The Prickyard

Alright, a couple of things;.

While a BBBJ is on my menu, I had a gentleman come to see me. I went to 'perform. ' I wasn't able to perform because the guy smelled like a gas station bathroom. I refused to perform because I didn't have a power washer to clean him so I could perform. Guys, wash yourself for crying out loud!

Ladies do have boundaries.

[QUOTE=BigMack;3537556]Most ladies on her know my likes and wants. They can choose to either provide it or not Their choice. I don't knowingly do druggies, no showers, bait and switchers and ladies who do. Most guys are on her because they are not getting good oral at home hardly and psy at home and the wife is generally too stoic and offended if the guys ask for a good BJ with cim. EWWWW. LOL So we come to the ladies who do or might give us all or a partial part of what we do not get at home Their choice. Some ladies stay rigid on what they offer and that is fine also Some however change or expand their offerings and their is NOTHING wrong with asking over time if they have. JMFO. Do I care if ladies have feelings yes. But to get respect you have to give it on BOTH sides. I walked out of a ladies place yesterday because she said she was forty more like 60. She said she was GFE but didn't like to kiss or suck ck or have a guy go down on her. I left a Jackson and walked and before I reamed her ass leaving I told her she needed to quit BS the masses to get in customers. Insensitive in hindsight yes. By my belief is if I am donating to your cause you had best provide me with what I am needing. If not, don't BS me to get me there then hit me with a list of I don't dos. I have sad this many times and will say it again. Ladies have a right to set their scales. Men have right to say no. I don't care if a lady can suck ball bearings through a malt straw if she is over priced. And as a couple of ladies on here have said outright more than once, Oh I don't think you will find a lady / ladies on here who will just do BBBJCIM and daty with no FS. Most just don't do that. Maybe they need to rethink it. If that is what men need then service protocal indicates market needs. Now I am finished <putting away my soapbox I know what I want and most women here know what I want and most men on her if honest will tell you there are a number of the "good girls" on here who for the right investment will give it up. And when in doubt test test test. Have a good week everyone and thank A2 for stating the case so well.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=INTravelingMan;3536995]Just because they do this does not mean they don't have feelings. I have met several providers who have cared for mongers before.[/QUOTE]We most certainly do catch feelings for some of our clients and vice versa. Number one example: Myself and the Prick of the yard IG123 - I'm sure he never anticipated meeting me and ending up where it has now. He was just looking through ads on the sister site and found a sexy redhead (the red hair sucked him in) and he asked me to come down for a visit. Ever since February 12th 2016 that big ol' Prick and myself have been together even though the minute I met him I thought he was a cocky SOB since he pranced into my hotel room like he ran the show and plopped down on my couch. Now here is what will stun most men. Financially our relationship is split down the middle. He will pay for dinner and I will pay next time, when I'm down in Indy visiting I will pay for my hotel room, but he may help out on the incidental charges, I put gas in his vehicle sometimes & he will pay to get my oil changed in my vehicle etc etc. Here is the real kicker. I'm actually paying him to see me this weekend (gasps) . He'll be my own personal escort for the entire weekend and I promise gentlemen. I will use that prick how I please.

With that being said. What IG and I have is VERY rare so don't just assume you can find a provider that will care about you like I do for him (and vice versa). I still continue seeing clients but it's just a job to me even though I enjoy myself, but this is something that will be coming to an end soon. I'm moving to Indianapolis in a handful of months and IG and myself will run off into the sunset hand and hand. We promise to post pics once in a blue moon though lmao.

[QUOTE=Emme33;3537679]Alright, a couple of things;.

While a BBBJ is on my menu, I had a gentleman come to see me. I went to 'perform. ' I wasn't able to perform because the guy smelled like a gas station bathroom. I refused to perform because I didn't have a power washer to clean him so I could perform. Guys, wash yourself for crying out loud!

