Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

[QUOTE=Glockman;2652294]Post another pic of Nicole in Elmer Blatters or one of Bea the spinner. Just drinking a glass of chard and having a cigar. Don't know. Thinking about Elmer Batters.[/QUOTE]Greetings from Memphis. I'll just do both!

[QUOTE=SinfulDreams;2583018]Is there a particular reason why so many ads of the same girl need to be placed?? I don't get it. And I can tell you the guys don't care for it also, and in the long run that is who you are trying to impress. Remember that when you are placing numerous ads, and yes I know not all of us are great at spelling and grammar, but can you use spell check? In this business you want to show yourself as an educated professional. Saying add instead of ad, and CUM in big bold letters doesn't do it. If you want to just be that girl who is a revolving door, and you don't care, then by all means keep doing what you are doing. But, if you want to make a great profession at this, like several of us have, then clean it up a bit.

As far as the multiple ads, I promise you if you just do one, it will stand out versus multiple that they will just scroll past. Just a bit of advice whether you take it or not.

Rant over.[/QUOTE][URL]http://cincinnati.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/angel-513-615-5936-call-me-and-let-me-show-you-a-great-time/24917769[/URL]

Look at the connection between the Starr chick and the Blonde (Angel but her real name is Emily).

[QUOTE=Serhan1978;2654171][URL]http://cincinnati.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/angel-513-615-5936-call-me-and-let-me-show-you-a-great-time/24917769[/URL]

Look at the connection between the Starr chick and the Blonde (Angel but her real name is Emily).[/QUOTE]I believe the connection of the two is the same handler. Its been posted here that Emily has a AA handler so maybe Starr does too. Just my opinion. Be safe.

[QUOTE=Davem7643;2654300]I believe the connection of the two is the same handler. Its been posted here that Emily has a AA handler so maybe Starr does too. Just my opinion. Be safe.[/QUOTE]Maybe I am in the minority here, but has Starr actually done anything wrong like cash-and-dash, shorted a guy on time, not deliver services, flaked on an appointment, etc. ? Aside from some people having sub par experiences, has there been any issue at all with her legitimacy or anything re: safety? I don't remember reading any.

So what if a girl posts from the same account, or if they have a handler? Starr delivers, so if anyone is linked to her, it should be viewed as a POSITIVE.

[QUOTE=DNut;2654488]Maybe I am in the minority here, but has Starr actually done anything wrong like cash-and-dash, shorted a guy on time, not deliver services, flaked on an appointment, etc. ? Aside from some people having sub par experiences, has there been any issue at all with her legitimacy or anyth8 ng re: safety? I don't remember reading any.

So what if a girl posts from the same account, or if they have a handler? Starr delivers, so if anyone is linked to her, it should be viewed as a POSITIVE.[/QUOTE]Just referring to a post on the USA section dated 10/8/15 about Emily Flinker. It stated she has a handler. I wasn't trying to knock on Starr.

[QUOTE=Davem7643;2654507]Just referring to a post on the USA section dated 10/8/15 about Emily Flinker. It stated she has a handler. I wasn't trying to knock on Starr.[/QUOTE]I think this is a valid comment, at least she did not cash and dash. I saw Starr about a week ago. She liked the money and threw it out the window to somebody 'to get diapers for her kids'. Service was desultory, uninterested and pathetic.

Isn't it interesting how girls say they're GFE when most mongers are out playing because girlfriends or wives give a bad or no experience? Maybe we should use DGFE (drunk girlfriend experience) or PGFE (paid girlfriend experience).

Ok some of you knowledgeable people update a guy stuck in the 70's. From time to time I see where some of you do research through facebook. Is this something I could set up as a fictitious user and not easily have tracked back to me?

As of now I do not have a FB account because I like my life to remain private. My wife has one and the more she tries to explain it the more confused I become. It is hard for me to understand who gets to see what I post.

I have a second question and I hope it is ok since there is a BP thread on here. From time to time I see a commrent of a review on BP. Is there a section on BP where you can leave reviews?

Thanks,

Fdx.

[QUOTE=Fatdaddy3750;2654627]I think this is a valid comment, at least she did not cash and dash. I saw Starr about a week ago. She liked the money and threw it out the window to somebody 'to get diapers for her kids'. Service was desultory, uninterested and pathetic.[/QUOTE]Whice tells you she didn't need ten for baby diapers. She needed them to diaper her drug fix.

