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[QUOTE=TitSucker;4933337]She's the one with the deflated tits. She's north of Naperville. Her playroom is in a cordoned off section in her basement. Personally, she's just a bit too pricey.[/QUOTE]Ok, cool. The different ads just threw me off, maybe she's just using a lot of google voice numbers or something.
[QUOTE=Chicago41;4933637]Ok, cool. The different ads just threw me off, maybe she's just using a lot of google voice numbers or something.[/QUOTE]I google searched that same picture. When I clicked on all the adds listed, the majority of them opened adds for different girls. Only one of them actually opened up and add for her. Just a little weird thing it seems.
[QUOTE=RedHead169;4933853]I google searched that same picture. When I clicked on all the adds listed, the majority of them opened adds for different girls. Only one of them actually opened up and add for her. Just a little weird thing it seems.[/QUOTE]That's part of what bothered me, it made me think there's someone editing their seasoned ads posts with different girls / pics. It just seemed strange, bit of a red flag.
This her?
[URL]https://www.eroticmonkey.ch/bobbi-escort-chicago-24785[/URL]
[URL]https://chicago.escortdirectory-usa.com/escort/bobbi/14058[/URL]
[QUOTE=FlorJulio1079;4932784]Does anyone know what happened to Bobbi from Melrose park. She used to post ads with car fun advertised and she would offer BBFS CIP for 120?[/QUOTE]
OK fellas, need some insight here. My former 18 yr old HS sugar baby (Now 19 yr old and soon to be college freshmen) who ghosted me a few months ago hit me up again. Guess college is more expensive than she thought! So we reconnected and agreed on a 300 ppm arrangement going forward. Each meet would be 2-3 hours of BBFS any hole I want and as many rounds as I can handle. So we planned to meet up a couple of Fridays ago. A couple days before we meet, she asks if I can front her an additional 300 to cover some extra expenses that came up. I said that's fine. The day before our meet she asked for another 100. So on the day we meet I gave her 700 and we played for a few hours which was a lot of fun. Fast forward to last week and she wants to meet again which I'm down for of course. She asks if I can give her 400 for the meet. I reminded her that I had fronted her 400 last time so shouldn't that cover this next meet? To which she reluctantly agreed. But, of course something came up and she couldn't meet last Friday and now I haven't heard from her since. Now, even before she disappeared on me and we had a regular thing going on, I would get her Uber rides all the time when she asked for them and I took care of her a couple times again since she reconnected. So, I think I have been generous with her but I just can't get over the fact that we had an agreement to front her the $$ and she's not having it, you know? So, talk to me. Am I messing up a good thing by being too cheap or am I being smart and standing firm on our agreement?
[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;4934752]OK fellas, need some insight here. ..... So, I think I have been generous with her but I just can't get over the fact that we had an agreement to front her the $$ and she's not having it, you know? So, talk to me. Am I messing up a good thing by being too cheap or am I being smart and standing firm on our agreement?[/QUOTE]I would say stand firm. You seem to be much more generous than I would have been. If she saw you on a regular basis over an extended period of quality time then I can see the willingness to be generous. But based upon your story, she has a track record of not being so consistent. All of these arrangements are just that, arrangements and it would not surprise me if they try to take advantage of every opportunity you give them.
[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;4934752]OK fellas, need some insight here. My former 18 yr old HS sugar baby (Now 19 yr old and soon to be college freshmen) who ghosted me a few months ago hit me up again. Guess college is more expensive than she thought! So we reconnected and agreed on a 300 ppm arrangement going forward. Each meet would be 2-3 hours of BBFS any hole I want and as many rounds as I can handle. So we planned to meet up a couple of Fridays ago. A couple days before we meet, she asks if I can front her an additional 300 to cover some extra expenses that came up. I said that's fine. The day before our meet she asked for another 100. So on the day we meet I gave her 700 and we played for a few hours which was a lot of fun. Fast forward to last week and she wants to meet again which I'm down for of course. She asks if I can give her 400 for the meet. I reminded her that I had fronted her 400 last time so shouldn't that cover this next meet? To which she reluctantly agreed. But, of course something came up and she couldn't meet last Friday and now I haven't heard from her since. Now, even before she disappeared on me and we had a regular thing going on, I would get her Uber rides all the time when she asked for them and I took care of her a couple times again since she reconnected. So, I think I have been generous with her but I just can't get over the fact that we had an agreement to front her the $$ and she's not having it, you know? So, talk to me. Am I messing up a good thing by being too cheap or am I being smart and standing firm on our agreement?[/QUOTE]You probably know the answer but when we give girls money and take care of them without strictly getting sex for the money they think of us as suckers not as nice and generous guys. She will keep milking you and you will get one date for every 1000 that you spend on her. She may also be playing 2 - 3 other guys too. 300 - 400 ppm for 19 yr old BBFS with multiple pops is a great deal but she will ask you for 300 - 400 before that and pretend to be upset if you say no. Hold your grounds and hope she will come back to you but set the rules strictly as ppm.
