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[QUOTE=Lebruno;3272023]She claims that she is still a Virgin. Perhaps she is thinking that should fetch her premium dollar. LOL.[/QUOTE]She is no virgin. LOL. And you can leave any field blank in your profile. On an 18,19 or 20 year olds profile you can pretty much disregard almost anything it says in terms of expectations. You have to read between the lines. Sometimes there is something there and sometimes there isn't. Prospecting on SA is a fishing expedition. Sometimes my bait works and most often it doesnt. But I am sticking to budget for the foreseeable future.
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Today I have four solid POTS to interview (all on board for a $). But I feel kinda down because the only great sex I get is from my ATF. She is a great gal, but I have been seeing her for like 2.5 years. The no or low sugar is great also, but without that I don't think I would even see her. I need to make a real connection with someone. My x stayed over last night, but thats far from what it used to be with her. The whole process of finding someone new and awesome is tiring for me these days. I know it can change on a dime, but for now, I am feeling sort of alone.
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[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3272654]Today I have four solid POTS to interview (all on board for a $). But I feel kinda down because the only great sex I get is from my ATF. She is a great gal, but I have been seeing her for like 2.5 years. The no or low sugar is great also, but without that I don't think I would even see her. I need to make a real connection with someone. My x stayed over last night, but thats far from what it used to be with her. The whole process of finding someone new and awesome is tiring for me these days. I know it can change on a dime, but for now, I am feeling sort of alone.[/QUOTE]HG, we didn't know you had a philosophical bone in your body. Yeah, the bowl is great until it isn't. I had a day earlier this week I was supposed to do 2 M&Gs and maybe even 1 FC, but a last-minute cancel put me into a funk and all I really wanted to do was go home and watch the dog show. LOL. Luckily that mood was gone by morning and I have FC w / a *hot* 19 YO personal trainer tomorrow.
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The perfect example of why its important to get there first.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f05edf96-65df-455f-9494-12b085c551c0[/URL]
I had a sugar daddy who gave me 100 per meeting and that is chump change money to me now. I am looking for regular meetings with only one person but I haven't found that one person yet which is why I'm still on here.
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Five Steps to Success
1. Find out what she is really looking for and what her expectations are in a general way. (I don't care what it says in her profile, if she is new, she probably doesn't have a clue).
2. Find out if she is looking for an ATM. (let her know you are not an ATM, but you do provide monetarily and otherwise).
3. Let her know what your budget is for a "date". (Do not specify what constitutes a date).
4. Ask her to email or txt you so you can send her a legit pic of yourself. (never ask to see a girls pics unless you are only working with a headshot).
5. Once she has txted or emailed you... reply and explain what is expected of her to go on a paid date. Give her the option to go on an unpaid date as well.
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[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3274214]1. Find out what she is really looking for and what her expectations are in a general way. (I don't care what it says in her profile, if she is new, she probably doesn't have a clue).
2. Find out if she is looking for an ATM. (let her know you are not an ATM, but you do provide monetarily and otherwise).
3. Let her know what your budget is for a "date". (Do not specify what constitutes a date).
4. Ask her to email or txt you so you can send her a legit pic of yourself. (never ask to see a girls pics unless you are only working with a headshot).
5. Once she has txted or emailed you... reply and explain what is expected of her to go on a paid date. Give her the option to go on an unpaid date as well.[/QUOTE]Thanks HG. I was looking for this. Should somehow make it a sticky so easier for new guys.
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Fc
Hit the trifecta. A girl 1/3 my age, and this one's a spinner. Stripper body, perky boobs, fine ass, 19 YO personal trainer. Her nipples and belly button are pierced and she has a big tattoo. She's kindof skittish, perhaps a newbie, so I agreed before-hand only to mutual oral, but as HG always says, be prepared. I was. I had her blow me and she's real vigorous so I've got to slow her down. Some of these young ones think they know how to give head if they can DT, and she did that a bit, but she was just OK overall. I'm sucking her tits, which are *fine, but I'd probably prefer no piercing. I ask her to lick my balls, she does and she's OK, but nothing special. I go back to eating and fingering her and that seemed to be her highlight. Very very wet, lots of vocals. I ask if she wants to fuck and she's all in. I started her mish and got her ankles up on my shoulders. She's wet, her pussy is very hot. I flip her, and that's a great view of her perky little tits. She asks for doggie, which isn't my fave. We compromise. Spooning her from behind. I wrap her in a couple of pillows so I can grab her tightly w / my arms as I'm plunging her. The damage was 300.
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[QUOTE=ChickenHawk88;3274241]Thanks HG. I was looking for this. Should somehow make it a sticky so easier for new guys.[/QUOTE]And if that doesn't work just offer $$$ per date.