Ladies do have boundaries.[/QUOTE]Ladies and men should both have good hygiene and both should be willing in a nice way to let each other know if they don't I don't want to smell bad for a lady going down on me and most ladies with class do not want to smell bad down there for a guy enjoying a trip to that area. You make a good point Emme have a great day.

[QUOTE=Emme33;3537679]Alright, a couple of things;.

While a BBBJ is on my menu, I had a gentleman come to see me. I went to 'perform. ' I wasn't able to perform because the guy smelled like a gas station bathroom. I refused to perform because I didn't have a power washer to clean him so I could perform. Guys, wash yourself for crying out loud!

Ladies do have boundaries.[/QUOTE]Preach! I've had more clients than I can count on all of my fingers and toes that smelled something fierce down below. I even have clients who come see me as soon as they're off work and all I can think is how bad they're going to stink. I always offer my shower, but that seems to be too much work and time for a lot of guys. I could write a book about how many disgusting things I've witnessed in the 4 years being in this hobby. I always make sure my hygiene is pristine and always smell incredible so why can't guys make sure they do as well? Also, lets please talk about personal grooming. Now I understand men with an SO are unable to go from having an untamed jungle to a smooth as a babies bottom in the southern region, but if a client expects BBBJ and aren't groomed in the slightest bit. I really don't like getting pubic hair in my mouth and try to secretly spit it out without the client noticing.

[QUOTE=Emme33;3537679]Alright, a couple of things;.

While a BBBJ is on my menu, I had a gentleman come to see me. I went to 'perform. ' I wasn't able to perform because the guy smelled like a gas station bathroom. I refused to perform because I didn't have a power washer to clean him so I could perform. Guys, wash yourself for crying out loud!

Ladies do have boundaries.[/QUOTE]Unless somebody is paying extra for that throw him out the fucking door for being nasty. This is not GPS. This is more like making sure there are no rattlesnakes in my car when I drop it off at the mechanics.

We don't have to be handsome but we must be clean. And as a bonus A2 always does his manscaping before going to see his favoritas.

In all of this discussion about professionalism it's not lost on me that "professionals" can have favorites and being a favorite usually involves some more enthusiasm. I'm a fully qualified monger and I understand this. I'm not talking about any of that. I'm talking about guys figuratively kissing ass not you know, literally kissing somebody's ass because they have a really nice ass.

[QUOTE=Admin2;3537062] [B]This is why you're always a drama queen[/B] What the fuck is the connection between "great clips at 12 dollars or go to a high end salon for 100 dollars" and "All providers have feeling just like their clientele?

1. There is no, zero, nada, that connects these two. Seriously, it's not apples and oranges it's ovoid and dinosaurs, there is no connection whatsoever between you get what you pay for and chicks have feelings too.

2. I never said I expect chicks to be robots, I understand that they are thinking feeling sentient beings. When I'm paying them to fuck me their feelings are their problem not mine. That is why they are getting paid. You want to pay them and then if they are having a bad day it's like "well they are people to" and I'm like if you're having a bad day then give me my money back.

Personally I think you're all too happy to make excuses for their bad behavior because you are working with too many of them and allow way too many of them too much access into your life and one of these days you're going to end up in jail behind it. But that's just one mongers opinion[/QUOTE]Well A2 let me spell it out for you. NOTH-ING. They are two totally separate thoughts and maybe I should have numbered them like you did.

1. Great clips and the salon are exactly what you said "You get what you pay for. " It's the differentiation in the marketplace. The different types of experiences that you pay to receive. Nothing more nothing less.

2. I totally get your point about not caring about their feelings when you are paying them to fuck you and I agree with your sentiments. You described it as a biological need that has to be satisfied. If it's truly only biological then once again why not ONLY have jack shacks or AMPs that give hand jobs or BJ's to satisfy the biological need? Why not have "Fuck Shops" that you walk into, get naked, she lays there, you stick it in her pussy, get off, leave all to satisfy your biological need? I think it's because it's more than a biological need.