[QUOTE=Gatty23;2657288]Isn't it interesting how girls say they're GFE when most mongers are out playing because girlfriends or wives give a bad or no experience? Maybe we should use DGFE (drunk girlfriend experience) or PGFE (paid girlfriend experience).[/QUOTE]You are a philosopher. I know what's up and it amazes me how everything comes full circle. Time to go back to the significant other. Give her a revisit and another shot! Take her out and get her tipsy. These ladys are all starting to resemble the S / O in one way or another. Many are completely and utterly unskilled. So, yes its the GFE! Well said. Guys need to wake up a bit I think. They may be more open than you want to think and open to new adventures. And hey, can't beat the company.

I just wanted to make a quick post and thank some of the "veteran" providers for responding to reference checks (and being honest if they aren't sure who we're inquiring about). VelvetRayne & Christina have always responded with lightning speed and the exact information requested, and for that I am grateful. It sucks that some have made this a competition and some even go as far as to hassle the gentleman needing a reference (why don't you come see me for less. Why are you seeing soandso, I thought I was your favorite, etc. Etc.). We do not have any ownership rights to the gentlemen who are kind enough to reward us so generously for spending time together. Whoever the providers are that are making gentlemen afraid to even use them as a reference, please grow up and remember we need to look out for one another just as these guys look out for one another, too.

I am happy to recommend other providers, especially if I am unable to provide services requested, or am unavailable. I usually refer the same two people, but that's because I know they are careful, clean, and invest the same amount and type of effort as I do back into this 'job' (have several sets of clean bed linens, offensive amount of clean towels, lots of protection, candles, always 'hair-wet-shower-fresh, and things of the like).

We don't have to be friends. We don't even have to like one another. However. We can respect one another and know that we all take a daily risk, and can work together to keep that risk at a minimum.

Anyway, that's all I have to say about that. I apologize to providers I didn't name that also help with reference checks. I'm terrible with names!

[QUOTE=Davem7643;2654507]Just referring to a post on the USA section dated 10/8/15 about Emily Flinker. It stated she has a handler. I wasn't trying to knock on Starr.[/QUOTE]Hopefully her new handler is the one who told her using her real first and last name is like going full-retard.

Let me start this by saying that the awful review that everyone is talking about is complete fabrication. They're is nothing in it that is true, except that he and I met. I did post a full explanation about it the day after, which has now been deleted by admin, without a trace, I remind you. Usually, isn't there an explanation? At first I was mad about that, but I would like to thank admin for removing it because for one thing, it don't matter what I, or anyone else says, people going to believe what they want. And for two, I really don't like for anything detailed to be posted about me that would draw anymore attention to me than the level of attention that every other provider gets. So deleting such a detailed account of things, was not something that I would have done had I given it just a little more thought. So yea, thanks. Oh, I forgot to mention, anyone else catch where a SENIOR member had posted something titled "Very Questionable" as a reply to the "Sammi shade-tart," siting his opinion on the matter, being someone who has seen me, I thought that he was entitled to that, post gone without explanation as well. I have read where people call this board just a place where it is advocated to slander women without repercussion. While I do not agree with their tactics of going and posting things bad about this placeon on some complaint board, to me, that is kind of like being a snitch or working with le, so understand that I am not the type to gossip like that or do no stuff like that. I just wanted to say that I can see why people would, or could, get that impression about our place here. It's the members who give the place a name like that. It's not everyone, there are some really cool guys on here! But there are a percentage of us who really ruin it for the others. The attitude of this percentage of people is completely intolerable and would be unacceptable if it were not for the need on behalf of the women here! You know who you are. The ones who come a session with the attitude that they own a girl and she better do as they say and that they have the right to be outraged if a girl does not want to do a certain act or don't like a certain thing that they want, those are the ones who have a bad session. That's like the guys who want to complain about texting with a girl and then hearing "Crickets" but has no problem sending the crickets the girls way in the middle of texting after HE just initiated contact! Lmao This sort of mentality is generally an ok way to be here. I realise that the girls have problems to, probably just as bad as the guys or worse, that's why I said that it's a percentage of "members". The guys who go into a session with a chill attitude, who really don't want to do something that that a girl don't like because they want to be sure that she enjoys as well, these are the guys who have good sessions. The "it's mine because I bought it" mentality is what paves the way for guys like the one who wrote these lies about me to just say or do what they wants whenever they want to ruin someone with no repercussions. No one is allowed to take up for me anywhere that would match tje force of a bogus review like that. He gets to say all that over there and I'll be lucky if this makes the cut over here at rants and raves. Lmao! But anyways, while I may have had a handful of sessions that I will admit, did not go the best, it was only ever with clients who have the poor mentality that I mentioned above. You come into a session with me with a smile and not LOOKING for a reason to complain and seem like a guy who is with his girlfriend about to do it, you're going to have a good time! That's what I sell, the girlfriend experience, so why would you come into a session with the attitude like I'm your slave and I should do anything that you say? If you knew how to act, you might figure out how finesse a girl into WANTING to do anything you'd like to do. But I was saying, any guy who knows me knows that I'm not like alot of the girls out there today, I do not wrestle with the demons that alot of girls my age do, I do not use drugs. This review is just totally not me and anyone who had seen me, knows it! But my rant ends here, I hope that there are some out here who know that this bs about me isn't true and others who want to prove it wrong. Thanks for listening. No response needed, I just wanted to say all that, just once, for all to hear. There are some messed up people out there! But to all the nice gents out there, goodnight, good day, whatever it may be as you are finishing reading this. Xoxo sami.

