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You have to be someone women find attractive.

Looks, power, confidence, success, being fun, being funny, being someone that they find attractive in some way.

Of course the pretty women will be attracted to handsome, confident guys, no surprise there. Few guys I know go looking for ugly women. But interestingly I meet a lot of ugly guys (not aimed at anyone in particular) who expect to have the beautiful women.

There is hope.

Walk through Walmart, Target, or any mall and you see all the average John's walking with their average Joan girlfriends and wives. Those guys found a woman.

Keep in mind, if you are not Tarzan, don't expect to be doing the deed with Jane.

As a man, you can 'be' someone they find attractive, or you can 'own' something valuable they find attractive.

I've seen a lot of average Johns with pretty women, so it is possible to get a girl out of your league. But most of us tend to date someone in our league. Many who seek professionals seek women out of their league. Young, cute, sexy, accommodating.

To attract and to seduce women communication is key. Looks matter, but communication is Key. This applies to online and in person.

Take a look at what the winners do to get the girl. And then do what they do.

From what I've seen and heard, it's the average guys who don't want average girls and expect the prom queens to come to them, who do most of the complaining.

The only thing worse is a woman who claims she can't get sex. When I hear that I tell them there must be something very wrong with you. Find out what it is and fix it.

[QUOTE=Holocaust;5758943]Another younger guy speaking. It is definitely getting very difficult finding someone even on the dating apps (Tinder / Bumble) for vanilla dating even though you have money and looks. I bet most of the younger guys are just here because they don't want to waste their time with unattractive women they match on dating apps and rather join SA where they can date attractive women. I know that comes with a cost but folks don't really mind it.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DrPornDawger;5759320][URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=plMNOBc8zCM[/URL][/QUOTE]Watched the YouTube. More should watch it. Lots of good wisdom for SA, online dating, and even day to day encounters.

Thanks Dr.

[QUOTE=MaximusKahn;5760632]You have to be someone women find attractive.

Looks, power, confidence, success, being fun, being funny, being someone that they find attractive in some way.

Of course the pretty women will be attracted to handsome, confident guys, no surprise there. Few guys I know go looking for ugly women. But interestingly I meet a lot of ugly guys (not aimed at anyone in particular) who expect to have the beautiful women.

There is hope.

Walk through Walmart, Target, or any mall and you see all the average John's walking with their average Joan girlfriends and wives. Those guys found a woman.

Keep in mind, if you are not Tarzan, don't expect to be doing the deed with Jane.

As a man, you can 'be' someone they find attractive, or you can 'own' something valuable they find attractive.

I've seen a lot of average Johns with pretty women, so it is possible to get a girl out of your league. But most of us tend to date someone in our league. Many who seek professionals seek women out of their league. Young, cute, sexy, accommodating.

To attract and to seduce women communication is key. Looks matter, but communication is Key. This applies to online and in person.

Take a look at what the winners do to get the girl. And then do what they do.

From what I've seen and heard, it's the average guys who don't want average girls and expect the prom queens to come to them, who do most of the complaining.

The only thing worse is a woman who claims she can't get sex. When I hear that I tell them there must be something very wrong with you. Find out what it is and fix it.[/QUOTE]Skolnick didn't have money, but he got Betty because he can eat Pussy. "Jocks think about sports, Nerds think about sex" LOL.

But in all fairness, wouldn't women just gravitate to the US currency, heck most of the them are old men like us.

Benjamin Franklin was considered a ladies man.

Brandon Wade ain't no looker and he keeps insisting in all his interviews, his mom told him, make the money and the ladies will follow.

[QUOTE=DrPornDawger;5760686]Skolnick didn't have money, but he got Betty because he can eat Pussy. "Jocks think about sports, Nerds think about sex" LOL.

But in all fairness, wouldn't women just gravitate to the US currency, heck most of the them are old men like us.

Benjamin Franklin was considered a ladies man.

Brandon Wade ain't no looker and he keeps insisting in all his interviews, his mom told him, make the money and the ladies will follow.[/QUOTE]Always get the pussy!

[QUOTE=DrPornDawger;5760500]I agree that SA is another way for prostitution, thoughts? And of course the law (courts see it if the the person is trading more than just sex, it's not prostitution), I disagree (Gray area though).[/QUOTE]Approaching SA as prostitution:

- Leads to poor results.

- Drives the good / real SBs away, and.

- Raises rates.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5760479]I was texting w / a POT once and I asked about such a username. She said that the site suggested it to her. Getting a unique username can be a challenge on there, they may have a tool that helps people come up with something, and obviously, if they suggest something that seems OK to a girl, she may just go with it, thinking it isn't crucial. So, don't necessarily conclude that such names are only from bots.[/QUOTE]Interesting.

I have signed up multiple times over the years, and also changed user names multiple times, never noticed any auto generated username suggestions.

SA is a very clever business model. Its' promoted as a dating, or a companion finding applications. But even though they say it's all about finding that special person you connect with, ultimately the women expect to get gifts, that boils down to compensation. And guys in reality are looking for sex.

Some guys may be looking for a companion to share life and money with and not want sex, but the women still wants a pay day with or without sex.

If she don't get paid in her expected time line, and he don't get sex in his expected time line, people will move on.

Call is anything you want, but men are looking for the favor of a woman, and the sugar babies are looking for gifts and financial reward from the man.

[QUOTE=PussyPumper;5761174]Approaching SA as prostitution:

- Leads to poor results.

