Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=Spike77;5735852]Basically incentives to get people back to the casino where they can lose more money. I wouldn't advise developing a gambling habit LOL. Believe me, you will be paying for it. You just may not realize it.[/QUOTE]Exactly, I'm not advocating a gambling habit, I myself personally gamble every night and its my thing and use that as a way to get my dates on SA. Just telling my story. But yes I'd rather gamble my money and get free pussy than have to pay for it if I can on a casino date.

I haven't been on SA in a while but have met quite a few through sugardaddymeet. I have 4 girls in the general Boston area that are just DTF all around $350 per meet. Need some variety so if anyone wants to trade some numbers these girls are okay with me sharing. Send me a PM.

[QUOTE=TheList00;5735468]The easiest way I've gotten woman off SA for free is dates at encore casino. Everything there is free for me anyway since I'm a gambler and its all I do. So we go to the nice restaurant, rooms free and I gamble roulette. I just give the illusion I'm throwing all this money around when I'm not, let them pick some roulette numbers while there drinking to make them feel important and it just goes from there. Encore casino is the best place for SA dates, most of these woman are looking for a high class, luxury night out and there's no place that can provide that illusion than the casino especially if your a gambler and gained free comps for hotels, restaurants or you have casino money from playing you just use your comp dollars, doesn't cost you a penny and its the safest place to meet woman for the 1st time, security and cameras everywhere, so no one is going to try and rob or scam or set you up because that shit ain't going to fly at the casino.[/QUOTE]I wonder if we have rubbed elbows before at the roulette table at encore LOL. Sadly I am a natural loser when it comes to gambling. =(.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1609451d-cfa2-4ad3-a85a-9f42169817fc[/URL]

20 yr old college girl from Stow, Mass. Got her down to $300 but then her account said not available maybe I got blocked. So not sure if she is real. Seemed pretty cool until that point. Looked pretty young.

Any info on this one?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f1e40719-9a74-4b67-aab3-94c9d68ae8b7[/URL]

[QUOTE=Style20;5735508]Damn, that's my type. What's her original price since you had to go down to 400.[/QUOTE]She was originally asking for 500.

Are vanilla visa still working? Just checking before I go out and buy one.

[QUOTE=Sasuke9015;5734456]Wouldn't say she is Mindblowing or my ATF, but she is fun. She hosts in Medford and has a very nice place. I negotiated to meet her for 400. Spent about 2 hours chatting and making love. She gave a decent BBBJ, was happy with DATY and loved all positions. She has a really fat ass and I enjoyed K9. Finally she blew me and swallowed my load. All in all decent. Would try her out, but price is a bit high.[/QUOTE]I would not give this one 400, not anywhere near 400 in the looks department.

This one is a scammer. She has popped up a couple times with different names. PM for the whole story (too long to post here). Bottom line- steer clear.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/49651342-a882-4477-8e56-aa2fee459d56[/URL]

Be safe,

JW.

[QUOTE=JamesWoods;5737446]This one is a scammer. She has popped up a couple times with different names. PM for the whole story (too long to post here). Bottom line- steer clear.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/49651342-a882-4477-8e56-aa2fee459d56[/URL]

Be safe,

JW.[/QUOTE]"Too long to post here"? _Here_ is the right place to post a long scammer story, so we can all benefit from your experience.

I'm early 30's, good looking, make a good salary. This girl, 22, a senior in college, messages me first. We chat a little, I get her number, talk on the phone for 20 minutes, and we wound up grabbing lunch and some drinks today, purely as an initial meet and greet. Get over the fact that she has a 22 year old female brain and we vibe well. She tells me I'm cute and look like I'm 26, etc. She then asks me stuff about past SBs and then she talks about how she's only been in 2 relationships (all SD) and that they would just give her a few hundred bucks here and there when she needed a new outfit, phone, etc. Can't figure out if she wants a more vanilla relationship with me periodically throwing her some dollars, or she's trying to work me into a platonic relationship. Sense I got was that she was against PPM. We went to a decent lunch spot in the north end where she got a drink and a pasta, figure she's not milking me for some mediocre pappardelle. Guess I'll see how deep the rabbit hole goes and the next date turns out.

Got another meet and greet tomorrow with a college senior LOL.

[QUOTE=BleedGreen88;5737858]I'm early 30's, good looking, make a good salary. This girl, 22, a senior in college, messages me first. We chat a little, I get her number, talk on the phone for 20 minutes, and we wound up grabbing lunch and some drinks today, purely as an initial meet and greet. Get over the fact that she has a 22 year old female brain and we vibe well. She tells me I'm cute and look like I'm 26, etc. She then asks me stuff about past SBs and then she talks about how she's only been in 2 relationships (all SD) and that they would just give her a few hundred bucks here and there when she needed a new outfit, phone, etc. Can't figure out if she wants a more vanilla relationship with me periodically throwing her some dollars, or she's trying to work me into a platonic relationship. Sense I got was that she was against PPM. We went to a decent lunch spot in the north end where she got a drink and a pasta, figure she's not milking me for some mediocre pappardelle. Guess I'll see how deep the rabbit hole goes and the next date turns out.

