[QUOTE=JakeTime7;7275807]Any truth to some long time providers who didn't offer extras now offering extras on dates? Private message if you know anything. Also.[/QUOTE]This is very much a YMMV situation. First, providers change their offering. The big one I see now is oral seems to be disappearing. "X" used to but doesn't. FS is still fine. "You did the last time I was here. " may work, may not. "John said you _ him. " Isn't going to work and might kill John's next visit.
There are one or two providers who I have had a great deal of fun with. Fun not on their ads or regular menu. For this I am thankful. Some said not to tell others what we did. Sorry, that thing I really like may not have gotten into a review. It is also possible what was "just between us" was also just between 5 or 10 other dudes.
My advice. See her a few times. Ask. Be polite.