3. Many mongers want both, a biological need released and an emotional need released as well. They want what they are not getting at home. They crave being desired, want passion, want simulated intimacy even though it may be unrealistic. This is where the problem lies. Why would any monger that just needs a biological release want a GFE type of experience? They want it because of the pent up emotional need.

4. Neither chicks or guys are robots. We both are thinking feeling sentient beings because it's part of human nature. Feelings can be one sided, monger or provider, or at times go both ways. No doubt that "feelings" can mess things up in the hobby. Guys fall for the providers for a variety of reasons and the same goes for providers. If feelings develop between provider and monger then it's just human nature taking it's course.

By your standards the hobby should be like the 1973 movie "Westworld" where the ladies were robots, you fucked them, left and feelings could never develop because the chicks aren't sentient beings. I get that but, the problem is we are both human beings with different desires and needs. That's the fallacy with the hobby, at least with many mongers and providers. For those of you that can check all your feelings at the door and just satisfy your biological need, my hat goes off to you. I haven't learned to do that yet and maybe never will. I know others that are the same way.

Lastly bad behavior by a provider should be punished. Mongers see them anyway because they satisfy the biological need or mongers haven't figured out how to sift through the bullshit some providers spew out. I have never said I don't make mistakes but, I live with the mistakes I have made because I thrive on the successes. I also posted a picture of my self below so you can check the wall of shame from time to time. That way you will know when I end up in jail.

[QUOTE=FreckleFreak;3538632]
By your standards the hobby should be like the 1973 movie "Westworld" where the ladies were robots, you fucked them, left and feelings could never develop because the chicks aren't sentient beings.[/QUOTE]You do realize they have done this as a series (now in season 2) on HBO, right? In fact, it explores the sex angle to a much further degree than the 1973 movie ever did.

I don't know about Providers, I'm new to this. I do know about sugar babies though and many here tell me there's no difference.

BUT I have had 3 former SB's STILL text me after a few years have passed wanting to hook up again JUST for old time sakes. When I ask why don't you have a new daddy, I'm told oh yes hunny this is on me. I want to see you and feel you inside me. SO when people tell me I'm naive I tell them NO YOU are naive and / or you have ZERO Game. I've found plenty of girls that are in it JUST for the money, We call them PRO SB's in my world. I prefer to see ones I can connect to.

Yes girls do catch feelings and so do guys and sometimes its a friendship and even just a really good physical connection, Like Vixen Red elluded to. I'm not going to ride into the sunset with any of my former SB's but you can dam well bet if we do get together the SEX is a helluva lot better due to that friendship bond. And they won't Murder me on the price or watch the clock and occasionally they just want it on the house. Or course this is all based on my experiences which may not be norm. So take it with a grain of salt. Or sugar.

[QUOTE=FreckleFreak;3538632]

3. Many mongers want both, a biological need released and an emotional need released as well. They want what they are not getting at home. They crave being desired, want passion, want simulated intimacy even though it may be unrealistic. This is where the problem lies. Why would any monger that just needs a biological release want a GFE type of experience? They want it because of the pent up emotional need.

[/QUOTE]Believe there are three categories of ladies.

1. The GFE--let's take it slow and touchy-feely.

2. The PSE--get it in every hole asap.

3. The dead fish.

Each of us are looking for something different. I personally prefer numbero uno but have had my fair share of all the above (with #2 more common in the strip clubs when extended services are provided; BP is all over the place, including scams and busts which is why I'm here). I realize I'm paying for the emotional connection (which might be one sided) and only for an hour. The psychology involved in this endeavor is outside my area of specialty, all I can do is get up in the morning to go to work to pay my addiction (oh, and to contribute to social security so FF and A2 can continue spending theirs on the ladies).

I was too young to see the original Westworld when it first came out, but I'd use the analogy 1985 "Weird Science". My dick still gets hard over this movie (and" Fast Times at Ridgemont High" and. But that's another thread).

BG (Not BigGuy, I'm the other white meat).

