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Hang in there man, I know it's hard. 4+ years later, I still wake up in the middle of the night thinking about her. The good ones know how to play you like a violin while they are working other guys at the same time.
[QUOTE=Serpin58;6331522]Now I'm giving thousands a month and she's know not getting younger and scared to advertise- menu for everyone might open up.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=SexyD;6331658]Hang in there man, I know it's hard. 4+ years later, I still wake up in the middle of the night thinking about her. The good ones know how to play you like a violin while they are working other guys at the same time.[/QUOTE]I truly thought she would quit for me. I bought it.
It took years later and another bf to wake me up.
[QUOTE=Serpin58;6331696]I truly thought she would quit for me. I bought it.
It took years later and another bf to wake me up.[/QUOTE]If the roles were reversed and you had tens of different woman everyday coming to you for sex (a monger dream, isn't it?) for years but then one chick pulled you aside and told you they would be loyal to you and give you the best life they could. Would you stop? It would be pretty hard to resist the sirens call of adventure beyond the sea even if you took her up on that offer. Now for a monger the sex would be payment enough but imagine if these chicks also paid YOU for the orgasm? Sex AND money.
Yeah. That's a hard life to leave behind, no?
We portray them as victims; they aren’t. The ones that do this for years, had a chance to walk away from that life but they didn’t they made the choice. Doesn’t sound as good on paper but it’s the grim truth.
[QUOTE=SexyD;6331458]You didn't loose. Dating a provider is a rigged game. They make up the rules as they go. Don't envy the guy that won, pity him. He has no idea of the Rollercoaster he got on. One day, someone will be blocking him in as they try to rescue her to. If you are in this situation or contemplating getting involved with a provider, just walk away with your money and sanity intact.[/QUOTE]Sounds like civie dating to me 🤣 🙄.
[QUOTE=Serpin58;6331696]I truly thought she would quit for me. I bought it.
It took years later and another bf to wake me up.[/QUOTE]You are not the only one that has made this mistake or let's say a poor decision. Many of us (including this monger) are guilty of the same misguided love; an attraction for someone that can never be fully realized. There are many seductive women working in this industry that may be attracted to a certain gentleman because he brings something to the table, like possible freedom from the trade. You may have come across as someone that may provide that security. If you are a romantic, it's easy to fall in love and you will lose your mind. I learned the hard way as you are doing now, but the best thing for you is to find something new. That will definitely distract you. Do you realize how man beautiful woman there are out there that are unattached? I wish I was unattached (you didn't hear me say that).
Regards.
PJ.
[QUOTE=PuntaJaco43;6331816]You are not the only one that has made this mistake or let's say a poor decision. Many of us (including this monger) are guilty of the same misguided love; an attraction for someone that can never be fully realized.... If you are a romantic, it's easy to fall in love and you will lose your mind. [/QUOTE]Read these reports and responses with knowing agreement. I remember my first 2 independent massage providers. Wife had been gone 2-1/2 months, and the house was too quiet. Decided to take the plunge by getting a massage. Wow, the way these 2 were so kind, pretty, and took matters into their hands to make me feel lighter on my feet, I was melting for them. Fortunately the bigger head kicked in and snapped me back to reality that they act that way for the money, not the man. Especially true when it's first time meeting.
Tried to develop friendship with the 2nd one but she reminded me I was married and only open to seeing each other on profe $$ional basis. So I was awaken (warned) early to turn off emotions before going in. Glad to have learned early. Could have resulted in many headaches and would be jumping from the pan to the fire.
Suck it up as lesson learned and go back out there and have fun. For me, I like either adventures of meeting someone out of the ordinary or someone open to re-live some fun from my younger days.
Hey everyone. Just moved here from out of state and have tried two Arlington providers that turned out to be legit. As far as I could tell. Don't want to waste too much more money. Any recommendations in Arlington? Or easily accessed by the metro?
[QUOTE=TheDrowned;6331759]If the roles were reversed and you had tens of different woman everyday coming to you for sex (a monger dream, isn't it?) for years but then one chick pulled you aside and told you they would be loyal to you and give you the best life they could. Would you stop? It would be pretty hard to resist the sirens call of adventure beyond the sea even if you took her up on that offer. Now for a monger the sex would be payment enough but imagine if these chicks also paid YOU for the orgasm? Sex AND money.