Got another meet and greet tomorrow with a college senior LOL.[/QUOTE]The next date should be at her place, your place or a hotel. If she needs more M / G's you are being played for the free lunch / dinner scam.

[QUOTE=BleedGreen88;5737858]I'm early 30's, good looking, make a good salary. This girl, 22, a senior in college, messages me first. We chat a little, I get her number, talk on the phone for 20 minutes, and we wound up grabbing lunch and some drinks today, purely as an initial meet and greet. Get over the fact that she has a 22 year old female brain and we vibe well. She tells me I'm cute and look like I'm 26, etc. She then asks me stuff about past SBs and then she talks about how she's only been in 2 relationships (all SD) and that they would just give her a few hundred bucks here and there when she needed a new outfit, phone, etc. Can't figure out if she wants a more vanilla relationship with me periodically throwing her some dollars, or she's trying to work me into a platonic relationship. Sense I got was that she was against PPM. We went to a decent lunch spot in the north end where she got a drink and a pasta, figure she's not milking me for some mediocre pappardelle. Guess I'll see how deep the rabbit hole goes and the next date turns out.

Got another meet and greet tomorrow with a college senior LOL.[/QUOTE]I don't about that but I have heard of SB's being on those other regular dating apps. Sounds like you might have something good going. Enjoy.

[QUOTE=BleedGreen88;5737858]I'm early 30's, good looking, make a good salary. This girl, 22, a senior in college, messages me first. We chat a little, I get her number, talk on the phone for 20 minutes, and we wound up grabbing lunch and some drinks today, purely as an initial meet and greet. Get over the fact that she has a 22 year old female brain and we vibe well. She tells me I'm cute and look like I'm 26, etc. She then asks me stuff about past SBs and then she talks about how she's only been in 2 relationships (all SD) and that they would just give her a few hundred bucks here and there when she needed a new outfit, phone, etc. Can't figure out if she wants a more vanilla relationship with me periodically throwing her some dollars, or she's trying to work me into a platonic relationship. Sense I got was that she was against PPM. We went to a decent lunch spot in the north end where she got a drink and a pasta, figure she's not milking me for some mediocre pappardelle. Guess I'll see how deep the rabbit hole goes and the next date turns out.

Got another meet and greet tomorrow with a college senior LOL.[/QUOTE]I usually use the M&G to talk the details out. Tell her what you are looking for and ask her out right is she ok with meeting you to fuck regularly, with a little tack ofc. Don't waste your time beating around the Bush and havIng multiple M&G. You are both adults and she needs to know what you want otherwise you will just get frustrated. I actually try to let the girls know what I am looking for even before the M&G, using the meet just to do a physical look over and eliminate some of the creep factor. The follow up meeting is usually at a hotel to get the party started with having the details of donation already worked out. Good luck with your next visit.

[QUOTE=BleedGreen88;5737858]I'm early 30's, good looking, make a good salary. This girl, 22, a senior in college, messages me first. We chat a little, I get her number, talk on the phone for 20 minutes, and we wound up grabbing lunch and some drinks today, purely as an initial meet and greet. Get over the fact that she has a 22 year old female brain and we vibe well. She tells me I'm cute and look like I'm 26, etc. She then asks me stuff about past SBs and then she talks about how she's only been in 2 relationships (all SD) and that they would just give her a few hundred bucks here and there when she needed a new outfit, phone, etc. Can't figure out if she wants a more vanilla relationship with me periodically throwing her some dollars, or she's trying to work me into a platonic relationship. Sense I got was that she was against PPM. We went to a decent lunch spot in the north end where she got a drink and a pasta, figure she's not milking me for some mediocre pappardelle. Guess I'll see how deep the rabbit hole goes and the next date turns out.

Got another meet and greet tomorrow with a college senior LOL.[/QUOTE]Sounds like fun man. Keep in mind if you met on the SA site it is important in my opinion to transition to the term Friends instead of using the term SB. Sounds to me because of the age difference between the 2 of you she is just looking for a guy to go out and have fun with that will pay for stuff when you are out wit her because lets be real here how many guys her age will pay for things? Prob not much. Go out and have fun with her. Take her back to your place and reap the free ass. =).

