Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;5731563]Came here to report some intel on exactly this. I spent the morning chatting over text with "Ada" (user "CuteRocker", I'd link but I permanently blocked the user and can't get to the link anymore); we even set a time to meet this coming Wednesday. Suddenly she offers to share some nudes and I'm like "Sure!", then she sends a cashapp cashtag for a "tip", which was "$meccatemple31". LOL, what?? So I decided to google image search the picture she had texted to me, only to discover it was some content selling hottie on twitter, with an only fans full of good stuff. So yeah, I pasted all those links back to "Ada", then "she" went silent. Busted. Idiot.[/QUOTE]Update: they just texted back said the girl on twitter was, in fact, them. I decided to give them some pointers.

The scamming on SA has gotten so high volume, the scammers aren; t even trying as hard to cover up these mistakes anymore LOL.

SA does nothing about it, despite it being a paid site, so it won't matter anyways.

[QUOTE=Joe1223;5730818]I must be at a different level with my selection of SB's that I chose to see. I haven't ever been disrespected or ripped off by my longer term ladies. Sure they see me for the money but they aren't totally bitches when we are together. It's mutual chemistry that makes it work otherwise I would just sick with the escort sites. Not expecting any romance but the college girls and single moms have been overall decent people and we both are getting something out of it. They all eventually move on usually for a bf or they leave the area for a real job. If they start to ask for a larger donation or become not available as often I take that as an exit plan as I never go over the agreed amount whether they deserve a raise or not. I agree if one is expecting a "romantic " situation this probably isn't the place, for obvious reasons.[/QUOTE]I don't expect a romantic relationship, but I'm not keen on being nothing but a cash machine either.

Finding that middle ground is tough. And wading through the $ and fakes on SA doesn't make it easier. It's enough to make one look for a regular woman as a side-piece, but that has diff problems.

[QUOTE=Hyperion11;5728391]She just sent me a text saying that we need to talk, as she's under 21.

Thing is, we had a drink at the hotel bar. And they looked at her I'd.

Fuck. What would be the best to do now? Ignore her?[/QUOTE]Yes. Block on VoIP / SA. I'd also change your VoIP number (which I hope you are using). I'd also maybe change your SA profile or make it hidden.

I doubt she cares about where you live, nor has the wherewithal on how to take that info and use it for profit because she already sound dumb for trying to use your cc. She just wanted the credit cards.

[QUOTE=RandomChance72;5726598]Anyone have information about this one?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e62e5088-cd70-42e1-aae2-0927a9d936f2[/URL][/QUOTE]I reached out when COVID started, she wanted virtual. I passed.

[QUOTE=Hobbyist420;5731770]I reached out when COVID started, she wanted virtual. I passed.[/QUOTE]This is pretty funny. None of those pictures look local and quite frankly, she's not attractive at all. I don't know what she's requesting. But, definitely a hard pass. You can give her a virtual finger just for your troubles.

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[QUOTE=JClearMan1;5731600]Update: they just texted back said the girl on twitter was, in fact, them. I decided to give them some pointers.[/QUOTE]You were too professional on your response. LOL. Others would've used more colorful words. The dummies in the Massholes can come up with some creative ones.

[QUOTE=SalamanderFour;5730114]Is SA worth the fees? With so many fakes, time wasters, and pros to weed through it just seems like a very expensive process to get a side piece.

You could easily spend hundreds of dollars, weeks and months, and not have much to show for it.[/QUOTE]Honestly if you can spend a month exclusively on weeding out all of the girls than you will find the one or 2 unicorns that will be true utr girl next doors that are just doing this for side money. So yes it is worth it. So far I have done it once a year and it has always treated me well.

[QUOTE=CambridgeSci;5729180]LOL, I'm early 30's so here's where I go in DOT if I'm down there.

Yellow Door is a hotspot. The Industry Bar and Grill too.

Lucy's is always fun and has good brunch with groups of girls around.

Dorchester Brewing Company has groups and can be hard to meet people if you're by yourself or have no game.[/QUOTE]I was out in the Seaport on Saturday and met 2 hot girls who happened to live in Dorchester. They said Harp and Bard is a decent spot too. Guess I need to give Dot a chance now.

