shit that nobody fucking cares about you and will constantly litter up the review threads with your stupidity because at the end of the day you're here to pick fights as much as you are for pussy.
Maybe now it's clear.
A2.
Rest in peace G.
[QUOTE=TomCat4871;3537744]Rest in peace G.[/QUOTE]She was a nice girl.
[QUOTE=TomCat4871;3537744]Rest in peace G.[/QUOTE]Looks like another provider was lost yesterday. Maggie. I think she went by Kelly on BP.