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[QUOTE=LolBoat;5755365]Speaking as a younger guy. Its VERY difficult, if not impossible to find a chick when you are in your 20's unless you are a chad. Its TOUGH out there.[/QUOTE]As a matter of interest, do you mean vanilla dating, or as an SD, or both?
I can't say for everyone. But damn, I wish I was in my 20's.
When I was in college, I actually knew I was having a really good time. I was fu*king left and right and anything that moves.
What I didn't prepare was - What an incline (of difficulty) I was facing after college! Wish I had fu*ked more.
If you are talking about providers and professionals, you just need to get connected to them and have money.
If you are talking about the real world of finding women for sex, well you need to be attractive in some way to women. Looks, personality, humor, all can work wonders. Amongst the other things being mentioned, huge apparatus, flash and glamor, fame fortune blah blah blah also work but most men in the world are not rock stars, movie start, or sport hero's.
If you are going for gold diggers you better have gold. If you are going for cheerleaders you better be an athlete. If you think you deserve Miss America, you better be one handsome man. What are you expecting?
With all the social media sites, you just need to be able to communicate well, and learn how to promote and advertise yourself. You don't have to be overly athletic, but you need to be in reasonable shape, be groomed, learn to speak well. Being a fun guy who does fun stuff is attractive too. Hopefully you're not out of shape, shy and boring. Should that be the case, get in shape, find fun stuff to include in your life, and practice communicating with pretty women.
Step up to the challenge, and you get laid, fail to meet the requirements of what women find attractive and accept that fate.
You have youth, amazing advice on these forums, and social media of endless possibilities. Get to work.
[QUOTE=LolBoat;5755365]Speaking as a younger guy. Its VERY difficult, if not impossible to find a chick when you are in your 20's unless you are a chad. Its TOUGH out there.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5755368]OK, please give us your definition of a chad so we don't have to go to urban dictionary.[/QUOTE]Chad is an attractice / athletic 6 ft+ white guy.
Every race has their own version of it, black guys are tyrone, latinos are enrique, etc.
[QUOTE=PussyPumper;5755398]As a matter of interest, do you mean vanilla dating, or as an SD, or both?[/QUOTE]Vanilla dating and as of recently. Even being a SD. Its becoming more and more mainstream.
[QUOTE=LolBoat;5755365]Speaking as a younger guy. Its VERY difficult, if not impossible to find a chick when you are in your 20's unless you are a chad. Its TOUGH out there.[/QUOTE]This Chad? LOL.
[QUOTE=LolBoat;5755365]Speaking as a younger guy. Its VERY difficult, if not impossible to find a chick when you are in your 20's unless you are a chad. Its TOUGH out there.[/QUOTE]You have no idea how loud I just screamed 'fuck you' in my head. LOL.
Come back and read this when you're in your 50's, you'll understand.
I'm 100% sure you're right, but I'd trade all the pussy in the world for 30 years back. Go to Asia or Costa Rica on vacation. You'll be mobbed. In my 30's I spent some time traveling in SE Asia and China. Got hit on constantly by really pretty girls who assumed I had money and wanted to show off the Gweilow to their friends. Fucked so much I thought my dick was going to fall off.
Save the mongering for when you need some strange on the down low.
[QUOTE=LolBoat;5755365]Speaking as a younger guy. Its VERY difficult, if not impossible to find a chick when you are in your 20's unless you are a chad. Its TOUGH out there.[/QUOTE]Another younger guy speaking. It is definitely getting very difficult finding someone even on the dating apps (Tinder / Bumble) for vanilla dating even though you have money and looks. I bet most of the younger guys are just here because they don't want to waste their time with unattractive women they match on dating apps and rather join SA where they can date attractive women. I know that comes with a cost but folks don't really mind it.
I have started looking at SA again and see a lot of these common patterns in names, like.
DreamyDuchess.
GorgeousMizz.
StunningGirl.
GorgeousMiss.
CheekyAphrodite.
BeautifulDreamer.
ClassyQueen.
FunBelle.
The profiles are typically recent and just a generic couple of sentences but not all, like this one:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1cbd007e-ef14-4228-a474-1d3b64dc08f6[/URL]
Is this odd or do people just read the same tips page for profiles somewhere? Probably over thinking this? Just want to filter out the huge number of fakes.
[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=plMNOBc8zCM[/URL]
[QUOTE=MaxKat;5759275]I have started looking at SA again and see a lot of these common patterns in names, like.
DreamyDuchess.
GorgeousMizz.
StunningGirl.
GorgeousMiss.
CheekyAphrodite.
BeautifulDreamer.
ClassyQueen.
FunBelle.
The profiles are typically recent and just a generic couple of sentences but not all, like this one:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1cbd007e-ef14-4228-a474-1d3b64dc08f6[/URL]
Is this odd or do people just read the same tips page for profiles somewhere? Probably over thinking this? Just want to filter out the huge number of fakes.[/QUOTE]I think SA randomly generates those usernames.
[QUOTE=DrPornDawger;5759320][URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=plMNOBc8zCM[/URL][/QUOTE]I think it is safe to say that 99% of the profiles have never watched this LOL.
[QUOTE=MaxKat;5759275]I have started looking at SA again and see a lot of these common patterns in names, like.
DreamyDuchess.
GorgeousMizz.
StunningGirl.
GorgeousMiss.
CheekyAphrodite.
BeautifulDreamer.
ClassyQueen.[/QUOTE]I am old fashioned. I was brought up to believe that you should leave it to others to provide praise of ones looks, etc.
So when I see all these profiles with usernames incorporating pretty, beautiful, gorgeous, stunning, etc. I tend to think that this is either or both of.
A. Compensation. Many of the women using these self-identifiers don't look particularly great to me, or.
B. It is a lead in / setup for GPS.
So that is a yellow flag to me right off the get go. If they then combine that with a content-free or cut-and-paste profile text, then it is red flag time.
[QUOTE=PussyPumper;5759789]I am old fashioned. I was brought up to believe that you should leave it to others to provide praise of ones looks, etc.
So when I see all these profiles with usernames incorporating pretty, beautiful, gorgeous, stunning, etc. I tend to think that this is either or both of.
A. Compensation. Many of the women using these self-identifiers don't look particularly great to me, or.
B. It is a lead in / setup for GPS.
So that is a yellow flag to me right off the get go. If they then combine that with a content-free or cut-and-paste profile text, then it is red flag time.[/QUOTE]I was texting w / a POT once and I asked about such a username. She said that the site suggested it to her. Getting a unique username can be a challenge on there, they may have a tool that helps people come up with something, and obviously, if they suggest something that seems OK to a girl, she may just go with it, thinking it isn't crucial. So, don't necessarily conclude that such names are only from bots.
[QUOTE=Dudeonthecouch;5759681]I think SA randomly generates those usernames.[/QUOTE]Oh duh right I had not thought of that. Unrelated, found one profile with this line:
"Before messaging me please know: I offer emotional support and would love to go on dates both in person or on video, but I don't do anything sexual with anyone. ".
Wow sign me up sweetie!
For you guys who go on SA.
[URL]https://youtu.be/S3W7g2puKY4?t=339[/URL]
"You've got your Walmart SBs, and you've got the Neiman Marcus SB".
I agree that SA is another way for prostitution, thoughts? And of course the law (courts see it if the the person is trading more than just sex, it's not prostitution), I disagree (Gray area though).