"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=TheHobbyLobby;6889208]What the fuck is with the new changes. It says I am no longer searchable until I finish my profile which include forcing me to upload pics! Are you crazy. Also you can no longer favorite a profile. So I am not sure if women can see if I favorite them? This could be the final nail in the coffin for a site that already sucks due to GPS and a ton of fake bots.[/QUOTE]I have been getting that too. I just closed the window down and ignore it. Obviously I am still searchable becuase I get all kinds still favoriting my profile. LOL I have always had better luck with ones I search out then ones that contact me out of the blue.

Thanks for the comments so far.

Is anyone with an active paid account confirm the search numbers are gone even in paid mode, and the time the girl was last active no longer appears until you click her profile (assuming she hasn't hidden this)?

[QUOTE=OliverNP;6890516]Thanks for the comments so far.

Is anyone with an active paid account confirm the search numbers are gone even in paid mode, and the time the girl was last active no longer appears until you click her profile (assuming she hasn't hidden this)?[/QUOTE]I am paid and the only way I can see when they were last active is if you have messaged them and you open the message and it is in the side panel. Nothing on the main page like it used to be.

[QUOTE=GolfMan57;6891302]I am paid and the only way I can see when they were last active is if you have messaged them and you open the message and it is in the side panel. Nothing on the main page like it used to be.[/QUOTE]It's almost seeming like for a guy like me, ignoring my current comfort zone and looking toward the future, it's going to take a major economic downturn to flip things and get some girls wanting again.

Alrighty then, let me make a couple of phone calls. .

But seriously, I think the FOSTA-SESTA thing and me too movement has made it harder to get the media attention that was turning so many on to the lifestyle prior to the pandemic.

No worries though, like all things there is ebb and flow. Pussy is always out there it's just up to us and our creativity to figure out the best way to harvest it.

The rotation I'm on right now keeps my dick reasonably happy over the short term but not my psyche. After one of these girls spends a weekend with me, my balls are empty I get on the porn sites to look around and I feel a creeping influx of turn off images, fat girls and whatnot. Maybe I'm just getting old and the decline of energy is skewing my perspective?

Sex with the same girls (however hot) only goes so far. Over time the dick turns into something like a dowsing rod for new pussy. Changes to the site that make that harder are unwelcome to be sure.

I have a phone number from texting her but when I do a reverse search on spokeo it comes up a male in a different town which causes suspicion I don't want to make a hotel booking and then no one shows up I would like to verify that she is real They send some pictures but not sure if real.

I read once to have them send a photo with note in the photo saying Hi John and the date I normally do not do a meet and greet first.

Please advise thanks CM.

Best thing imo do is a Facetime call. If they arent up for that well bye.

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;6896553]I have a phone number from texting her but when I do a reverse search on spokeo it comes up a male in a different town which causes suspicion I don't want to make a hotel booking and then no one shows up I would like to verify that she is real They send some pictures but not sure if real.

I read once to have them send a photo with note in the photo saying Hi John and the date I normally do not do a meet and greet first.

Please advise thanks CM.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=GolfMan57;6891302]I am paid and the only way I can see when they were last active is if you have messaged them and you open the message and it is in the side panel. Nothing on the main page like it used to be.[/QUOTE]It a pain man. I also feel they are throttling the search results. Two people with same search parameters are getting different results.

[QUOTE=American314;6882345]This is my wheelhouse! One reason that I don't post much on this site is that I don't care all that much for the pro's. I am extremely discreet as I have much to lose. I have garnered much fantastic info from this thread! I am probably much older than most on here and was married for over 30 years. No S / O now, and have been "wilding" throughout most of it. First thing is that you cannot be repulsive in your appearance or manner! I am NO Richard Gere but Have done very well. It does take effort and usually some time and a couple of really good tips " I have had great success with store clerks, waitresses, social gatherings and even grocery stores. Don't be shy but not aggressive. If you try to be too quick to suggest your intentions and she agrees, 90% she will probably already be a pro! I love the chase almost as much as the Catch! I will try to write up some suggestions for you and post some soon. I have an engagement and not the time right now. I will give you one of my all time favorites though. Walking in a low rent chain grocery store, saw an early 20's slim, beautiful dirty blond girl that appeared to be looking for a few items. She had no makeup, sweat pants and a white button down shirt without a bra. I said hello and told her she had to be the most naturally attractive woman I had ever had the pleasure of meeting and just needed to relay that to her. She replied "how can you say that with the way I'm dressed? Her response started the conversation. Ended up with a lunch meet the next day. Nothing "arrangement" suggested at that time. I told her a little about me and she wanted to hear more than just a few quick stories. Later on in our arrangement when I asked her why, she said she found me very interesting! Even though I was 3 x her age, it lasted several months! It DOES take some work sometimes but the rewards, like this one can be phenomenal! More to come when I have more time.