[QUOTE=BleedGreen88;5737858]I'm early 30's, good looking, make a good salary. This girl, 22, a senior in college, messages me first. We chat a little, I get her number, talk on the phone for 20 minutes, and we wound up grabbing lunch and some drinks today, purely as an initial meet and greet. Get over the fact that she has a 22 year old female brain and we vibe well. She tells me I'm cute and look like I'm 26, etc. She then asks me stuff about past SBs and then she talks about how she's only been in 2 relationships (all SD) and that they would just give her a few hundred bucks here and there when she needed a new outfit, phone, etc. Can't figure out if she wants a more vanilla relationship with me periodically throwing her some dollars, or she's trying to work me into a platonic relationship. Sense I got was that she was against PPM. We went to a decent lunch spot in the north end where she got a drink and a pasta, figure she's not milking me for some mediocre pappardelle. Guess I'll see how deep the rabbit hole goes and the next date turns out.

Got another meet and greet tomorrow with a college senior LOL.[/QUOTE]Give me some tip bro. LOL.

Enjoy. Have a fun.

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;5737651]"Too long to post here"? _Here_ is the right place to post a long scammer story, so we can all benefit from your experience.[/QUOTE]Any info would be appreciated I am supposed to meet her next week.

Thanks CM.

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;5737651]"Too long to post here"? _Here_ is the right place to post a long scammer story, so we can all benefit from your experience.[/QUOTE]Any info would be appreciated Thanks CM.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b63ab7ee-c0cd-4bc1-a671-ebc819c4a136[/URL]

She says she is from Lynn.

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;5739711][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b63ab7ee-c0cd-4bc1-a671-ebc819c4a136[/URL]

She says she is from Lynn.[/QUOTE]We talked for a but, easy to find her facebook but lynn is such a shithole city I didn't pursue.

We are supposed to meet next week and would like to know I'd anyone has info.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/49651342-a882-4477-8e56-aa2fee459d56[/URL]

Thanks CM.

Check back about 5 post.

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;5740510]We are supposed to meet next week and would like to know I'd anyone has info.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/49651342-a882-4477-8e56-aa2fee459d56[/URL]

Thanks CM.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;5737651]"Too long to post here"? _Here_ is the right place to post a long scammer story, so we can all benefit from your experience.[/QUOTE]Looking for info supposed to meet next week Thanks.

[QUOTE=TheList00;5739766]We talked for a but, easy to find her facebook but lynn is such a shithole city I didn't pursue.[/QUOTE]Exactly with Lynn being such a shithole city shouldn't sb donation be priced accordingly based on city?

[QUOTE=MeloYello;5740550]Check back about 5 post.[/QUOTE]Supposedly a scammer but no info given.

[QUOTE=FrogPilot;5702254]I had the same problem. Signed up with a vanilla Visa e-gift card, but when I went to renew with a new vanilla Visa e-gift card it wouldn't accept it. I don't care too much so I just instead used a real credit card. Eventually I'll order a new card so I don't have to worry about my card info being out there.[/QUOTE]The issue is not your card number being out there. The issue is if your data was compromised such as what happened to the Ashley Madison platform than your name and information would be public information which could potentially be embarrassing.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bad76812-e91a-41dd-be76-a9774fdbe5f3[/URL]

Hi anyone have luck getting in contact and meeting her.

[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5742051]The issue is not your card number being out there. The issue is if your data was compromised such as what happened to the Ashley Madison platform than your name and information would be public information which could potentially be embarrassing.[/QUOTE]Aha, I see, seems more of a concern for married fellows, rather than me. I'd still prefer that not to happen, but I don't know of any way around the payment option if gift cards still aren't working.

Hazel_Eyed_Lass.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b8e2a09f-3133-be51-955d-bb40025f002e[/URL]

Not sure if she's been discussed before. Didn't find anything on search.

[QUOTE=JoeBell;5743358]Hazel_Eyed_Lass.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b8e2a09f-3133-be51-955d-bb40025f002e[/URL]

Not sure if she's been discussed before. Didn't find anything on search.[/QUOTE]I want to know why she's wearing a "normal hair" wig in one of her photos.

[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5742051]The issue is not your card number being out there. The issue is if your data was compromised such as what happened to the Ashley Madison platform than your name and information would be public information which could potentially be embarrassing.[/QUOTE]I had so many issues with Vanilla card that I bought an Amex gift card and had no problem.

Hi.

I have seen a couple of ads on Secret Benefits that I thought were interesting and worth trying but I can't get any vanilla or prepaid visa to work. Anyone have suggestions of a card that works??

Thanks for your help.

I was wondering what is people's experience with strippers?

I've met three so far and they were definitely all about the money. One was OK, one I passed, and the last one I only found out she used to be a stripper after meeting her a few times. The last one honestly wasn't the best experience. She was very attractive but she would ignore texts and be stone cold when we met. I think she had a narcissistic personality disorder.

Not sure if most strippers are like this and I should avoid them in general?

[QUOTE=LoveOralNs;5744905]Hi.

I have seen a couple of ads on Secret Benefits that I thought were interesting and worth trying but I can't get any vanilla or prepaid visa to work. Anyone have suggestions of a card that works??