Which one of you mongers knocked her up?

[QUOTE=TheGardener1;2664101]Which one of you mongers knocked her up?[/QUOTE]It couldn't be me I'm fixed. I sure did have fun with her though.

Serhan, what exactly is your obsession with her? Why exactly have you fixated your lunacy on her? I have seen her many times and partaken in most riskiest acts with her. Someone is masquerading as her on BP (which I suspect to be you) and posting that she has diseases yet I have never caught anything from her despite partaking in the most riskiest act with her. It is also evident that there are two streams of ads from her which is obviously written by two different people with different prose and lexicon. One being legit and the other being the impostor. The BP ads from the impostor are also very similar to the original cl ads that use to be posted that claimed she was taking hiv and drug medication daily. Only the impostor ads have been using her full real name so I wouldnt go ahead calling her retarded yet. There are pictures of you and her together all over the internet and you also slander her on a very popular gossip site under the cincinnati section. I can tell because writing styles are very similar to your posts on here and the content is always the same repetition but only worded differently to give the imagery of different users posting about her. To add to further damage, cl rants regularly pop up making similar accusations against her posting private information about her. It is too late to try to scare away mongers from seeing her since I reckon she has already seen hundreds of guys and barebacked the majority of them so she is already quite tainted. Are you just jealous or are you trying to get vengeance for a transgression in the past?





[QUOTE=Serhan1978;2664599]She did that from the beginning. Problem is she has tried to hide it with a different approach and look, but the problem is everyone knows who (and what) she really is. She is one of those desperate for her h fix to where she makes ads suggesting it as such. And it turns out, she uses his phone for clientele. And not to mention this handler is known to be outside looking for the cars her clients drive so he can rob them of anything extra, on top of being a dope boy himself.

She is mass trouble for anyone that considers getting involved with her.

