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[QUOTE=Cavaliers;4369472]" Slippery Slope ".
I noticed you said you've done it and left it at that. I'm assuming it was a Slippery Slope LOL.[/QUOTE]Yep, Without going into intimate details they, yes I said they, were like all relationships a "slippery slope" being mindful of the footing. Going in knowing what it is or could or couldn't be helped out tremendously "eyes wide open".
[QUOTE=CharlesBnTn;4370261]Found the same provider on AdultLook: [URL]https://www.adultlook.com/p/3062030[/URL].
Directed me to another site to watch her video ($40) paid by CC and deducted from my first visit.
All togerher now, "LOL![/QUOTE]That's not Syn. I dreamed with Syn a few months back and she is in this ad. [URL]https://www.adultlook.com/p/2947855[/URL].
Her room was a little messy, but she is a real tasty treat. Highly recommend. Her sister is Sierra Lashay.
Dreamed with Charlene the other day drugs has really messed her up I'd stay clear.
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Contacted her, she first asked if I was LEO, after confirm I wasn't, her rates were 80,120,200. BBBJ was offered, no anal, covered for the rest. No kissing and no DATY. I passed as I was looking for GFE.
I then contacted Molly menace on skip. I know the history, but what a great pic of her lying on her side with those beautiful boobs. Anyway asked if she was available, hour later got a reply saying yes, I then txt menu and rate. She ghosted.
I can only monger am to early afternoon. I think that is limiting my time cause of providers staying up real late.
I'm using face book as well. Found providers and searched their friend list and contacted a few UTR. They won't allow me to post, cause they like the UTR. I will say, UTRs from Facebook have contacted me more out of the blue needing help. I have gotten 60 fir BBBJWS. So FB with a little work can and has done better than SA for me. Stay safe.
This is terrible news. I visited her a couple of times last year. Aside from her talking more than I liked, she was outstanding. I was actually thinking of another visit to break my dry spell. Thank you for saving me from disappointment.
[QUOTE=SatAKing2;4370666]Dreamed with Charlene the other day drugs has really messed her up I'd stay clear.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=HobbyOnTheQT;4368779]
I've thought about what it must be like when providers I've seen mentioned boyfriends. Many questions that I never bothered asking. I'm curious about relationship dynamics and whether or not it would be considered an "open" relationship. Is it only ok to get down with someone else if you're getting paid? Would it ever be considered a "committed" relationship? Are the guys just happy to get freebies from a chick that other guys have to give gifts to? If he got with another chick, would she be mad about it? If he got with another provider would she be offended? Do guys ask them to stop and find a legit job?
Like I said. Too many questions and the answers will all be different depending on the situation.[/QUOTE]I can only answer for myself and my circumstances but here ya go.
Open relationship?
No at least not in the usual sense. There isn't some preconceived notion that its ok to have intimate / romantic encounters with whomever you please and it be an acceptable affair. However I just happen to have a partner with a very openminded outlook who at the same time remains respectful of me and my boundries. This career choice was made in light of the relationship I have not in spite of it.
Is it only ok when there is payment?
No, other examples of times its ok is if its requested by your partner or something your partner and you choose to participate in together in a situation where there is no pressure or self-serving intent.
Committed relationship?
Absolutely. 100% for the past 8 years. There are many factors that make up a relationship. Sex is not a relationship though a relationship will almost always include sex. There are deeper aspects and an overall connection that binds two individuals together in a committed relationship.
Are guys gloating on their "all access pass" vs. "general admission"?
Ummm. This is a rather disturbing thought. What kind of ignorant fool would think that this would be a worthy enough reason to pursue a relationship with someone. I can only assume that this type of immature behavoir would only come from someone trying to overcompensate due to low self esteem. Thinking it would earn you "bragging rights" or make you look "cool" just screams "uneducated thug. " I mean say I came across a Crocodile Hermes Birkin, just by chance. Does that make me feel superior to someone who took their hard earned cash and purchased one? HELL NO. I'm the motherfucker who just got lucky and that's the mf who can afford to drop 25 k on a handbag and enjoy the finer things in life because they got their shit together. If I ever came accross a man with this type of mentality. I can guarantee that hed not be included in this picture, inciting any curiosities about relationship dynamics. For my more direct answer: doubtful seeing as he has said "I know who your coming home to. It just wouldn't seem right to keep your talents all to myself. I think its something other people should get to experience at least once" plus its not really applicable since we were already 6 years into our relationship when I made this career choice.
Him with another chick=anger?
You bet your ass I would be pissed that's called infidelity without without precedented exceptions. I came into the relationship with my unique interests / fetishes / perceptions and he came into the relationship with his. That does not mean that just because something excites me it has to excite him and vice versa. Nor does it mean that just because I might feel comfortable giving him something that he desires that suddenly I'd be turned on if he were to want the same thing. When its becomes his turn it would not be a case of swapping the roles of his vision, it would be a case of him catering to a fantasy of mine. Given that there have never been any misconceptions about how although I want to appeal to his desires, if the shoe was on the other foot, I would not find the situation pleasurable then should be no expectations or assumptions stating otherwise. An exception would be if I were to invite another female to enjoy him with or without me.