Yeah. That's a hard life to leave behind, no?
We portray them as victims; they arent. The ones that do this for years, had a chance to walk away from that life but they didnt they made the choice. Doesnt sound as good on paper but its the grim truth.[/QUOTE]The first rule of mongering I learned way back in 1978. I was 19, at Clark A. B Philippines, and was balls deep in an 18 yo bar girl straight from the province. I learned never to fall in love with a girl who has ever exchanged money for sex. That rule was reinforced later that year when a coworker married a bar girl and shortly thereafter she wanted a necklace he couldn't afford. She told him "if you don't buy it I'll just fuck all your friends until one of them does."
I have never lost the feeling of wanting to "save" a girl who makes a living on her back. Here is a story I wrote about that way back in 2009 where I wanted to save a sweet girl who I actually turned to the dark side at Tulips.
[URL]http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?3017-Bangkok-Massage-Parlors-TULIP-ONLY[/URL]!&p=872249#post872249.
Even today every time I visit Hanna at Soft Touch I want to make her my GF and get her out of the business even though I know she makes good money and drives nice SUV from barebacking other men. Then common sense kicks in.
[QUOTE=MrPooter;6325367]Location: High end building, not on a main drag, parking nearby.
Studio: Professional with heated table, stones, power massage machine.
Appearance: As photos. Tall and dominant. Great legs. 100% tight body in the most provocative turn-on lingerie you could ask for.
Services: As advertised. Did not keep me waiting. A strong, solid massage workout, very responsive to request for harder / softer. Butt play and prostate available for tip.
Tits: OMFG![/QUOTE]One of only a handful of ebony providers I visited. She is beautiful and friendly. Most of all, her massage skills are absolutely top-notch. Definitely has good knowledge of how the human body is laid out. If your primary concern is getting a good massage. Which is always mine. Then absolutely recommended.
[QUOTE=SexyD;5986317]I dated one. It was all lies. Their skill is extracting money from men. Most are pretty good at it. If you see it for what it is, protect yourself and enjoy. But I keep my emotional distance and I am smart enough to not belive what they tell me. You can't work in this business and not be damaged goods, some more damaged than others.[/QUOTE]Lesson learned me. Couldn't say this better.
The Drowned, as usual, is wise in all things. You identified the real issue which is that this is more an issue for mongers that are romantic and believe that the object of their affection needs to be rescued. It took many years for me to realize that many of the women in this industry make very comfortable livings and want no part of a regular life. They don't want the life that you think they should want. If they run across a love sick, puppy eyed monger, they will take advantage. What goes on here is strictly a business transaction, nothing more. If you want to date provider in her off hours, great. Just realize that she has no personal attraction to you, isn't going to be exclusive, and will never leave the business for you. Its only about money, always will be.
[QUOTE=TheDrowned;6331759]If the roles were reversed and you had tens of different woman everyday coming to you for sex (a monger dream, isn't it?) for years but then one chick pulled you aside and told you they would be loyal to you and give you the best life they could. Would you stop? It would be pretty hard to resist the sirens call of adventure beyond the sea even if you took her up on that offer. Now for a monger the sex would be payment enough but imagine if these chicks also paid YOU for the orgasm? Sex AND money.
Yeah. That's a hard life to leave behind, no?
We portray them as victims; they arent. The ones that do this for years, had a chance to walk away from that life but they didnt they made the choice. Doesnt sound as good on paper but its the grim truth.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Massage2546;6331932]Hey everyone. Just moved here from out of state and have tried two Arlington providers that turned out to be legit. As far as I could tell. Don't want to waste too much more money. Any recommendations in Arlington? Or easily accessed by the metro?[/QUOTE]Just a tip.
You are likely to get far more responses when asking for info like this if you also give up some info. Like telling who the two legit providers are so those who are looking for more then legit can stay clear. And welcome to the area.