Pm me for in depth details if interested.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SamiSweetheart;2663369]Let me start this by saying that the awful review that everyone is talking about is complete fabrication. They're is nothing in it that is true, except that he and I met. I did post a full explanation about it the day after, which has now been deleted by admin, without a trace, I remind you. Usually, isn't there an explanation? At first I was mad about that, but I would like to thank admin for removing it because for one thing, it don't matter what I, or anyone else says, people going to believe what they want. And for two, I really don't like for anything detailed to be posted about me that would draw anymore attention to me than the level of attention that every other provider gets. So deleting such a detailed account of things, was not something that I would have done had I given it just a little more thought. So yea, thanks. Oh, I forgot to mention, anyone else catch where a SENIOR member had posted something titled "Very Questionable" as a reply to the "Sammi shade-tart," siting his opinion on the matter, being someone who has seen me, I thought that he was entitled to that, post gone without explanation as well. I have read where people call this board just a place where it is advocated to slander women without repercussion. While I do not agree with their tactics of going and posting things bad about this placeon on some complaint board, to me, that is kind of like being a snitch or working with le, so understand that I am not the type to gossip like that or do no stuff like that. I just wanted to say that I can see why people would, or could, get that impression about our place here. It's the members who give the place a name like that. It's not everyone, there are some really cool guys on here! But there are a percentage of us who really ruin it for the others. The attitude of this percentage of people is completely intolerable and would be unacceptable if it were not for the need on behalf of the women here! You know who you are. The ones who come a session with the attitude that they own a girl and she better do as they say and that they have the right to be outraged if a girl does not want to do a certain act or don't like a certain thing that they want, those are the ones who have a bad session. That's like the guys who want to complain about texting with a girl and then hearing "Crickets" but has no problem sending the crickets the girls way in the middle of texting after HE just initiated contact! Lmao This sort of mentality is generally an ok way to be here. I realise that the girls have problems to, probably just as bad as the guys or worse, that's why I said that it's a percentage of "members". The guys who go into a session with a chill attitude, who really don't want to do something that that a girl don't like because they want to be sure that she enjoys as well, these are the guys who have good sessions. The "it's mine because I bought it" mentality is what paves the way for guys like the one who wrote these lies about me to just say or do what they wants whenever they want to ruin someone with no repercussions. No one is allowed to take up for me anywhere that would match tje force of a bogus review like that. He gets to say all that over there and I'll be lucky if this makes the cut over here at rants and raves. Lmao! But anyways, while I may have had a handful of sessions that I will admit, did not go the best, it was only ever with clients who have the poor mentality that I mentioned above. You come into a session with me with a smile and not LOOKING for a reason to complain and seem like a guy who is with his girlfriend about to do it, you're going to have a good time! That's what I sell, the girlfriend experience, so why would you come into a session with the attitude like I'm your slave and I should do anything that you say? If you knew how to act, you might figure out how finesse a girl into WANTING to do anything you'd like to do. But I was saying, any guy who knows me knows that I'm not like alot of the girls out there today, I do not wrestle with the demons that alot of girls my age do, I do not use drugs. This review is just totally not me and anyone who had seen me, knows it! But my rant ends here, I hope that there are some out here who know that this bs about me isn't true and others who want to prove it wrong. Thanks for listening. No response needed, I just wanted to say all that, just once, for all to hear. There are some messed up people out there! But to all the nice gents out there, goodnight, good day, whatever it may be as you are finishing reading this. Xoxo sami.[/QUOTE]Holy crap Sami. Mix in a paragraph or two. It makes the reading sooooo much easier. I had to stop reading after the lst 3 lines.

Hope all is well.

[QUOTE=TheGardener1;2664101]Which one of you mongers knocked her up?[/QUOTE]No worries gardener,I wasn't knocked up by any monger, although I'm sure it would be quite amusing to you if I had, and even better if I had No Idea who it was. I was pregnant when I began, and I didn't think it was necessary to announce, unless it would affect the experience of the men I see. After receiving a good review that mentioned I have a slight pouch in belly, I decided it was time to mention the fact that I am pregnant. Some guys are into this and some would be turned off,so it is only fair and right for me to be honest. A few good points I would like to mention are as follows: My breast, already DD are getting bigger daily and very sensitive in a Great way. 2: Only place I have any weight gain is my belly and breast. 3: Pregnancy makes you Horny! Hope everyone has a Great week and tons of sex!! Even you green thumb!

[QUOTE=LusciousLips;2664708]No worries gardener,I wasn't knocked up by any monger, although I'm sure it would be quite amusing to you if I had, and even better if I had No Idea who it was. I was pregnant when I began, and I didn't think it was necessary to announce, unless it would affect the experience of the men I see. After receiving a good review that mentioned I have a slight pouch in belly, I decided it was time to mention the fact that I am pregnant. Some guys are into this and some would be turned off,so it is only fair and right for me to be honest. A few good points I would like to mention are as follows: My breast, already DD are getting bigger daily and very sensitive in a Great way. 2: Only place I have any weight gain is my belly and breast. 3: Pregnancy makes you Horny! Hope everyone has a Great week and tons of sex!! Even you green thumb![/QUOTE]What kind on jackass is Gardener?

A provider makes full disclosure and he mocks / belittles the disclosure. I'm not a white knight and from her response, she doesn't need / want one any way. I'll be back to see her. Pregnant isn't my thing, but she is a lot of fun.

[QUOTE=Fatdaddy3750;2665345]What kind on jackass is Gardener?

