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[QUOTE=Raslan;3279069]I never thought about that. I don't think it happens like it does with favoriting someone, but does that person get notified that you blocked them? I'm thinking it just shows that they are no longer on the site.[/QUOTE]Unfortunately SA doesn't differentiate between whether a member dropped their profile or just blocked you individually but still has their profile. I have often wanted to know myself.
[QUOTE=Raslan;3279089]Had continued to text the 26 yo exotic mix and it was getting insanely hot. She sent me p pics that were only missing my tongue! We agreed to meet for coffee per the usual chemistry check and I commented that it seemed silly as we knew the chemistry was there. She said to just come over to her place, that it would be so much more relaxed and we could talk freely.
I show up at her apartment and she is just like her pics. Hot. We're talking a while and she commented that she was glad I said I was coming casual, jeans, as she was glad to be in her shorts, t-shirt and no bra. Yes! I ask about her spouse and she says that she is trucker so gone a lot but that they have a very free relationship as she (spouse) knows that She (my hottie) doesn't get much attention.
We finally just started making out and it was on. Got her naked and went to town on the most gorgeous caramel snatch I've seen in a long time. She said she didn't O easily but I changed that! It was cute as she kept saying, "I'm nutting!" So I lay back and she slides onto me and she is grinding away! I "nutted" fairly early as she felt so fuggin good but I can stay hard so just let her keep going. She said I was the first guy in a few years!
All of a sudden we look up and there is someone, a guy, I think, in the room! Rough looking and I'm thinking I'm dead. She says it's her husband (Wait. What?? Thought you were married to a girl! And not to worry but to just leave her some money and leave. She had mentioned needing like $60 (not 160 FYI) and I told I was fine as I knew we'd be seeing each other a lot. I grabbed some cash from my wallet (more than the 60 since we did a lot more! Think it was about $180), dressed, grabbed my stuff and walked out. The person was just standing there in the living room as I left. I was freaking out for her safety. I kept texting her and she said it was fine. It turns out "he" was a "she", her spouse! Wow! Seriously butch! She (my hottie) said she (spouse) wants to be referred to herself as her husband since she really would rather be a guy. Confused yet?? I guess husband is OK with her seeing guys but not girls. She kept texting me saying it was fine, no worries. OK, guess I'll believe her.
She is so friggin hot and close by, no hotel to rent so she's a keeper. As long as husband isn't in town! Never want that to happen again!! She was pissed too because she said she was about to nut again! "Buzz kill" she said.
So, on another note, kept working a couple others by text that evening. Yes, I'm a dog. But, as we all know, this is a game of numbers!
Oh, my 24 yo wants to see me Wednesday!![/QUOTE]You were worried about her safety? . . I have only been busted once like that, and my life was in the balance for a moment. But the girls thug BF decided to kick her ass instead.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3279230]You can't tell what happened. You may have a message string from someone, and when you click the profile you get a notice that specifically says they have either deactivated their accounts or blocked you. You don't know which. About favoriting. I also use this a great deal to keep track of the activities of babies I am messaging. You get info about the last time they were on the site (in other words, are they blowing you off or have they really not been on to see your message). Interesting, you can simultaneously favorite and block someone, I think.[/QUOTE]I always favorite any girl that moves to a certain point in the conversation. Then put them in the spreadsheet if they agree to my terms. Here are my spreadsheet columns.
sa name
real name
age
height
weight
location
race
phone
$ amount agreed to
final verification - yes or no
notes
[QUOTE=Raslan;3279089]Had continued to text the 26 yo exotic mix and it was getting insanely hot. She sent me p pics that were only missing my tongue! We agreed to meet for coffee per the usual chemistry check and I commented that it seemed silly as we knew the chemistry was there. She said to just come over to her place, that it would be so much more relaxed and we could talk freely.
I show up at her apartment and she is just like her pics. Hot. We're talking a while and she commented that she was glad I said I was coming casual, jeans, as she was glad to be in her shorts, t-shirt and no bra. Yes! I ask about her spouse and she says that she is trucker so gone a lot but that they have a very free relationship as she (spouse) knows that She (my hottie) doesn't get much attention.
We finally just started making out and it was on. Got her naked and went to town on the most gorgeous caramel snatch I've seen in a long time. She said she didn't O easily but I changed that! It was cute as she kept saying, "I'm nutting!" So I lay back and she slides onto me and she is grinding away! I "nutted" fairly early as she felt so fuggin good but I can stay hard so just let her keep going. She said I was the first guy in a few years!