[QUOTE=PuntaJaco43;6331816]You are not the only one that has made this mistake or let's say a poor decision. Many of us (including this monger) are guilty of the same misguided love; an attraction for someone that can never be fully realized. There are many seductive women working in this industry that may be attracted to a certain gentleman because he brings something to the table, like possible freedom from the trade. You may have come across as someone that may provide that security. If you are a romantic, it's easy to fall in love and you will lose your mind. I learned the hard way as you are doing now, but the best thing for you is to find something new. That will definitely distract you. Do you realize how man beautiful woman there are out there that are unattached? I wish I was unattached (you didn't hear me say that)..[/QUOTE]Very true. I have a new fish.
I mostly just trying to warn guys about getting blocked in the driveway- and if long term client doesn't think Ms Virginia has BF At all times?! Then you don't know her. Educated speaks good English and fluent in Chinese- loves finer things and fine dining.
So just be careful park in the circle not in the driveway. It's actually crazy she does that crap.
Told her million times she's to good for it!
She loves cash loves the attention of men.
I'm done won't post anymore about this.
Be safe.
For several months now I have been on the hunt for a beautiful Chinese princess: one that may inhabit one of those seedy C-AMPs; where hygiene is not an aesthetic concern; where the sheets are seldomly changed and rolling around in the previous monger's bodily fluids is not uncommon. I have been to a dozen C-AMPs in the last two months, but I am not finding the love of my life.
So—always be persistent!
May Wellness Massage was my latest attempt, and it was a winner. While some of you gents were getting jacked at the "Merry Maids Jack Shack", May Wellness has been flying under the radar. There is nothing on BP nor Rubmaps that I can find. May Wellness Massage is located off 236 in Fairfax in a small office park facing a side street, with easy parking. I found out about it by reading a recent post on this Forum. The review was good but not overly enthusiastic, so I passed on it at first. Once I reread it; two words stood out: Young and Attractive. So, I decided to pay a visit.
Nicole:
My new "main squeeze" is this beautiful Taiwanese gal named Nicole. She runs the crew and works. I drew Nicole on my first visit, but I was looking for Sunny (more on her later). Nicole is a slender 5'4" doll: her body is tight as a snare drum, and she wears the typical yoga pants with a top that doesn't cover her flat midriff (she is built like a gymnast). Her rear end is small, but round and if you get her peeled you will notice that her bubble ass turns up. Very pretty face: she wears her hair up in a ponytail and looks like one of those cartoon characters which makes her look younger than she is. I would put her age at 35. It's hard to get her fully out of those cloths but I succeeded to a degree. She is a nice "B" with large penny round nips, her gorgeous kitty is shaved and exceptionally smooth, OMG, but alas no FS.
I've seen her on several occasions now, and I decided I would take Mr. Serpico's advice: I held off on my review so that I could "sufficiently pleasure myself" (I had to, with this one, gents) before releasing the news to the members. This woman is "cake" and yes, I got to eat it too! (you 'all knew that was coming).
She gives a great hard massage and takes direction well. Additionally, this spa is clean. On all occasions the gals stripped the beds while I was getting dressed. I made it a point to notice.
Nicole's rating:
8 in face, 9 in body ,6 in personality and 9 in attitude. The Chinese are just not as sensual as the Koreans, it's like two different species. I think it's cultural; they get playful to a certain degree but its more mechanical. That is why the 6 for personality, buy YMMV. (Actually, I want to amend that last thought, she is an 8, the last few visits she really did loosen up, in several different categories).
50/70 entrance fee and. 70 - 1. 40 tip. Depending on the length of time I spent and how obliging she was. I would suggest starting off with a HHr on the first visit. There was never and mention of money.
The other girl there is Sunny; she was previously reviewed on this forum, and that is why I visited initially. I never met her because every time I walked in, she was taken, better to make an appointment at this place.
Finally:
Treat them with respect and be patient and you may get lucky. Not a pump and dump type environment. You need to spend time with these gals to make it work.
Regards.
PJ.
[QUOTE=Massage2546;6331932]Hey everyone. Just moved here from out of state and have tried two Arlington providers that turned out to be legit. As far as I could tell. Don't want to waste too much more money. Any recommendations in Arlington? Or easily accessed by the metro?[/QUOTE]Short walk from the Metro, even by American walking standards. Lovely lady, good massage and environment, NOVA but very satisfying.
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