A little more on the FB suggestion (s)
It seems it may get overlooked, but privately talk (here) to other guys that share the same tastes (girls, menu, etc) to share the right info. I was set on the right path on FB thanks to a guy here that I'd been talking to & built up a trust after finding out we'd see the same handful of girls and shared info. After he helped me get my FB profile going, I connected to girls I'd seen, and through looking at friend lists, girls I wanted to see. After enough people were convinced I was real I started getting invited to the right groups.
But the key has always been looking at how profiles are connected.
And scanning jailview for name suggestions (and how profiles are connected) doesn't hurt either.
Msg Limit + some more FB tips
Gareth. Holler when you've cleared up some message space.
And here are some other FB tidbits:
While my FB profile has the same name, very few guys I know use their name. Most of the profiles that get reported for proof of identity are girls (with other girls reporting them, thinning out the competition).
Some groups are hobbyists + providers, with an ever evolving lingo for advertising that tries to get by automated flagging by FB. 90% of these groups turn into meme-sharing posts that aren't worth wasting time on. Eventually someone will post something that gets flagged and FB will take down the group, and the same people will go start a new one. There's also men-only groups were a little more detail is shared, which always has some guy blab back to whatever girl is being talked about negatively.
You may need to bite the bullet and see someone who advertises (STG, here, whatever) that you know has a FB account just to set up initial links with a profile. I've seen girls I really didn't care to just because I knew they would give me references when asked.
To bail or not to bail. That is the question.
So who's all bailed on a meeting and why? Where are some lines drawn that make you say "Nope, I'm out. ".
It's been twice for me. One was at one of the roach motels on the parkway. It started ok. Showered with her and things seemed to be looking good. Then she grabbed her phone and actually asked if I minded if she called her dealer to score. Sorry. Out. She advertised on BP and haven't seen her around lately. Can't even remember the name.
The second was just recently. Thought I was going to meet a hot UTR from FB. She was asking for a fairly big donation but by the looks of her profile pic I thought maybe worth it. Well, pics can be deceiving. Also met at a very shitty apartment building that smelled strongly of human piss in the entryway. The apartment was filthy, there was some sick old lady in the only bed in the place, the other room she brought me to had a small couch with an even filthier blanket on it. She asked if I was PoPo like 4 times and when she asked for the donation up front that was the last straw.
So where do you draw the line and tap out?