UPDATE: No offence to anyone, as I just read the post below. But truthfully a 9 or a 10 is gonna cost you in most cases.
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[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3274314]And if that doesn't work just offer $$$ per date.
UPDATE: No offence to anyone, as I just read the post below. But truthfully a 9 or a 10 is gonna cost you in most cases.[/QUOTE]Hey, man, if you are referring to me, I didn't take offense. I know you, you're not ranking on us most of the time, and you've helped us all tremendously. That girl was about an 8 face, definitely a 10 body, and perhaps an 8 on skills. If you've read my posts, you also know I'm not a budget buyer.
A while back I posted about a certified Russian fashion model I M&Ged. Anyone can easily find her on the SoCal SA site. You'll know. She was very stunning but kinda cold, though she did have a nice apartment. I offered her 800 and she said no, 1000 was her minimum. Well, today I get 'hi, how are you doing?' from her, along w / a hot lingerie photo. I guess she has gotten lonely at those prices. HG always says you can have anyone on SA for 500. I'm not sure she would come down to that, but if I took her to a nice dinner, who knows what would happen. I still have far more POTs from a month on SA than I have time to pursue (given I have to keep off the SO radar).
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Was it a full moon tonite. I don't think so, but the girls were online in full force. I managed to make offers to like half a dozen and even broke down and offered one $$. She is my version of a dime and I haven't treated myself in so long. She is a smoking hot fem lesbian. Mixed black and latina. I may only do her once. But I need some super sweet pussy to suck on since I lost my UTR. She was the best I have had maybe ever. Too bad her personality outside the FC was so rancid. I had to block her on my cel. The model from a couple days ago said she was down for anything if I was willing to pay more. I may also do a one off with her just to get a taste.
The rest were your typical $ girls. Young, curious and fresh, but not dimes.
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Well this weather is really an FC killer. Can't drive in it. Maybe I can get one of them to drive here tonite. Got an M&G tomorrow for sure.
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Haggling with Arabs
My SA lunch date and I went back and forth. She wanted more than $$ for "a couple hours of quality time. " But she would not name her price.
She was wearing loose clothing. So I suspected she was flabby.
I will let her stew over her missed opportunities while I spend my time and money on young and nubile Tijuana girls with straight forward deals.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3274846]Was it a full moon tonite. I don't think so, but the girls were online in full force. I managed to make offers to like half a dozen and even broke down and offered one $$. She is my version of a dime and I haven't treated myself in so long. She is a smoking hot fem lesbian. Mixed black and latina. I may only do her once. But I need some super sweet pussy to suck on since I lost my UTR. She was the best I have had maybe ever. Too bad her personality outside the FC was so rancid. I had to block her on my cel. The model from a couple days ago said she was down for anything if I was willing to pay more. I may also do a one off with her just to get a taste.
The rest were your typical $ girls. Young, curious and fresh, but not dimes.[/QUOTE]
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What annoys me most of all is the 18-20's on the site who state strictly platonic. Like they have anything to offer me of their years of wisdom or their companionship that I can't get from a peer of any gender. I of course just move on, but I resent even the micro seconds they have wasted my time with the delusion! LOL.
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[QUOTE=LargeEss;3276366]What annoys me most of all is the 18-20's on the site who state strictly platonic. Like they have anything to offer me of their years of wisdom or their companionship that I can't get from a peer of any gender. I of course just move on, but I resent even the micro seconds they have wasted my time with the delusion! LOL.[/QUOTE]One little point. Having read these SD threads for many months, I recall some people taking a flyer approaching girls who state that. And when they did so respectfully and with some wit and humor, the girls eventually admitted that they put that on their profiles to deter the boorish mongers who treat them like hookers. There were also examples where a POT admitted she knew how sugar worked and they were not opposed to eventually going to the FC, just that they were looking for a real arrangement. So, if you're a P4 P guy, sure, skip those. If you are in the market for an ongoing girl, I wouldn't let that deter me. Likewise, their $ expectations. Its true, they are often clueless when they are so young. That can be good and bad.
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A few of mine
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3270216]When they say.
I don't want this to feel transactional.
I just need help with my tuition.
My last sugar daddy.....
My girlfriend met her sugar daddy here and.....
I am not a prostitute or an escort.
They give you their number before you ask for it. Usually within a couple of exchanges or less.
They favorite you
All their pics are modeling pics. All of them.
Lists of 5 star restaurants in their profile.
If the About Me section is more than 5 paragraphs.
If the What I'm Looking for section is more than 3 paragraphs.
If they use the word Queen or King in their bio.
Thier profile is more than a year old (maybe even 6 months old).
They have blond hair and blue eyes. LOL.[/QUOTE]The word "Princess" ANYWHERE in their profile.
The phrase "spoil me" ANYWHERE in their profile.