Sugarbabies and Arrangements

[QUOTE=PainWint;4440000]I've have had sparse communication with this one only through the site. She seems extremely apprehensive. Wondering if it's me or just how she is. Anyone have experience with her? Public or private intel is appreciated.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fee1c475-8c5f-4fa3-b50d-be548cac855a[/URL][/QUOTE]I got the same from her. From what I got she seemed real just cautious. After too much messaging on the site I cut and run. Same with texts. If we can't come to an agreement quickly I figure we never will. Although my longest regular said she played me out a while because she was nervous of desperate men. She said guys who are pushy or have to meet NOW are generally assholes! Maybe the same for this one.

[QUOTE=BadSport;4442821]If we can't come to an agreement quickly I figure we never will. [/QUOTE]This is almost always true. I have been on the site for 8 years and it has overwhelmingly been the case. If a meet isn't set in the first few conversations, it won't happen, unless of course the girl is a pro in disguise.

[QUOTE=BudBowl2001;4328415][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e92e93a0-cb5a-4d71-a98e-9da3c6e707c3[/URL]

For those that are really far west. She got the job done for 20. LOL. Drove around after picking her up for some true road head. Ftrshly showered. No pussy odor. Will repeat.[/QUOTE]Looks like she's in Lorain now and 14 years younger.

[URL]https://backpage.com.cleveland.listcrawler.com/post/36960567/[/URL]

[QUOTE=Rafter17;4445727]Looks like she's in Lorain now and 14 years younger.

[URL]https://backpage.com.cleveland.listcrawler.com/post/36960567/[/URL][/QUOTE]Well, I doubt she got younger, but she does have great tits, is very reasonable, and really nice-just saying.

[QUOTE=Franklee1975;4440692]Well, it could be the older lady playing. If not. "emily" (actually Lauren) is just playing. Let us know how you do. And FWIW, I never give a woman 10 cents before meeting them, and more. :)[/QUOTE]She struck again and stood up another guy I know. What a time waster.

[QUOTE=DoubtingTom;4446855]She struck again and stood up another guy I know. What a time waster.[/QUOTE]Why doesn't someone report her? I would, but I've been banned.

I have been resisting, and have had potential dates blow me off if I resist, which I thought was good riddance. But now I am starting to think that to get to some of the finer ones, I got to pay something for a meet and greet, at least in certain cases, for goodwill, or to plain just get access. It doesn't make sense, I know, for us STG type of guys, to pay for non-sex. And it is clear that most of the women are brutally ruthless, even worse than STG, since they pretend to be classy, which is a joke. Any advice?

[QUOTE=BirdBrain;4447914]I have been resisting, and have had potential dates blow me off if I resist, which I thought was good riddance. But now I am starting to think that to get to some of the finer ones, I got to pay something for a meet and greet, at least in certain cases, for goodwill, or to plain just get access. It doesn't make sense, I know, for us STG type of guys, to pay for non-sex. And it is clear that most of the women are brutally ruthless, even worse than STG, since they pretend to be classy, which is a joke. Any advice?[/QUOTE]My advise. NEVER PAY FOR A MEET AND GREET!

The only exception I ever make is if they are obviously truly struggling and need gas money.

The "Fine Ones" that want money to meet are going to milk everything but what you want milked and you are telling them you are willing and stupid enough to pay for what is or should be a mutual investment in time. Is her time worth more than yours? Your buying food and drinks. That is enough. If you want to set the precedence that you are theirs to take advantage of pay pay away.

[QUOTE=PainWint;4447997]My advise. NEVER PAY FOR A MEET AND GREET!

The only exception I ever make is if they are obviously truly struggling and need gas money.

The "Fine Ones" that want money to meet are going to milk everything but what you want milked and you are telling them you are willing and stupid enough to pay for what is or should be a mutual investment in time. Is her time worth more than yours? Your buying food and drinks. That is enough. If you want to set the precedence that you are theirs to take advantage of pay pay away.[/QUOTE]I've never paid for a M & G outside of the cost of a cup of coffee but I've sent a few girls a nominal amount (say $20) in exchange for a few nudes that were poses that I specifically requested. The reason for this is that I'm pretty much ruling out any chance they are a cop and it busts the ******* angle closet fatties. Plus it then shows me exactly what they bring to the table and makes it easier for me to decide whether or not I want to pull the trigger. YMMV but it's worked out for me more often than not. If they pull the "send money and I'll send you more pics" I either tell them I'm only interested in meeting or I stop responding.

[QUOTE=PainWint;4447997]My advise. NEVER PAY FOR A MEET AND GREET!

The only exception I ever make is if they are obviously truly struggling and need gas money.

The "Fine Ones" that want money to meet are going to milk everything but what you want milked and you are telling them you are willing and stupid enough to pay for what is or should be a mutual investment in time. Is her time worth more than yours? Your buying food and drinks. That is enough. If you want to set the precedence that you are theirs to take advantage of pay pay away.[/QUOTE]I agree. I only pay a reasonable gas amount if they are driving to me.

I've had many drop dead gorgeous babies over the years. No pays to meet.

It also says a lot about their personalities. Self absorbed and can't fuck.

I will explain more later. But you should have seen her reaction when after she emailed me, I asked her if she was fro, Macedonia or Doylestown, priceless.

[QUOTE=DoubtingTom;4446855]She struck again and stood up another guy I know. What a time waster.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BudBowl2001;4448429]I will explain more later. But you should have seen her reaction when after she emailed me, I asked her if she was fro, Macedonia or Doylestown, priceless.[/QUOTE]Props, I see her profile is down now. .

Anyone watching Dateline NBC tonight? Featuring seeking arrangements.

Not that you would believe me, but I only stood one guy up. And that is because some of the things he was saying beforehand was making me very uncomfortable. I told him that and I wasn't sure if I wanted to meet. But he drove out to meet me anyways. Maybe I did not handle the situation the right way, but that doesn't automatically make me a horrible person. And it is sad because everyone gets his version of the story, but I am not able to defend myself. That is the only time I have ever done something like that. Others I have straight up told I was not interested and I don't think they liked that. I know a lot of girls on her are scammers or fake, but you don't see what kind of guys are on this site as well. So just take into account that there is two sides to every story.

[QUOTE=DoubtingTom;4446855]She struck again and stood up another guy I know. What a time waster.[/QUOTE]

Does she know about this site? Why would she say that it is sad that everyone gets his version of the story? Weird.

[QUOTE=BudBowl2001;4450726]Not that you would believe me, but I only stood one guy up. And that is because some of the things he was saying beforehand was making me very uncomfortable. I told him that and I wasn't sure if I wanted to meet. But he drove out to meet me anyways. Maybe I did not handle the situation the right way, but that doesn't automatically make me a horrible person. And it is sad because everyone gets his version of the story, but I am not able to defend myself. That is the only time I have ever done something like that. Others I have straight up told I was not interested and I don't think they liked that. I know a lot of girls on her are scammers or fake, but you don't see what kind of guys are on this site as well. So just take into account that there is two sides to every story.[/QUOTE]