A provider makes full disclosure and he mocks / belittles the disclosure. I'm not a white knight and from her response, she doesn't need / want one any way. I'll be back to see her. Pregnant isn't my thing, but she is a lot of fun.[/QUOTE]This place is not really for the ladies, it's for us guys. It was a joke for the guys, by a guy. I don't think it was a personal attack on LL. Hell, if any working girl comes up Prego, my first thought would be, was it a monger? And does anyone know, who the daddy is. It's not beyond the realm of possibility think to think it may have been a monger created baby. If a girl walks into the men's locker room she probably going to here some rude, crude or otherwise off putting remarks or jokes.

I don't think he would be happy that it was a mongers baby nor do I think he would find any special joy if she didn't know who the father was. I think it was just a joke. That's the way I took it. I didn't fall off my chair laughing but I thought it was a bit humorous. If at a minimum 50% of the guys reading won't admit to wondering to them selves, what he jokingly said I'd say that, at least 50% of the people, are full of shit.

He made a joke about what many were probably thinking. Don't take it personal.

I don't make babies, but I sure like to practice!

Stay safe.

BuyingSmiles!

Why is everyone shitting up the USA section with talk of this chick when she doesn't even post there? It is getting difficult to find actual reviews anymore.

[QUOTE=LusciousLips;2664708]No worries gardener,I wasn't knocked up by any monger, although I'm sure it would be quite amusing to you if I had, and even better if I had No Idea who it was. I was pregnant when I began, and I didn't think it was necessary to announce, unless it would affect the experience of the men I see. After receiving a good review that mentioned I have a slight pouch in belly, I decided it was time to mention the fact that I am pregnant. Some guys are into this and some would be turned off,so it is only fair and right for me to be honest. A few good points I would like to mention are as follows: My breast, already DD are getting bigger daily and very sensitive in a Great way. 2: Only place I have any weight gain is my belly and breast. 3: Pregnancy makes you Horny! Hope everyone has a Great week and tons of sex!! Even you green thumb![/QUOTE]Just a joke not meant to be taken literally! Haha.

[QUOTE=Fatdaddy3750;2665345]What kind on jackass is Gardener?

A provider makes full disclosure and he mocks / belittles the disclosure. I'm not a white knight and from her response, she doesn't need / want one any way. I'll be back to see her. Pregnant isn't my thing, but she is a lot of fun.[/QUOTE]I must have missed the disclosure if it was posted here. My apologies fatass.

Please post a real review, instead of giving us your window shopping diary. Out of 24 posts I think 2 maybe reviews but not sure about that even.

Been taking care of a local Cincinnati guy here in Memphis. I'm king in Memphis. Keep me in mind.

I stopped to get some ice cream and when I drove around well known notel on Rt 4 and LEO was parked next door in a rather obscure spot. There are some nice girls in the area, but I always pass because this place scares the hell out of me. I wish the ladies would pack up and move. STAY SAFE.

[QUOTE=Glockman;2668150]Been taking care of a local Cincinnati guy here in Memphis. I'm king in Memphis. Keep me in mind.[/QUOTE]That's a bit strong. At best merely a duke. 😇.

[QUOTE=Glockman;2668150]Been taking care of a local Cincinnati guy here in Memphis. I'm king in Memphis. Keep me in mind.[/QUOTE]Hopefully you mean that your lady friends (not you) are taking care of him. LOL Keep posting those pics.

[QUOTE=Gatty23;2668597]Hopefully you mean that your lady friends (not you) are taking care of him. LOL Keep posting those pics.[/QUOTE]Yes indeed, it was my lady friends whom I got to take care of him. Here is one of them that I photographed the day after she visited him. Luckily, she wasn't worn out!

Nice to know where the SW are working, on what day, at what time, now you get it. Some of us don't want to drive everywhere, not just my opinion.

Spent some time in Memphis recently. I was bored and got the urge. Reached out to our adopted resident glockman for some info. He was able to provide all the Intel plus some.

If anyone ends up in Memphis, hit up GM. He is a gentleman and scholar. The chicks love him and will make sure they don't disappoint.

I owe him a drink and smoke next time. Thanks again glockman.

A lot of buzz going on for this chick. If the pictures are real I would make an appointment. However without contact info kinda difficult. Anyone out there able to put me in touch with her?