[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5732474]Honestly if you can spend a month exclusively on weeding out all of the girls than you will find the one or 2 unicorns that will be true utr girl next doors that are just doing this for side money. So yes it is worth it. So far I have done it once a year and it has always treated me well.[/QUOTE]Would it be helpful if I set up a database and maybe a website to start collecting all this data more efficiently? I'm willing to put in some time to try to make all of our lives easier.

[QUOTE=Chuchunga;5732491]Would it be helpful if I set up a database and maybe a website to start collecting all this data more efficiently? I'm willing to put in some time to try to make all of our lives easier.[/QUOTE]I was thinking about this too. I've had so many girls be scammers just in the span of 15 days. If we can at least have a place to cross reference numbers that would be helpful.

[QUOTE=Chuchunga;5732491]Would it be helpful if I set up a database and maybe a website to start collecting all this data more efficiently? I'm willing to put in some time to try to make all of our lives easier.[/QUOTE]To.

No that will take too much time and is a waste of time. You basically need to weed out all of the scammers and prostitutes'. Its a numbers game. The more you message the more responses you will get. Once they respond you need to respond quick or else they may sign out and not respond back for days or weeks. Its like going fishing. Set the hook. Once they bite you need to work quickly to get a face to face meeting and from there it all comes down to game. Chat off site immediately. If you say the wrong thing by mistake on SA you could be banned from the site and the money you spent for the membership is gone. When a girl asks me what I am looking for I always say something fun any mutually beneficial. Hope this helps.

[QUOTE=IAmAzn;5732547]I was thinking about this too. I've had so many girls be scammers just in the span of 15 days. If we can at least have a place to cross reference numbers that would be helpful.[/QUOTE]Once I meet a scammer I immediately block it. Just think about it the scammers will get shut down and just come back under a new profile. Thats why I think it is a waste of time to compile a database that will be obsolete within a week or 2 weeks time anyways. I have said this multiple times. Joining SA is a full time job. So if you are going to do it make sure you can spend all the time you need to make use of the membership you paid.

[QUOTE=Chuchunga;5732491]Would it be helpful if I set up a database and maybe a website to start collecting all this data more efficiently? I'm willing to put in some time to try to make all of our lives easier.[/QUOTE]Not worth it. SA profiles come and go super fast. As do app based phone numbers.

And depending on the type of woman you're looking for on SA, it's easy to pretty quickly weed out the fakes / scams. Men who get scammed almost always are new to this or not nearly selective enough. The warning signs are easy to spot and always show up.

[QUOTE=Bran001;5732668]Not worth it. SA profiles come and go super fast. As do app based phone numbers.

And depending on the type of woman you're looking for on SA, it's easy to pretty quickly weed out the fakes / scams. Men who get scammed almost always are new to this or not nearly selective enough. The warning signs are easy to spot and always show up.[/QUOTE]I am curious what some of the obvious warning signs are?

Thanks CM.

[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5732569]Once I meet a scammer I immediately block it. Just think about it the scammers will get shut down and just come back under a new profile. Thats why I think it is a waste of time to compile a database that will be obsolete within a week or 2 weeks time anyways. I have said this multiple times. Joining SA is a full time job. So if you are going to do it make sure you can spend all the time you need to make use of the membership you paid.[/QUOTE]Let me rephrase, cause if there was an easy way to fight back the scammers and completely discourage the photo / video sellers, and the platonic ones that only want to be taken out for dinner, is there interest?

[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5732564]To.

No that will take too much time and is a waste of time. You basically need to weed out all of the scammers and prostitutes'. Its a numbers game. The more you message the more responses you will get. Once they respond you need to respond quick or else they may sign out and not respond back for days or weeks. Its like going fishing. Set the hook. Once they bite you need to work quickly to get a face to face meeting and from there it all comes down to game. Chat off site immediately. If you say the wrong thing by mistake on SA you could be banned from the site and the money you spent for the membership is gone. When a girl asks me what I am looking for I always say something fun any mutually beneficial. Hope this helps.[/QUOTE]Thanks Gianni,

But this is what I mean. A huge toll of time, energy, and $, for little reward, to find the 1 out of 100 that has value.

