"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=SBmidlo;6531343]Started a convo with a new lady this morning. It was going great. When she suggested we chat offline I was all for it. She insists on using either WhatsApp or Telegram though. I suggested either Kik, Snap, or texting and she was adamanent that those apps were the only way to chat with her. For some reason it sent up a red flag for me. Any idea why she would insist on using those?

Have any of you used those apps for chatting?[/QUOTE]Both offer end to end encryption: WhatsApp by default and Telegram if you set it up. Both are MUCH more secure than texting, Kik or Snapchat.

[QUOTE=SBmidlo;6530929]I was wondering where I had seen her before. I believe you are correct. We swapped a couple of messages when she first showed up on the site. But she hasn't logged in for a couple of days. Says her name is Megan. In recovery and busy getting moved into a new apartment.[/QUOTE]That is definitely her and Megan is her real name. I am pondering subscribing just to reconnect with her.

[QUOTE=GolfMan57;6531426]I had what's app on my phone, thought I had it listed with my burner number and was texting with a girl and all of sudden my phone started ringing, not sure if it gave my real number or something else, but freaked me out and I deleted it. I am not sure what it is with the what's app. Seems some scammers like to use it.[/QUOTE]I have found that often technology fails or burps from time to time. Have seen dudes get jammed up when they used an App on their IRL phone. So for me I use and App on the burner phone. First line of defense is the App, which can block unwanteds or if serious, switch numbers / apps. Fall back, in extreme cases, is the burner goes for a swim in the nearest lake.

But it should not matter what App a girl insists on using if you are fully protected. Who knows why a girl insists on only using one App? We can speculate. So if the girl is worth it, give her what she wants. Only issue for me would be how vociferously she insists on using those Apps? More of a "less flexibility" or insistent personality trait would concern me for an on-going situation.

[QUOTE=Shampoo55;6532021]I have found that often technology fails or burps from time to time. Have seen dudes get jammed up when they used an App on their IRL phone. So for me I use and App on the burner phone. First line of defense is the App, which can block unwanteds or if serious, switch numbers / apps. Fall back, in extreme cases, is the burner goes for a swim in the nearest lake.

But it should not matter what App a girl insists on using if you are fully protected. Who knows why a girl insists on only using one App? We can speculate. So if the girl is worth it, give her what she wants. Only issue for me would be how vociferously she insists on using those Apps? More of a "less flexibility" or insistent personality trait would concern me for an on-going situation.[/QUOTE]There are some instances in which those using particular apps seem more often to be fakes. That includes Telegram, and WhatsApp. But every bowl is local. Those posting in your area might use a different app.

Read the local sugar thread to get some history about those requesting to use an app, and then finding out later they are pic sellers or just otherwise fakes. For a while, I had a few who were intent in flogging crypto to me, I could not for the life of me figure out what really motivated them. I could not see how this could put $ into their pockets, if they were impersonating a gal who wanted an arrangement.

Thought I would bubble this back to the top. I don't have a subscription but she did send me a message. She seems sweet. Not normally my body type but seems interesting. Let me know.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cbb360b1-2ef3-496a-8ce2-ec20c4b22a31[/URL]

[QUOTE=TheHobbyLobby;6532369]Thought I would bubble this back to the top. I don't have a subscription but she did send me a message. She seems sweet. Not normally my body type but seems interesting. Let me know.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cbb360b1-2ef3-496a-8ce2-ec20c4b22a31[/URL][/QUOTE]I chatted with her briefly about a week ago. Very nice. Definitely dtf. Said she couldn't host and wanted to come to me. When I said I would have to get a room she went radio silent.

[QUOTE=SkidMarks;6532899]I chatted with her briefly about a week ago. Very nice. Definitely dtf. Said she couldn't host and wanted to come to me. When I said I would have to get a room she went radio silent.[/QUOTE]Comms are very spotty. Have a conversation going and she told me she doesn't live in Richmond? Haven't heard back from to find out where she is actually located. Anyone know?