All of a sudden we look up and there is someone, a guy, I think, in the room! Rough looking and I'm thinking I'm dead. She says it's her husband (Wait. What?? Thought you were married to a girl! And not to worry but to just leave her some money and leave. She had mentioned needing like $60 (not 160 FYI) and I told I was fine as I knew we'd be seeing each other a lot. I grabbed some cash from my wallet (more than the 60 since we did a lot more! Think it was about $180), dressed, grabbed my stuff and walked out. The person was just standing there in the living room as I left. I was freaking out for her safety. I kept texting her and she said it was fine. It turns out "he" was a "she", her spouse! Wow! Seriously butch! She (my hottie) said she (spouse) wants to be referred to herself as her husband since she really would rather be a guy. Confused yet?? I guess husband is OK with her seeing guys but not girls. She kept texting me saying it was fine, no worries. OK, guess I'll believe her.
She is so friggin hot and close by, no hotel to rent so she's a keeper. As long as husband isn't in town! Never want that to happen again!! She was pissed too because she said she was about to nut again! "Buzz kill" she said.
So, on another note, kept working a couple others by text that evening. Yes, I'm a dog. But, as we all know, this is a game of numbers!
Oh, my 24 yo wants to see me Wednesday!![/QUOTE]Interesting experience glad things worked out. I have seen some butches. Some of them even have facial hair and are built like semi-trucks. You did good by offering extra to win over both their sides.
A good thing to do in your downtime is to review all the copy and paste responses you have saved in your SA folder. You do have those... right? Because most girls ask the same questions over and over. And there is no real way to talk to a lot of girls if you don't spend the time to have these responses at your fingertips. Of course you can modify them slightly to better fit any specific question, but i personally could not live without them.
Also this way you know you have absolutely the best possible responses and questions of your own. You will be amazed at how over time this will increase your game, and you get to the point where except in rare occasions you have the best answer to any question. This is sound advice even to those of you that speak very well extemporaneously, as we all get tired from time to time, and this way you won't inadvertently drop the ball.
I currently have 10 POTS on my list. Six black, two mixed, and two latinas. To qualify as a POT I have to have all the info listed a couple of posts down in my spreadsheet. Average age 19.5, average height 5.3, average weight 115 or less (i am guessing). As far as I can tell seven are SB's and three are UTR's. These are all at a $. At $$ I can't even imagine how many there would be.
In my demographic and for GND quality these are fairly priced at a $. If I wanted to step up to the real hotties in the same demographic, meaning the working models, or just the solid 8/9's they could go to $$. But no matter how good they look or how much you pay, until you are in the FC they are all equal. A 10 that knows she is a porn star could be $$$. More than that, at that age, I can't imagine. I think age has a lot to do with it, if they are older they may have acquired a taste for nicer things, and certainly if they are a college student and paying their own way that is going to cost you.
And then there are girls like the skater girl i was with a couple of days ago, her pics were very average, (so average I almost canceled). But in person she was really pretty and with a nice little body, and a great attitude. Definitely the prettiest girl of the six I met this year.
I have to agree with HG! I have learned that age is a direct correlation with the money asked. In my experience 24 yr olds an up ask for more, I met a 30 yr old black chic the other day, I was hesitant to meet her because she seemed super Utr asked for $$ Initially I didn't want to meet because it was more then the norm but I got a room so she asked for $$. 2. I only agreed to that because she said she would be coo with a bbj. Cim. This chic was a champ got 2 off with her. Her riding skills were amazing! When I was with her I told her why I was hesitant she told me I can come to her house next time. Had a great time. But I'm now talking to a 19 yr old she wants $ and is willing to stay the weekend. She told me she works so she doent need her bills paid she just wants to have fun super sub type, my main chic is 20 yrs old $$ a visit, don't get me wrong you will get the occasional girl that's 19 asking for a stupid amount I think this type would become more realistic after they get declines from guys. The problem is guys will give a girl a crazy amount which inforces their mentality,. A chic told me she wanted $ for her nudes LOL I laughed smh these women!
Going to an M&G after work with a petite 18 year old, newly arrived in town. She says she does not smoke, drink or use drugs. But has a kinky side. She may be willing to trade room and board for an arrangement. Right now I wouldn't mind something like that. She is also bi-curious and curious about my lifestyle. Hope she's cute and willing. Her pics are not too clear.
