"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

Has anyone had the pleasure of meeting this lady?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d43cb568-2793-412b-937d-3b33ad3241a3[/URL]

[QUOTE=TheHobbyLobby;6520509]Has anyone had the pleasure of meeting this lady?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d43cb568-2793-412b-937d-3b33ad3241a3[/URL][/QUOTE]Just checking. Is this something happening to my account or everyone is facing issues. When ever I click on the links it says find better match and doesn't show profile?

Is their any setting to be changed. Any help appreciated.

[QUOTE=Vince2000;6521194]Just checking. Is this something happening to my account or everyone is facing issues. When ever I click on the links it says find better match and doesn't show profile?

Is their any setting to be changed. Any help appreciated.[/QUOTE]She probably blocked you. The profile works.

[QUOTE=GeechieDan;6507914]Lysjacks on SA just got me. I gave her the money, and she came up with a BS excuse about needing her phone charger. Took off in vehicle. Hopefully attachment uploads. First time in all my years in the game this has happened to me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/ae295162-64d8-4ab6-9126-bb215da1b0c3[/QUOTE]Not throwing shade because it happened to me a few years back in Greenville, NC. What's worse it was my fault. This Baby was on fire texting and sending hot pics days before the meet. I drive down there, get a room, a bottle of the vodka she requested. She texts me that she's about 5 minutes out and get ready for the blowjob of my life!

First warning sign, she comes in, I hug her and she recoils. WTF? Then asked for the PPM upfront, says she recently got scammed, sex but no cash. I figured maybe that's why she was acting weird. Then I totally mess up, go to get ice, yup, she's gone.

Now if a Baby asks for the cash before playtime I shame them by saying, no, your a Sugarbaby, not an escort. If they walk, they walk. Actually haven't had another ask you front, now that I think of it.

[QUOTE=DoggieFan;6524440]

Now if a Baby asks for the cash before playtime I shame them by saying, no, your a Sugarbaby, not an escort. If they walk, they walk. Actually haven't had another ask you front, now that I think of it.[/QUOTE][B]Golden Rule of the Sugar Bowl:[/B] No Sugar until the panties hit the floor!

But as DoggieFan rightly points out, you HAVE TO be willing to walk away or you're gunna get scammed.

Alternatively one can lay the sugar out on a counter, table or TV stand and say, "there it is, it's yours when we are done. " THEN keep yourself between the Sugar and the girl at ALL times.

[QUOTE=Shampoo55;6525047][B]Golden Rule of the Sugar Bowl:[/B] No Sugar until the panties hit the floor!

But as DoggieFan rightly points out, you HAVE TO be willing to walk away or you're gunna get scammed.

Alternatively one can lay the sugar out on a counter, table or TV stand and say, "there it is, it's yours when we are done. " THEN keep yourself between the Sugar and the girl at ALL times.[/QUOTE]I agree totally with you and Doggie. I have been lobbying for a long time and this was a first for me. What you said is the exact phrase that's been going through my mind, "no sugar until the panties hit the floor". If I'd realized she was the same chick with the ankle monitor I would never have met her.

[QUOTE=GeechieDan;6525136]I agree totally with you and Doggie. I have been lobbying for a long time and this was a first for me. What you said is the exact phrase that's been going through my mind, "no sugar until the panties hit the floor". If I'd realized she was the same chick with the ankle monitor I would never have met her.[/QUOTE]It stinks when it happens and we all have been there at one time or another. I feel for you.

Most of the time stuff like you experienced happens after a few dates, when there is familiarity and one's guard is down. So your experience was a bit of an anomoly The comfort level or relationship gets one setting aside what they know to be true or the rules.

It sounds so jaded to be so rule specific and apparently rigid and uncaring, but it only takes once for the hobby to reiforce 'the rules' and teach a lesson.

My hope is that, through your kind recitation of the unfortunate incident that others will "book learn" or see themself in that situation and learn to avoid any mis steps. At least we can hope!

Any good monger is always learning, revising, editing, changing one's approach.

Thanks again for sharing your experience and teachable moment!

[QUOTE=EasyeOne;6522999]She probably blocked you. The profile works.[/QUOTE]No it happens with everyprofile that I try to open. And I recently joined SA.

How do you convince SBs to go from weekly meets to around twice a month? Would like to keep one in the rotation at same PPM.

[QUOTE=AznPrideRice;6527960]How do you convince SBs to go from weekly meets to around twice a month? Would like to keep one in the rotation at same PPM.[/QUOTE]Honestly the first thing I tell any SB or Escort is that I travel a lot for work and that's why I do PPM only. I rotate SB and Escorts a lot. So if they ever text me wanting to meet up that's when ill tell them I'm getting ready to leave town for a week or two, that's when I say we can meet up now for a last minute for a discount, 9 out of 10 times they fall for it and I see them cheaper then normally or they will have to wait awhile until I'm back.

To each their own.

[QUOTE=AznPrideRice;6527960]How do you convince SBs to go from weekly meets to around twice a month? Would like to keep one in the rotation at same PPM.[/QUOTE]I tell them up front that I am trying to meet twice a month. And if things go well and I have time I will meet more. I let them know I have a busy schedule and I work overtime so I will catch you when I can. Never had a problem.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ceb51128-94ef-42fb-b6a1-5ac14f97b756[/URL]

Isn't this Rose? She was on the scene for awhile then went on vacay?

[QUOTE=GeechieDan;6530912][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ceb51128-94ef-42fb-b6a1-5ac14f97b756[/URL]

Isn't this Rose? She was on the scene for awhile then went on vacay?[/QUOTE]I was wondering where I had seen her before. I believe you are correct. We swapped a couple of messages when she first showed up on the site. But she hasn't logged in for a couple of days. Says her name is Megan. In recovery and busy getting moved into a new apartment.

Started a convo with a new lady this morning. It was going great. When she suggested we chat offline I was all for it. She insists on using either WhatsApp or Telegram though. I suggested either Kik, Snap, or texting and she was adamanent that those apps were the only way to chat with her. For some reason it sent up a red flag for me. Any idea why she would insist on using those?

Have any of you used those apps for chatting?

[QUOTE=SBmidlo;6531343]Started a convo with a new lady this morning. It was going great. When she suggested we chat offline I was all for it. She insists on using either WhatsApp or Telegram though. I suggested either Kik, Snap, or texting and she was adamanent that those apps were the only way to chat with her. For some reason it sent up a red flag for me. Any idea why she would insist on using those?

Have any of you used those apps for chatting?[/QUOTE]I had what's app on my phone, thought I had it listed with my burner number and was texting with a girl and all of sudden my phone started ringing, not sure if it gave my real number or something else, but freaked me out and I deleted it. I am not sure what it is with the what's app. Seems some scammers like to use it.