Offended by another provider?
😆 let me find out the man I'm in a committed relationship with pays another provider to take care of his needs. First off he never has any needs left. I chose sexwork because I thoroughly enjoy what it entails so why would I not present that same eager enthusiasm at home within my relationship. ? Trust me I'm the one that's insatiable when it comes to bedroom endeavors not him. Now the thought has been tossed around that we might hire a provider together to avoid the hassle of picking up a chick who doesn't have ulterior motives and we can send packing when the fun is over.
Stop and find a legit job?
No. I always had a "legit job" prior to this and I am quite capable and qualified to find another. He's aware of this and frankly could care less what I do as long as it isn't making me miserable or affecting our relationship. He has made it clear that if I'm at any time not happy with what I'm doing that he wouldn't want me to continue. He respects me the same whether I'm entertaining or holding a corporate position somewhere.
But as you said there'd be a different answer every time.
[QUOTE=SatAKing2;4370666]Dreamed with Charlene the other day drugs has really messed her up I'd stay clear.[/QUOTE][URL]http://huntsville-al.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/hot-college-babe-wants-to-teas/946165429605[/URL]
Is this the Charlene you were referring too. Thanks!!
- DB.
[QUOTE=HobbyOnTheQT;4370113]So who's all bailed on a meeting and why? Where are some lines drawn that make you say "Nope, I'm out. ".
It's been twice for me. One was at one of the roach motels on the parkway. It started ok. Showered with her and things seemed to be looking good. Then she grabbed her phone and actually asked if I minded if she called her dealer to score. Sorry. Out. She advertised on BP and haven't seen her around lately. Can't even remember the name.
The second was just recently. Thought I was going to meet a hot UTR from FB. She was asking for a fairly big donation but by the looks of her profile pic I thought maybe worth it. Well, pics can be deceiving. Also met at a very shitty apartment building that smelled strongly of human piss in the entryway. The apartment was filthy, there was some sick old lady in the only bed in the place, the other room she brought me to had a small couch with an even filthier blanket on it. She asked if I was PoPo like 4 times and when she asked for the donation up front that was the last straw.
So where do you draw the line and tap out?[/QUOTE]Hmmm, a few times.
1. Belle's friend, 3 years ago. Acting strung out, severe acne, said no BBBJ. I walked out.
2. Lyndsey, wouldn't do services discussed.
3. Camille, wanted head in my car. She said lets do it in broad daylight, parked by her fence, on a busy street, with cars coming by. I said no, she then started cussing at me.
4. Heaven, looked way older than her pics, not really attractive without the makeup. I thought to myself, I aint paying $120 for that. Walked.
And then the times I should have walked but somehow didn't.
1. Ciera (Gadsden) House was trashed, smelled like a million cigarettes, pics werent accurate, she was fat, but sadly I stuck around for head.
2 Natali the ebony, She was a fat cow, acting erratic, pics not accurate, but opted for head.
3 One of the numerous Kims, the ugly Kim that posted ads about 5 years ago. The one with the weird looking face. She was awful.
4. Zoey aka Zoey the hoe-y. Pics totally inaccurate, lousy lay.
5. Marie (Decatur). She looked to be 95 lbs due to "recreational choices". Felt like getting head from a ghoul.
6. Braylen Rae aka Mayday. Druggie pimp was banging on the door as I was balls deep in her, that pissed me off.
There may be a few I'm forgetting. Admitedly most of my situations go good. But when they go bad, they are really bad LOL!
[QUOTE=SatAKing2;4370666]Dreamed with Charlene the other day drugs has really messed her up I'd stay clear.[/QUOTE]That is terrible. I suspected she was on drugs the last time I saw her.
I'm thinking of reaching out to a couple of ladies via Facebook. What is the proper etiquette with which to approach this? Obviously you make sure that your info is protected, and you make sure that you are contacting the right person. Do you reach out by Messenger? Do you "friend" them? Please & Thanks!
Has anyone seen Jennifer Doyle lately? I see her on fb and I see people on here talking about her but I haven't contacted her yet because it looks like she may be out of the hobby. So I wondered if anyone had seen her lately? If so is she still as good as the old reports?
[QUOTE=SatAKing2;4370666]Dreamed with Charlene the other day drugs has really messed her up I'd stay clear.[/QUOTE]Charlene's gone through several periods of recreational issues in the past, sounds like she's in another one.
Thank you for this. As we can see, correctly spelling a name makes all the difference. The person who posted before spelled it wrong, making her impossible to find.
[QUOTE=Chubbington;4370004]I hate to do this to you, but look her up on FB (Kaytee). I think she's heading back to Bham Sat morning if I'm reading her posts right.[/QUOTE]
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Is this the Charlene you were referring too. Thanks!!
- DB.[/QUOTE]Yes that's her hopefully she can get herself together.
[QUOTE=Elrod1016;4371974]Has anyone seen Jennifer Doyle lately? I see her on fb and I see people on here talking about her but I haven't contacted her yet because it looks like she may be out of the hobby. So I wondered if anyone had seen her lately? If so is she still as good as the old reports?[/QUOTE]Still good as before.