Experience in strip clubs
I go to higher end SC's all the time. Sometimes when I go there, some girls go around asking people for a dance. A number of times they ask the guy on my right and the guy on my left. I was not asked. I don't know what it is. Is it because I am asian or is it because I don't look rich enough to be able to pay for a dance? I am of course not Tom Cruise, I am medium height. 150 and a little older. But I am extremely clean and if I can't afford a table dance, I won't go to a SC. This is why I most of the time go to my usual place who knows me and the girls will come to see me even if I go there in shorts and running shoes. I am not complaining, the girls are not obligated to ask me. But it feels kind of funny. I am sure some will ask if the other guys were white guys. Yes, but does that makes that much of a difference?
Does any of you have similar experience?
Experience in strip clubs
Well, I can tell you that my 2 favorite strip clubs don't care about your race or your age. They like a well dressed guy instead of a guy in t-shirt / running shoes. Don't see that in either mid-level club I go to. In fact, my 2nd favorite strip club has two Asian guys that are regulars (I have been there enough to see their action, as one of my favorite girls is a "regular" to both and I am bypassed for them many times LOL). All the girls (but they have favorites) go to both guys. In fact, as I write this, I just got back from a VIP session at 7PM today and my VIP girl was sitting with an Asian guy as I left (really- no BS).
Bottom line- 1) have money. 2) wear nice clothes; polo shirt or shirt with colar / pants or shorts, nice shoes (really- no running shoes) .3) if the girl doesn't come to you-get to know the girls by having the waitress invite the girl over to your table and, for gods sake, buy 'them a drink, and tip the waitress a few dollars. Really- in today's economy very few ladies have any prejudices. And if they do, just avoid them 4) become a regular (& you meet criteria 1-3 above). Then the world is yours at most regular, non-tourist SCs.
Cash is always king, and a good, neat appearance helps, plus a smile and a wave to a passing lady lets them know you are interested. Plus, if they are dancing on the stage & it is someone you would like to have dance for you, go tip them and tell them to stop by for some dances and a drink 2 or 3 dollars,. And whatever SC (high end) you are going to, maybe time to make another selection if the ladies are that stuck-up....too many friendly ladies at other clubs.
My 2 cents, since you asked for feedback. I am an older white guy that a) has some disposable cash, 2) try to dress nice, 3) have 3 or 4 regulars that do dances and/or VIP for me, 4) i am a regular, the waitresses, dancers and bartenders know me by name 'cause I come in a lot, and 5) i smile and love to talk to them. Really- its all a business, but you should have fun.
Oasis customer appreciation day
I have heard that Oasis is having a customer appreciation day for daytime customers. It may be Wed this week. I think it is between 5-7 pm and I think they have free food and drinks, and probably free admission. I believe all dayshift girls have to be there. You can call them to make sure.
The one they had for night time customers last time, they had about 120+ girls and the place was packed solid.
Have fun.