Thanks for your help.[/QUOTE]I'd stay clear of that site. TONS of bots and very few real women. SA has a lot of scammers and flaws, but SB is the worst. Here's a post from a former employee.

[URL]https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/n2mf23/beware_secret_benefits_from_employee/[/URL]

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;5737651]"Too long to post here"? _Here_ is the right place to post a long scammer story, so we can all benefit from your experience.[/QUOTE]Quick Quick Version:

She reached out via SA. Usual pleasantries. Seemed to check out. Moved the convo to Snap Chat. Set up a meet at a local hotel. Wanted 4. 5 for BBFS or 5 for Greek.

Seemed like a pro, she didn't pop any other red flags.

Later at hotel she comes in, makes small talk, we get comfortable. She asks about the donation, we get that out of the way. She is heavier than in the pics but I roll with it. She plays with Mr. Happy for a couple min, gets a text notification, apologizes, and says she will be right back. Leaves her purse on the bedside table to "prove she will be back", and runs out to her car. 15 min goes by and it becomes clear that she took off. Blocked me on all communications. I check the bag (not a half bad LV knock off) and it's empty sans a bottle of shitty perfume.

Buyer beware. YMMV.

JW.

James Woods;5745393]Quick Quick Version:

She reached out via SA. Usual pleasantries. Seemed to check out. Moved the convo to Snap Chat. Set up a meet at a local hotel. Wanted 4. 5 for BBFS or 5 for Greek.

Seemed like a pro, she didn't pop any other red flags.

Later at hotel she comes in, makes small talk, we get comfortable. She asks about the donation, we get that out of the way. She is heavier than in the pics but I roll with it. She plays with Mr. Happy for a couple min, gets a text notification, apologizes, and says she will be right back. Leaves her purse on the bedside table to "prove she will be back", and runs out to her car. 15 min goes by and it becomes clear that she took off. Blocked me on all communications. I check the bag (not a half bad LV knock off) and it's empty sans a bottle of shitty perfume.

Buyer beware. YMMV.

JW. [ / QUOTE.

Most guys show her the money but do not give it to them.

I have had 2 walk outs a long time ago when I first started in this hobby.

Be careful.

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;5746123]James Woods;5745393]Quick Quick Version:

She reached out via SA. Usual pleasantries. Seemed to check out. Moved the convo to Snap Chat. Set up a meet at a local hotel. Wanted 4. 5 for BBFS or 5 for Greek.

Seemed like a pro, she didn't pop any other red flags.

Later at hotel she comes in, makes small talk, we get comfortable. She asks about the donation, we get that out of the way. She is heavier than in the pics but I roll with it. She plays with Mr. Happy for a couple min, gets a text notification, apologizes, and says she will be right back. Leaves her purse on the bedside table to "prove she will be back", and runs out to her car. 15 min goes by and it becomes clear that she took off. Blocked me on all communications. I check the bag (not a half bad LV knock off) and it's empty sans a bottle of shitty perfume.

Buyer beware. YMMV.

JW. [ / QUOTE.

Most guys show her the money but do not give it to them.

I have had 2 walk outs a long time ago when I first started in this hobby.

Be careful.[/QUOTE]I would also NEVER EVER get a hotel room for a outcall before even meeting the SB. You need a meet and greet first before ever booking a hotel room plain and simple.

[QUOTE=Boston234;5745225]I was wondering what is people's experience with strippers?[/QUOTE]Not recently. Back in the 2000's I fucked a couple Burning Angel models (paid) who were also strippers, those were the days.

First, do m&g first. What if you discover the girl is a whack job? Lifeless? Terrible personality? Happened to me once at m&g and couldn't wait to bail.

Second, make hotel reservation as late as possible-preferably when you see them arrive in parking lot.

Third, show the money if they ask (and they will) and put it in a secure place so they can't just grab and dash, move it during a break in the action and always give the money at the end.

After a few dates I just move to venmo. Most guys aren't comfortable with that but I like the convenience and avoids making the whole deal seem transactional and them feeling like a _ It also tends to limit any further discussion of money, like, "Can we do a higher ppm moving forward? "My oil bill just came".

[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5746267]I would also NEVER EVER get a hotel room for a outcall before even meeting the SB. You need a meet and greet first before ever booking a hotel room plain and simple.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5746267]I would also NEVER EVER get a hotel room for a outcall before even meeting the SB. You need a meet and greet first before ever booking a hotel room plain and simple.[/QUOTE]Normally that is my policy too. I was thrown off a little because the conversations seemed good. I can usually tell after the first few messages back and forth if it is going to be a waste of time. Like I said, no real red flags. The date was going well to that point.

If someone meets with her and it is a positive experience I would love to know. Maybe this was some other girl using her pics, or something? I am an optimist.

Have fun. Be careful.

JW.