[QUOTE=StanCopier;4934693]This her?
[URL]https://www.eroticmonkey.ch/bobbi-escort-chicago-24785[/URL]
[URL]https://chicago.escortdirectory-usa.com/escort/bobbi/14058[/URL][/QUOTE]Yeah that's her do you have any updates on her or any new numbers? The numbers in those ads don't respond anymore.
Not a good idea. These girls work in the here and now moment. Paying a bit more during your current meeting girls see that as a tip for their services at the time you see them. Girls will forget that you paid ahead during your previous meeting. Sounds like this girl is trying to get as much money from you. If you give her money before your next meeting and expect a discount or a pre-paid session it's not going to happen.
[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;4934752]OK fellas, need some insight here. My former 18 yr old HS sugar baby (Now 19 yr old and soon to be college freshmen) who ghosted me a few months ago hit me up again. Guess college is more expensive than she thought! So we reconnected and agreed on a 300 ppm arrangement going forward. Each meet would be 2-3 hours of BBFS any hole I want and as many rounds as I can handle. So we planned to meet up a couple of Fridays ago. A couple days before we meet, she asks if I can front her an additional 300 to cover some extra expenses that came up. I said that's fine. The day before our meet she asked for another 100. So on the day we meet I gave her 700 and we played for a few hours which was a lot of fun. Fast forward to last week and she wants to meet again which I'm down for of course. She asks if I can give her 400 for the meet. I reminded her that I had fronted her 400 last time so shouldn't that cover this next meet? To which she reluctantly agreed. But, of course something came up and she couldn't meet last Friday and now I haven't heard from her since. Now, even before she disappeared on me and we had a regular thing going on, I would get her Uber rides all the time when she asked for them and I took care of her a couple times again since she reconnected. So, I think I have been generous with her but I just can't get over the fact that we had an agreement to front her the $$ and she's not having it, you know? So, talk to me. Am I messing up a good thing by being too cheap or am I being smart and standing firm on our agreement?[/QUOTE]I agree with StanKost, it's clear to her she can manipulate you to get that $$ Your not being cheap, she's simply being dishonest. I would agree to meet again, she'll throw out a figure you agree to it. However when the deed is done tell her you agreed to it but she also is in debt to you so please deduct it from the $400 I fronted you. She will obviously not like it but you will effectively let her know as nice as you are, this is a business transaction and she simply needs to hold her part of the deal. The reason she's ghosting you is because she has another SD taking care of you and your probably just her backup Sucker plan. I hate to be blunt and probably offensive but you deserve to know the truth and know your place in this little circle of engagements.
[QUOTE=Chicago41;4934447]That's part of what bothered me, it made me think there's someone editing their seasoned ads posts with different girls / pics. It just seemed strange, bit of a red flag.[/QUOTE]I had a 3 some with her and her "daughter" and the daughter's pics were in the ad. She does change numbers frequently so it's hard to keep up with her. Also, the ads can disappear for a few days and then come back. She is good at what she does but I can get better looking for a bit less.
[QUOTE=Wenceslas;4932593][URL]https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/illinois/chicago/53323566/[/URL]
If I was closer I'd jump on this. Confirmed $. 60/ hh CIP. Have at it.[/QUOTE]I've seen her. Legit. Definitely a hippie chick. I've only done BBBJ and cof though does a good job.
