Expanding my horizons with your help?
So I've had numerous usernames on here over the last five years. I assume many of you have too. I meet a few girls a month, so I'm probably past a hundred at this point. But I have a confession. I've limited my horizons to one filter: 18-26, white, slim / athletic. I guess I always told myself that this was my "type", but I think it's likely I'm just your typically prejudiced white dude. Not KKK style, but just oddly and obliviously closed-minded for an otherwise "open to new experiences" sort of personality. That's all just context for you, as I'm genuinely curious and want to ask you all: am I missing out on different kinds of experiences? I know all women are different, but also know that general differences across ethnicities and cultures are real. So in general, without inciting a racist discussion, what am I missing out on?
My google amateur research suggests black women (and again, this is a complete and anecdotal generalization) may not have guys go down on them as often and may appreciate it more. That Asians may be more soft-skinned and, in an oddly specific way that I've seen a few times now, enjoy undressing and dressing you? Hispanics may be more open to anal? In my experience, the differences between young white girls has been so vast it is hard to imagine that any general differences among ethnicities or cultures would matter, but then again, if anyone has insight into this question from personal experience, it would be the collective experience of you hardcore mongers.
My thoughts are limited to culture among young white girls, but I can at least offer that:
I'll try to list the general cultures I've encountered and see if there are any patterns.
Suburban, working-class, college, urban, rural, criminal, professional, hobo-spiritual, drugged-tatted.
Every woman I've met has been a combo of two or more of those. Looking it over, I do see some patterns:
Suburban working-class: they'll fuck on first meet, and let themselves enjoy it. "It's just sex, why not enjoy it and make some money too" seems to be their motto.
Rural working-class: less likely to fuck first meet, but when they do, they really get into it and enjoy it. Will stick around afterward for longer too. Will cook for me. Sometimes clean. Harder to get to come back multiple times, as I get the feeling they feel guilty over time.
Urban working-class: Not hard to get in bed, but not a lot of warmth. More transactional. Often only 1-2 times and then they disappear. Probably a few were UTR escorts that I missed signals on.
Suburban college: almost always takes me a meet and greet before they'll fuck. When they do, it is usually unenthusiastic, and I don't see them again. Unless.
Suburban college, drugged or tatted: like above, but always needing money for the next tattoo or next hit. Last one stuck around for 8 months on and off.
Hobo-spiritual: I made up this term to cover the nomads and freaks who happen to come through this fine city. They want to extract every ounce of fun and meaning from their lives. Easiest to get into bed immediately. Easiest to get back in bed. Very sweet and passionate, but not clingy. But often move on as fast as they moved in. My favorite type.
Suburban professional: my second favorite type. They take two to three normal dates to fuck. They have decent jobs. Worked hard. And we're burned by bad relationships. Now they want a boyfriend without actually having to deal with emotions, and they want something more out of what turned out to be a really boring life. It takes me a lot of work with these girls, but usually lasts the longest and is the closest to having a girlfriend, with all the pros and cons: more sex, but a lot more of listening to them drone on about their lives and then getting emotional if you aren't fully engaged.
Ok, well that's all I have right now. And these are just generalizations, but I think are fairly representative of my experiences. Courtesy of quarantine, LOL. Stay safe out there, and please share!
Also had little luck on SA
[QUOTE=BigBlank69;4749525]I have experienced the opposite.[/QUOTE]Really? With new girls or ones you had already connected with before? I have encountered so many who are "just doing online right now" and refuse to meet even in a public place.