In the past, CL worked better for me. More real women, fewer bots or people overseas. But that's the past.

This is actually pretty funny. I don't know how long this ad will be up, so I've taken screenshots for you all.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/24a533ef-c7d9-4919-974f-857427ac215d[/URL]

[QUOTE=SalamanderFour;5733113]Thanks Gianni,

But this is what I mean. A huge toll of time, energy, and $, for little reward, to find the 1 out of 100 that has value.

In the past, CL worked better for me. More real women, fewer bots or people overseas. But that's the past.[/QUOTE]CL was the best. Don't get me started =*(Can someone on here start a facebook group in the Boston or New England Area for like minded guys like us and like minded girls we seek to join to find each other? I am surprised this has not happened yet?

And as they say to each their own. To me finding that 1 or 2 unicorns is worth the time I spent that one month to find her. The sex is always better with a non pro than a pro in my opinion. My problem now is that having sex with an addict is a huge turn off. Its really sad to see a person doing this because they are either being controlled by a Pimp or on so much drugs to the point of almost self destruction.

[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5733432]CL was the best. Don't get me started =*(Can someone on here start a facebook group in the Boston or New England Area for like minded guys like us and like minded girls we seek to join to find each other? I am surprised this has not happened yet?

And as they say to each their own. To me finding that 1 or 2 unicorns is worth the time I spent that one month to find her. The sex is always better with a non pro than a pro in my opinion. My problem now is that having sex with an addict is a huge turn off. Its really sad to see a person doing this because they are either being controlled by a Pimp or on so much drugs to the point of almost self destruction.[/QUOTE]From 2009 to 2011 I had 4 different "regular" girls that I met through CL Casual Encounters. No money involved ever, just hanging out and screwing. Each of them lasted a varying amount of time and two of them overlapped for several months. One of them took videos of herself blowing me and said she was sending them to her "boyfriend", who was apparently married. None of them was a "girlfriend", as I had one of those already haha.

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;5733345]This is actually pretty funny. I don't know how long this ad will be up, so I've taken screenshots for you all.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/24a533ef-c7d9-4919-974f-857427ac215d[/URL][/QUOTE]99% sure that's Sal Vulcano from Impractical Jokers. Wonder if this is a prank from the show.

[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5733432]CL was the best. Don't get me started =*(Can someone on here start a facebook group in the Boston or New England Area for like minded guys like us and like minded girls we seek to join to find each other? I am surprised this has not happened yet?

And as they say to each their own. To me finding that 1 or 2 unicorns is worth the time I spent that one month to find her. The sex is always better with a non pro than a pro in my opinion. My problem now is that having sex with an addict is a huge turn off. Its really sad to see a person doing this because they are either being controlled by a Pimp or on so much drugs to the point of almost self destruction.[/QUOTE]I agree. It is easy to sort the wheat from the chaff. Probably 90% of the time someone on here points out a scammer, I've already hidden or blocked them on SA. I also cannot do the addict / homeless pro and I am not an AMP guy. No interest there either. So SA works for me. The odds are much better than on this site.

[QUOTE=BR1201;5733741]99% sure that's Sal Vulcano from Impractical Jokers. Wonder if this is a prank from the show.[/QUOTE]I just looked up that name and I think 100% right. Glad I blocked the account.

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;5733489]From 2009 to 2011 I had 4 different "regular" girls that I met through CL Casual Encounters. No money involved ever, just hanging out and screwing. Each of them lasted a varying amount of time and two of them overlapped for several months. One of them took videos of herself blowing me and said she was sending them to her "boyfriend", who was apparently married. None of them was a "girlfriend", as I had one of those already haha.[/QUOTE]I never pulled anything free on Craigslist but always paid between $60-$100 back then. It was great. SA 8 years ago I pulled 3 girls for free. I also think that is possible depending on how old you are. If you are younger in your early 30's or younger and going after a younger girl than I think the free tail on SA is highly possible.

[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5728523]There are no girls in Dorchester that look like that. Its a fake.[/QUOTE]She quoted me $800.