So I took the risk and picked up the below mention girl right from the bus station. A little risky for sure, but so far she is everything she described to me while she was on the bus. We slept together but there was no sex (and also no sugar). She is very tiny (5.2 - 110, perfect butt), very healthy and doesn't eat much. So its a live in roommate situation at low civi date rates for now. We will probably go to the movies tonite. A fair amount of cuddling so far and PDA. She is pretty affectionate overall. This could lead to something semi-permanent. But its only day two. I told her if she didn't relieve some of the sexual tension I would have to toss her out for a couple of hours to get some until she makes up her mind. But for now at least I have some steady, attractive and quite company to fill up my day.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3282291]So I took the risk and picked up the below mention girl right from the bus station. A little risky for sure, but so far she is everything she described to me while she was on the bus. We slept together but there was no sex (and also no sugar). She is very tiny (5.2 - 110, perfect butt), very healthy and doesn't eat much. So its a live in roommate situation at low civi date rates for now. We will probably go to the movies tonite. A fair amount of cuddling so far and PDA. She is pretty affectionate overall. This could lead to something semi-permanent. But its only day two. I told her if she didn't relieve some of the sexual tension I would have to toss her out for a couple of hours to get some until she makes up her mind. But for now at least I have some steady, attractive and quite company to fill up my day.[/QUOTE]From what I've read over the months, you've had some real challenges in your life HG. Glad that this small treasure may help you find some well deserved pleasure.
[QUOTE=Rouleur;3282332]From what I've read over the months, you've had some real challenges in your life HG. Glad that this small treasure may help you find some well deserved pleasure.[/QUOTE]I hope so. But being here in L. A. is culture shocking for this very middle/upper class background girl. She is softening a bit but she is not used to the fast lane at all. She did a agree that a HJ is NBD, and that she could probably handle that. LOL. Maybe tomorrow. I am on my best behavior for now. Got her nails done today. Hair on Saturday. At that point there better be some movement or I don't think I could take it. So all we do is cuddle for hours a day. Its a start and I like the affection. And thanks.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3279666]Unfortunately SA doesn't differentiate between whether a member dropped their profile or just blocked you individually but still has their profile. I have often wanted to know myself.[/QUOTE]A couple of years ago on SA you could tell if you was blocked. You would get a notice stating that you had been blocked by this member when attempting to messaging then. When or why they went to the previous method I have no idea. The last time I received a blocked message was in September of 2015.
Frustration w / M&Gs are as common stories for SDs as bad beats for gamblers. I try to restrain myself here, but seriously. I have an extensive message trail w / a mid-20's girl and we finally set up the meet. She shows up, and has clearly used pics that aren't her (she says mixed race on her profile but didn't mention a key part). She can see my disappointment so she bails out very quickly, then texts me, throwing shade on my behavior, complaining about wasted time, gas, etc. I apologize and go silent, forget about her. That was 2 weeks ago. Yesterday I get a cheery text from her, hi, good morning, how are you. Huh? Either she's been messaging w / so many guys she doesn't have any way to keep us straight, or she's just nuts. My practice is not to engage in situations like this, just play jiu jitsu, but this one was sorely tempting.
[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3282842]A couple of years ago on SA you could tell if you was blocked. You would get a notice stating that you had been blocked by this member when attempting to messaging then. When or why they went to the previous method I have no idea. The last time I received a blocked message was in September of 2015.[/QUOTE]I get blocked regularly.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3283309]Frustration w / M&Gs are as common stories for SDs as bad beats for gamblers. I try to restrain myself here, but seriously. I have an extensive message trail w / a mid-20's girl and we finally set up the meet. She shows up, and has clearly used pics that aren't her (she says mixed race on her profile but didn't mention a key part). She can see my disappointment so she bails out very quickly, then texts me, throwing shade on my behavior, complaining about wasted time, gas, etc. I apologize and go silent, forget about her. That was 2 weeks ago. Yesterday I get a cheery text from her, hi, good morning, how are you. Huh? Either she's been messaging w / so many guys she doesn't have any way to keep us straight, or she's just nuts. My practice is not to engage in situations like this, just play jiu jitsu, but this one was sorely tempting.[/QUOTE]Either way. Its good that you walked. Spacey girls are the worst. But my skater date did have to ask me for my name again right before she got me off. LOL.
Today my new roomy was walking around in her panties only. But I can get prick teased by any girl. So still patiently waiting. On the upside she has perfect nips.