[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;4934752]OK fellas, need some insight here. My former 18 yr old HS sugar baby (Now 19 yr old and soon to be college freshmen) who ghosted me a few months ago hit me up again. Guess college is more expensive than she thought! So we reconnected and agreed on a 300 ppm arrangement going forward. Each meet would be 2-3 hours of BBFS any hole I want and as many rounds as I can handle. So we planned to meet up a couple of Fridays ago. A couple days before we meet, she asks if I can front her an additional 300 to cover some extra expenses that came up. I said that's fine. The day before our meet she asked for another 100. So on the day we meet I gave her 700 and we played for a few hours which was a lot of fun. Fast forward to last week and she wants to meet again which I'm down for of course. She asks if I can give her 400 for the meet. I reminded her that I had fronted her 400 last time so shouldn't that cover this next meet? To which she reluctantly agreed. But, of course something came up and she couldn't meet last Friday and now I haven't heard from her since. Now, even before she disappeared on me and we had a regular thing going on, I would get her Uber rides all the time when she asked for them and I took care of her a couple times again since she reconnected. So, I think I have been generous with her but I just can't get over the fact that we had an agreement to front her the $$ and she's not having it, you know? So, talk to me. Am I messing up a good thing by being too cheap or am I being smart and standing firm on our agreement?[/QUOTE]"messing up a good thing?" That's up to you, are you conducting business or charity? I've learned long ago not to expect women to honor a business agreement, let alone a 19 year old, and I hold firm to the provisions of "agreements". Personally, I would walk away and sever ties with her. If she actually cares enough to wonder why, spell it out for her, she just might learn a few things.
[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;4934752]OK fellas, need some insight here. My former 18 yr old HS sugar baby (Now 19 yr old and soon to be college freshmen) who ghosted me a few months ago hit me up again. Guess college is more expensive than she thought! So we reconnected and agreed on a 300 ppm arrangement going forward. Each meet would be 2-3 hours of BBFS any hole I want and as many rounds as I can handle. So we planned to meet up a couple of Fridays ago. A couple days before we meet, she asks if I can front her an additional 300 to cover some extra expenses that came up. I said that's fine. The day before our meet she asked for another 100. So on the day we meet I gave her 700 and we played for a few hours which was a lot of fun. Fast forward to last week and she wants to meet again which I'm down for of course. She asks if I can give her 400 for the meet. I reminded her that I had fronted her 400 last time so shouldn't that cover this next meet? To which she reluctantly agreed. But, of course something came up and she couldn't meet last Friday and now I haven't heard from her since. Now, even before she disappeared on me and we had a regular thing going on, I would get her Uber rides all the time when she asked for them and I took care of her a couple times again since she reconnected. So, I think I have been generous with her but I just can't get over the fact that we had an agreement to front her the $$ and she's not having it, you know? So, talk to me. Am I messing up a good thing by being too cheap or am I being smart and standing firm on our agreement?[/QUOTE]Just like you don't talk about fight club.
You don't pay upfront EVER.
Even if she has been your buddy.
You went to her HS graduation at the end of the day she is all about the money.
She knew she could play you and did.
Sorry man it's the truth she may eventually come back but trust me it's because she has bigger plans for you $$.
Sorry but look at is as a lesson learned.
[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;4934752]OK fellas, need some insight here. My former 18 yr old HS sugar baby (Now 19 yr old and soon to be college freshmen) who ghosted me a few months ago hit me up again. Guess college is more expensive than she thought! So we reconnected and agreed on a 300 ppm arrangement going forward. Each meet would be 2-3 hours of BBFS any hole I want and as many rounds as I can handle. So we planned to meet up a couple of Fridays ago. A couple days before we meet, she asks if I can front her an additional 300 to cover some extra expenses that came up. I said that's fine. The day before our meet she asked for another 100. So on the day we meet I gave her 700 and we played for a few hours which was a lot of fun. Fast forward to last week and she wants to meet again which I'm down for of course. She asks if I can give her 400 for the meet. I reminded her that I had fronted her 400 last time so shouldn't that cover this next meet? To which she reluctantly agreed. But, of course something came up and she couldn't meet last Friday and now I haven't heard from her since. Now, even before she disappeared on me and we had a regular thing going on, I would get her Uber rides all the time when she asked for them and I took care of her a couple times again since she reconnected. So, I think I have been generous with her but I just can't get over the fact that we had an agreement to front her the $$ and she's not having it, you know? So, talk to me. Am I messing up a good thing by being too cheap or am I being smart and standing firm on our agreement?[/QUOTE]Nope, I expect both parties to hold up to their agreement. I had one that begged for $100 to get a room on Thanksgiving or else she's on the street. Picked her up, treated her to a Thanksgiving meal, gave her $100, she pleaded me not to run off as she went to load her prepaid card with the $100. We agreed to a service in exchange. I dropped her off to her hotel, she went in, never heard back from her again. Not even mad, just wanted a thank you.