(Please save some of the SS $$$ so I too can also spend it on the lovely ladies! Apologies to FF and A2 if I'm giving too much personal I'd info away.

[QUOTE=FreckleFreak;3538632]Well A2 let me spell it out for you. NOTH-ING. They are two totally separate thoughts and maybe I should have numbered them like you did.

1. Great clips and the salon are exactly what you said "You get what you pay for. " It's the differentiation in the marketplace. The different types of experiences that you pay to receive. Nothing more nothing less.

2. I totally get your point about not caring about their feelings when you are paying them to fuck you and I agree with your sentiments. You described it as a biological need that has to be satisfied. If it's truly only biological then once again why not ONLY have jack shacks or AMPs that give hand jobs or BJ's to satisfy the biological need? Why not have "Fuck Shops" that you walk into, get naked, she lays there, you stick it in her pussy, get off, leave all to satisfy your biological need? I think it's because it's more than a biological need.

3. Many mongers want both, a biological need released and an emotional need released as well. They want what they are not getting at home. They crave being desired, want passion, want simulated intimacy even though it may be unrealistic. This is where the problem lies. Why would any monger that just needs a biological release want a GFE type of experience? They want it because of the pent up emotional need.

4. Neither chicks or guys are robots. We both are thinking feeling sentient beings because it's part of human nature. Feelings can be one sided, monger or provider, or at times go both ways. No doubt that "feelings" can mess things up in the hobby. Guys fall for the providers for a variety of reasons and the same goes for providers. If feelings develop between provider and monger then it's just human nature taking it's course.

By your standards the hobby should be like the 1973 movie "Westworld" where the ladies were robots, you fucked them, left and feelings could never develop because the chicks aren't sentient beings. I get that but, the problem is we are both human beings with different desires and needs. That's the fallacy with the hobby, at least with many mongers and providers. For those of you that can check all your feelings at the door and just satisfy your biological need, my hat goes off to you. I haven't learned to do that yet and maybe never will. I know others that are the same way.

Lastly bad behavior by a provider should be punished. Mongers see them anyway because they satisfy the biological need or mongers haven't figured out how to sift through the bullshit some providers spew out. I have never said I don't make mistakes but, I live with the mistakes I have made because I thrive on the successes. I also posted a picture of my self below so you can check the wall of shame from time to time. That way you will know when I end up in jail.[/QUOTE]Too point number 3. Sometimes I need the GFE and I have providers for that and sometimes I just want BJCIM and I have providers for that (no need to pay for GFE if that isn't what I am needing).

[QUOTE=IndyGolfer60;3538782]Too point number 3. Sometimes I need the GFE and I have providers for that and sometimes I just want BJCIM and I have providers for that (no need to pay for GFE if that isn't what I am needing).[/QUOTE]Thats it in a nutshell. It all boils down to the paying for said service. Mongers do the its not what I'm getting at home but then they love to throw out the charlie sheen I'm not paying for sex, I'm paying them to leave or I don't want the Emotional crap that goes with a regular relationship. Mongers can't function unless they are paying for said service. Paying makes it a service where you choose the menue. How much time to what's on the menue sexually. Then if shorted time or didn't get that GFE they paid for its bad service. If its the greatest time of their life then it was a great experience, like having a gf.

I literally said "I never said I expect chicks to be robots" Seriously, my post is still on this fucking page, people can see my words.

Are you so fucking stupid that you think if you write that I said something different to make your point that nobody will see it?

Nothing you have written here addresses what I said. Not a fucking word of it. I don't care what guys pay for. It their experience, there are guys who pay chicks to ignore them on the telephone, if they dig it more power to them. My point was, is and always will be, that unless your thing is, and obviously yours is, kissing some prostitutes ass for fucking you like she's your ex old lady is behavior that contributes to GPS. That's what I said, and if you keep putting shit up that says I said something else I'm just deleting it.

[QUOTE=FreckleFreak;3538632]Well A2 let me spell it out for you. NOTH-ING. They are two totally separate thoughts and maybe I should have numbered them like you did.