- Drives the good / real SBs away, and.

- Raises rates.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MaximusKahn;5762068]SA is a very clever business model. Its' promoted as a dating, or a companion finding applications. But even though they say it's all about finding that special person you connect with, ultimately the women expect to get gifts, that boils down to compensation. And guys in reality are looking for sex.

Some guys may be looking for a companion to share life and money with and not want sex, but the women still wants a pay day with or without sex.

If she don't get paid in her expected time line, and he don't get sex in his expected time line, people will move on.

Call is anything you want, but men are looking for the favor of a woman, and the sugar babies are looking for gifts and financial reward from the man.[/QUOTE]Yes, I agree it is prostitution. But I think the point OP is making is DO NOT [B]"Approach"[/B] girls like you approach prostitutes.

Many on SA are pros, but for the hot college aged girls, that most guys want to fuck, the girls don't want to be seen or have a self image as prostitutes. So APPROACH them like GFs (and yeah, you got to pay them.) But if you want success in the bowl, it just comes down to approach. But use a crude or degrading approach to SBs and the points OP makes all come true.

Just sayin'.

[QUOTE=Shampoo55;5762384]Yes, I agree it is prostitution. But I think the point OP is making is DO NOT [B]"Approach"[/B] girls like you approach prostitutes.

Many on SA are pros, but for the hot college aged girls, that most guys want to fuck, the girls don't want to be seen or have a self image as prostitutes. So APPROACH them like GFs (and yeah, you got to pay them.) But if you want success in the bowl, it just comes down to approach. But use a crude or degrading approach to SBs and the points OP makes all come true.

Just sayin'.[/QUOTE]I realize you can't just come and tell them the truth, because they [B]REALLY[/B] have convinced themselves they aren't hookers. The moment there's a direct financial incentive or transaction that has the expected outcome of me sticking my prick inside them, it's prostitution. They hang out on the subreddit sugarlifestyle and convince themselves they aren't though.

Strangely, if you head over to the sexworker subreddit, you'll see them talking about how they go back and forth from sugaring to hooking. It's the same thing.

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?20576-San-Diego-Bare&p=5762749&viewfull=1[/URL]#post5762749.

There's some sugar daddies that can afford 5 k-10 k / month on SBs.

[URL]https://youtu.be/EkUoSzWS7cM?t=300[/URL]

The reality: sex for money is. _fill in the blank (c'Mon.).

Companionships my ass.

I wish I had 120 k disposable income for that pussy.

Brandon Wade, takes your subscription fees and supports his women addiction.

Not bad for the economy, he creates jobs.

[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NZ1UdydzF0U[/URL]

I wish I had thought about the idea.

Networking is another word for pimping.

Long before SA.

They have a name for a SB / SD type relationship - "compensated dating".

It is considered dating, not prostitution.

But compensated.

So compensated dating.

[QUOTE=RogerOver;5762491]I realize you can't just come and tell them the truth, because they [B]REALLY[/B] have convinced themselves they aren't hookers. The moment there's a direct financial incentive or transaction that has the expected outcome of me sticking my prick inside them, it's prostitution. They hang out on the subreddit sugarlifestyle and convince themselves they aren't though.

Strangely, if you head over to the sexworker subreddit, you'll see them talking about how they go back and forth from sugaring to hooking. It's the same thing.[/QUOTE]Isn't there a financial aspect to almost all M-F dating? Maybe half or more of the women in the country are probably prostitutes by the above standard. A former GF of mine married my then roommate because his wallet was thicker than mine, even though she didn't much like him. Was that prostitution? Don't women look for "providers"?

The SBs you mention who hang out on subreddits are the ones to avoid. The good ones join SA for reasons such as:

- A sorority dare.

- Their friends told them it was great / they heard good things.

- They want excitement and adventure.

- They want someone better then the jerks they usually date.

- And so on and on.

Not to say that financial help doesn't play a role, but the better gals are not prostitutes in the classic mold, and thinking of them as such is self-defeating.

[QUOTE=PussyPumper;5762844]Long before SA.

They have a name for a SB / SD type relationship - "compensated dating".

It is considered dating, not prostitution.

But compensated.

So compensated dating.[/QUOTE]Agreed. I have used this exact term in discussing what sort of arrangement I have had / am looking for, most often at the M&G. You need sufficient appreciation for the person to spend any time w / them. No matter how much money / sex were involved, if you don't have that respect, you wouldn't be seeing them.

[QUOTE=PussyPumper;5762873]Isn't there a financial aspect to almost all M-F dating? Maybe half or more of the women in the country are probably prostitutes by the above standard. A former GF of mine married my then roommate because his wallet was thicker than mine, even though she didn't much like him. Was that prostitution? Don't women look for "providers"?

The SBs you mention who hang out on subreddits are the ones to avoid. The good ones join SA for reasons such as:

- A sorority dare.

- Their friends told them it was great / they heard good things.

- They want excitement and adventure.

- They want someone better then the jerks they usually date.

- And so on and on.

Not to say that financial help doesn't play a role, but the better gals are not prostitutes in the classic mold, and thinking of them as such is self-defeating.[/QUOTE]That's certainly an opinion I've noticed many on here have. I don't share it, and that's fine. However, I'd assert it's self-defeating to lose sight of the fact that if the girls aren't paid, they won't fuck you. Don't get me wrong; I'm good with that. But if you start letting yourself believe it's not about the money, then you're deluding yourself.