[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5733954]I never pulled anything free on Craigslist but always paid between $60-$100 back then. It was great. SA 8 years ago I pulled 3 girls for free. I also think that is possible depending on how old you are. If you are younger in your early 30's or younger and going after a younger girl than I think the free tail on SA is highly possible.[/QUOTE]Late 20's going after 20's. Haven't pulled anyone for free. Maybe I am ugly LOL. But I am regularly asked that why I am on SA instead of vanilla dating.

[QUOTE=Hamsd;5734406]Late 20's going after 20's. Haven't pulled anyone for free. Maybe I am ugly LOL. But I am regularly asked that why I am on SA instead of vanilla dating.[/QUOTE]I'm sure you're fine haha -- a lot of this is luck as well as individual preferences. I'm pretty sure I could have a vanilla legit gf but I don't think she would be in my preferred age group and looks category that I do get in an SB, which doesn't happen often.

Wouldn't say she is Mindblowing or my ATF, but she is fun. She hosts in Medford and has a very nice place. I negotiated to meet her for 400. Spent about 2 hours chatting and making love. She gave a decent BBBJ, was happy with DATY and loved all positions. She has a really fat ass and I enjoyed K9. Finally she blew me and swallowed my load. All in all decent. Would try her out, but price is a bit high.

[QUOTE=MinorLeague;5734436]I'm sure you're fine haha -- a lot of this is luck as well as individual preferences. I'm pretty sure I could have a vanilla legit gf but I don't think she would be in my preferred age group and looks category that I do get in an SB, which doesn't happen often.[/QUOTE]Honestly (I think this was discussed here earlier) but the # of girls I have seen on seeking and then on tinder etc. I wonder how many guys in vanilla relationships (especially the ones they meet online) are getting unwillingly getting cucked by their gfs SD from SA.

A lot. I've seen SA girls on Bumble and Hinge as well.

[QUOTE=Hamsd;5734587]Honestly (I think this was discussed here earlier) but the # of girls I have seen on seeking and then on tinder etc. I wonder how many guys in vanilla relationships (especially the ones they meet online) are getting unwillingly getting cucked by their gfs SD from SA.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Hamsd;5734406]Late 20's going after 20's. Haven't pulled anyone for free. Maybe I am ugly LOL. But I am regularly asked that why I am on SA instead of vanilla dating.[/QUOTE]Early 50's, pulled one from SA for free. Still see every week or two. She wanted a third, have added three separate women to our play time, all free. Have seen the three alone and in 3 somes all free.

This didn't happen right away. I went through my share of poor to bad experiences, but it is a game of numbers, relationships, don't be a dick, and luck.

Pursue those that seem decent, stay away from the fakes, pros and women that want something and not give anything in return. Experience with SA taught me to weed quickly and patience brought me an awesome sugar baby.

[QUOTE=Discretion23;5735378]Early 50's, pulled one from SA for free. Still see every week or two. She wanted a third, have added three separate women to our play time, all free. Have seen the three alone and in 3 somes all free.

This didn't happen right away. I went through my share of poor to bad experiences, but it is a game of numbers, relationships, don't be a dick, and luck.

Pursue those that seem decent, stay away from the fakes, pros and women that want something and not give anything in return. Experience with SA taught me to weed quickly and patience brought me an awesome sugar baby.[/QUOTE]The key thing you wrote is don't be a dick. Honestly I do think kindness goes a long way with the normal non pro girls.

[QUOTE=Sasuke9015;5734456]Wouldn't say she is Mindblowing or my ATF, but she is fun. She hosts in Medford and has a very nice place. I negotiated to meet her for 400. Spent about 2 hours chatting and making love. She gave a decent BBBJ, was happy with DATY and loved all positions. She has a really fat ass and I enjoyed K9. Finally she blew me and swallowed my load. All in all decent. Would try her out, but price is a bit high.[/QUOTE]Hate the tattoos. Otherwise her thickness looks fun.

[QUOTE=Discretion23;5735378]Early 50's, pulled one from SA for free. Still see every week or two. She wanted a third, have added three separate women to our play time, all free. Have seen the three alone and in 3 somes all free.

