Mongers living vicariously through these providers
[QUOTE=RickDugan;3399234]I don't know. As much as I hate to admit this, I agree with the troll on this one. I've been doing this for 20 years, which is certainly not as long as many around here, but long enough to have been around the block a few times. I have never, not once, seen a happy ending when an older dude tries to treat a much younger adult entertainer (be it a stripper, escort or some hybrid) as a "friend. " Almost invariably, the older dude in question ends up being used for something or multiple things and eventually learns that he was deluding himself about the nature of the relationship. Once you pay a girl for sex, you will almost always be, first and foremost, a guy who pays her for sex. We all know of exceptions to this, but they are called exceptions for a reason. Loyalty (in almost any form) is not high on the list of personality strengths for most of these girls, probably because many of these girls cannot see past their own internal emotional messes. In my humble opinion, true friendships are best found in places where the parties are more likely to feel true respect for one another and are capable of empathizing with others.
Also, in extreme cases, these guys go so far down the rabbit hole that they start getting sucked into these girls' shit lives in unhealthy and / or unsafe ways. These are the guys who crave the drama that comes with some of these so-called friendships, I often suspect because they have so little else going on in their lives. Maybe it's worth it for them. I don't know. But I will agree with the troll (ugh) that healthy long-term friendships are better sought elsewhere.[/QUOTE]I absolutely agree with everything that was said. The inherent risks associated with the hobby and the allure and mystique of the lifestyles that these girls lead can be very enticing and entertaining. Never a dull moment with these girls, the danger and stigma of hanging out with bad company can be an adrenaline rush. From a psychological standpoint it's very similar to any other form of thrill seeking that provides an intense rush with the excitement building up to a climax, and then the resolution and loss of urgency and immediate interest. Most people have to actually do the deed in order to get the physical and psychological release. I would wager that for many mongers, the actual sex act itself is less important than the thrill of the hunt, subsequent conquest and the ensuing trophies (in the form of stories, memories or other artifacts from the encounter).
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I've been gone from this site for some time because I had moved to the Midwest. I am now back and the site is different. I'm not sure where to find any of the ladies. I'm looking for a good massage with HE so any and all recommendations will be appreciated.
LOL your delision is laughable
[QUOTE=ChrisShaft;3400336]I second that motion. This is a great topic for sure because it definitely demonstrates the mentality and psychology of the dynamic between tricks, hoes, marks and johns. I kid you not, I literally just had this conversation with a provider who I was just hanging out with for a few hours. Long story short this chick and I had a hotel-room-confessions session where she told me her whole life story and how she ended up trickin for dough. We all know it ultimately turned out to be that she does it to feed her addiction. And she's no ordinary hoe either, this chick comes from money, has affluent parents, is well educated, owned a very successful business and still looks fine asf, and was easily a 10 before she got hooked on the shit. She said that the money she gets from BP dates comes so easily that she couldn't imagine going back into civilian life and even if she did, she would still keep doing dates on the side. I promise you this chick could walk into any place right now and 7 out of 10 dudes wouldn't hesitate to propose marriage to her. I mean we had a good long talk, and even she was surprised by how freely she was offering up real private details of her life (which she even verified for some odd reason). Funny thing is after all of that, when we finally got done with the "business" she immediately shut down and became distant and poof just like that the connection was gone. We both got dressed without saying much and a very awkward farewell we were done.
[blue]I'm going to keep hammering you on this because you really don't know what the fuck you're talking about. If you can't turn a ho into a housewife, how do you explain the 10 or 15 guys I know who's housewives used to be ho's, have been together for years, and have really good relationships? Am I imaging this, is it a dream like when Bobby died on Dallas?
A2[/blue][/QUOTE]LOL so you don't have first hand knowledge is what you're saying. You've never done it but you know 10-15 guys who have really good relationships with former ******? How do you know what the dynamic of their relationships are and what goes on behind closed doors. Damn son you really are a fucking fool and it seems like you associate with other fools who share the same delusional beliefs. Just because you marry a hoe doesn't mean that she is suddenly Mary Tyler Moore LOL. I'd wager that your friends are still paying for that pussy, the only difference is that these hoes are living under the same roof as them. Yes you are dreaming my man and you need to wake the fuck up. It's guys like you with this Captain Save-a-hoe mentally that put these cunts on a pedestal and have them believing that their shit don't stink. And for your friends who end up wifeing these hoes, how hard is it to marry a ***** who has got about a thousand dicks under her belt? LOL that ***** has been riden hard, fucked out, used and abused by the squad and now this is your showpiece? Get the fuk out of here. That's like being the guy who buys a used car with 300 k miles and tells everyone that he is driving a new Mercedes Benz LOL.