PIE.[/QUOTE]Excellent write up! And I agree that there are many opportunities in the markets and grocery stores. I find that the Latin markets have beautiful young single Moms that are open to programs. Please do keep writing and sharing your wisdom!

LM.

[QUOTE=GolfMan57;6891302]I am paid and the only way I can see when they were last active is if you have messaged them and you open the message and it is in the side panel. Nothing on the main page like it used to be.[/QUOTE]I don't understand what you are seeing. I don't have a paid membership and here is what the girl's profiles look like to me.

[QUOTE=LuccaMac;6897792]Excellent write up! And I agree that there are many opportunities in the markets and grocery stores. I find that the Latin markets have beautiful young single Moms that are open to programs. Please do keep writing and sharing your wisdom!

LM.[/QUOTE]Here's another one for why'all.

Took a long while but extremely well worth it! Met a girl, mid 20's, at a convenience store. Beautiful smile and the eyes when she smiled totally enamored me. After 20 or so times interacting with her I just said "when are you going to take me out for lunch!" She said "lets go!" We sat at the table outside and I got into great detail about her. I then talked to her about some of my life stories. She was in a relationship at the time but I ascertained that it was not fulfilling for her. I could tell that she was somewhat submissive and that is appealing to me. I related stories from my days back in the 70's when I was in college and in a motorcycle club (real). She was mesmerized and kept asking for more tales. I listened and learned a lot about her also. It progressed until she broke up with her then boyfriend. I drove up soon thereafter, talked and took her out to dinner. It seems to me that younger women today don't have the same derision for sex as when I grew up. I have been seeing her since and neither of us seem to have any issues with the arrangement as it is a very mutually enjoyable situation! I truly just love a young, beautiful spinner type girl, naked, doing a BBBJ as I sit back and relax! P.S., I am well educated, make good money and not the most handsome guy in the world, but I do know that there a lot of women out there that, regardless of your age are looking for someone who can mentor, educate and put a smile on their faces! Be as respectful and as charming as you can. It has worked for me for many years! I'll have more coming soon. Please do not ask for contacts etc. As I will not compromise my or their discretion!

Good afternoon. Was wondering is Nurse Lauren was still lingering in the bowl at any capacity? I used to have so pretty good times in the Bass Pro parking lot with her. Appreciate the info.

There are alot less genZ girls than there are millenials. Their parents are alot more strict it seems and are not the do-whatever types the boomers are.

The price of SBs is just going to go up as birthrates keep dropping.

If you sugared between 2010-2018. Consider yourself lucky and cherish those memories. It aint coming back.

I've meet up with this one several times. They are fairly new to the game, but eager. Strong sex game. Maybe not everyone's cup of tea. They are ftm but very feminine in the bedroom. Very open minded. Especially if tested. Otherwise BBBJ and CFS. Open to barter. Wanting to try group action as well. You can PM for details about that.

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[QUOTE=Rvabendover;6913703]Good afternoon. Was wondering is Nurse Lauren was still lingering in the bowl at any capacity? I used to have so pretty good times in the Bass Pro parking lot with her. Appreciate the info.[/QUOTE]If it's who I'm thinking of, she was UTR with a few regulars up until about a year ago. She'd hit me up a couple times a month and come over to my place. Haven't heard from her for a while. I think she's finally making enough money nursing.

I have this one on the hook.

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