SpoiledBabe98 won't videochat
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5456f1bb-a054-4bf2-aef0-c86257211af7[/URL]
This one has had at least two profiles since January.
I have a firm rule nowadays: I don't make plans with anyone without a videochat first. I've been catfished several times. I have also made inconveniently long drives for no call, no show girls. Therefore, I use the video chat to make sure that the pictures match the girl, and that I am dealing with someone who will likely be reliable.
I have contacted and been contacted by this girl from at least two of her profiles since the beginning of the year. Her phone number has also changed since January.
I have made four or five attempts to get her to get on the Seeking video chat. She should have no qualms about this, because she clearly shows her face in her profile. (I, on the other hand, do not show my face in my profile, and I would think that she would want to see me before making an appointment.).
At least four or five times now, she has bailed on the video chat, and has been very dodgy about when she might be able to actually get on her video cam to verify herself. She always tries to steer me towards scheduling an appointment. I'm like, you have time to meet somewhere, but you don't have five minutes to verify yourself on your video cam?
It could be that she's simply flaky. Or she could be a scammer I'm not sure what is going on. But there does seem to be something suspicious about this one. If anyone has any info, by all means let me know. Thanks.
Veronica and CulturedBelle also Tiaelle and Ginger_Winterling
These are scammers who want to go straight to What'sApp or IG and cannot access Googlevoice or TextNow.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1c6c6642-124b-49b7-a3f7-69707204641f[/URL] Veronica.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f1f46ab4-d58f-480e-bec8-7c510721891d[/URL] CulturedBelle.
Tiaelle and Ginger_Winterling both seemed to try very hard to get me to use language suggesting sex for money. I blocked the the ginger one but became even more suspicious when Tiaelle started in on the same kind of thing. Neither was willing to go to text with me. Maybe I am just being a bit too paranoid but not taking the chance. Here is Tiaelle's link:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1c0ea44f-e614-4f0a-a1ba-4e57d85b9916[/URL]
Anybody else chatting with them?
BAM.
How I avoid entrapment schemes
[QUOTE=WanderingAbout;5774467]If you want to avoid getting banned have a general, civil conversation with your potential sugar baby for a bit then ask if they will text with you (use Textfree) or Whatsapp or Telegram or Signal or whatever app 'to discuss things further so you dont get into trouble on here (seeking)'. If the SB doesnt then ask to do a MnG to discuss.
Do not mention ppm or money of any kind or sex acts on Seeking. If you are inclined to do so alter your text at bit by substituting words or symbols and letters for numbers and vice-a-versa so Seekings system won't automatically flag you. Example: PPM becomes each get together or h at ngout. $300 become 3OO (capital o's and no $) etc. You get the idea. This wont stop a SB from reporting you but it will dodge the SA message scan for keywords that will flag your account
And there seems to be an usual number for profiles that randomly show up as of late where their first message is 'I'm available for hookup'. Just block them and move on unless you want to roll the dice. Could be real or something you didn't want. Up to you.[/QUOTE]These are all good points, but I take it a step further: I don't discuss any details in writing at all.
I only talk turkey when I'm actually talking: preferably via videochat, or at least on the phone. Or in person, depending on the circumstances.
I flat-out tell them (in writing): No conversation on the site is completely private, and I cannot discuss details here.