[QUOTE=Idiot;2671215]A lot of buzz going on for this chick. If the pictures are real I would make an appointment. However without contact info kinda difficult. Anyone out there able to put me in touch with her?[/QUOTE]Just reply to her BP page (little oval just under the title) search "Barbie 20" to find the ad.

[QUOTE=LickClit;2668841]Nice to know where the SW are working, on what day, at what time, now you get it. Some of us don't want to drive everywhere, not just my opinion.[/QUOTE]There is plenty of info on where to find SWs. And outside of the zones for a few blocks and then even in random places like across from stumps bowling alley on Bridgetown rd. The times and days are not like the metro schedule like you believe. It is more like fishing. Sometimes they are out and biting and sometimes they are not, depends on barometer (LEO presence), food (amount of mongers cruising. Believe me they know), biorhythm (light users are out once a day, heavy users are out after their high is gone). One SW told me she tires to get $$ a day for her habit that's a lot of H. I have seen days when there are quite a few out in the rain and then none when its sunny. Seniors can vouch that telling us when they are not out is like yesterdays USNews. Be safe T69.

I do everything covered with providers (including BJs) and I never go down on them. No exceptions. It is true that some providers are not very insistent on us wearing covers. I've been with a couple who were clearly ok with BBFS. I'm sure some providers will allow repeat customers the option of BBFS. But even if you get with providers who insist on covers for all activities, there are still a couple complications there. First, they may not offer us BBFS, but I operate on the assumption that the vast majority are offering guys BB in their personal lives. Who knows where some of those guys' tallywhackers have been. Then, I operate on the assumption that about 85% of them are using H and that a fair number have, at the least, Hep see.

I know that using protection 100% of the time, no exceptions, doesn't mean I'm 100% protected. But I like those odds better than doing anything without a cover.

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Thought I'd post here, it's getting good. I'm inclined to take the attitude that, if she can't make a success at the game, then by all means bail out. But just being in the Hobby is not a failure for a woman.

Consider Molly Daniels, 2 homes, plentiful vacations, and generous friends. Some in influncial places. How about Silk. Think of all the successful concubines in some of the larger metropolitan areas, world wide.

Don't label all these ladies as loosers. Sure the bottom is loaded with sad situations, drugs and alcohol addiction. But don't paint everyone with the same brush.

Personally I have been friends with many of my Hobby acquaintances throughout my life and still am today. How in the hell, as a Monger, could I hold myself above a provider? I can't and don't. Thanks, LM.

[QUOTE=LeoMac;2676784]Thought I'd post here, it's getting good. I'm inclined to take the attitude that, if she can't make a success at the game, then by all means bail out. But just being in the Hobby is not a failure for a woman.

Consider Molly Daniels, 2 homes, plentiful vacations, and generous friends. Some in influncial places. How about Silk. Think of all the successful concubines in some of the larger metropolitan areas, world wide.

Don't label all these ladies as loosers. Sure the bottom is loaded with sad situations, drugs and alcohol addiction. But don't paint everyone with the same brush.

Personally I have been friends with many of my Hobby acquaintances throughout my life and still am today. How in the hell, as a Monger, could I hold myself above a provider? I can't and don't. Thanks, LM.[/QUOTE]I've seen a lot that I have not given my rewards to, (jessie jane! - baby face ashley) some know what they are doing with there cash some are shooting it up can't all be winners.

There is help all over the place. Treatement centers, rehabs, etc. It's ALL up to them. And knowing a few of these that are on the h, I can say that is why I quit this because I don't want to become an enabler.

Before anyone can help them get off the h, they would have to want to get off it themselves.

[QUOTE=SinfulDreams;2678301]I lost someone I was seeing Friday. He overdosed, and didn't wake up. We will find out what it is soon, but some of my close friends are saying Heroin. I don't want to believe that, but it is what it is. He was happy, and doing so well, but yet hiding so much that I and others didn't know about.

The reason why I am writing this is because of some of the posts I see about still being with the provider even if she is on drugs. Do you NOT get what you are doing? You are continuing her high, and making it that much harder for her to quit, or that much easier for her not to be around possibly.

If you see someone with an addiction, get them help, instead of getting them high.

Ladies I know you won't like this post, but please get the help you need, instead of getting high and possibly not being around to share your memories with friends and loved ones. This drug and any drug for that matter is so dangerous. Find something else that can replace that, like having an inane amount of sexual appetite or something. But please give up the drugs.[/QUOTE]