1. Great clips and the salon are exactly what you said "You get what you pay for. " It's the differentiation in the marketplace. The different types of experiences that you pay to receive. Nothing more nothing less.

2. I totally get your point about not caring about their feelings when you are paying them to fuck you and I agree with your sentiments. You described it as a biological need that has to be satisfied. If it's truly only biological then once again why not ONLY have jack shacks or AMPs that give hand jobs or BJ's to satisfy the biological need? Why not have "Fuck Shops" that you walk into, get naked, she lays there, you stick it in her pussy, get off, leave all to satisfy your biological need? I think it's because it's more than a biological need.

3. Many mongers want both, a biological need released and an emotional need released as well. They want what they are not getting at home. They crave being desired, want passion, want simulated intimacy even though it may be unrealistic. This is where the problem lies. Why would any monger that just needs a biological release want a GFE type of experience? They want it because of the pent up emotional need.

4. Neither chicks or guys are robots. We both are thinking feeling sentient beings because it's part of human nature. Feelings can be one sided, monger or provider, or at times go both ways. No doubt that "feelings" can mess things up in the hobby. Guys fall for the providers for a variety of reasons and the same goes for providers. If feelings develop between provider and monger then it's just human nature taking it's course.

By your standards the hobby should be like the 1973 movie "Westworld" where the ladies were robots, you fucked them, left and feelings could never develop because the chicks aren't sentient beings. I get that but, the problem is we are both human beings with different desires and needs. That's the fallacy with the hobby, at least with many mongers and providers. For those of you that can check all your feelings at the door and just satisfy your biological need, my hat goes off to you. I haven't learned to do that yet and maybe never will. I know others that are the same way.

Lastly bad behavior by a provider should be punished. Mongers see them anyway because they satisfy the biological need or mongers haven't figured out how to sift through the bullshit some providers spew out. I have never said I don't make mistakes but, I live with the mistakes I have made because I thrive on the successes. I also posted a picture of my self below so you can check the wall of shame from time to time. That way you will know when I end up in jail.[/QUOTE]

All this talk of GP syndrome, I just have 1 question for BG.

Being that I haven't had the "privelege" of visiting mmgeg yet, does she have the gold-tang? I just got to know.

As far as gifts etc, if I vsit a provider ON a holiday, I will usually bring something little just to be fun. But I would never go out of my way to make sure I go out and get a particular provider or providers presents. That would be a clue that the wrong kind of feelings are becoming involved. I would rather just tip them for good service and let them spend their money how they choose.

On a side note, I do make cookies for my mailman every year LOL. He chased down some people trying to break into my house some years ago. Thats federal going above and beyond! He gets cookies.

Not signed,

Take a deep breath, Let's get back to finding some crazy-good pussy! . The Prickyard is starting to sound like DR Phil.

BG,

[QUOTE=Admin2;3538856]I literally said "I never said I expect chicks to be robots" Seriously, my post is still on this fucking page, people can see my words.

Are you so fucking stupid that you think if you write that I said something different to make your point that nobody will see it?

Nothing you have written here addresses what I said. Not a fucking word of it. I don't care what guys pay for. It their experience, there are guys who pay chicks to ignore them on the telephone, if they dig it more power to them. My point was, is and always will be, that unless your thing is, and obviously yours is, kissing some prostitutes ass for fucking you like she's your ex old lady is behavior that contributes to GPS. That's what I said, and if you keep putting shit up that says I said something else I'm just deleting it.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BigGuyUAteMe;3539405]Take a deep breath, Let's get back to finding some crazy-good pussy! . The Prickyard is starting to sound like DR Phil.

BG,[/QUOTE]Is the kitchen too hot for you snowflake? Seriously, it's the fight thread, and I'm pretty fucking sure the only therapy I'm offering is tough love.

I hope I wounded your inner child because that's exactly the kind of asshole I am LOL.

A2.