[QUOTE=SBmidlo;6536392]Comms are very spotty. Have a conversation going and she told me she doesn't live in Richmond? Haven't heard back from to find out where she is actually located. Anyone know?[/QUOTE]Communication spotty for me also. Told me that she was new to the area but didn't get exact area. Said she didn't host.

These girls can be just ridiculous even when you luv them to death. My VCU UTR is probably in my top 3 all time best lays, never disappoints but she may be on the way out (sadly). She is w family for most of the summer and sublet her room in the apartment until mid August and didn't think I knew, or at least forgot that I knew. Silly rabbit. We haven't fucked since mid June and she thought I'd be sending "some help for her rent" since she's barely working for the summer. There was a very long silence when I asked about the girl who rented her apartment for 8 weeks. I went on to explain that in the same way she wouldn't be with me if I wasn't "helping her w rent" I'm not paying unless I get to "see" her. There were tears and apologies then promises of world rocking but I definitely did not send any money.

Glance at a profile last night, didn't send a message. Get a message from her this morning. Although she lists RVA as her location she actually lives near Charlottesville. Says she is booking a hotel in Short Pump and has invited me over. No discussion of allowance, getting to know you messages etc. Just come to my hotel. With all of the stings being reported in the escort forum happening in Short Pump, I'm a little leary.

So my fellow mongers, would you go?

[QUOTE=SBmidlo;6541094]Glance at a profile last night, didn't send a message. Get a message from her this morning. Although she lists RVA as her location she actually lives near Charlottesville. Says she is booking a hotel in Short Pump and has invited me over. No discussion of allowance, getting to know you messages etc. Just come to my hotel. With all of the stings being reported in the escort forum happening in Short Pump, I'm a little leary.

So my fellow mongers, would you go?[/QUOTE]What is the profile link, maybe some of us have seen her?

[QUOTE=SBmidlo;6541094]Glance at a profile last night, didn't send a message. Get a message from her this morning. Although she lists RVA as her location she actually lives near Charlottesville. Says she is booking a hotel in Short Pump and has invited me over. No discussion of allowance, getting to know you messages etc. Just come to my hotel. With all of the stings being reported in the escort forum happening in Short Pump, I'm a little leary.

So my fellow mongers, would you go?[/QUOTE]Who? A name? A link? Which website?

[QUOTE=Tidad;6541384]Who? A name? A link? Which website?[/QUOTE]SA. Glacier_Girl [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fb717a87-9238-4fdd-80d4-6d46d45f8867[/URL].

Only review I can find is from someone in the Tidewater forum. Reached out to him and haven't heard back.

So, she was reviewed here, and has been the SM community, known by her alas on SA as Little Red Fox. If you were a regular, and now realize after her move, that you can't get a hold of her, or that she took the money and ran, which is my case. You would be right. I was her longest SD, started may 2020, and saw her for three years every month like clock work. This last time before the move she took an advance, my mistake, and ghosted once her move was done. Before this, she wanted me to look into a lot of you married guys that shared a little to much with her. I didn't go as far as she wanted but just know, she was trying to look into your families and jobs.

I know this is a new account, I just lurk here, but after what she pulled with me, taking 600 and ghosting, and all the other comments she made about her other SDs, I think a warning is in order for what she is doing.
I would recommend, if you have a burn plan, use it, and blacklist her. I got pretty far, before I realized what all she was trying to do, my bad. I was pussy blind. What's wild is she took my money and ran, but still gave me her new address, not every smart.

[QUOTE=SBmidlo;6541433]SA. Glacier_Girl [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fb717a87-9238-4fdd-80d4-6d46d45f8867[/URL].

Only review I can find is from someone in the Tidewater forum. Reached out to him and haven't heard back.[/QUOTE]I was communicating with her this morning. She sounded promising and responded to my messages quickly. I'm trying to meet up with her this week.