This didn't happen right away. I went through my share of poor to bad experiences, but it is a game of numbers, relationships, don't be a dick, and luck.

Pursue those that seem decent, stay away from the fakes, pros and women that want something and not give anything in return. Experience with SA taught me to weed quickly and patience brought me an awesome sugar baby.[/QUOTE]That is fair. I am not a dick, I think (or at least I hope), but also don't do it frequently. Maybe once a year every for a month I will look. I do try to be direct to not waste my time, and essentially message them saying that I like their profile and mention a m&g in my first message. Swap phone numbers within the next few messages, and then kinda treat them like vanilla dates at least when we are out.

[QUOTE=Hamsd;5735413]That is fair. I am not a dick, I think (or at least I hope), but also don't do it frequently. Maybe once a year every for a month I will look. I do try to be direct to not waste my time, and essentially message them saying that I like their profile and mention a m&g in my first message. Swap phone numbers within the next few messages, and then kinda treat them like vanilla dates at least when we are out.[/QUOTE]The easiest way I've gotten woman off SA for free is dates at encore casino. Everything there is free for me anyway since I'm a gambler and its all I do. So we go to the nice restaurant, rooms free and I gamble roulette. I just give the illusion I'm throwing all this money around when I'm not, let them pick some roulette numbers while there drinking to make them feel important and it just goes from there. Encore casino is the best place for SA dates, most of these woman are looking for a high class, luxury night out and there's no place that can provide that illusion than the casino especially if your a gambler and gained free comps for hotels, restaurants or you have casino money from playing you just use your comp dollars, doesn't cost you a penny and its the safest place to meet woman for the 1st time, security and cameras everywhere, so no one is going to try and rob or scam or set you up because that shit ain't going to fly at the casino.

[QUOTE=Sasuke9015;5734456]Wouldn't say she is Mindblowing or my ATF, but she is fun. She hosts in Medford and has a very nice place. I negotiated to meet her for 400. Spent about 2 hours chatting and making love. She gave a decent BBBJ, was happy with DATY and loved all positions. She has a really fat ass and I enjoyed K9. Finally she blew me and swallowed my load. All in all decent. Would try her out, but price is a bit high.[/QUOTE]Damn, that's my type. What's her original price since you had to go down to 400.

[QUOTE=Sasuke9015;5734456]Wouldn't say she is Mindblowing or my ATF, but she is fun. She hosts in Medford and has a very nice place. I negotiated to meet her for 400. Spent about 2 hours chatting and making love. She gave a decent BBBJ, was happy with DATY and loved all positions. She has a really fat ass and I enjoyed K9. Finally she blew me and swallowed my load. All in all decent. Would try her out, but price is a bit high.[/QUOTE]Did you offer her 200? She isn't 400 quality in my world but this explains why they keep asking and getting outrageous donations.

[QUOTE=TheList00;5735468]The easiest way I've gotten woman off SA for free is dates at encore casino. Everything there is free for me anyway since I'm a gambler and its all I do. So we go to the nice restaurant, rooms free and I gamble roulette. I just give the illusion I'm throwing all this money around when I'm not, let them pick some roulette numbers while there drinking to make them feel important and it just goes from there. Encore casino is the best place for SA dates, most of these woman are looking for a high class, luxury night out and there's no place that can provide that illusion than the casino especially if your a gambler and gained free comps for hotels, restaurants or you have casino money from playing you just use your comp dollars, doesn't cost you a penny and its the safest place to meet woman for the 1st time, security and cameras everywhere, so no one is going to try and rob or scam or set you up because that shit ain't going to fly at the casino.[/QUOTE]That sounds like a good arrangement. I am not much of a gambler, so I don't know casinos well, so forgive my ignorance, but what are "comp dollars"?

[QUOTE=Hamsd;5735774]That sounds like a good arrangement. I am not much of a gambler, so I don't know casinos well, so forgive my ignorance, but what are "comp dollars"?[/QUOTE]Basically incentives to get people back to the casino where they can lose more money. I wouldn't advise developing a gambling habit LOL. Believe me, you will be paying for it. You just may not realize it.